#cheese and crackers plate

[fandomsandfeminism]

Grief is so fucking wild. It sinks into your muscles, forces itself to be felt. It steals your appetite, floods your brain with cortisol. It makes you so, so tired.

If someone you know is grieving, telling them "just let me know what I can do" means nothing. They can't. They don't know. And the small things are too embarrassing to ask for.

Bring them a cheese platter. Pre-Cut fruit. Peanut butter pretzels. Protein shakes (like slimfast) Food that requires no prep and does not create dishes.

Do the dishes. Take out the trash. Sweep the floor. Vacuum the carpet. They won't ask you to do this, but it will help.

A bottle of acetaminophen honestly might help more than flowers. Grief really can cause muscle aches.

[fattributes]

Spicy Feta Dip

[bibones]

my very first star trek novel arrived in the post today teehee

[lef2right]

If you combine food and DVD, you get

[teddy-bear-naps-and-random-snaps]

[meccentric]

Girl dinner this or that, but tell me the weird meal you just had because it was convenient and perhaps not necessary to cook

[aniseandspearmint]

AUGH i haaaate this

i spent the ENTIRE morning and afternoon not able to eat because my stupid brain insisted that none of the foods i have on hand are RIGHT and also they are all too many steps, and I just COULDN'T get myself to MOVE and MAKE FOOD

and now that i have my brain is STILL throwing a fit and i'm having to force myself to take bites of rice and stir-fry

and feeling sicker because it's not what i WANT

[regalbois]

being in the middle of a super serious thematic sensual scene between Gideon and Dolores and then realizing "damn, Enoch never came back with that bread and cheese"

[psych0ruinz]

me rn writing my dubcon pisskink cegan father's day fic:

[ladysophiebeckett]

they talk about cheese so much in 'love, theoretically' that i stopped reading it and made myself a little charcuterie plate.

[akkivee]

potato au gratin for juto’s bday!!!!! it has THREE cheeses in it!!!!!!!!!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY JUTO!!!!!!!

[dykefever]

best part about being at home is i can go up to the fridge and just eat anything there’s an unlimited supply of food and i am not unlike a teenage boy rummaging for snacks

[omgeto]

? :)

karma karma karma karma chameleonnnnnn you come and go, you come and gooooooooooo.

[whimsyprinx]

the fun part about periods is that there’s enough time in between them for you to forget The Horrors so by the time your period starts again you get to suffer The Horrors again as if for the very first time!

[teddy-bear-naps-and-random-snaps]

[plethodontidae]

there is literally nothing like a big plate of cheese and crackers