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[puppys-tiny-space]

🩷How to paci pt. 1🩷

°×~.This post will be all about purchasing pacis, how to do it, how to pick the right kind, recommendations for shops, tips on what to look out for and terminology.~×°

Step 1. Terminology

Paci- adult pacifier. Teet- the mouthpiece

Centerpiece- a charm or image on the button of the pacifier

Gen 1/2 etc.- refers to the shape of the paci

Base- used with deco pacis to refer to kind of paci that will be decorated

Custom- a decorated pacifier made just for you

Deco level- how heavily the pacifier will be decorated

2. How to pick the right kind

°×~.There are lots of things to watch out for when choosing your pacifier, from shape to color to mouthpiece and brand. I explained all of the common ones here.~×°

Gen 1- these pacis are the ones you can see on top in the image with terminology, they have a comfortable sensory input and are the most common shape, you can get them almost anywhere and they are often the cheapest option, they can come in lots of colors and with a lot of teets

Gen 2- these pacifiers look a little like bones, and come in quite a few colors but not as many as gen 1 and they come exclusively with the clear teets

Gen 3- these pacifiers look a lot like classic mam pacifiers and come in quite a few colors but they are only sold by little for big which makes me recommend not to purchase them as to not support this brand

Bear bases- these bear shaped bases from land of genie are adorable, they have a great sensory input just like the others and come with a clear teet but only a selection of colors, plus they are very accessible as they can be found on Amazon

Butterfly bases- these bases are similar to hen 1 pacia but the little holes at the top of the shield resemble fairy/butterfly wings, they are also from land of genie and come with a clear teet

Moon bases- these bases from land of genie are some of my favorites, they come with a clear teet and resemble gen 3 bases but with a handle

Baby your doll bases- these round vintage looking bases are beautiful and come with a long beige silicone teet, they are exclusively sold by baby your doll and really comfortable

Silicone bear paci- this is a full silicone paco sold by baby your doll which comes in a few colors, has the same length mouth piece as the round ones and the "shield" part resembles bear

Round bases- these bases are the dupe version of the baby your doll pacifiers and visually very similar for the small detail of having 3 holes except 4 and some plastic dots on the handle, they also come with a different teet which is a lot shorter than the usual one

Smile pop bases- these bases look a little like a version of the gen 1 if it was drawn from memory and is super cute and very comfortable, they can be bought from smile pop or over resellers and come with a clear teet in a range of colors

No handle bases- these bases are sold by the same company as the smile pop bases and the same resellers, they come in the same colors and with a clear teet, they have a very unique shape and are very comfortable

Heart hole bases- these pacis look similar to grn 1 bases with a bigger button and heart shaped holes, they are very cute and comfortable and come with a clear teet which is different in shape to the normal clear ones, it doesn't deflate in these bases and is longer, they come in a range of colors and are sold by cutie plus you

Butterfly bases 2- these bases look like very classic baby pacifiers sized up, I have yet to try them but they come with lots of colors and prints and are very pretty and come with the same teet

Small shield bases 1- these bases resemble classic baby pacifiers in shape and size and come with a clear adult teet in lots of colors, they are comfortable and cute

Small shield bases 2- these bases look like classic baby pacifiers in shape and size, come in a range of colors and with a clear teet, some of them even have a print, you can get them on things like AliExpress and over resellers

Full silicone pacis- lil comforts sell full silicone pacis in two shapes and lots of colors, they are very pretty but u have yet to try them I do hear they are great for chewing

3. How to order a deco paci

°×~.Ordering a paci or other item can be overwhelming and scary so here is a small guide to walk you through the process.~×°

Step one- find a shop you like the style of, that has good reviews and the center pieces you like

Step two- message the shop about the pacifier you would like to purchase, if you want a custom make sure they are currently open for those kind of orders

Step three- now you and the seller will discuss details like shipping price, payment options and details if you are ordering a custom

Step four- now it's time to be patient, most shops are a small business so it may take some time to complete and/or ship out your order, it's okay to ask if you have waited longer than they said but be respectful, they are a person too

Step five- open up your package and enjoy, don't forget to leave a review and let the seller know you received your item

4. What to watch out for

°×~.when picking the shop you want to buy from you have to be careful about a few things, here is a list of important stuff to look out for. Don't be shy to ask people for their experience.~×°

Does the shop have good reviews?

Can you find photos of customers with their items?

Do you know someone who worked with the shop before, what was their experience?

Does the shop have a history of positive reviews and happy customers?

5. Shop recommendations

°×~.You can find all of these shops on instagram.~×°

@pacisbybunny an adorable shop from the UK with beautiful pieces and great customer service, you can also use my code 'bunnybab' for a discount 🐰

@littlestcreations another great shop from the UK with fast service, super cute items and one of the sweetest owners 🩰

@cozypacicorner an amazing shop from my darling sibby based in France with unique design, amazing communication and you can use my code 'bunnybab' for a discount 🍼

@kittyscutecollections a sweet shop from the UK with fast shipping, good customer service and a big array of pacifier bases 🦄

🧃You can also always message me here or on Instagram about a custom pacifier as I love to create them every now and then!🧃

Fun fact of the day: pumpkins count as berries

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[rattlingcudgel]

Refer to me as ,, ;; Mr / Ms. Jellyfish || Mother / Father Jellyfish || Bunny || Prince || Charlie || Gwen

Pronouns ,, ;; They/It/Xe + Neos (Ex: Jellyfish/Jellyfishself, Pearl/Pearlself, etc)

Blog Type ,, ;; Age Regression Blog! (Sfw only)

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Things I Like ,, ;; Marine Biology, Art, Roleplaying, Writing, StimBoards, Moodboards, Stuffed animals, Jellyfish and various other sea creatures (especially orcas!), video games

Request Whitelist ,, ;; Five Nights at Freddy’s || Genshin Impact || Cookie Run || Minecraft (Minecraft; Story Mode included!) || Hollow Knight || Creepypasta || Lego Monkie Kid || Pokémon || Various children’s cartoons (ex: Bluey, DocMcStuffins, Oobie, Wow Wow Wubbzy, Gravity Falls, etc) || Viva Piñata || How To Train Your Dragon || Welcome Home || Spiderverse || Cryptid Crush

Request Blacklist ,, ;; Dream SMP || QSMP || Harry Potter || Specific characters (I will not do: William Afton (includes Springtrap & Variants (not including MXES)), Laughing Jack, Puppet Combo characters, The Pale King) || South Park || Hazbin Hotel || Helluva Boss

What I will do ,, ;; Moodboards, Stimboards, Headcanons, Icons

Others / About Me ,, ;; Otherkin, Therian, Autistic, ADHD, OCD, Anxiety, Questioning System, Flip (Both Caregiver & Regressor, along with pet regressor), usually regresses ages 1-5

Requests ,, ;; OPEN (Cookie Run requests on hold unless otherwise stated)

DNI ,, ;; NSFW/KINK, DDLG/CGL/ABDL/ETC, RACISTS, TRANSPHOBES, TERFS, HOMOPHOBES, ACE EXCLUSIONISTS, PROSHIPPERS, and anyone else I believe needs to be blocked.

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[babyquills]

resources i like!

cglre faq

semi regression

diapers in the agere community

[plural-sunny]

hii dont feel like you need to respond to this but I didnt know if you knew that cglre stands for caregiver loves regressor and is is a DDLG label :) obviously use whatever lingo works best for you, i dont have anything against that, but yeah!

I appreciate that you're trying to be... helpful... here, but my God you are not correct. Even if it seems minor to you this is a horrible crime of misinformation to me (<- agere special interest)

1. CGLRe stands for Caregiver/Little Regression, so you were pretty close but no cigar. It can also be written as CG/LRe but I choose to exclude the slash for convenience. While it still does not match what you said, you are most likely thinking of CGL, which stands for Caregiver/Little and is a gender neutral version of DDLG. You can find both agere and ageplay resources stating such.

2. Like many many things in the agere community, it is similar to ageplay terms. The inclusion of the "Re" at the end, again meaning Regression, means it is a SFW term.

3. Yes, it is in fact my preferred terms, which has been mentioned many times on this blog. No issue if you didn't know that though I assume you're new here.

4. Again, I understand you had good intentions with sending this but like.. c'mon now. This was verifiable with a twelve second google search. It's the FIRST thing that pops up when you type in "cglre".

5. ...But I'm always happy to infodump about my special interest so no harm done really hehehe :bongocat:

[sheepishcarer]

Caregiver Resource Masterpost

getting your little into littlespace

one

two

three

four

five

taking care of your little

in general

when they’re on their period

if they have chronic or mental illness

when theyre sad

when theyre still sad

when they need to eat healthy

cute nicknames

when theyre sad

just a big resource post

when theyre fussy

when they need a routine

morning/night charts

some more charts

tips for insomnia

morning routine

more insomnia tips

some good rules for self-care

a short morning routine

spoiling them

dates

gift ideas

more gift ideas

gift ideas for their little kit

craft ideas you can do together

more date ideas

help make their room cute

mORE gift ideas

[peculiar--princess]

Friendly reminder: You are deserving of proper nutrients and you need it in order to live a full life. I know it can be scary but you’ve got this, okay? I believe in you <3

[toddlerage]

Agere Exercise Videos!

hi babies!! I know it’s very important to keep active and exercise, but when you’re small, it can be hard to keep up with exercise videos for big people. so i decided to compile a list of playlists/videos of exercise videos for babies!

here’s the playlist: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLiqqq-iEev94bZIyeLL0s6vdRL9U9FV5X

there are only about 5 videos there, but i’ll be adding more when i come across them! i hope you guys have fun n get lots of exercise!

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[kodaswrld]

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[carertodo]

My new partner is an amazing person, and has recently seen me regressed for the first time ever. They’ve already previously known of my regression, but that was the first time I actually interacted with them while little. Later I talked to them (since that moment wasn’t planned) and they said that they thought it was really adorable while little. I kinda wanna ask them if they’d want to be my caregiver since I do get kinda lonely, but how do I go about this and the nerves that come with it?

Hi anon! I’m so glad they’re accepting! The fact they seem so openly accepting of your regression bodes well for asking them to be your caregiver! Since they already know you regress, you get to skip the most daunting part of having to tell them and get straight to the point here! Some tips I’d give are:

Make sure it’s clear what their responsibilities will be. They need to know what you need from them as a caregiver, especially if they’ve never been one before! Otherwise they may get a bit overwhelmed with trying to figure out what to do!

Make it clear what your boundaries are. Every regressor is different, and you may not like things others do! Make sure you let them know what isn’t okay for them to do while caring for you!

Be ready for questions. They’ll probably have a lot of questions, which will likely be your lead-in for getting to explain responsibilities and what not to do! Just try to think of things they might ask beforehand so you have a plan for how you’ll respond! In fact...

Outline what you want to discuss and a plan for discussing it before heading in to the talk! It’ll really help to get all your thoughts organised so you don’t forget anything important or get flustered and confused! Keep a list of some flash cards on you if you think you might still forget what you wanted to say!

Ask them about their boundaries. Asking them first instead of waiting for them to tell you shows you’re willing to listen and work with them so things can go as easy as possible! It’ll be really comforting for them to know you care about their comfort in the situation too!

Be willing to compromise. They may not be able to care for you in every situation, which is why you have to be willing to work out a compromise with them!

Communicate! A common issue people run into is misunderstanding the meaning behind someone’s words. When you’re regressed, some things may sound more harsh than they would otherwise, so try to work out with them what they can say when they can’t take care of you or when they need a little space so that it doesn’t come off like they’re trying to be dismissive!

I hope these tips help, and good luck asking them to be your caregiver! Let me know how it goes! 💕

[littlelavenderboy]

I have two questions. the first is do you know about age dreaming.? the second is If you do know about age dreaming do you think it's safe and a good idea to age dream to a newborn.?

hello! thank you for your ask!! 💕

lets pretend i didnt accidentally delete it the first time lol

so age dreaming is similar to age regression in the way where the person acts like and engages in more "childish" activities, but the key difference is they dont slip into an younger headspace. you can be an age dreamer and an age regressor!

here are some more resources on cglre terms!

age regression vocabulary

all about cglre

since you're not slipping into the actual headspace of a newborn baby, i think that age dreaming as one is absolutely okay!!

if you were to regress to a newborn headspace, i'd highly recommend seeking a caregiver who can help and take care of you during that time!

🌸 as long as you're in a safe and comfortable environment, feel free to age dream/regress to whatever age makes you feel the most happy 🌸

[rirismommyspace]

WHAT IS AGE REGRESSION?

some credible resources:

verywellhealth.com - Age Regression

healthline.com - Age Regression

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• Age Regression (often referred to as AGERE) is used as a coping mechanism.

• Can be a result of past trauma, stress, or for other personal reasons.

• Age Regression is where someone mentally retreats to a younger age than they physically are.

• People can Regress voluntarily (on purpose) or involuntarily (unintentional; usually as a response to stressful or traumatic situations or memories).

• Just as any other coping mechanism, it can be healthy and unhealthy. This is why it is important to do your own research and get to know your Regression headspace well (regardless, it is always 100% valid)

• There are never any rules, age limits, gender restrictions, or guidelines to what Regression looks like. Even if your own personal experience in Regressing (or Age Dreaming) may be different than others, that doesn't make it any less valid!

• Age Regression is in no way limited to the online community; some people go their whole lives Regressing and aren't even aware of it. And others who are aware of it may just never know of the online communities. It is a very real and very valid coping mechanism and symptom.

What is CGLRE?

• a term used in the online AEGRE Community

• CGLRE (Caregiver-Little Regressor) refers to the relationship between a Caregiver/Carer and a Regressor (which can be either platonic or romantic outside of regression).

• A Caregiver / Carer looks after (ie. cares for) a Regressor while they are in their headspace (and in some cases, out of their headspace as well).

• A "Flip" refers to someone that is both a caregiver & a Regressor. (ie; they have a Regression headspace & outside of that they have a caregiver headspace &/or they enjoy taking care of other Regressors in their 'big' or adult mindset).

• Caregiving, similar to Regression, can be different for everyone! It can also be a coping mechanism for some people as they can find it comforting and relaxing to take care of someone other than themselves.

• A Caregiver can be anyone! (significant other, partner, friend, sibling, family member, etc.)

• Just like any other relationship (romantic or platonic) it is important to talk to someone and get to know them before entering a CGLRE arrangement! It's always important to set boundaries and have continuous communication about anything that may need to be said in order for everyone involved to be comfortable and feel safe and secure.

[sensorykid]

I'm anti-cglre because as i understand it, cglre borrows the terms used in ddlg. Im not against people calling their carers anything they want, but specifically i'm against non-system littles, littlespace, and all that other ddlg stuff. I just want to know how you see cglre and if its different from how i see it, sorry if this ask is upsetting

talking about this stuff kinda upsets me, so i’m just gonna give u some links to some resources so you can check them out and form your own opinion

https://cglre.tumblr.com/faq

https://procglre.tumblr.com/faq

https://procglre.tumblr.com/post/186596602949/the-past-present-future-of-cglre

https://cglre.tumblr.com/post/172417109156/all-about-cglre

https://procglre.tumblr.com/post/190790681139/why-do-some-age-regressors-not-want-to-interact