#by the skin of their teeth but they did
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Ok, but, like, what do you expect?
No, really, what? You wanna send an 18 year old kid up there and flaunt the fact that they got shit grades? In my head, here are a few scenarios
1) The Pity Case. This kid did literally everything they could, but the world was against them. Family, housing, mental wellbeing, hunger problems galore. Oh, but they made it through! They're here, graduating, despite it all! Here, let's invite this kid to relive all of the shit they've gone through to make the whoole audience either tearfully applaud or feel generally uncomfortable for a hot minute while this kid relives trauma after trauma for what is essentially unreal entertainment for everyone else. After that, they can sit back and watch their own kid graduate, patting themselves on the back and knowing that at least their kid didn't have as hard a time as THAT one.
2) the Rebel. This one rejects the system and is proud of it. Their reasons? Idk yet. They may share those on the stage if they deign to go. This is, after all, a formal function, which they've been denying all along. Either they skip to stick it to the man or they go and shit all over the institution. Great for entertainment. Dick move for the students who actually worked their asses off. Like, think about it. Imagine that you love basketball so much that you bust your ass practicing, keeping fit in every way you know how, only to win The Big Game and then have one player elevates who basically talks shit about the whole game. There's a place for that, but not when you're celebrating a hard won achievement. Parents might get pissed and tell the institution at large not to ruin the celebration that their kid spent hours of study and work to earn. Boom. No more other side of the tracks speech.
3) the Example. This kid tried, ok? They tried so so so so so damn hard. School just isn't their area of expertise, but they fucking graduated. By the skin of their teeth! To them, too, this is an achievement! And they're so so so proud of themselves! As they should be! So they get on stage, talking about their experience earnestly, only to realize later that... for as much as they wanted to celebrate, others are mocking them. Whispering softly about "poor kid, what a waste." This is the pity case, but they only feel the shame and embarrassment kick in after they've basically been made a fool of in front of everyone. Even with earnest intentions, they're still just entertainment at best. Pitiable at mid, and scorned at worst.
Guys. Being valedictorian is a SHOW. Yes, it's an achievement, but the point is to get paraded around like a show pony. If you do that to a kid who just barely made it, you're setting that kid up for the judgement and internal moral self assurance of every other student and their parents in the audience. It's a good personal "fuck you" to some, but most of the time? It'll just be an embarrassing moment for that kid to look back on. That will be a mark of "dont be like that kid" or "have pity because of that one kid" or any variation thereof.
Guys, this wouldn't humanize the kid or the experience for anyone. It'll just put some kid on blast for the entertainment of students and parents alike. A pity moment or a moment of indignation. That's all it'll be.
#ive seen graduations and success seminars#whenever theres a 'heres what i went through' part its always a pitiable moment to rise from#imagine having to give a speech from that place#your audience-intentional or not-will just pity you#and who the hell wants that on their graduation day?#if theres a fuck you to be had or a lesson to be taught about 'hey school is hard actually'#graduation isnt the place to do it#at least not like that#well intentioned sure#but i cant help but imagine MY students#MY kids#being put on blast like that after how fucking hard they work#god it would be so humiliating#like no#they graduated#they passed#by the skin of their teeth but they did#celebrate them for once why dont you?#and if you dont graduate?#high school you can get routed to the GED#it is NOT too late for you#and if you dont want it?#ok!#apprenticeships! trades! anything else!#good luck and godspeed!#and if you ever wanna try again?#my guy we've got people in their 40s coming in for that GED#never too late#ever#you do you but please DONT put those kids on blast
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Maybe i SHOULD draft out my ‘Clark is a SuperPlant’ propaganda post
#chattin#due to. recent tags that resonated w me#im already someone that loathes the ‘theyre completely alien AND they conveniently look AND function exactly the same as a human’ trope#esp when they have the nerve to make them PROCREATE w humans wo any defects whatsoever#ur lying ur unimaginative u suck !!!!#so my compromise is always like#fine. the point is that they have to blend in very well. i will concede on that front#but god as my witness i will make him so fucked up internally.#u should xray him and see a fucking mess of organs pumping in bizarre places#things that let him see things w a microscopic lens#things that let him exist in a vacuum bc he doesnt need to Breathe#u should get him in a red sun room and realize hes still able to exist unharmed in a vacumm and go hey man. what the fuck .#going to reach max tags bc i never seem to behave myself no matter what im yelling about#i need bruce to sit down and finally read whatever kryptonian text is floating around#and realize clark- despite his mammalian appearance- is far more linked to plants than anything else#a plant w TEETH and EYES and somehow became a predator instead of staying as a plant#HOWWW did u evolve into what u are now? what did ur ancestors look like??? a daisy???#if u look at any kryptonian species youd see that all of them behave like clark- like they all evolved in a similar way#saw a post (i GOTTA find it again) that said that clark is brownskinned which seems a little silly when u compare it to human melanin#but that sunlight makes for a healthy kryptonian and their skin will show it#and paleskinned kryptonians are seeking out more sun and starving for it. like. ouuuu.#i wont add that to my own hcs but its that kinda shit i love sooo much#get so caught up on trying to make him human in ur eyes that u end up misunderstanding him entirely#love him#xenobio#for tagging
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a visual guide to all of hua cheng’s adaptations :D / follow for more hua cheng appreciation posts / transcribed notes + versions without my deisgn below the cut if you want this as a reference!
donghua
(by haoliners animation league) (i found multiple necklace designs in the manhua so i picked the most recent one - the S2 trailer)
very dark gray, straight hair
pointier nose
human ears
slightly paler than xie lian
parallelogram shaped eyepatch
thick braid
tall collar
broad shoulders
low neckline (cleavage)
tunic more form fitting
butterfly + geometric design (on belt and vambraces)
two belts
short red thread
e’ming has large red + white hilt
criss-cross chains (on boots)
white sole (on shoes)
book covers
(by 曰出的小大陽 / tai3_3)
same skin tone as Xie Lian
dark brown hair
trapezoid shaped eyepatch
very long hair + thinner hair
human ears
long nose, thinner face
red liner under the eyes
brain behind shoulder
big necklace charm
simple, loose fitting tunic
wavy + intricate design (on belt and vambraces)
long vambraces
minimal e'ming
endless red thread
lower boots
manhua
(by starember)
wavier, ink black hair
heavy eyeliner / shadow
mismatched earrings
very gray / pale skin
shield shaped eyepatch
arched eyebrow + piercing
lip glos
no hair strands in front of shoulders
beefy / dorito shaped
many outfits + hairstyles
extra straps on belt
pointy vambraces
floral design (on belt and vambraces)
very cool toned red
more detail overall
dark colored pants
e'ming is LONG
my design
(by @lazycranberrydoodles ) (subject to change)
blue / purple toned hair + skin
wolf cut type hairstyle
red & black eyeliner
trapezoid shaped eyepatch
pointy ears
black choker
lipgloss
many earrings (one is a fic reference :))
skinnier (died @ 17)
warmer toned red
big ol sleeves
floral + butterfly design (on belt and vambraces)
extra chain on belt for style
rings
simple e'ming
high boots w/ heel
#did you forget that my blog is hua cheng themed?#i hope this is useful to someone else!! rb if you save it ig#ask me questions about my design i have so many thoughts about Him :)#my design for him changes most times i draw him lmao but some things stay constant#my most important things are making his skin a very light blue/ purple#and making his ears and teeth pointy#no offense!! but im a little tired of official art that makes him look like a human guy#let my boy be dead looking#at the bare minimum in a sexy vampire kind of way#hua cheng: im going out. me: not dressed like that you arent.#hua cheng: better? (has on makeup jewelry demon king swag and high boots) me: yas bitch slay!!#tgcf#art#tian guan ci fu#heaven official’s blessing#hua cheng#digital art#my art#mxtx#reference#tgcf donghua#tgcf novel#tgcf manhua
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Simple symmetry sketch to kill the time!!
No internet means trying to remember what my dragon on flight rising looked like without any references
#I cant for the life of me remember his skin rip#flight rising#art tag#fr art#frfanart#artists on tumblr#tundra#i did add the teeth bc i like to make my dragons teethy tho
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why did i do this
#yes that is a slice of cucumber that i removed the skin from#yes that is the skin right next to it#yes i did remove it with my fucking teeth
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ended up w an A in all my classes which is. well. nothing has ever been more undeserved but i've also never been more relieved
#TRULY thought i would have to withdraw from school after the hospital#which is what my dad recommended!!!!!#but jesus christ. i did it. by the skin of my teeth i did it.#hello world
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Me reading about the trans main character in hell followed with us: OH SHIT!! That’s me! =D
Me reading about the trans main character in the spirit bares it’s teeth: oh. shit. that’s��. that’s me.
#it’s funny cause it’s so rarlely that a book really gets under my skin#but the spirit bares it’s teeth sure did#I was violently uncomfortable. 5 stars.#hell followed with us#hfwu#the spirit bares it’s teeth#trans
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i think will and bedelia are foils of each other not in the traditional sense but in the sense that will is a wolf in sheep's clothing and bedelia is a sheep in wolf's clothing
#her number 1 prerogative throughout the entire show is to survive- which she thought was will's prerogative too#she recognized the wolf within the wool because she herself was playing at a character that did not conform to her skin#but will was attempting to blind himself with the wool so that he wouldn't use his teeth#and bedelia was using the wolf's exterior to protect herself from the fact that she wasn't born with canines#and im not using the sheep and wolf metaphor to say that bedelia was weak or meek or easily swayed#she was arguably the strongest and most clever character in the show- she HAD to be or else hannibal would have killed her much sooner#but her ability to show off an exterior that protected her interior- weave around herself a skin that was dense and tough so as to dissuade#anyone from even attempting to eat her#does this make sense#i dont want this to come across as me saying bedelia was weak or whatever she's my number 1 in all the senses and is so cool#bedelia du maurier#nbc hannibal#will graham#hannibal lecter
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I think the fact that 100% of the "toxicity" from gale and mystra's relationship prior to what we see in the game is completely fabricated by fanon should say a lot about the misogyny gale stans so easily fall into. But y'all aren't ready for that convo obviously
#Makes me so mad#Gale stans deciding they have to hate mystra is like a rite of passage for them lmao#They completely just. Decided she groomed him. Based off of absolutely no canon evidence of that#And despite gale saying he didn't even meet her til he was an adult#They also assume her saying no was controlling. I'm sorry. What the fuck.#Like y'all will literally hate any woman who you perceive as a threat to your male fave it pisses me tf off#Gale even admits to ignoring her boundaries and doing what she said no to anyway#And THAT'S why he had the orb. Not bc of mystra. But bc HE did smthn wrong in his hubris#The only time mystra becomes toxic is in the game#when she 1. Refuses to cure his orb unless he gives her the crown and 2. Asks him to kill himself to destroy the Absolute#Like if you wanna critique mystra's character go for the actual canon reasons why she becomes flawed#Don't make shit up just to hate her so you feel better about liking a mid character who barely develops by the teeth of his skin.#Not tagging shit but. Fuck I hope someone sees this I'm so mad
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#some nights are like this#where I linger on a photo or a memory for too long and I start to hurt#like physically really hurt#my teeth and jaw ache and it hurts to blink and my skin is tender#that started the night of his death- I got home from the vet and went to bed and couldn’t believe the physical pain#took four Benadryl just so I could knock out and get away from it#I sit with it most of the time now because that’s the last thing he gave me#the waves pass and then the next day I get up and go about my life even if I do it kind of badly#resiliency and forgiveness are what Jackalope modeled best#and I try to follow in his footsteps as I always did#one foot in front of the other
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2024 Top 10
Since Tumblr was too cheap to pay anyone to do custom year-in-reviews for folks, I'm making my own with that one site that lets you plug your user in and etc etc
#1 w/ 1661 notes: This very fun cross stitch I started in like, September of '23 but finished and turned into a pillow. This is my second most popular post of all time o3o
#2 w/ 319 notes: Drawing of Vega and my Warden. Love coloring space demons o3o
#3 w/ 87 notes: Idk I like sun dogs and I like birds and I was still trying to do more illustrative things at this point
#4 w/ 85 notes: Another cross stitch that didn't take as long but was very fun (psst you can buy the pattern from @antisocialxconstruct's ko-fi shop)
#5 w/ 76 notes: Gale my beloved :3c
#6 w/ 63 notes: Quick painting of a friend's very photogenic cat doing a blep
#7 w/ 43 notes: Animated version of #5, fiddled with procreate dreams and actually really liked how it turned out
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#8 w/ 37 notes: Speedpaint study of a spotted towhee. REALLY proud of it for how quick it went, also has the time lapse in the post
#9 w/ 35 notes: that speedpaint I just did last week that I'm still a little high on pride for
#10 w/ 35 notes: The Trunk. Idk how much this counts, because a full 10th of the notes were just me reblogging with updates as it went.
I apologize for the length BUT there's not really a compressed way to do it. Maybe there would have been if tumblr hadn't copped out. I might reblog some of these on their own later, I still like a few of them a lot.
This isn't really a tag game, but if anyone else feels inspired and wants to share their top 10 from that link up top, feel free to tag me in it o3o
#year in review#long post#gale has been on my brain and I REALLY like how that one turned out I wish it had gotten a smidge more attention#I generally try not to do that to myself (wish things got more attention) but sometimes. you know?#as soon as I finish something for december I will also do one of those year in reviews#because I did manage to get something done by the skin of my teeth each month#sort of sorry for the random tag rom but I figured a link to your page for anyone interested couldn't hurt o3o;;;
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Selkie Ron in my brain again but that makes me think of KELPIE WILLY. LIKE. GUYS SEE THE VISION!
#Willy Stampler trying to drown that boy like a scottish horse river spirit#i imagine he did it by taking Ron's seal skin so that way he'd drown as a human but alas. poor fool got Fish Lured#thinking about the way Lark kept saying “ his little TEETH” like yeah....i am thinking of Ron with little seal chompers......i am 🧡#Goofy Ron smile and he's got small dagger teeth. hes a fish eating monster someone STOP HIM!!#Alternatively. also Naga Glenn with big ol' fang....Darryl tusks.....ahehehehahheheheehhe wowoooooow im so.....normal abou tthag#HENRY WITH A TOOTHED BIRD TONGUE. WOULD THAT BE FUCKED UP OR WHAT! /POS#bruceys au stuff
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im such a loser it hurts. i’ve gained a lot of weight over the last year and it makes me hate my body. my job sucks and pays so little i feel ashamed just thinking about it. my grades are bad and my writing is mediocre and devoid of meaning. why do i even exist
#hate hate hate hate myself#when did it all go wrong#though i guess it was never right in the first place#my whole life ive been pulling through by the skin of my teeth. and of course it doesnt look this way#with the impressive list of high ranking schools i studied in and good grades and aced exams#but it never brought me happiness. it was just something i had to do. was supposed to do because i was good enough#and i never enjoyed studying there. it has been a constant nightmare#and now im working the job which is not bad. but being there makes me feel like im actively dying#and yeah. the salary. it Sucks with a capital s#and all my attempts to find a better paying job so far resulted in nothing#i have a good life. i have a nice apartment with a short commute. a loving partner. enough money to live comfortably#so i feel like i shouldnt complain#but the horrors persist through it all#its just been a constant struggle. and whatever i do it doesnt go away#sorry. im upset and tired and my heas hurts#will probably delete this tomorrow#arnold’s laments
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CALLOUT POST
this guy literally bit me :/ can we stop supporting him pls
#joke post this guy did nothing wrong#i mean it DID bite me but didnt break skin im ok. washd my hands#teeths
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ykw tumblr gets me gushing about this too. SUMMER SCHOOL CLASSES OFFICIALLY DONE!!
Im so fucking happy man . this is genuinely the first time since MIDDLE SCHOOL that I've gotten through an entire school year without failing a single class. if all goes according to plan i start school back up in august and graduate in december of 2024 :)
#im so glad i gave online another chance#with a school thats actually MADE to be online#this was so fucking worth the risk#my only regret is i wish i had done it sooner#public school fucked me up but. honestly i havent been this optimistic about my future maybe ever.#like i still have trauma to work through because of public school but like#things actually feel like everything is gonna turn out ok and go according to plan for once#not to mention i had completely given up all hope of graduating on time#and . here i am#and im not even stressed out of my mind passing by the skin of my teeth#I fucking got covid and was unable to work on summer school for a solid WEEK and i still did it#a year ago that would of fucking made me fail the semester#let alone summer school where it takes up a third of the time i have#but i fucking got a 91% in one class and passed the other#and the only reason i dont have a higher grade is because i dont care enough about pe to want one#wyrm.txt
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if I like booked out a hardcore therapist for 24 hours and just went to them with a list of everything wrong with me would they be able to fix me y/n
#I know nothing is linear and things take time and whatever but god I would love to like not be broken like this#I’d love to know what is wrong with me and why I’m like this and how to get BETTER#how to not be. this#because genuinely sometimes it feels like I’m completely broken and just holding together the pieces with tape#surely life shouldn’t be this hard#surely I shouldn’t struggle this much#surely this shouldn’t be how I have to live#just pushing through by the skin of my teeth all the time#in 2020 I reached an all time low and I. did not think I would survive the year#and I’m so scared that I’m gonna get that low again#I can’t do that again#but I just#keep on trucking#because literally what else am I supposed to do#IT’S LITERALLY THE FIRST OF CHRISTMAS AND IM HERE FEELING LIKE A SACK OF SHIT I HATE IT HEREEEEEE
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