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GET TO KNOW YOUR TWST OCs (and their relationships)
(Or how I make up excuses to blabber about my OC lol. Most of the "who" questions are aimed at the twst cast, but feel free to include other twst OCs as well!)
Name: What does your twst OC's name mean? Why does Rook/Floyd call them [insert nickname]?
Inspiration: Is your twst OC inspired by any villains? Concepts? Anything Disney-related?
Age/Birthday: How old is your twst OC? When is their birthday? Whose birthday (among the cast) is closest to your twst OC's? Does the horoscope lie or do they get along well?
Dorm: Which dorm is your twst OC in? Why? Which qualities they have make them suitable for said dorm? Do they have a roommate and how is their relationship?
Class: Who is your twst OC's classmate(s)? How would you describe their relationship? Did they have different classmates in previous year and did they get along?
Height: How tall is your twst OC? Are they conscious about their height? Are they close to someone with similar leg length?
Hair/Eye color: What are your twst OC's hair and eye colors? Who got the closest/opposite palette to them?
Homeland: Where is your twst OC from? Do they know anyone from the same hometown prior to NRC?
Club: Which club does your twst OC join and why? Is there anything memorable about the club fair day/their first day at the club? Which clubmate is their favorite?
Subject: What is your twst OC's best subject? Worst? Do they study with another whom excels at the same subject? Do they ask anyone for help with the subject they are bad at?
Hobby: What are your twst OC's hobbies? Who among the cast will they possibly ask to join in their pastime?
Pet peeves: What are your twst OC's pet peeves and which one in the cast accidentally (or not) commit the "crimes"? How will your twst OC deal with that person?
Food: What is your twst OC's favorite and least favorite food? Why (optional)? Is there anyone they can share their favorite food? Is there anyone they can count on to take over the food they dislike?
Talent: What is your twst OC's talent(s) and who can properly appreciate that?
Unique Magic/Signature spell: What is your twst OC's UM (if applicable)? What can they do? What is the incantation? Is there any weaknesses/loopholes and who can exploit those?
Quote: Give me something your twst OC will say. Either something they always say or something iconic they said. Something that helps solve the problems or something that is a catalyst to even more issues.
(Ok I'm kinda running out of ideas here) Personality: Give me 3 adjectives to describe your twst OC. Or an essay. Whichever works. Whose personality among the cast is closest to your twst OC and do they get along?
Backstory: Tell me anything about your twst OC's backstory. Their childhood, their parents, their siblings etc. Does their backstory affect how they are as a character now and how they interact with the cast?
Pick only one: Let your twst OC pick only one and explain the reasons: only one favorite from each dorm, only one favorite housewarden/vice housewarden, only one favorite first/second/third year etc.
(For my beloved yume shippers) Partner: Who do you ship your twst OC with? Are they in a relationship? If yes, how did it start/end? If no, why?
#ask game#twisted wonderland oc#twst oc#uh yeah I look around and I couldn't find any basic get-to-know ask game#so yeah hence this happened#it's just kinda an excuse for me to chitchat about Rory but feel free (read: I'd be very glad if you do) to use for your own twst OCs!#of course this is all fun and games so never feel pressured to answer ALL of the questions if you don't want to#it has never been my intention to make anyone uncomfortable#also! feel free to add more questions!#this is very very basic purely expanded from twst character profile#twst ask game#twisted wonderland ask game#oc ask game#original character ask game#twst oc ask game#twisted wonderland oc ask game#get to know#get to know my twst oc#get to know your twst oc
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antoine + Ć©toiles insane moments, p.2. aka the ass saga. p1 here
transcript + context for some of the clips below
[Video Transcript:
[First clip plays.]
Rivenzi: You want to see Etoilesā ass, of courseā¦
Antoine: Yeah, Iām gonna stare at your ass, Etoilesā¦
Etoiles: Fuck, what dread, during Popcorn [a talkshow Etoiles had been invited on the previous week], when I went up to the map and you said that, and I thought āwhoaāā
Antoine: Sorry
[Second clip plays: the moment during Popcorn]
PA/Domingo: Antoine Daniel has posted a tweet for us: āI wanted to look at this map of Africa, but Etoilesā ass in the shape of a standing bell is driving me crazy. Smiley face with eyes in the shape of hearts.ā
[Third clip plays: a continuation of the first clip.]
Antoine: Sorry, broā¦
Ponce: Oh but that tweet, besides
Rivenzi: A standing bellā¦
Antoine: Whatās more is that I never tweet and when I do itās to tweet this sort of shit
Ponce: Thatās exactly what I told myself. When PA read the tweet, I thought to myself, ābut he never tweets!ā And he tweets to talk about Etoilesā ass
Antoine: There needs to be a good reason, you see
[Fourth clip plays: a clip from the Team du Lundiās minecraft server.]
JDG: Someone (in chat) said, āI canāt tell whether the atmosphere is good tonight orāā
Antoine: It sucks, it sucks
Florence: You donāt need to ask every time, it always sucks
Baghera: Always sucks. Especially when Etoiles talks about ass [which had been a previous topic of discussion for him that night]
Antoine: Stooop, I enjoy it
Mynthos: You enjoy it?
JDG: Itās true tonight that itās more weird than bad
Antoine: I like it when Etoiles talks about assā¦.
[Fifth clip plays: a second and different clip from Popcorn.]
Etoiles: āyouāre not allowed to tell me that [Xari claimed to not know much about cinema]. I know you, I studied, because youāre my rival [in pop culture]. I really enjoy what you do in life, Xari, and youāre really knowledgeable about cinema
Antoine: What do you mean heās your rival? And Iām just shit?
Etoiles: You, youāre my lover
Antoine: Oh yeah, sorry, my bad
PA/Domingo: One of the three is gonna die soon. Thereās a whole situation, thereās a whole lore
[Sixth clip plays: a clip from the QSMP.]
Antoine: Donāt you want to get married, dude?
Etoiles: Well, I donāt have the time to fuck
Antoine: What the fuck?!
Etoiles: I donāt have time to fuck, dude. I just need to kill everyone
Antoine: No but just a marriage, you see. Youāve watched Game of Thronesā you havenāt watched Game of Thrones, you canāt know how marriages work in that series
Etoiles: Iāve watched it, but Iām married to the street, dude. I canāt give out my heart that quickly
Antoine: Yeah but you can give out your ass quickly, no?
Etoiles: No, frankly, my assā
Antoine: What the fuck?!
Etoiles: Giving out your ass takes time, dude
Antoine: What the fuckā¦
Etoiles: Then again, I need to think about it. Iāll give you my answer. I need to discuss, and everything
Antoine: Iām tired of getting betrayed. You get married with someone elseā
Etoiles: Never in a million years!
Antoine: āitās like yesterday. Apparently Maximus got the mic from his ass removed while I wasnāt there. I was supposed to be the one to do it
Etoiles: Oh okay, so Iām your second choice?
[Overlapping]
Antoine: No! It was just to help himā
Etoiles: No, but, okay
Antoine: He gotā listenā
Etoiles: Thereās no problem!
Antoine: Fuck, nevermind
Etoiles: Thereās no issue! Oh, so youāre opening my chest and stealing?
Antoine: I was just looking! Out of curiosity
Etoiles: Yeah, thatās it
Antoine: I donāt even understand whatās in it
Etoiles: Yeah, out of curiosity. Dude, your opinion on my cave?
Antoine: Well frankly itās big
end Video Transcript.]
#antoine daniel#etoiles#Ć©toiles#jay clips#qsmp#<- this is an appropriate tag wait till the end . it makes up half the video too#4/08/2024#le fameux bol tibĆ©tain dāĆ©toilesā¦. traduit pour les inters#and i call it a saga here because the clips here span from early 2021 to mid 2023#you know the first clips are old because antoine is still using twt at that point#not included here; a zlan 2024 clip where Ć©toiles yells āfuck me in the assā (french) at antoine š#also not included ; a serveur du lundi clip where Ć©toiles jokes about antoine having a leash at home#antoine denying this and Ć©toiles saying āwell i spent a weekend at your placeā#????????? yeah sure why not#ALSO re the qsmp clip antoine brought up the marriage possibility after hearing about the upcoming spiderbit wedding <3#bro sounds so fucking needy in the clip itās sending me . how can i make this into qantoine loreā¦ā¦. this WAS the period where things were#slowly changing within the french dynamic (aka . they were meeting and talking to new people) and qantoine was growing increasingly paranoi#about trusting people thenā¦ā¦. him trying to hold onto someone he loves dearly because heās not sure if he can keep up with himā¦..#anw some other translation type notes read if ur interested in that:#wasnāt quite sure on the best way to translate ālāangoisseā here . i went with ādreadā#literally it translates to āanxiety/anguish/dread/etcā but itās used in a very flippant way in slang#so anguish felt a bit strong here . when someone says āoh lāangoisseā about something itās usually to mean an uncomfortable or unusual#scenario . but the intensity of that very much varies#OH ALSO : if anyone wants the sources to each of these clips lmk#i may just add them here later when im less tired#insuline & nicotine
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love language is gift giving but is trying to be lowkey VS is knawing at the bars of his enclosure about it
(this is the stupidest thing ive ever drawn it makes me laugh so hard)
#sillyest duncan ive ever drawn š#why he built like that#its DJs POV#whats that one meme with the āyou are just a small haterā āand?ā cuz thats jow they look to me#god#anyways yeah DJ gift giving trait who is trying to hard to make it seem normal cuz he doenst want to make duncan uncomfortable vs duncan#being duncan#jester draws#i am talking into the void#fanart#total drama#duncan total drama#tdi#djuncan#duncan td#dj total drama#total drama dj
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Tuvok and Kathryn + Touch
Unknown, found on Pinterest // While You Were Sleeping - Heath // Voyager - Season 2, Episode 6 // Voyager - Season 7, Episode 25 // I Had a Dream About You - Richard Siken // Dreams of Clytemnestra - Dacia Marani // After Bombardment, Sonya - Ilya Kaminsky // A Pocket Full of Lies - Kirsten Beyer // City of Bones - Cassandra Clare // Voyager - Season 7, Episode 10 // Richard Siken //
#trek thoughts#yeah okay so they make me crazy#i am always thinking about their relationship#and the role touch plays in it is important to me#kathryn is in general a very touchy person#we see this with how she interacts with everyone in her crew and nothing about that changes with her relationship with tuvok#he rarely (if ever) initiates touch with her (when he does he's weird about it - like during twisted where he just moves his hand close)#but he never appears uncomfortable or surprised when kathryn touches him#their relationship is so intimate yet weirdly formal#also this can be taken as shipping or as platonic#mostly they are a qpr to me#web weaving#tuvok x janeway#Kathryn Janeway x Tuvok#tuvok#kathryn janeway#star trek#captain janeway#Star trek Voyager#voyager#voy#janeway#admiral janeway#captain kathryn janeway#star trek janeway#star trek voy#st tuvok
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You know sometimes it just hits you that so much of queer "discourse" is basically one group of queer people trying to cultivate a subcommunity for themselves and their identity while another group of queer people cry and scream about how that group, who is just trying to exist and have their own bubble, is the cause of all their own group's problems
#Jean mumbles#This is about asexuals and pansexuals and bisexuals and mspec lesbians and aspec lesbians and mspec and aspec in genera#It's about neopronouns and xenogenders and trans men and transneutrals and trans women and nonbinary people#And multigender people and genderqueer people and he/him lesbians and she/her gays and intersex people and so on and so on#And yes. It's about kinksters too. Because kink belongs in the queer community too.#You know what this isn't about. I am on my knees begging you to not say the most blatant āEXCEPT FOR [redacted]ā#Because we know. We fucking know. Those people aren't welcome here. Stop making every queer inclusion post about those people#They aren't part of the community and they never will be so cut it oooouuuutttttt#Anyway. Yeah. So much queer discourse is basically ''you exist in a way that challenges my preconceived notion of queerness-#- and that makes me very uncomfortable and upset so. Kill yourself?? Please? :pleading_face:" and people think they're somehow morally righ#For doing this. Like actually grow up. Actually grow the fuck up before you pipe up.
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related to nick's post. you can't even make this stuff up
#jared's said before that he doesn't really care for romance storylines in spn bc that's not part of the story he's interested in telling#for sam so i doubt he gave a shit other than wanting to work w shoshanna again but <3 eileen for the win#that being said i cannotttt with this reasoning of why samleen is a popular ship. makes me resent it so bad...#i also cut out a part in the middle 1) where there's an aside about ruby but someone else yells rowena and jared says#āyeah they had some great moments together.ā another sam het ship that's popular for the Wrong reasons#and 2) the person asking the question tells jared something like 'that's the right answer' which. ew#that aside i think it's cute how they automatically take over for each other when one is obviously uncomfortable or needs time to answer#alsooo jensen being mean <3 āi think i hear a sheepāā LMFAO.#otherwise it's incredibly hilarious how good and obvious he is at ignoring it at this point#jaytwo#'22#edit: also infuriating to learn the reason why jared immediately launches into his description of shoshanna's character as a person#as well as a description of their relationship rather than delving into what he thinks of eileen's character
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Serendipity should be required viewing material before anyone tries to analyze Homestuck; not only is John Cusack a universal constant, but the themes and vibes of Serendipity are so fundamentally woven into Homestuck's DNA that several of Serendipity's thesises and conversations could be lifted directly from one to the other.
In particular, the way Serendipity utilizes coincidence and circumstantially simultaneous events in order to suggest - nay, decree - that the two leads belong together, is highly reminiscent of the way Hussie uses foreshadowing, and not just for romantic couples. It's also a major window into the ultimate stance Homestuck takes with regard to romance, fate, and destiny, and also more specifically, a really good look at Karkat's own personal philosophies of romance. There's a running theme in his movies of meeting someone that perfectly matches your freak, someone you don't ever need to compromise yourself around, who brings out the best in you.
Also, some of yall need to watch a shitty romcom every once in a while and develop some emotions
#I'm genuinely not joking#if you want to understand Karkat and Homestuck better you need to watch Serendipity#at the very least so you can understand what the comic means by soul mates#i mean it's literally NAMEDROPPED during the troll romance section as the ultimate expression of finding your soul mates in every quad#people literally will be like 'i like karkat' and not watch serendipity smh#anyway the karkat movie list is serendipity ā¢ hitch ā¢ 50 first dates#he calls serendipity and hitch specifically 'pure magic' and yes. yeah.#i know we all love to clown on karkat's love of embarrassing romcoms and we're right to do so it's hilarious#but hussie also unironically calls it the best character trait he gave karkat and hes soooo correct about that#and you can tell from the way serendipity and even 50 first dates are described that those are kind of hussies genuine feelings toward them#hes right 50 first dates DOESN'T make you want to punch adam sandler#despite the occassional uncomfortable lowbrow comedy segment everything about the romance is played so straight and so genuine#maybe this shitty adam sandler romcom made me cry maybe im man enough to admit it#and idrk how else to describe serendipity besides 'pure magic'#tbh just watch it for yourself#homestuck is like 30% serendipity by volume
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What did/do you like about Pharah?
Uh, gameplay-wise, I really love characters in shooters who rely on three-dimensional movement techs. Chaining together hover and jump to stay in the air for as long as possible and keep momentum is so satisfying, and picking enemies off from the sky made me feel like a bird of prey. I was a good Pharah main.
Story-wise, there unfortunately isn't much to canonically go off because Pharah is so underutilized and neglected. Her personality's pretty boilerplate "heroic hero" (she's literally inspired by Captain America).
But it's the crumbs/bits and pieces that I really latched onto. Pharah's a confirmed lesbian; her short story with Baptiste implies she harbors a crush on Mercy (fucking thank you.). She's biracial Egyptian/First Nations. She has major mommy issues, having grown up both admiring and resenting Ana. She's the bridge between Old Overwatch, inspired by the idealized heroes who surrounded her childhood, and New Overwatch. She's one of the only inter-generational characters in the cast; someone whose experiences span the gap, which is why I seriously believe Pharah would make a great main character.
There isn't much to go off of, though; she's a very uncomplicated character (she's a soldier for a private military corporation, lol.). But that just means she's a blank slate character, so I've seen fanfic writers run wild and create some really interesting takes on her. My favorite interpretation of her's a dense, herbo gym-bro type (a lot of her liens are about work outs, exercising, and playing sports) who's easily excitable under her seemingly self-serious, armored visage. We see how she tends to gloat and hype herself up when she's on a streak too, so Pharah definitely has a competitive and boastful side under her more professional and militant performance.
Now Mercy? Mercy is a real complex character.
#i was a diehard pharmercy shipper back then btw#the inherent homoerotic experience of pharmercy gameplay.#the homoerotic experience of looking to the skies to fly to safety under the protection of your knight in shining armor#the homoerotic experience of feeling white hot murderous rage at an enemy trying to pick off your pocket mercy#i still kinda despise gency lmao. you cannot convince me mercy would be in love with genji. at all.#he'd make her feel so uncomfortable and guilty. in my head. the canon is obviously different#gency is sexless. absolutely zero bite or tension.#i could go on about mercy and how her character has so much missed potential#i'm no longer in my overwatch fandom phase but#i still think about that new flirty line they added in ow2 where mercy goes āahh you're like my knight in shining armor!ā#and pharah goes āthat's what i'm goin for ;)ā and i sigh dreamily#really happy that pharah outright says she's a lesbian too but it's hard to feel good about rep when you know blizzard uses it for pr#to be honest i'm willing to bet cash that blizzard's keeping pharmercy in their back pocket as ammo for the next controversy#last year we already saw logs about pharah fretting and taking care of mercy and the two talking about how good it is to see each other#tbh pharah has the same energy/demeanor as applejack. cheerful and competitive in a can of whoopass#but yeah overall pharah's a pretty shallow character. i have IDEAS on how i'd go about deepening her but. whatever#that's sorta what happens when you have to juggle a cast of 40 characters. a lot get left with the bare minimum#ok so i wrote this entire post up saying that pharah isn't in ow2's storymode when she is. she's in the story i just. forgot#because she doesn't do or contribute anything interesting#ok i'm stopping here. overwatch's story is such an interesting narrative mess i could go on for hours#i dunno how you come up with such incredible character designs and give them such an unincredible story#it's also so so so interesting seeing the conflicting takes on characters the writers have#mercy in gameplay and voicelines is peppy and cheerful and optimistic#but mercy in the storymode journal logs is tired. jaded. a total shut in who forgets to leave her room and social#and YES! THAT'S WHAT I WANT!!! THAT'S MERCY TO ME!!! THE DOCTOR WHO FORGETS TO TAKE CARE OF HERSELF#ask me#anon
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You're always so on point with your posts. On that note, it made me realize that; Considering the themes of desires in DunMeshi. It's also to say that what you think you want isn't what you actually want.
Like, Marcille thinks she wants the handsome prince from the novels she reads... But what she actually wants is someone maybe more like her father who she admired so much. Kind, virtuous, caring to a fault, a family man. Things she later finds in Chilchuck.
Because as traumatizing as it was to see her mother's spiral after her father's death; Her memories of her father itself are some of the most important to her. And it fits with her pursuit to increase her loved ones' lives, because she does want what her mother and father had.
Sipping. I do go over āwhat you think you want vs what you actually want + what you needā in my (upcoming) Marcille & Chil arc analysis ;) Itās a part of Dunmeshi that I really like and is super fascinating, Iād honestly like to make an analysis-post on the topic: all the different threads and characters in canon that reflect that, desires vs wants and themes of idealization in Dunmeshi, but itās one of those things thatās just so huge to make. See this is the freaking problem with doing Dunmeshi meta you start talking about the themes or a narrative and everything is so interwoven you get distracted with tangents BUT ITāS ALL COMPELLING AND RELEVANT
I know thatās something laimar does a lot too, the dad thing, with Marcille in a post-canon comic knitting beside him paralleling her parents and whatnot. I donāt know if I fully agree on the angle but thereās definitely stuff to dig at thereā¦
Like I know that Iād like to analyze Marcilleās succubus more, it comes up in my analysis draft but itās not the point Iām trying to make there so I focus on other stuff butā¦ I always saw the focus of Marcilleās succubus as that she sought out an emotional connection most of all, itās romantic and courtly in nature but more importantly thereās personality and behavior there and itās a character she already loves and knows deeply from having read the series, so itās not like Chil where itās just a pretty face whose identity doesnāt matter. A friend of mine though, @room-surprise, goes with the angle that it shows she isnāt ready for a relationship and that the appeal is very self-centered, and I def think compelling points are madeā¦
Point I was trying to make, the succubus is definitely at the crux of figuring what it is Marcille wants and craves in someone Iād say, where sheās emotionally at wether consciously or subconsciously, or how she sees herself being involved in romance at leastā¦ Itās true Marcille is enthusiastic about romance, but always someone elseās, never hers, and she seems unwilling to examine her own relationships with people. She oversteps boundaries either obliviously or carelessly and doesnāt like changeā¦
And then thereās how complex peopleās relationship to fiction can be on top of that and graaaaah
Edit in bc I forgot I wanted to mention this like an idiot: OH and I do think the Daltian Clan serves a role in the general tapestry of Dunmeshi as well, sometimes in in depth ways that Room-Surprise will tackle in their research paper way better than me Iām sure. My understanding of the importance of general Hagreus in a more general narrative sense is that he reinforces the theme of idealization/fantasy vs reality thatās super present through the manga. Beyond just Marcilleās arc and his importance to her heās designed uncannily close to Mithrun, it parallels real elves and their very flawed military system and the broken people it cultivates vs the romanticized elves put on an aesthetic pedestral in novels, especially considering itās "general" Hareus
To give some previews of the analysis wip: Thus the succubus targets Marcilleās wish for a perfect knight who could cherish her forevermore, someone safe and known and fantastical, just hers in a way, free to see and construct however she wants because heās a character to interpret Dungeon Meshi is in part about resisting desires, the irrational cravings, mostly through the character of the demon. I mentioned needs earlier, and to ideals vs wants we also add vs needs, both emotional and physical. And needs alongside wants are what Dungeon Meshi wishes to promote for a healthier person. Dungeon Meshi illustrates very well with the dungeon lords that you can be a slave to your desires. Dunmeshi prones the important of balance for both a healthy body and a healthy mind, and the arc of optimism vs pessimism with Marcille & Chilchuck is one such case <3
Ouuuugh how flawed relationships with flawed people can still be made into somehing good and healthy that make the world brighterā¦
Weāve gone far from the topic of how her family shaped what she seeks in relationships haha, I think you put it well already though I donāt have much to add on that front Edit in 2: SIKE! Iāll add that thereās an interesting thread in the manga of Marcille maturing and becoming more like her mother, which would be interesting and fun to pair with the fatherhood of Chil. Because Marcille is sometimes a mother figure as well: sheās the mom friend. I go over it here, and since when I made that post Iāve seen more interesting analysis on the topic too, like noticing she hides behind her motherās portrait in the nightmare chapter, perhaps the inspiration behind her more mature reserved academic persona she sometimes has. Her parents are def important to her so itās interesting to see how all the dynamics and her own psychology fit into thatā¦.
But yeah I think what she (thinks she) wants out of romance has a lot of layers, both conscious and subconsciousā¦ I havenāt gone into the bigger picture of how fiction affects her relationships here but itās the central topic of my Marcille & Chil arc analysis so. She idealizes the trope of the prince charming and finds it attractive but is that what she would actually latch ontoā¦ Is it fully superficial, is it more about herself than it is about her potential partner... Is it mainly because she wants to get validation, from being special that she typically gets from high academic performanceā¦ We do see she can be rather insecure and worried about othersā perspective of her, that they think sheās not useful or capable enough, especially in the mandrake chapterā¦ Unconditional love perhaps
What is your emotional landscape Marcille. How emotionally intelligent are you. I donāt think she knows what she wants romantically. I think she has a job so she donāt really care about that rn Iām just not sure if we can figure out what she ~actually~ wants on her behalf that might be too many levels of interpretation but idk idk, thinking on it still
#Ask#marchil#Spoilers#Dungeon meshi manga spoilers#As an aroace obviously obsessed with shipping. Me š¤ Marcille very possibly being uncomfortable at the thought of being in a relationship#Considering her fear of loss + loss of control at categorizing her relationships and the Falin bath scene analysis yk the one#How she pushes herself to think of Falin as a kid still bc itās more digestible and less scary. Bc change and aging and vulnerability#Like she could totally be super on board to get into a romance at a snap of fingers buuut thereās enough material where also could be not#The post ended up not being very marchil but yeahā¦ in the end i ship it bc i think chil is both what she wants and needs in a lover#Itās ok even if they donāt do much pda sheāll just romanticize that it makes it more special#Marcille donato#Meta#Btw big recommend the youtube video essay on OFMD season 2 by The Sin Squadā¦ Makes me think about Marcille v much
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men love to try and tee me up for their next relationship while theyāre still dating their current gf and i am never interested. NEVER.
#i donāt even fuck w men like that#mind you iāve told this man that i am NOT INTERESTED in dating SEVERAL TIMES when heās asked ab my romantic life#but heās saying some suspicious ass stuff#like today he was like āyeah and itās hard bc iām starting have feelings forā¦.this isnāt about anyone in particularā¦.others outside#the relationship. and itās making me feel guiltyā#and iām like hm. um. okay.#and heās being weirdly cryptic with me in the way men get when they think theyāre being sly ab their feelings for you#šš#heās texting me a bunch lately too like āyou just really inspire me to be the best version of myself i can beā#and āi had a really bad week and i just wanted to thank you for being so kind and funny and awesomeā#mind you i didnāt do anything out of ordinary for him#mind you heās my coworker!!!#i see him every day!!#iām not stupid idk š you complain ab your gf to me and the shower me in praise like pls stop im uncomfortable šš#iāve already told him i donāt really want this dynamic with a coworker and he kinda just continues and idk what to do anymore!#like we work closely on everything!#he sits directly beside me in the office!#BLAH#cielo rambles!
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will be cleaning up my following tonight and doin a little softblocking spree <3
#iāve been way too lenient with some mutuals making me uncomfortable and upset#like i looked past a LOT of weird shit purely bc i didnāt want to lose interactions nor make anyone upset but ive reached my limits!!!!#i havenāt really had time to be here anyways but being irritated when checking dash shouldnāt be a normal experience š#this isnāt a ālike to stayā type post#if u find urself sbād u are more than welcome to re-follow or ask why if u care enough but#yeah#TY#blows u all a kiss
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question on tumblr etiquette:
if you fall under a user's DNI list, but that user reaches out to you via ask or DM, without knowing you fall under their DNI list, do you still respond?
hypothetical example: user A specifies on their blog "DNI if you're over the age of 18", but then user A reaches out to user B. User B is over the age of 18, but user A does not know this because user B doesn't mention it on their blog. User B does know that user A does not wish to interact with people over the age of 18. does user B respond to user A?
#crab chatter#someone sent me an ask and i happened to see they have a detailed list of DNI criteria#and i fall under it#but now i dunno what to do?#i don't wanna be rude by ignoring their message#but i also don't want to be disrespectful for breaching their DNI#even if they don't currently know#maybe i'm overthinking things#i tend to do that#i might just play it safe and not respond#cuz i feel like everyone has their own reasons for their boundaries#and it's not my place to determine whether or not my well-intentioned attempt to be polite/friendly is comfortable for them#the other user put in the effort of communicating their boundaries#they just didn't know i fall under their DNI before reaching out#but it's MY responsibility to act responsibly and uphold their boundary#i'll add this to my pinned post rules#i will not reply if I feel uncomfortable or if I feel like my response could potentially make someone feel uncomfortable#of course i'm not going to talk to them about the topic(s) they have boundaries around#but if they truly do not want to interact with people of certain ages or beliefs or lifestyles etc#i want to respect that#i just feel bad about giving people the cold shoulder#but i'd feel worse if the other person felt hurt or betrayed#yeah i'm definitely overthinking it
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There's something weirdly...disingenuous in all the posts questioning why Orym might want to talk to Dorian specifically and not the others. Like, this post is really good and covers the non-romantic reasons why this makes sense, and I agree with it entirely! Also though, it's not like Liam hasn't pretty consistently made it clear that Orym has feelings for Dorian. You do not need to like this (I think it's abundantly clear that I think you can openly dislike a ship) but you do look kinda dumb if you're like "why would he want to specifically speak to someone he's known longer than anyone but Fearne, who's slightly removed from the current tragedy, and whom he has repeatedly messaged whenever he's feeling upset?"
#rosie lmk if you want me to delink your post but it is really good#but yeah like. among other things. worth noting he does this AFTER having a great conversation with imogen#like trust. he is aware that the rest of bells hells are there. he specifically wants to talk to dorian. he did not forget his other option#i have. feelings too long for the tags re both the weird way orym and dorian's past is elided by those who don't do that for others#and also i think orym is such a hotbed for discourse bc he brings a lot of uncomfortable truths about the party/campaign to light#and makes them impossible to ignore by fans who are desperately trying to ignore them#cr tag
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headcanon: dick actually prefers wearing baggy clothes in public and is way more comfortable in them because nobody comments on his body when heās not in form-fitting outfits
and it sucks because he actually really enjoys wearing form-fitting outfits and feels good in them, but any time he does people stare or catcall or even grope him and he just. canāt handle that after everything
plus the villains kissing him as nightwing thing has gotten so bad that heās genuinely considering getting a mask that covers the lower half of his face
#i have a lot of feelings about him okay#dick grayson#dc comics#nightwing#dc stop having characters sexually harass nightwing challenge#these are not fun hcs#moreso āhow i think these things would affect himā#dick not even feeling comfortable wearing skinny jeans in public.#dc i am coming for you#cuz the amount of times that heās harassed and objectified etc is ridiculous!!#and it would definitely affect him!!!!#heās shown to be visually uncomfortable with it! multiple times!#and is also canonically a SA/rape survivor!!#dc writers i will find you.#cw sa mention#when in costume around people he is constantly on edge#except his family and friends ofc#but even in a mask and armor he feels less safe than he would in a hoodie and sweats#anywayyyyy#yeah i cant stop thinking about him again#the Grayson writers specifically i will hunt down and kill one by one#in my head this started with me thinking about amab nonbinary dick grayson#and then i was like#yeah cuz heās woman coded so it makes sense which brought me to WHY heās women coded#(because heās just as sexualized and objectified as them)#iāve literally never seen any other male character treated this way. just dick grayson#ok sorry iām rambling
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okay so a large part of my issue with halsin is that his character feels inconsistent, right. like larian wanted him to be a wise older man mentor character but then they wanted him to be fuckable, and they wanted him to be a nontraditional/nonmonogamous romance, so they made him sexually experienced and confident and casual, but he's also a romance option, so he talks about having Feelings for the player character. and then he needed to be a quest-giver, so he needed to ask for help. and what we ended up with is "guy who up and abandoned his responsibilities at the first chance of adventure, got captured and needed rescuing, makes all sorts of comments about his sexual experience but loses all self control and wildshapes at the first glimpse of ass, tells you he has feelings for you to get you in bed then leaves at the end of the game, and makes inappropriately sexual comments abt the sexual abuse victim if you're romancing him" - all of which reads as an uncomfortable, unlikeable mess of a guy.
halsin suffers from a lack of focus - he's neither a full romance on the level of the origin companions, nor is he a fling or sub-romance; he got more care and attention than wyll, in some ways, but the writing is flaky and weak and makes him look, frankly, like an incompetent, immature manchild. the bear scene is grossly pubescent (it should've been player choice to initiate that, not have it dropped on you that if he gets too horny there's a risk he'll CAST A SPELL and turn into a literal animal. by mistake. and if that's his reaction to seeing tits what's gonna happen when he cums) and the way he pushes for astarion to join you if you tell him you're in a relationship feels wildly inappropriate.
I know halsin has a history of sexual abuse himself (and I've seen good analyses/critiques of the way that's handled) but again I find it weird that finding out about that is locked behind not just a sex scene but a threesome+ scene - the writers really wanted to drive home that This Guy Fucks to the point where he comes across as pushy, and his trauma is reduced to background noise in a scene where he is essentially a sex object. he is simultaneously objectified by the writers, and in-universe by himself and those around him, but instead of exploring that we're just supposed to go with it; likewise, his lack of commitment and emotional immaturity aren't problems in and of themselves, but it feels like the writers aren't aware that that's the character they've written, and so these things are never appropriately addressed, and his arc and romance don't match up with the other characters' stories about growth and development.
not rly sure where I'm going with this, but it bothers me!! I think it's a nasty mix of the writers' intentions at a cross purpose with the push for fanservice, and the whole thing leaves a sour taste in my mouth t b h.
#ig I wish they'd diverted more of those resources to wyll and left halsin as a simple fling option or smth#I have many meaner things I could say about him but this post isn't about that#it kinda makes me sad. scarred up beefy older elf man should've been my guy but instead I kind of can't stand him:/#this post was much longer with fix its but I cut them out bc I got bored lol#bg3#and like. I wish they'd treated him Better he makes me uncomfortable and I find it difficult to empathise with him but. yeah he should've#got more development and better treatment
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stuck in doomed yaoi hell.
#GET ME OUTTTTTT I CANT STAND IT HERE#they make me physically spiritually mentally ill#i hate gay people#vivinos said u can have canonically queer characters but none of them can be happy and half of them will die#yeah ivan and till can kiss but it will be horribly uncomfortable and will end in blood#VIVINOS YOURE GOING TO HELLLLL#alien stage#ivantill#ivan alien stage#till alien stage#alnst
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