#but we haven't hung out in a while :(
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Weird moment of loneliness and I'm crushed that I don't have anyone in my life who cares enough about me to know stupid little things about me like that my favourite cake is carrot cake or that i really love the smell of wet soil.
#i really liked someone#and she was actually really kind and took care to actually show interest in me#and offer to make me tea every time we hung out#but we haven't hung out in a while#because we're both socially anxious#and our mutual friend who used to organize all the group hangouts has been going through a hard time#and i think i might have missed my chance#and i don't know if it's worth just reaching out#but she's so kind#and those moments where she relaxed and her less anxious self came out were always awesome#it just feels like it's too late#and i have a really poor self image#and can't imagine her actually liking me#despite all the evidence#i think i'm just experiencing a bit of a low after a rowdy halloween hang out#i'm also kind of talking myself out of reaching out when i think it might be okay#i'm just a little bit of a baby
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Wilbur: [in a silly, deep voice] Just be like, oh, I'm Technoblade, ooh, potatoes, I just want to- I just want to play with potatoes, ooh [Tommy laughs] I'm gonna-
Tommy: Listen, listen, he's on our side, now's not the time, now's not the time [Wilbur laughs] to be talking about him literally behind his back.
Wilbur: [in his normal voice] No, I'm enjoying- Tommy, Tommy! Tommy, we haven't- we haven't hung out like this in a while. It's been- it's been kind of cold. I like the- yeah.
#video#mine#vodblogging#normal posting#wil#chommy#crimeboys#clipped this scene bc wilbur saying ''we haven't hung out like this in a while'' made me make an indescribable noise of pain
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Honestly what bothered me most about Rook was when he expects an MC to be go along with his rulebreaking for an MC who never did that. And it's like… Rook, we've known each other forever. Why would you expect me of all people to say yes?
More evidence to add to the "Rook is a bad friend" pile lol
#em answers#ch: rook#kinda spoilers ig but he didn't he just needed an excuse to hang out and he can't be normal about it#“hey we haven't hung out in a while and I just wanted to see you” wrong#“want to be a pain in the ass to my roommate?” only correct answer
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anyone else just struggle to connect with people irl. I even struggle online a bit but I have closer online friends then I do irl.
Sometimes I just feel like theres a barrier between me and other people. It keeps me from having more then just work friends or people I speak too on rare occasions.
But we don't hang out, we don't talk outside work and basic interactions. Even if we get along great in those settings, no matter how hard I try I never feel as if I can ever know people more then that.
And its not from lack of trying. I really have put effort into hanging out and talking outside of work, but its never really helped.
idk man. I just feel pretty alone sometimes and almost frustrated and isolated that I can't just talk to people. What am I doing wrong? whats wrong with me?
#spook txt#vent post#vent tw#I'm always the one who texts firsts#I'm always the one who tries to reach out#even the few times I really have tried to make friends#it always just ends up with me being the one communicating#If I dont text them then we never talk.#maybe makes me a bit of a loser but man. I really did try#there was someone at work who I really did almost consider a friend. we got along super well at work#we texted and even after they quit we talked and hung out once or twice#but I realised. I didn't get the chance to text them for a little while#they never texted me during that time. I am always the one starting the conversations and inviting them to hang out#they haven't made any effort to actually know me. and idk it hurts man#I've put in a lot of effort into getting to know them. And actually really trying but idk somethings wrong with me I guess#I think I've kinda given up on trying. They aren't a friend and were never interested in being friends.
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love the idea that Luca/Geumga Plaza have kind of a failsafe for Vincenzo, either when they want sth from him or when he becomes too focused on work or whatever and neglects his own basic needs, and that is to send, in this order:
Han-seo, who will use his puppy eyes and then his kicked puppy look when Vincenzo ultimately rejects him at first
Cha-young. just Cha-young
#them just going this is a level orange send hanseo#level red: chayoung your turn#lol idk#when vin hasn't given himself a break in days and hanseo just goes hey hyung we haven't hung out in a while:(#and chayoung's strategy is to either nag him relentlessly or just. apply lipstick or sth that should work#i will absolutely put this in TR btw#vincenzo#jang han seo
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#aha#i forgot a friends birthday#the fun thing is i also dont have it written down anywhere#i know the weekend we celebrated it last year now bc i went back to text messages#but i also havent physically seen her for at least half a year bc i... haven't hung out with people for a long while#haha#and well#she hates her birthday#had a meltdown during her last one#but idk i was still want her to know she's a worthy human being#*sigh*#life#ignore me
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Man i am so fucking tired of this orchestra
#like i guess that can be expected it's my 9th straight semester but also it really dif used to be better under the old prof#like it's basically a lab orchestra now were conducted by students more often than not#so a not insignificant amount of our time is just the prof telling the conductors shit not at all about the actual orchestra#also it used to be a string orchestra and while i do like some of the rep we've been playing it's not as much fun for the strings#which !! the winds are a bunch of music majors with other ensembles and private rep and stuff !!! but most of the strings this is it for us#and that's not even touching on the Stand Partner issues. maybe im just bitter about being demoted to 2nd AGAIN#but my stand partner is not good at orchestra etiquette so i end up doing page turns AND marking up the music#and sometimes having to explain stuff to him bc i know more and an probably better#partially my fault because i didn't practice the audition music as much as i should have I'll admit#but also we have to prepare solos for the auditions now which. i haven't taken lessons since spring of 2020 i just have olddd rep#again. we didn't do that for auditions before! it was ONLY the excerpts.#idk it's like we're simultaneously being hung out to dry and condescended to I'm just tired.
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We are both exhausted
#WPVG#WPUT#Skin of the teeth#After losing twice before shhh I totally did it on purpose so I could see his dialogue that's totally why#I am not very good at bullet hells lol#Probably doesn't help that I haven't actually played in a while either lol#Also I hung out with him instead of going on a date! No!!#I mean#I'm fine with it lol I just want there to be more confusion#I did flirt with him tho... I guess only in the first two fights?#It feels really funny for him to clarify that he's giving me his phone number platonically when we haven't even gone on a date lol#Well now I /have/ to replay I must date the skeleton even though I know he'll reject me lol#The only reason to replay Undertale after getting a Pacifist Run#How serious am I? Even I don't know yet lol#I have been considering trying to get a Neutral Run but it feels....weird#Like I'd have to pick someone to kill intentionally :/
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guys i laurv college like actually. went out w a group of ppl and went to CVS and a mediocre pep rally. had a really sweet exchange w a bus driver. roommates are going out in a large group to have some of that sweet liquid sillies allegedly. i am alone in my dorm despite thinking i'd be the last one awake i am literally the only one here. and i'm happy i think :D
#nightmare.personal#we have to be up at like 7:30 am though so God bless my poor roommates#it's just two of them out person no 3 is unaccounted for#hypothetically i couldve stayed up but the group i was hanging out w are all roommates#so it was just me sititng in their dorm while they were showering and i was like. i think maybe i should go back to my home domain#but college is seriously kind of great bc like. you can just Do Shit. no parental convos about the logistics of hanging out#if i want to knock on a friends door to see their taxidermied rat and then go out w them at 10 pm#i am well within my God given right to do that!!!!!!#also idk when the RAs come bc this is meant to be quiet hours but people are blasting frank ocean which#it's frank ocean so you cannot be complaining about that but still#ALSO I SAW THIS GUY I'D BEEN TEXTING AT A STORE AND THEN I SAW HIM LATER AT THE RALLY#AND THIR=TY SECONDS BEFORE THE RALLY ENDED I TEXTED HIM SAYING I SAW HIM#AND HE MADE DIRECT EYE CONTACT WITH ME RIGHT WHEN EVERYONE STARTED LEAVING#IT WAS SO FUNNY. i am seeing him in SO many places and we haven't even hung out yet#also hope the guy that i recced måneskin liked it i didn't do one of their best songs but hopefully thats cool#i just did baby said bc i was gonna do read your diary but thought it'd be too much in hindsight i'd DEFFO do kool kids#IN ANY CASEEEE. idk what to do now just text my gf i guess
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hell day today and i'm only two hours into my EIGHT HOUR SHIFT
#9 to 5 by dolly parton starts playing in the background..#literally had to open up shop alone 2day and also was entirely alone for the first 45 min. of my shift so that was already a negative start#to the day + i heard that i can't have my break later than two thirty which is very bad for me bc 1) there'll be a lot of ppl all around me#when i'm eating which i already dislike and 2) like 85% of ppl taking their break around that time are VERY noisy eaters so even worse and#then 3) it'll be really loud in the room as well bc everyone's talking loudly and eating and the cutlery's clanging against plates and such#and also some ppl have actual full-blown arguments with each other in the break room bc half the ppl here hate each other's guts so more#negatives to the day and then on top of that we've had sooooo many annoying customers already today who r just. intent on making u stressed#out and upset and literally will tell u to your face to 'do your job better' like bro...i can easily tell you haven't worked in retail....#also someone hung their clothes on the rack outside the fitting rooms which is where u hang ur clothes when you're DONE fitting them & don'#want them bc they don't fit or don't sit right or u just don't rlly like them after all so if clothes are hanging there we the ppl working#there WILL take them and hang them back in their original places what did u expect to happen?? anyway someone hung the clothes they had#tried on already and did want there and i reached out to take them bc like. that's what we do here..we hang the clothes on the 'discard#rack' back in the store bc else the rack gets stuffed and the woman literally grabbed my arm and said 'those are mine what do u think you'r#doing' LIKE?????? GIRL THE RACK'S THERE FOR A REASONNNN ofc i'm going to assume u don't want them anymore if they're hanging there that's#why it's called the DISCARD rack....also how am i to know those specific clothes are yours HONESTLYYYYYY STFU AND GET OFF ME#ALSO some dude was like (to his child but like. looking at me while he said it.) 'this guy needs a haircut doesn't he' bc my hair is kinda#long and apparently i passed today. LIKE 1st of all kind of a rude thing to say to a stranger innit 2nd of all setting a great example to#your child there just casually commenting on other ppl's looks like that👍 3rd of all jokes on you you wouldn't consider me a guy if#you Knew most likely. thanks for that little zing of glee much obliged <3 but also man just piss off will you. 4th of all my hair isn't eve#that long....like the ends of it are just shy of my shoulders wdym LONG if u knew the long-haired guys i know you'd faint.#anyway. great start of the day. i still have six more hours to go 🥴#ALSO no surprise this always happens but my legs already hurt SOOOOOOOO BADDDDDD :(((((((((((#r.txt
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Trying to keep up w/a friend who wants to hang out for a long period of time and can't seem to grasp that you are running low on social energy is so haaaard =w=
#ink thinks#'oh we can just watch some movies' u dont understand i need my space!! when im done im done im sorry TwT#plus i haven't rlly hung out with this friend for a while so its. oof!
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#just had a great friend date with a guy (cishet guy at that!) and we spent over 3hs talking#and he asked (!!!)if he can hug me afterwards. like. my standards are low but damn am I amazed#haven't hung out with a new person in a while so this fills me with glee#walked the city center like five times over. got a non alco drink in a korean cafe of all places#nice nice. this evening was nice :3#personall
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today is proof that you can in fact have platonic soulmates!!
#or at least thats something I very heavily believe in lol#hrhehag it was!! just really nice to dick around with the bestie in the mall for a bit!!#we haven't properly hung out in a while and#wuah!! i didn't even care at that point that we didn't get to see the fnaf movie lol
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YOURE BACK !!! I missed you on my dash :(((
YEAH :D literally only for tonight tbh i have more plans with friends tomorrow (im missing a sapnap stream 😭😭😭) and then Saturday and sunday too but after that i should be back for good ^-^
#we haven't hung out in a while and thought it'd be a good idea to just go out and do a lot of stuff so yeah#we're going to the mall tomorrow and then we're gonna do a movie night thing !! and idk what the plan for sat & sun is#but im expecting to be out for most of the day and i dont wanna be distracted by stuff here etc etc#ask#anonymous
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listening to adventure time songs... I never actually watched it bc I didn't have a way to watch it as a 12 year old in germany which is when I somehow stumbled upon the songs on youtube and me and my one friend (crush before I realized I could get crushes on girls) were sooo into the songs and would write them on each others arms... I miss her :'(
#we're still kiiiiiiind of friends? like we didn't fight or anything and we'll still wave at each other and talk if we see each other#but we haven't really talked and/or hung out in years and I MISS HER we were such good friends#one of the best friends I've ever had tbh and I just never made new friends while she's constantly posting on ig#about her friend group that's constantly hanging out and doing cool things..#and I'm just here like haha remember when we were 12 and besties... and I never moved on from then and wish nothing had ever changed? :^)#would it be weird to text her 'Listening to Oh Fiona from Adventure Time and thinking of you and missing you and feeling sad'#yes it would be so I'm not doing it </3#doddie redet#ANYWAYS good night 🌃
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one of these days my friend, her boyfriend, some of their friends and me are going to go gathering plants and herbs to cook/eat, so that i can teach my friend because she never has before
we're also bringing all of our dogs probably :3
it's almost summer so there's not a lot to gather in the area we live in, but it's okay, we're still going to have fun
she also mentioned that she wants to have a picnic, so maybe if we find fruit where we go we can have fresh fruit and i'm making tea with fresh mint and lemon from my garden and she mentioned making one of her mom's recipes for a cuban dish, her boyfriend and one of his friends are also cooking something since they are both cooks :3
i get to talk about plants and nature and how to treat it with responsibility, while spending time with friends and getting to know new people (some of which, like me, are queer), can't wait :3
I don't know if I should bring one of my books about plants, I probably will
(my friend and me also plan on buying matching dresses to wear out that day, since we work in the same place and cute sundresses have just arrived...the one i want is black with little red roses stamped all over it, it has buttons on the front part and it's synced at the waist, it's sleeveless and the seams of the straps are frilly, while the one she wants in light blue with pink flowers, in the same cut but shorter cause she is short eheheh)
#friends#gathering plants#picnic#one of their friends is really cute#ive known them forever#like actually#she was born eleven months before me and our parents were friends#so their mom always encouraged her to play with me when our parents met to hang out#then my family moved and we didn't see eachother until highschool#where we were in the same class and often we sat together#i see them once in a while cause she comes shopping where i work#but we haven't hung out in a while :(#so i'm haply to see her again#but i'm just being gay and sappy about them now lol#i've had a crush since we were in our third year of highschool#even if they're older she was kept behind one year in middle school#so we were classmates#if i don't see them for a while i kinda forget#then#i see her again#and the butterflies come back to life lol#that day i'm probably going to die#or i'll embarass myself so hard that i'm still going to die#i want to scream#they kind of remind me of the stereotypical jock look but she's actually a big nerd#which is good#i am a nerd
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