#but tumblr suggested due to the autism

[callibones]

rat mason

[am-i-the-asshole-official]

WIBTA if I gently suggested to my stepmother to get my stepbrother screened for autism?

Im extremely torn. I want to help my stepbrother but I don’t want to invade his privacy.

I have a stepbrother who has been struggling with mental health for a long time. He’s been diagnosed with ADHD. His stepmother talks to me about his issues relatively often due to me having multiple mental illnesses, so she sees my advice and sharing my experiences as helpful. She’s incredibly accepting, open, and not prejudiced about mental illness, but she is greatly concerned about him.

Me, my partner, and my sister (who is a doctor) are all pretty sure he’s autistic. He has a lot of trouble controlling the volume of his voice, says ‘inappropriate’ things, has intense interests, trouble with motivation, etc.

i want him to get the right help and accommodations, and i can see the adhd meds are not helping. should i bring it up to her as a possibility, or stay out of it? or should i maybe just suggest he gets re-screened in general? tangentially, is his mom invading his privacy by talking about his mental health to me?

like i said, im torn. i really don’t want to be TA. pls help tumblr!!

What are these acronyms?

[waywardsculs-a2]

This place is a ℂ𝕀ℝℂ𝕌𝕊,

you just see the surface They cover shit under the rug

You can't see they're 𝔽𝔸𝕂𝕀ℕ𝔾,

they'll never be naked

Just fill your drink with tonic gin,

this is the American dream

Hey yo what's up you filthy fucking sinners welcome to my little multimuse blog for Vivziepop's HAZBIN HOTEL and HELLUVA BOSS , featuring characters like VELVETTE , LILITH and FIZZAROLLI .

That said, I go by Ritsu, She/Her or They/Them, 30, Australian and just generally tryna chill. You can find my rules below.

OTHER BLOGS

@constellaris ( multifandom multimuse, sideblog ) @harmonysheart ( robin from honkai star rail, sideblog )

AFFILIATED WITH: @bittcnneck , @hellshoard , @cxncrie , @ochtendster / @dageraadster , @sinfuldxgenerates ♥

Header & Promo Credit. || Pinned Credit. Dash Icon Credit. || Icon Template Credit. MDNI & 18+ Warning Credit. || Divider Credit.

IMPORTANT NOTE : if you ship adam with charlie, for both of us, it would be best you do not follow me if you don't intend to tag it. i'm sorry, but it makes me so vehemently uncomfortable that i just would prefer to keep my distance.

Keep the setting of the show in mind when looking to interact. Not all muses will be friendly or even remotely nice. Don't take it personally.

I'll be as canon divergent as I feel like. Let's face it, the second we take up writing a character we're making shit that ain't ever gonna be canon. Let's just have fun.

Muse ≠ Mun. Shouldn't have to say this, but I will anyway. Some muses might be assholes, but I try not to be. You're free to come talk to me any time, I'm usually just tired lmao.

I will not be following any pre-conceived relationships with OCs unless specifically discussed prior to interaction. For example, one of my OCs (Ambriel) has her main story tied to Velvette, being that she works for her, however this only applies to my Velvette. I will not push this on any others who write Velvette, and I expect the same in return.

I am very into shipping. Our muses should kiss. Bang. Fuck around. You know what it is. I'm a ship hoe and I don't care.

NSFW content may be present. I'll make sure it's tagged as #nsfw cw or #suggestive cw for easy blocking if you guys need it, but don't be surprised if it shows up from time to time. You shouldn't be, not with the nature of the show.

Mutuals only. Meaning you need to be following this blog and be followed in return from my main blog for us to count as mutuals. If you are using a hub blog, please have your blog(s) linked somewhere so I know who you are. Otherwise I block personals on sight.

Due to personal reasons, I will only ever touch on angst threads / content in general with people I feel I can trust immensely. Please do not push me for this. I may also post occasional ideas, but I will be very picky about who I explore these with.

Every ship is in its own verse and completely separate from one another. There will never be any form of infidelity occurring on this blog in any way. To expand on this, I also will not partake in any polyships or any situations where my muse has more than one romantic or sexual partner.

I never try to hide the fact that I do struggle with my mental health a lot, and I cannot stress enough that I need any and all of my partners to be understanding with it. I have been formally diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder, General Anxiety Disorder, Social Anxiety Disorder, Major Depressive Disorder and Autism Spectrum Disorder. All of this is by no means an excuse in any way for anything, I simply hope this may help explain some of my behaviour at times.

I have a life away from Tumblr. I won't always be around to write replies or chat. That's how life is. I work, I have responsibilities, and those take priority.

I don't do passwords/pass phrases. If I follow you, it's safe to assume I've read your rules. I always do before following anyone.

I'm not here for drama. I know you see this everywhere, but I'll be real - I barely have the spoons to live lately. I just wanna vibe and enjoy a hobby, not take part in any bullshit. Leave me out of things unless it's absolutely imperative I know about something.

No art on this blog is mine unless I openly state otherwise. The usual. Let's leave it at that babes.

Ships I Will Not Write / Do Not Like

I will not be elaborating on why I dislike them or won't write them. These are simply things I've found I really don't like and, if possible, would prefer tagged so I can simply block them.

AdamsApple (Adam/Lucifer), Velmilla (Velvette/Carmilla), Charlastor/Radiobelle (Alastor/Charlie), Valentino/Angel Dust, Adam/Charlie, Valentino/Charlie

[that-stickfig-phoenix]

"Hey. I'm Phoenix. One of Pomni and Ragatha's kids, and now also C!Caine and Pomni's kid! All of Jax's kids are my cousins, too. I have an amazing and beautiful fiancè, and her name is @hyalos-the-glass-botanist. I'm also the adoptive father of @lilytadc, @caicey-the-caeracaprae, @soldiergoesbonkers, @the-eepy-child, @puppetboysam, @energy-drink-anon and @comfort-anon. I'm also being haunted by a ghost named Ayre (@ask-ayre-the-ghost)."

(Modspeak looks like this)

*Actions and descriptions look like this*

Internal dialogue looks like this

"Speech looks like this"

˗ˏˋ༻ʚ✧ɞ༺ˎˊ˗ Blog Rules ˗ˏˋ༻ʚ✧ɞ༺ˎˊ-

✧˖° RP °˖✧

☆ No NSFW

☆ Please don’t talk about (without permission):

        ✦ Suicide

        ✦ Self Harm

        ✦ Animal Death

        ✦ Animal Abuse

        ✦ Religion (Not a trigger, just a personal preference)

        ✦ Child Abuse

        ✦ Child Death

☆ DO NOT pressure me into things.

☆DO NOT try to control my OCs.

☆ NO NSFW. I may not be a minor, but that does not make it okay.

☆ Nothing hateful

✧˖° Asks °˖✧

☆ Nothing sexual. Suggestive jokes are okay if it’s not directed at the mod or a character that is a minor.

☆ Again, nothing hateful

☆ Just because you’re anonymous does not mean I cannot block you. Do not come into my inbox and spam.

☆ PLEASE don’t send me walls of text.

Blog rules design is by @rainidaz3

Here are the people I interact with the most (Make sure to check out their blogs!):

@strawberrys-alt / Strawberry

@patchwork-the-fox / Patchwork/Mari

@showtime-in-the-carnival / C!Caine and Pomni

@the-carnival-rabbit / C!Jax

@yejehehe4746 / Cool Anon (Cool)

@littleladylav / Lav

@xxmoonduskxx / Sleepy Anon (Sleepy)

@fluffyr0cky / Fluffy

@anonymousclownn / Clown Anon (Clown)

@soft-sweet-bun / Flip!Jax (Bun)

@lilytadc / Lily

@noahhasbeensummoned / Noah

@ask-the-wurm / Clover

@codebreaker-0 / Codebreaker

@nurbo-the-dragon / Nurbo

@ask-bubble-anything / Bubble

@charlie-channel / Charlie Channel

@pastels-bedazzled-brass-knuckles / Pastel

@the-annoying-juniper / Juniper

I'm 18 (My birthday is October 15th)

I live in the Carnival AU with my adoptive parents, @showtime-in-the-carnival I love you two (/p)

I've got bright orange eyes that actually glow slightly, meaning I can see in the dark!

My hair is also bright orange!

I'm half-abstraction! I'm immune to glitching and can glitch myself to dash forward! I can also understand binary!

I apparently have glowing wings now, so that's cool!

I have a prosthetic right arm, which I've made myself.

I can also speak, read, and write both Nordic Runes and Greek!

(Mod: @single-celled-autism

Tumblr family: @a-p0lythe1sm-sea-l10n (Little brother), @ask-the-rcp-crew (Nibling)

Alt: @phoenix-parentfriend-alt

PFP is by @courtjesterrr! Massive shoutout to them for the amazing art!

Voice Claim: Badgerclops from Mao Mao

When Phoenix is panicking or in grave danger, this music is what I imagine plays over the situation [Timestamp at 1:28]:

Audio file with the exact excerpt coming soon.

I live in Australia, so my blogs, answers, and reblogs will all be at an ungodly hour for many in this RP. Just a heads up.)

(Quick reminder due to past events:

Guys, there are real people behind these blogs. We may be separate from our characters, but that does not mean we cannot be affected by what people send to them.

If what you want to send conflicts with any of the boundaries set in our pinned posts, then don't send them. Those boundaries are there for a reason, and the people that don't know when to stop are the reason they are there in the first place.

Do not pin the blame on something like insomnia, autism, ADHD, bipolar, or any of that. YOU are responsible for what you send, and YOU need to know when to stop.

If you do this kind of thing on the regular, do not be surprised when people block you and tell other blogs about you so they can block you. You are actively making this site a worse place for communities like us, and you have no place in our little corner of the internet.

So either clean up your act, or you can fuck right off.

This is Mod SCA, signing off.)

[krtart]

Writing Blind & Visually Impaired Characters

A while back, someone asked me if I could share some of the resources I use. I figured maybe other people might find it useful as well! ^_^ Due to computer switches I could only trawl through the last ~5 years of research, but it’s still a fair collection.

(Obligatory disclaimer: I am not visually impaired! I just try to listen to people who are. The vast majority of these are written by and/or for people with visual impairments.)

.

Vocab

American Printing House key definitions — Wayback machine

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Blogs, posts, essays, and speeches by folk with visual impairments

General sites:

Mimzy Writing Online (masterpost for writing blind characters) — Wayback machine

Where’s Your Dog — Wayback machine

Albinism Up Close — Wayback machine

Specific posts:

Why blindfolding yourself is misleading:

NFB member John Pere’s video & transcript — Wayback machine

Graduate researcher Arielle Silverman’s video & transcript — Wayback machine

Blind physician — Wayback machine

Missing eye / monocular vision — Wayback machine

Driving with albinism — Wayback machine (chronological series of posts, next post link is at the bottom)

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Posts of unknown/mixed authorship

Writing blind characters (tumblr thread) — Wayback machine

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Sighted guidance

How to Be a Sighted Guide by Vision Loss Resources — Wayback machine

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Long cane use

Care and Feeding of the White Cane: Instructions in Cane Travel for Blind People by Thomas Bickford, hosted on the NFB website — Wayback machine

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Orientation and Mobility

This is the term for specific training around navigating the world with a visual impairment. It will be a useful search term for you.

Additionally, I have purchased the O&M training course Step By Step that was published by the American Printing House. The actual video training modules are incredibly clunky to navigate through, and personally I’ve never had the patience. I’m also not comfortable redistributing their whole product like that.

But… the pdf study guides from the program are useful on their own, and those I will share! (Especially since they used to be available for free on the APH website. >_>;)

These are from the second edition.

O&M Training study guides (Internet Archive access)

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Careers

American Printing House career connect — Wayback machine

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Cooking

NFB: Suggestions for the Blind Cook — Wayback machine

APH: Safe Cooking Techniques — Wayback machine

BBC: Article about a blind Master Chef contestant — Wayback machine

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Visualization tools

For remnant sight and color blindness.

Visual acuity simulator — Wayback machine (icons at the top switch between vision charts & illustrative photos, bar at the bottom adjusts acuity)

Color blindness simulator — Wayback machine

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Thinking about disability

These aren’t specifically about visual impairment, and include other physical disabilities as well as autism.

But they’re important voices to hear, and can be useful for framing your understanding and general approach.

"Don't Mourn For Us" by Jim Sinclair — Wayback machine

“Confessions of a Bitter Cripple" by Elizabeth Barnes — Wayback machine

"If you can do X, why can't you do Y?" by Mel Baggs — Wayback machine

People can adapt to and accommodate for more than you might think (tumblr thread) — Wayback machine

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And finally, some related tags on my personal blog: Disability | Disability rights | Writing resources: disability | Accessibility

[pearlykissxoxo]

♡Welcome to My Online Journal♡

I previously had a couple of blogs but I decided to delete them because I got overwhelmed and bored of them. However, I knew I was gonna miss having a Tumblr so I decided to remake one into a blog where I just do whatever I want.

♡Introduction to Me♡

•My name is Kiara, but I also go by Kiran or Kallisto. In any other case though, you can just call me Pearly.

•I use She/He/They + Neopronouns. I am genderfluid and xenogender, as well as alterhuman(Therian, Fictionkin, etc).

•I have AuDHD(Autism + ADHD)

•I’m a huge fan of Alternative and J-Fashion, especially Scene and Jirai Kei. Some aesthetics that I adore are cutecore, mcbling, morute & 2020s Tiktok Alt.

•I primarily speak English, but know basic Spanish and am slowly learning Japanese

•I have a crap ton of ocs and may or may not occasionally use this as a way to catalogue them. If all else fails, I’ll just make a separate blog for them, but who knows?

♡Before You Interact♡

•I will do my best to to not direct too much attention to things like religion or politics, but on the off chance that I do, it’s likely to give my take on a serious issue. I will be sure to give content warnings for when this happens.

•I generally suffer from mental health issues, and may use this as a way to journal some of my thoughts. I’ll refrain from getting too extreme with it, but if you otherwise don’t want to put up with that, I wouldn’t suggest interacting with this blog.

•This blog isn’t suggested for anyone under 16 due to the aforementioned topics.

♡Do Not Interact List♡

DO NOT INTERACT WITH ME IF YOU ARE ANY OF THE FOLLOWING:

•Proshippers

•MAPs/Zoos/Necros

•Homophobes

•Transphobes

•Anti-Xenogender/Neopronouns

•Anti-Therian/Otherkin

•Zionists

•N_zi

•Islamophobes

•Antisemetics

•Political/Religious Extremists

•Right-Wing Conservatives

•Supporters of any of the above.

If there’s anything else I should be aware of, please do let me know!

Other than that, hopefully you enjoy your stay!

♡Other Socials + Pronouns Page♡

[thescribblings]

Welcome to my blog! Where i mainly post about my future leo; Orion! (Even though that's a nickname, lol)

I also have a future donnie design, who has been named (with the very generous help of @sinestrosmind) Akari! Or Aki for short :]

(I have a patreon if you're interested)

So, due to some unfortunate events, i am currently unemployed and struggling financially. I can't pay rent and due to mental illness, including cptsd, i am not currently able to get a job. As of right now, i am lucky enough to get to stay with a friend of a friend for free until i can start paying rent, the savings i have are just enough to keep me fed for a few months, tops. I hate to bring this to my own safe space, but the reality of the situation is that i need help. If you can and are interested, then please join my patreon. Anything would be infinitely appreciated, and that includes just sharing or liking this post. Have an amazing day, you beautiful creatures<3

As a patron, you get to see what I'm working on! I post wips, abandoned projects, and occasional writing, you also get to suggest my next piece or a prompt (although i can't promise that it'll catch my eye!), if I'm not sure what to draw next i might make a post and let you help me decide, you can make requests but I'm very driven by what personally interests me when i draw, basically I'm not able to draw something that i don't enjoy drawing. I also might just be burnt out, as i get burnout periods rather often

In the future i hope I'll post short comics that i myself draw, and gifs, animatics, anything really :] i just want to create, but i only started seriously learning to draw about a year ago, so it'll take a while before i do the things i need actual patience for lmao <3

I also occasionally post some Semi-Feral Polaroids content! It's a lovely shared AU @so-called-yokai and i put together where Orion and their gorgeous oc Eshra are romantically involved :]

I'm rather socially awkward due to ADHD, Autism, and social anxiety, so i can't promise that I'll respond to comments

Just know that i appreciate it a whole lot when you take time out of your day to tell me something!

I'm new to Tumblr ( I have only had it since the summer of 2023 ish). So bear with me as i learn how to use it!

I will post here very rarely (i can disappear for like 6 months at a time, that is a promise) but the rise fandom has motivated me to get better and draw again (hyperfixations go brr)

(i basically only draw Orion and Eshra but y'know-) oh, and i don't fuck with t-cest, that's nasty. I'm also not very invested in ships other than Semi-Feral Polaroids, so don't expect that from me

I made my own au a while back! I'm still fleshing it out and all, but i named it "slightly feral future leo (with ghosts)" or "sffl(wg)" for short. It's a very self indulgent "peepaw ended up in the past for no specific reason" au and it doesn't really have much plot yet, but i just like drawing cute turtle scenarios (a lot of the Leo's snoozing since they deserve a nap) or sometimes I'll draw some angst, (I'm very into angst, but I'm bad at drawing it lol)

Keep in mind that I've been very inspired by other creators and their au's when i created this one, most of it is cherry picked from others creations but i still like it. Even if some very well thought out and emotional concepts have been plucked and haphazardly shoved into my mess of an au, i just want to avoid as much confusion as possible by writing this long ass post ngl

I've decided to let people ask me things now. However, if you have any art requests whatsoever, just know that i only draw when I'm inspired and really, REALLY feel like it! I do still appreciate asks about my au if you're interested, though! (Art requests that i don't draw or can't draw might be saved for later and drawn in the future, btw. though it's not guaranteed)

If you couldn't already tell, i write a lot! I love describing things and telling some stories with drawings, so be prepared for some wordy and long ass posts, lol!

I also have a uh, rather neglected side blog (@a-variety-of-scribbles), it consists of literally anything except my scribblings

Now, have an amazing day you wonderful creature! (whatever you may be)

❤️ 🧡 💛 💚 💙 🩵 💜 🤎

[myinnerartist]

Meet The Artist & Blog Introductory!

Hi there, welcome to my blog! 👋

My name is Loading-Artist, but you can call me Load! I hope you enjoy what this blog has to offer!

A bit about this blog;

This blog is one of my many side blogs. This one is specifically tailor-made for My Inner Demons, where I'll be reblogging other people's MID related posts & art, and where I'll be posting about My Overhaul/Reimagining of MID!

You can find the MASTERLIST to my Overhaul/Reimagining here! -> [...link isn't ready yet...]

Rules for this blog;

Jumping right into it, starting off with more of a WARNING;

My Overhaul/Reimagining puts a more serious-toned spin on MID, and therefore explores heavier topics/tones that may be uncomfortable for some individuals.

(I will ensure that any posts regarding these heavier topics/tones are tagged appropriately and are spoilered however!)

There also might be some posts that may be suggestive, but nothing explicit! (They will also be tagged appropriately and spoilered)

!THIS IS A NSFW-FREE BLOG!

!!Pls do not Repost my art!! (!!Especially anywhere else!!)

I do not consent to my art being posted anywhere else or reposted at all. If you wish to use my art for pfps or other things, please ask for my permission! If you use my art without permission or repost it, you will be reported and blocked!

!!!DO NOT USE MY ART FOR/IN AI!!! (!!I DO NOT CONSENT TO MY ART BEING USED FOR/IN AI!! Feeding AI with peoples art is a horrible thing to do, especially doing it without the artist's permission! DON'T DO IT.)

This goes for using my characters &/or art for Character!AI, too.

!Reblogs are appreciated!

!Fanart is super duper appreciated! However, i BEG OF YOU, PLEASE, do not draw NSFW of my characters! My characters mean the world to me, and therefore, seeing them drawn in such ways make me extremely uncomfortable.

Rules for Asks;

As long as you're being polite and respect my boundaries, don't be afraid to ask me anything!

!!DO NOT SEND ME ANY NSFW ASKS!! (or DMs for that matter…) your ask will be deleted, and you will be blocked.

!Questions about my Overhaul/Reimagining of MID are encouraged and appreciated!

I'm open to requests right now as long as they are related to MID or my Overhaul.

!My Request Status may change from time to time whether they're closed or opened up to accepting requests for other things not just related to MID. Like your own OCs! (I'll make a proper section for Requests in this post when i'm ready)

A little bit about me!;

My Pronouns;

He||They||She (I'm fine with any pronouns but prefer he/him!)

My Birthday;

August 15th! 🎉🥞

Other bits n’ pieces;

My Fav color; Purple! & my fav color combo is ironically Blue/Purple/Pink… along with the accent Honey Gold 💛✨️

My Fav Aesthetic is ✨️🔮Stars🔮✨️

I have ADHD & Autism, and I'm AroAce! (Heavy emphasis on Ace) I'm also an Artist…

That means I'm an A’A’A’A’A!

• MY POWER GROWS,

MUAHAHAHA!

Important Info;

Pls forgive me if it takes me a while to respond or at all to your DMs or asks! I have really bad social anxiety, so talking to new people I'm unfamiliar with can be really difficult! I'm also really forgetful…

I'm also going through a really rough time in life right now, so I may be busy and/or may be on small-hiatuses. I apologize! 🙇

Tumblr is where I mainly post, I'm debating on Twitter… and I downright refuse Instagram! I will NEVER post to Instagram or even make an account!

If you want to check out any of my other art or projects, then here's the link to my main art blog! [Insert link]

(Oh? Where's the link? Uh… my art blog isn't ready yet. But when it is, I'll link it!)

I don't do commissions due to several reasons; most being personal. But hopefully, one day in the future, when I'm ready.

Are you interested in a place to hangout that's made for any and all MID fans? To connect with others with similar interests? To share your theories, headcanons, ships, and even your own rewrites?

(Said place where you'll get your own two designated channels for your art and writing within the Artist Alley? (If you want them ofc, just ask!))

Well you're in luck! Let me introduce to you;

We hope you enjoy your stay if you choose to join! ^^

[realcatboy]

Hello, my name is Calico! I'm an autistic labelfucked cat therian. I'm the host of an endogenic collective and I'm on the objectum spectrum! I'm also a reality shifter so I'll probably post about that. This blog isn't really for anything specific, I treat Tumblr like a personal diary. I'm here to be silly and have fun so expect lots of yapping :3 I'm accepting of all good faith identities (yes, even some transids), and I consider myself an ex proship anti ^_^

Don't interact

Follow your own dni. ed/sh blogs, nsfw/kink blogs, post predominantly suggestive content, pro-c harmful para, queer/system exclusionists, anti shifters, antishippers

Disclaimers

I have a tendency to be very anxious. Additionally, I get overwhelmed very easily due to my autism. I do my best to keep myself in check but sometimes this means I can't respond to your messages right away. I am never ignoring you

I block very liberally. I try to curate my online experience as much as possible

Our collective list will remain private but if you don't recognise the poster you can always ask the them for their info!

[transkeiichi]

Pinned Post

I guess I'll make one of these... hello to the 4 people who follow me <3

I'm Logan, a 27yr old genderqueer trans man. He/him. Bisexual.

I like anime, cosplaying & sewing in general, DND, my horrible little gremlin cat D.Va, and some fandoms I'm gonna mention a lil further down

If I follow you and you read this, my only tagging request for anyone I follow is to tag sn*kes. If you have a special system for tagging triggers or animals or whatever, I will blacklist whatever you use. If you do not, I blacklist pretty much any possible way I can get my blacklist to keep it off my dash. *Note: I only censored the word here because I don't want this to be in the tags somehow, or for the stupid suggested blogs algorithm to suggest me a billion blogs about them. Is this paranoid? Absolutely, but I'm doing it anyway.

Other blogs:

Cosplay

➤hikkikoumori-cosplay

➤I also post all my cosplay on instagram @/hikkikoumori

The Adventure Zone / Mcelroys / DND

➤autisticangus

➤I do not reblog Mcelroys or any DND to my main blog

System blog

➤soundscapesystem

I like being open about my mental health struggles. Tumblr has always been a place I allow myself to be open about these since I spend so much time IRL trying to seem normal. I say this because there are negative stereotypes of those who list their illnesses in their bio, but I've decided I don't give a shit 👍

➤Dissociative Identity Disorder

➤Autism

➤ADHD

➤Narcissistic Personality Disorder

➤Bipolar Type 1

I also "kin for fun" or whatever we're calling it now:

➤Bro Strider

➤Junkrat

➤Keiichi Maebara

➤Dirk Strider

Fandoms you might see me post + #tags:

➤Overwatch + #ovw

➤Homestuck + #hs

➤Cardcaptor Sakura + #ccs

➤Other CLAMP works +#clamp

➤Higurashi When They Cry + #higu

➤Rena Ryuugu specifically + #she!!!

➤KeiRena + #they!!!

➤Zombie Land Saga + #zls

➤House MD + hmd

➤House of Leaves + hol

Other tags:

➤My posts + #logan.txt

➤Bats + #bats!!!

➤Dogs + #dogs!!!

➤My partner <3 + #ray tag

➤Narcissist posts + npd tag

I don't like DNIs, so instead here's some things that might make me fit your DNI:

➤Pro-fiction. Human beings and fictional characters are different. If you ask me if I'm "pro-ship or anti-ship" I would say pro-ship.

➤Transandrophobia is real. I've heard all the excuses to not use this word and to use a different word, but I think they're stupid.

➤Identities that seem contradictory, make no sense to me, or seemingly don't fit my understanding of that identities definition aren't for me, and therefore it doesn't fucking matter if I get it or not. Identities are for the person doing the identifying. You can do whatever you want forever.

➤As a DID system, I try not to interact with syscourse. I have personal opinions about endogenic systems that I don't really discuss publicly. I don't hate endo systems, but I do typically avoid them. I may overlook it in some situations, like if its rarely blogged about, because this avoidance is due to not wanting so many posts about endos on my dash rather than a dislike for the actual person behind the blog. My opinions are more nuanced than "valid or not valid" and I don't care to get into it any deeper than that with a complete stranger.

[wanderingandfound]

Me making something not about me about me in an incredibly annoying and self-centered way.

My bookclub is reading Αce by Αngela Chen and I'm so nervous to read it. The person who pitched it did so as "I try to make everyone to read this book to get them to consider IDing as ace" and sure enough over the past few weeks my two friends in this book club who didn't ID as ace before have sent messages in the Discord saying this book has made them reconsider.

If I wanted to pretend I wasn't being reactive I could try comparing it to people talking about getting songs stuck in your head being a symptom of autism (or was it ADHD?). But the truth is what I'm overly sensitive about is the sentiment I've seen here on Tumblr a few times that if you were really allo (-romantic or -sexual) you would have had romantic/sexual relationships by the time you're an adult. That saying you've been busy with school or whatever is just an excuse, because plenty of really busy people find time for relationships like this.

And like, I'm sorry, I've got some major issues! With executive dysfunction, with trust, with health, and with energy. If I was dating someone I wouldn't even have a place to take them back to. I am 28 and all I've ever done is kiss one (1) person on one (1) day and like, this is a sore spot for me! I want more! But like, even though I know people value me as a friend, I am still incredibly slow at making friends and haven't done so since I left school. And I don't know in the same, bone-deep, inherent way that people could value me as a romantic and sexual partner (and for me those two things are one in the same and I can't extricate them to have a romantic relationship with someone not into me sexually, or have a sexual relationship with someone who isn't interested in romance) due to my trust and body image issues and lack of practice (I was such a sobbing mess my junior or senior year of high school when I actually let myself believe and accept that the people who had been my friends for years were actually my friends, and not only did that strengthen my friendship with them but it allowed me to be more open and trusting in college and on Tumblr).

Anyways I don't read much nonfiction but what I have read suggests that my fears about this book are unfounded. Everyone says it's a good enlightening read. And my third friend in the bookclub, who is ace, wasn't the one who pitched the book but did deeply recommend it and I trust her. She has never once suggested to me that the reason I've been single my entire life is that I'm not actually attracted to people in that way.

What I'm upset about is a few tumblr posts. Not this book. This book is probably fine.

[just-a-we1rd0]

Some things about me

(updated)

Important information desc

I am a multi-fandom artist here on tumblr, I mainly post fanart and ocs. (and sometimes random yapping)

Diagnosed general anxiety, social anxiety, depression, and anger issues.

Self diagnosed hypersexuality

Potentially have autism, ADHD, and OCD.

Fandoms I'm in: Fnaf, Arcane, Scott pilgrim, Wof, hazbin hotel, helluva boss, TOH, Amphibia, a shit ton more. (just ask)

I may post suggestive/violent/generally disturbing content, it will be marked tho.

Art trades: Open

Art requests: Open

Minor

bisexual, aroflux,

I have a low sense of gender due to being autistic, I dont identify with anything specific (somewhere between female and nothing)

Reblog account: @justgay-idk

also my other reblog account won’t let me sign into it so I’m not gonna use it but @just-a-gay-p3rs0n

[bouquetshark]

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[frozenpoppies]

Hi! I don't really know how to write one of these so bear with me. You can use any pronouns you'd like, it doesn't really matter too much for me, though I usually just stick with she/her, You can call me Elle (not my real name for obvious reasons), and I write under the pseudonym Mockingbird on AO3 (link below).

Primary ship: Tombur

Also, I am not very consistent with checking my Tumblr (once every two or three days) so don't worry if it takes a while to respond to anything. It is also worth noting that I make a lot of autism jokes, don't worry, I am autistic and would never use jokes like that otherwise. I am also chronically ill, so my stories are not updated or posted in any sort of schedule due to fatigue or time in the hospital.

Another reason I might be gone is because of religious reasons. I am a Hellenistic Pagan and regularly have celebrations or rituals that rely on certain time frames. Also, I love answering questions about Paganism and would be more than happy to inform anyone if they have any questions :)

Lastly, this is a safe space!!!! I will always approach a situation politely and unaggressively. However, I will not hesitate to ban, block, and gnaw on anyone if they are racist, homophobic, xenophobic, trump supporters, or anything else that puts someone in the "terrible person" category. Rule of thumb: you can have a different opinion, but you can not put someone below you for that opinion.

Here is a link to my Ao3 account! Feel free to leave suggestions in my suggestions book, I would love to hear from you guys :)

(Tell me if I linked it wrong I am horrible with computers lol)ao3

[spookfished]

sept+ oct media roundup

hi again :3 this month in september i was really busy with school so busy that i didnt make a media post for a whole month!!!! lol and also ive been getting back into FINAL FANTASY XIV: ENDWALKER grind lmfaooo so i wasnt really on that #mediagrind as much as i could be… but i still have some things to talk about :3 by sakshis (@.lilquill) suggestion, im also talking a bit about the music ive been listening to! this is also being crossposted onto my extremely barebones neocities

books/comics:

paladins strength by t kingfisher: m/m romance about a coroner and another former paladin! still psrt of the saint of steel series. i thought it was, once again really charming and grounded! also it involves a death room and i love those. the authors idea of 'these two characters are hiding something from each other' feels a little bit more contrived this time on pipers end, but i still had fun :3

home comforts: the art and science of keeping house by cheryl mendelson: nonfiction instructional manual on how to do various homemaking activities: cleaning, laundry, cooking, etc. ok ngl i got this book bc a book i was reading about 27/7 service..? was like "if you have never cared about housekeeping before this ones pretty useful." bc of various life and medical issues, the house i grew up in never really cared much about this kind of thing, except for cooking and self sufficiency. home comfort was written by a full time lawyer who was raised w the idea that she would grow up to be a stay at home wife, which i think is pretty interesting! it manages not to fall into tradwife ideas (imo?) by reframing these tasks as like.. a cyclical, rhythmic kind of self care that serve to make your home feel more safe and cozy. kind of like the marie kondo idea that folding all your clothes by hand puts like intent into your them; not practical for everybody, but sometimes a nice idea! also has a bunch of practical stuff, much of which is not particularly useful if you live in a college dorm. this book made me make my bed more often lol. i wish it had an updated section about tech (especially cord management)

the maid by nita prose (dnf): thriller about a (strongly autistic coded) maid who gets caught up in a murder at her hotel. i dont know i feel like i could have powered through this, but the way that the maids autism, and the way she interprets situations vs how the audience interprets situations is either played for pathos or laughs (its sometimes hard to tell which) rubbed me the wrong way. her life just… sucks? so bad? i feel like other people reading it may find some validating representation, and the voice is certainly interesting and brisk.

lolita by nabokov: doesnt really need much of an introduction. not going to lie, i read this bc i like nabokov but also to silently feel superior to all of the discourse girlies on tumblr. i did enjoy it though! in a way, at least? it's definitely a novel that can only be taken in small bites. i feel like a lot of the wordplay went over my head, and i'm not sure how much of that is due to me not knowing french and how much of it is due to the english language evolving so much after publication (and how much of it is just my own lack of knowledge. close reading is not really one of my strongest suits) . i was relieved to find that people call it funny, because it honestly was at some points. its really interesting when people can balance revulsion and humor and sick fascination, but that ratio is a pretty personal thing

she who became the sun by shelley parker chan: a retelling of the rebellion against the yuan dynasty, except the future ming emperor is a woman instead; part 1 of a duology. i really liked it! i liked the idea of like ummm sort of the two genders being Agency and No Agency. i thought baoxiang was pretty great love a fruity queerbaiting bureaucrat. thought it was pretty interesting that he continually tried to assert the importance of his own work and also worked really hard despite the fact that approval was obvioiusly never going to happen--so was it really that kind of futile endeavor, or for other ends….?! ooh so mystrious very excited to see him feature more in the second book. (spoilers for the book) some scenes that especially stood out were actually with some of the side characters! such as the mayors wife :3 the climactic scene with ouyang and esen was very delicious

he who drowned the world by shelley parker chan: sequel to she who became the sun! zhu yuanzhang has clawed her way up to her very own army and the yuans power has been destabilized, but everyone else is still racing for the crown. dude. i liked this book so freaking much. sooooo freaking cool it expands on a lot of the ideas and i also liked the development of the yingzi/yuanzhang relationship. additionally it managed to display the kind of like. trans horniness that (DISCLAIMER: I DONT FUCK) i dont really see in a lot of published books.. pretty cool! reminded me of when i went to a burlesque show and saw a woman (medical horror cwwww?) stick a needle through her hand lol. fantastically well balanced cast. do you think about the EROTICISM OF VIOLENCE? and GENDER ROLES? please read this book it made me so stressed. i really believe that at the end of the book baoxiang becomes a stay at home prisoner war

an unkindness of ghosts by rivers solomon: scifi about "exploring the conjunction between structural racism and generation ships" where medic aster uncovers a grand conspiracy! i thought the world building was reallyyy fun ship that has Been Voyaging Forever is an old and good trope, and this book goes hey but class and race will still exist though. to the point of like um recreating plantation dynamics i think? very anti utopian in a way i enjoyed. the mix of advanced scifi stuff and also having no resources was interesting :3 i liked giselle and theo a lot, and pretty much all the supporting (+sympathetic) characters besides aster? who took a lot longer for me to warm up to--shes definitely given a lot of nuance and life, but i think overly literal autistic/coded characters are a bit cringe..? im sure it meant a lot to someone (esp having a black autistic char?) just not me personally. oh but i really enjoyed the difference in voice between all the povs they were really distinct and fun. also aster and giselles rship! i think it would have been nice to have more intense moments, but thats also a personal preference for dramatics kind of thing--a lot gets glossed over in a 'past trauma' kind of way.. neil is right that i mostly have been reading books that blast you though lol. i really liked the scene at the end though like wow.. returning to the earth.. that was really good honestly. the stuff about archives and memory keeping was interesting --there was definitely like a thread through but i wouldn't have caught it w/out leo mentioning it. something about multiple interpretations..? something about history being passed from person to person rather than through physical means….?? its a strong debut i think :3 felt kinda movielike in an interesting way. rlly wish theyd went into The Gender more although i guess it mostly wasnt about that yeah and i wish the ending had more to do w like. her doctor stuff lmfao it was a little disconnected

video games:

13 sentinels: 13 teens intertwined stories come together in a story about love, mechs, and every scifi trope in the universe. also, the past and the future! the background art is sooo gorgeous i think my usual attention span for visual novels was increased significantly just by being able to walk around while dialogue was playing… if you have a low tolerance for heterosexual "pair the spares" type behavior, this may not be for you--i really liked some of the romances though, like with fuyusaka and sekigahara.. i liked the themes of like. idk you can try to relive the past, but all itll do is stall you from moving forward--we can examine past mistakes but we cant ever get a 'redo.' alsooo people were haters about the battle segments but i played it all on hard and really enjoyed it. tbh anyways would recommend!

boyfriend dungeon: dungeon crawler where you can date your weapons. well i 100%d this (except for the whip) but for all of the gameplay bits i was mostly thinking "man i wish i was playing hades". probably not a fair comparison, but it does lack some polish in that department, and overall. all the same, i enjoyed this game! it has a nice soundtrack and art, and i thought some of the love interests were pretty charming :3 also appreciated the flexibility in love routes. it really got a bad rap from the stalker plot huh…pretty solid game and worth playing if the initial concept grabs you. i did borrow neils copy though

hades: after beating bf dungeon i immediately redownloaded hades lmfao. sooo good theres not a lot to say about it. still havent managed to beat the final boss even after all this time bc im too stubborn to turn on godmode >:T

dave the diver: casual sort of dungeon crawler, except instead of killling monsters you catch fish for your sushi restaurant, which you also run. dave the diver stacks on a bunch of mechanics in a way thats… surprisingly manageable? and really charming honestly. im having a lot of fun with it :3 a few awkward boss fights that werent really that fun (and stealth segments..my enemy) havent gotten in the way of like all the rest of it i loooove exploring the ocean and finding new ways to get fish and all of the gorgeous pixel art and also the FALL GUYS GUY is doing the OST. this game is blowing up a little bit rn but honestly for good reason. such a good gameplay loop that also adds in variety over time

manga:

hirayasumi: slice of life about a part-timer working in tokyo who inherits an old womans house--its all about slowing down and enjoying the pace of life--and also how hard that actually is. dude hirayasumi is sooo fucking good im always trying to get people to read this manga i think its adorable and also beautiful and bittersweet. its about growing out of your 20s and the friends around you who are moving up or moving on or even just stuck in place. super awesome

ao no flag: romance coming of age w lgbt themes. a timid high school girl is trying to work up the courage to confess to her crush, and enlists the help of her crush's childhood friend to do it. the mixed-up shenanigans of adolescence ensue. man you know i really love the art for this manga (faces and expressions! so good!) and i think all the characters are really compelling! the trio just have such a cute dynamic and like all of the waffling over feelings honestly feels real. the ending was really disappointing though honestly. still worth a read imo but prepare to be mad. ok here is my longer rant about it (spoilers) ughhh ok its like. initially i thought masumi getting a boyfriend was SO fucking disappointing. especially given that she kinda got the least focus out of the main 4? some reddit comments were like "maybe her boyfriend is trans" but i think that something like that would be……….really complicated honestly? and something that id really want to have explored more outside of just a singular epilogue chapter? and i dont think the implications were that strong there. and given that it would have been good to see more indications that they were actually happy together bc its like the first thing you think when you see her is "oh, she gave up" WHICH IS SO FUCKING DEPRESSING AUGH and she never even confessed to futaba :| futaba and taichi breaking up makes a lot of sense and im like, whatever not really going to object to that esp bc the whole theme is like youthful love. but then on the SAME SIDE OF THE COIN its like it makes no sense for taichi and touma to get together either then!!!!!!!!!!!!! like what a copout. it kinda breaks the whole original premise. AND it feels like its just (whats that word thats like playing to? favoring?) fujos reading the comic and all those ppl are like the girl should DIE for getting in the way of my two gayboys. and aslo the convo with kensuke and the other girls and especially that other guy really felt like i was reading a reddit thread. or like some of the most frustrating conversations that ive had and overheard. like hmm i sort of get what it was trying to say. and i agree that peoples frustration and idea of whats 'right' usually isnt the best rhetoric.. and above all sometimes youre not focusing on your ideas of correctness Or proper rhetoric but having an honest and open communication? but its likeeee well i kinda dont care? sorry

nana: coming of ageish? nana, a flighty girl who's quick to fall in love, and nana, a tough rocker trying to make it big in the city, coincidentally become roommates, and become fast friends despite their disparate lives/personalities. this one is one of the classics! i still havent finished it yet (its also unfinished) but idk i really like it. always fond of flop women like hachi lmfao. the older art style did take a bit to get used to for me

i want to hold aono kun so bad i could die: horror manga about a high school girl who gets her first boyfriend--who then dies only a couple days afterwards. yuki kariya is willing to do anything to make sure aono stays with her, even letting her possess her body. but should the dead and the living really be so closely intertwined? ok the art in the first couple volumes may be a little offputting but this is REALLY good ok. and it has some really chilling panels that i love a lot. aono kun begins with the pretty classic "awkward loner girl x popular boy", but it quickly starts getting into ideas about like…. purity and "the filthiness of desire" and stuff like that. recently has been getting more into why the characters are the way they are? in some uh, really chilling and realistic depictions of abuse within a family. check the cws but mr chainsaw man recommended this manga so you should read it too.

movies/tv:

skibidi toilet: humor/action webseries?? ok so its about this war between the skibidis and the cameraheads, which escalates in technology over time as the cameraheads bring in other objecthead allies and the skibidis grow stronger. me and neil and alena watched all compiled 40 minutes of this in a straight shot, which was kind of like frying our brains in a microwave. kind of like those stickfight videos for a cocomelon generation, the relentless pacing will suck you in kinda like…. a skibidi toilet…. really well made imo but probably only worth watching if you really like cool fights and/or gmod

the shining: prestige? slash? horror a father and his family take care of a hotel only to find out things are FUCKED.. i really didnt know what this was about besides the here's johnny scene before i watched it :3 pretty crazy it really just is a good movie. sucks that the filming was so terrible though

fight club: ok so to me this movie is about colelctive action and gay people. like they had so many people mobilized for radical action and whatever and all they did was blow up a bank. LAME! anyways i really liked it a lot despite the everything. ive been entering my film bro era with neil i hope we watch pulp fiction next <3

music:

this is a couple albums ive been listening to over the past couple months!

THE CLOD(瓦合) by no party for cao dong: taiwanese post rock. im a big fan of this band so i listened to a bunch of the album tracks as they released!! like the first album, each track flows together into a coherent whole, and it retains the upbeat despondency from the servile. however, it feels like theyve also been more willing to branch out musically! especially with tracks like damn and daydream. overall, the album has a grittier, grungier feeling as well. also i know more chinese so i can sing along a bit now :3 (also, their lyric translations are always so good?) a few highlight tracks for me are lie (床) and the human the hole and the mountain. (人洞山).

CRAWLER by idles: british "crankwave", whatever that means. idles is also a band that i really like :3 sometimes i try and listen to other things in its genre and im like well…. this isnt idles though… sorry.. i like things that are the same forever…. i listen to this music a lot when im cleaning haha. it has such a feeling of overwhelm and tearing through rock bottom thats very satisfying! crawling hurts but it works for me and so on. with crawler and the clod both, every time i listen i have a couple favorite new tracks but rn i like the end and progress.

UMURANGI GENERATION OST primarily by adolf nomura: jungle music for a photography-based game (umurangi means "red sky" in te reo). i mostly end up listening to the tutorial + mauao view tracks. well….. i have a huge jungle music bias. unfortunately. but i think a lot of this music really captures the sort of "flow" feeling that you get when working on something creative! this game has an incredible sense of atmosphere i would really recommend checking it out. highlight tracks are swears in ps1 and BEAT THE POLICE

SCALES by king isis: indie pop. i saw them perform live at a concert this august!! so freaking cool :3 to me has all of the self indulgent sadness and rich vocals of an early mitski track but ALSO is an ''indie gem''' (this is their debut album). songs are fun to sing along to :3 my favorite songs from her are 4 leaf clover and im fine thx for asking! but apparently their new mv has sexy vampires in it so maybe go check it out?

as always if you read (or skimmed) to the end, thanks :3

[thrandilf]

really trying to figure out where my fandom and writing and interests lie on the scale of like, neurotypical people have interests too vs perhaps a hyperfixation

like I do think NT ppl get strong interests and even mayhaps obsessions. I do think NT ppl write fanfic and strongly enjoy things and I feel a little irked when it seems to me that people assume that anybody who really likes something has ADHD and/or autism like just being into a thing is a diagnosis

but also, is it not normal for people to do stuff like write fanfic, theorize, get super hyped for their shows/books/games/ect? few people are more passionate than sports fans who have lifetime loves of sports teams, wear merch everywhere, go to every game, ect. so then looking at someone who really likes video games or what have you, at what point does "I passionately love this and think about it on the daily" become a hyperfixation?

reading up on it, I'm still lost. NT people can talk about their interests for hours too, but some articles seem to suggest that it's a hyperfixation if someone is just not capable of saving their interest talk for when others are interested. Are you any less interested if you have a filter, though? Idk

I guess I'm like. Fandom/tumblr has a ton of ND ppl in it, but there's also like a lowkey vibe that if you're really into fandom you must be ND and I just don't think that can be possible, but like, is it? idk

for ref, I got told I meet some ADHD criteria but had too much anxiety for a therapist to make a concrete diagnosis due to and I never got a follow up so I'm not NT and I'm just trying to figure out what my interest level/expression is