#but sexually also obviously

[agathabridgerton]

BRIDGERTON 1.05 | "The Duke and I" 3.03 | "Forces of Nature"

[day-mark]

good morning thinking about the way dream loves and how he describes his friendships in an almost romantic manner and how that is very special to me

i love how while he can make comparisons to "traditional dynamics", brother, father, etc. he also doesn't shy away from using descriptors that i think most would interpret as romantic.

i feel like most people would hear the phrases "more than a friend", "-you've been my partner ever since", "you have a place in my heart" and even dream consistently referring to sapnap and george as his "soulmates" would have someone assume it's about a significant other without context. dream using such romantic terms for his friendships is very special and almost inspirational to me in a way?

it just makes me think about how he views his own sexuality and even marriage, idk something about how it's not about the label or tradition or what is commonly accepted, but about the relationship itself, how you personally view it, and what it means to you is something that resonates a lot with me

+ <3

[briankang]

'tay do u say that just bc YOURE bisexual and also a libra?' well it helps but also that man talks about tom hardy and other large beefy men in a way i simply can never ignore or pretend is straight in any capacity

[enbysiriusblack]

marlene sneaks into the marauder's dorm to steal their clothes (butch marlene with a trad mum fr) and leaves her skirts and dresses and shit in place of what she takes.

cue marauders casually wearing school skirts on weekdays and puffy blouses and on weekends they've got miniskirts and summer dresses and strappy heels, etc.

[disco-cola]

POV: this is what my life should’ve looked like but I was born 30 years too late (I made this for my future therapist to visually elaborate) (jk) (or am I)

[dead-inside-demiboy]

Okay, in kinda a reference to my last post on the topic, I am curious about the experience of other aces, since I dont know many sex positive ace-specs irl.

[wolfertinger]

Salem conviniently never tags who is fronting when he posts.

whats funny. is that he does. but these other alters, so rarely front. which is awfully convenient, for salem.

i find it odd. he claims these alters, all enjoy drawing, and have their own styles, found under, the #headmate art tag. yet. these styles of drawing, and speaking, are identic to his own. they also all praise him, (despite salem in the past, having shown extreme aggression and violence, toward these "headmates", that salem borderline, treats as ocs.) and ensure, everyone around him knows, "he is such a popular, and loved bun".

normally. i do not like to scrutinize, someones dissociative symptoms. however. salem, with his stories about "re educating" his racist alter. puppy, somehow "was killed" by haters, then came back but avoided salem, then disappeared again, then appeared but only to "merge" with salem and become one, then despite that last bit, appeared again as their own entity. with 2 different fursonas. again salem not being able to make up his mind, about his own alters.

what is ironic as well. is that he seems to have split puppy, into 2. he has "heather". and he has, "cj". it just seems like a further attempt, to force himself away from his past. exclusively forcing "heather" and "cj", to take the blame, in guilt tripping and half-assed apologies. that mean nothing, when all it is doing, is further pushing any blame away, from salem himself. despite the fact, systems are supposed to work as one. not, blame everything on a "bad" alter. which is now what he has done, to heather, cj, and andi/revvy/adonis/kyu.

bonus. of salem not even bothering to remember his supposed beloved alter's, name. as well as, him conveniently memoryholing, all of the awful things he did, as puppy. yet, somehow, in depth remembering, all of her trauma, and wanting to benefit, from the sympathy of it.

[aroaessidhe]

2024 reads / storygraph

Bury Your Gays

Horror

a scriptwriter in hollywood who’s getting attention & an Oscar nom after working in the industry for years, but is being pressured by algorithm-obsessed producers to kill off the queer characters in the season finale of the show he writes

and when he starts getting stalked by the monsters he wrote (based on traumas of his past) he has to figure out how to survive, along with his best friend and boyfriend

[laundryandtaxes]

A few months ago, I think I experienced for the first time having a straight male coworker almost certainly have a crush on me, and he never once made a pass at me or said anything even vaguely inappropriate and instead it just meant that he'd pretty much do whatever I asked of him despite not being immediate coworkers/team members. And frankly, I thought it was really based and womenpilled that he was able to socially categorize me as a woman easily enough for the possibility to exist, because while I don't think it's categorically bad or a failure of other people when they clearly don't sort me that way, it is honestly pretty uncommon even for people with whom I interact daily to actually (in thoughts, expectations, group and interpersonal dynamics, what they share with me, etc) sort me that way.

[i-love-proselfshippers]

The biggest shoutouts to selfshippers with f/os who mostly have ship content made of them. If it’s hard to look for solo content of your f/o because everything is shipping, remember that you know them better than anyone else. You do not need to feel obligated to ship something or headcanon a character the same way that a lot of people do. They love you!!! Their love for you and your love for them is what matters the most. Do not ever allow other people’s opinions to sway you into abandoning a selfship that’s important to you.

[jaegerisim]

I'm writing the most common headcanons. If you have your own tell me in the tags! Reblogs are appreciated 👍

[a-flaming-idiot]

The Fun, Reasonable Side Of My Brain: "Ravage is trans and also evil!"

The Stupid Lore-Loving Part Of My Brain: "WHAT DOES IT EVEN MEAN TO BE TRANS AS A CYBERTRONIAN?!?!?"

[ecos-syscourse]

we find the idea that nondisordered = endogenic and CDD = traumagenic rlly stupid and close Tumblr in pure disappointment every single time we see it

[romanceyourdemons]

saw a video of a middle school percussion class playing crazy train on the xylophones which absolutely rules, but someone in the comments was saying “this is what kids should be learning in school instead of gender.” sir have you SEEN the metal stars of 70s and 80s?? you could probably learn more about gender nonconformity and drag from glam rock and heavy metal bands than you would in a middle school history class that dedicates half a lecture to stonewall or a middle school health class that dedicates half a lecture to gender and sexuality. i certainly know i did