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throwback to when i did this and he took me along with him to check out a place to get his hair cut (his hair was the only characteristic i found really good looking about him)
#also it was the place his ex had taken him#but like thats fine obv#just#kind of a funny story to me#anyway he started trying to schedule an appointment but the stylist was like yeah do you wanna cut it right now#and i told my date like dude you can do it rn if you wanna#we have a long luch break today#anyway it didn't suck but it did make him look like an 80s accountant#which is very my dad core#so uh#but anyway he kinda ghosted after a while#running theory is it's bc he realised i wasnt gonna makeout w him or whatever#which imo is clear if you have a lunch date
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Girl what did Arthur do in the legends
He got Morgana pregnant with baby Mordred
#arthur pendragon#morgana#morgan le fay#mordred#arthuriana#asks#it has only recently occured to me that there are probably people in the bbc merlin fandom that don't know arthuriana#which is totally fine it had just never occurred to me before bc ive been so fascinated with them for like a decade#it kinda explains why i was always so lost when people are like 'this bbc merlin thing is problematic i cant believe it'#and im sitting there like what this whole shebang starts off with uther killing a guy who's wife he wants to bang#and then merlin uses magic to disguise himself as the dead husband (gorlois) so the wife (igraine) doesnt know the difference#and thats how baby arthur is conceived#like these guys are FUCKED UP lmao#although i guess that isnt the TRUE start of the legends since theres some about baby merlin being the antichrist but they baptised him#so he's fine now. just got sickass magic powers but now he uses them for 'good'#and kid merlin dishing out prophecies to uther's predecessor vortigern to help him build a castle#but arthur's conception is the start of the main shit obvs#good god i infodumped in these tags damn i havent had my arthurian nerd cells activated in a BIT so thanks op#and also sorry to be the bearer of fucked up news to you
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for no reason other than I don't see this point being discussed: if you are of the mind that people should curate their own space, ignore what they're not into and mind their own business (a good practice to have online), that also means it is incredibly unfair and immature to throw shade at people who do make the effort to stay in their lane
"but why are you at the ___ store if you're repulsed by ___" One you are not owed an explanation for why someone is not into something, just as they aren't owed your explanation for why you are into that thing. and Two, just because the thing they like might have text/subtext about a subject they don't like, that doesn't mean they should be forced to center their interest on that specific subject.
of course it's uncool to go after people for exploring anything in fiction, especially if that is a major theme of the work. however most pieces of fiction tend to be about several things. maybe they would rather focus on other themes, maybe it's just the specific way it is treated in a certain context that sets them off. hell maybe they would rather imagine a version of that work where That Subject is not a part of the story at all. but that's as much their right to do in their own free time as it is for you to get into the darker parts of a story.
idk i hope the point i'm getting across here is it goes both ways. you do you, but you're not entitled to other people's space if they don't want to engage with that. that doesn't make them "cowards", they are doing exactly what you told them to do.
#reiterating that i'm not bringing this up bc of any specific fandom/person#i just see so many posts that extoll the virtues of Don't Like Don't Read#but not one about a recurring backlash i've seen where those same people go 'wah they blocked me. Weaklings'#like if you enjoy Transgressive subjects thats fine! but you are going to experience Transgression* and you gotta be cool about that#*(Transgression meaning 'its probably going to make you very niche' not 'literal harassment' obv)
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I find it a bit concerning why there's people in the fandom that write Frank Morrison as a rapist just because he's a "bad boy" type of person
#and i say this as a SA survivor#i know some people prefer to write dark content and thats totally fine#but please learn how to tag properly#even still its a bit weird how normalised it is brand Frank and some other certain killers as rapists#like i know they're obv murderers and stalkers but that doesn't make them rapists???#dead by daylight#dead by daylight x reader#frank morrison#frank morrison x reader#the legion#the legion x reader
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halpp im playing this game and ig theres like 2 gamemodes. and in the original one you r always a man but im playing the other newer one (which is harder mainlybc the wiki is entirely focused around the other one skull) and im a woman (bc u get to make yr own character). and one small thang that ig they didnt fully think abt is that i got my husband pregnant
#WE DID IT ! MEDIEVAL POLISH MPREG !#its a fun game tho i think its still early access? medieval dynasty if anyone was interested#it semiscratches my itch for a like. town builder where you also know the individual residents and can talk to them and like watch them gro#over time and have families andALso you get to build the town#the social stuff isnt that robust rly but yk. i gets it#in my dream world there exists a very very boring game where each resident has like a defined personality and you can like.have unique#interactions w them. and also you can make a town#but thats probably impossible bc i dont want it 2 be like. Characters per se#well like. how do explain#id be fine if it was characters but id want them to like. age and eventually die and like. in my minds eye this thing goes for ages like.#maybe it passes on to an heir or maybe. oooo itd be fun if u were just like. an immortal thang who jsut decided to hang out in this village#or wtvr. but ya. but itd be like. yk...#in my ideal world you could also be a little matchmaker and influence their decisions but obv thatd be a bit of an issue 4 like. youd have#to have a lott of flexibility and stuff. itd be difficult. so.#basically idt itll ever be made but itis like my dream
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not to be a milennial but harry potter and the prisoner of azkaban really is that bitch....
#mom wanted to rewatch the movies so we've been going thru them <3#talk about a movie thats just like. grief. i turn into the jamie lee curtis halloween trauma supercut#SORRY..... the visuals are peak like that IS the hp vibe to ME and i am BLOWN AWAY this movie was made in 2004 it feels ahead of its time#the first two are so whimsical and magical enrapturing and this movie is like. a well worn cardigan. this feels 2011 cozycore to me#sorry but the introduction of lupin becoming a comforting trusted guardian type of figure AND the dementors representing hollow depression#this 13 yr old whos been kept in the dark on so many things being extra vulnerable prey to them bc of the severe trauma#but getting lessons on how to withstand that creeping dread.. through happy memories... still bonding w lupin increasngly ouagh...#the grief between them both over james and lily. also btw ofc defense against the dark arts being fighting yr fears through laughter. aaaaaa#and then sirius. black. im. i know we meme on the twelve years of it! in azkaban! but as a bitch whos now closer to those characters in age#and can appreciate and understand them obv more than i could when i was. a tween. that just hits like ok shit. VALID#so valid and real to see the child of your friends you knew at that age but who DIED and then see the friend who betrayed them#to see like the best of BOTH of them mirrored and living on in him and be like yknow what???? you WILL be protected frm that same fate#hoooo the briefest moment where harry might hope things will turn out okay. w sirius' name being cleared and peter having to explain himself#and sirius being like hey i get it if you want to stay w your family that is fine but. if you wanna move in w me...#(harry relaying this to hermione later as well. dreaming of a place fr just the two of them somewhere in the countryside#somewhere..... sirius might see the sky..... bc he thinks he would like that after all those years locked up do not even touch me rn.......)#only fr everything to turn to shit two friends fighting w deadly force. the chance to set this right slipping off into the night.#a million dementors descending relentlessly until utter exhaustion and certain death. some strange salvation? fight for a second chance?#but then still havign to say goodbye when they only just GOT this. and everything still being so. god. and lupin having to leave as well.#the thought of sirius also WANTING that guardian type connection but being forced to live in 1. a cave barely living more freely than before#2. then being confined to the stuffy somber abusive home he ran away from as a teen w that portrait still up there and everything.. bitch...#oh man the way i KNOW when we get to ootp (my favourite) its gonna leave me blasted into a million little pieces#the way i know shit like the knowing wink the entirety of the wall tapestry room scene and of course nice one james is gonna DESTROY me..#dont even talk to me abt that dark turn at the end of gof and how everything after gets soooo. god. w everything just getting destroyed and.#i cant even think abt it i cant even talk about it. wah#i dont care btw that they aged those guys up undermining how insanely young these people died. perfect casting fr the remaining marauders ok
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can i say something. i hate how online communists talk about Screwing Over Your Job. like are we forgetting all your coworkers are in the same sinking boat as you. your shitty little floor manager too. i dont believe in licking corporate boots but we have a responsibility to like, Other People still ??? am i insane
#obv like stealing from your job or whatevs is like Okay thats fine who cares but like.. Help me.#gone fishing
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bruce and dick got some emotional incest going on
hmmm not sure i quite agree anon! i can see where that might be the case, as even i tend to harp on those co-dependency these two display sometimes, but i don't think emotional incest is what is going on there. for those that do not know what this term means, emotional incest is when a parent or primary caregiver begins to rely on their child like they would a partner for their emotional needs. it does not involve any sexual or physical intimacy, as that would be sexual abuse. while i do think what bruce and dick shared was something close to toxic, it was also how they in general functioned? idk that doesn't make sense. i'll put it like this- bruce never thought to rely on dick for emotional needs. in fact, i would argue he tried not to rely on anyone for his emotional well being, and this is what causes most of the divides and troubles in his life. however, dick being a naturally perceptive person, recognized how closed off bruce is/was, and took it upon himself to try and get bruce to open up more and be emotionally present instead of constantly shutting down and shoving people away. the whole "child of an alcoholic" sums it up neatly, imo, bc bruce never intentionally relied on or even asked for dick to help solve his problems. a lot of the bumps in their relationship came from the fact that he felt dick was getting too close or wanted to help bruce too much, which not only frightened bruce but i think also made him aware of how much he couldn't do without the help of dick pointing things out to him
emotional incest isn't quite the right term to describe them, imo, and i think when you get into a space where ppl are constantly talking about it and implying that sort of thing, it's easy to be convinced that that is what they have. it's important, however, to also look at how bruce and dick are doing currently/in the past current canon/past the batman and robin dynamic. one of the long-term affects of being in an emotionally incestuous relationship is being unable to set boundaries or even recognize what a normal relationship with others is like, and with the added context of this being a superhero/vigilante world, i would argue that they are both doing just fine without each other. obviously we have to account for the sheer number of times they've been in life or death situations and whatnot, but i think dick functions quite well on his own and with the others in his life, and bruce does, too. both are mentally ill, i think, but they are also coping pretty well imo
#they def do have the unbreakable tie that binds but i dont think thats stopping either of them from#living out their lives and setting boundaries when need be#idk how many times dick has moved or run away when shit hits the fan with bruce or anyone else#so hes obvs fine setting that kind of hard line (which isnt healthy rlly but its better than no boundaries)#just as well- bruce and dick understand each other in a way others just cant and that mainly has to do with#their common circumstances- the imbalance there being that one was a child and the other their guardian but thats comics for you#am i making sense? i have other posts that explain their relationship better#but like i said- i think child of an alcoholic fits better than any kind of label like emotional incest#ask#anon#ask game
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#putting this is the tags bc its like. not that serious#i just keep seeing people speculating about how this will lead to buddie and thats fine! thats all good#but personally i just want this to be a nice relationship for buck! obvs we know its not gonna last long but i just kinda wanna appreciate#it on its own#so if im not engaging with content about how this will 'lead' to buddie thats why#i just want to appreciate this on its own!#still very aboard the buddie ship dont worry#atlas.txt#911 spoilers
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thinking of caving and listening to vows and vengeance and watching absolution
#honestly wasnt bc i was like meh. i will go in not knowing as thats how ive been doing#it worked fine for dao obvs and what i need for dai i learned from the first two#but im curious about these old new characters [new old characters?] and itching for davrin content soooooo#and when i heard there was bellara shit ... how can i not#but i also am eh a bout podcasts and i dont wanna be spoiled TOO much#... hrm#grapecase plays dragon age#maybe just absolution ....
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Me, walking out of the cinema after watching Frozen Empire: Well that was terrible and forgettable and disappointing and I didn't like it at all.
Me, over a month later: I have LITERALLY not thought of anything but Phoebe and Melody and the other silly little characters in this film for like five weeks straight it's becoming a slight problem- What? Oh yeah, I didn't like the film at all. anyway here's my Checkmatch playlist and all the fanfic I've read-
#I genuinely do not understand how this has happened#I have thought about the characters CHRONICALLY for weeks now I DONT GET IT#like when I say I didn't like the film I MEAN it I really really didn't#it was a bad film#it was a terrible ghostbusters franchise installation (in my opinion obv. I get people liked it and ofc that's fine)#and you should've seen my face during 80% of it#BUT DESPITE THAT#DESPITE FUCKING THAT#my brain has decided to absolutely fixate on these goddamn characters and their relationships and their lives because like#film was bad but the characters were banging 😭#I absolutely adore the original two films but I didn't even fixate on them as much as I have with this one#Seriously what the fuck happened I'm being serious this is concerning 😭😭#like I genuinely love the characters I really do and I think that's probably why#I thought this about afterlife tbh#like I remember thinking about it for a surprising amount of time after because the characters were cool#like this one tho. bad asf film I disliked it a lot#banging characters tho. again.#like wtf#girl wtf is this#HOW is this happening#Ghostbusters#ghostbusters frozen empire#ghostbusters afterlife#Phoebe Spengler#melody ghostbusters#checkmatch#I blame checkmatch actually#I think that's what set if off lmao#having a sapphic relationship to absolutely fixate on because I see so little of it in the media that the second it's implied I'm like#'oh my GOD LOOK THEYRE LIKE ME THATS AMAZING AAA'
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trying to look for fandom character analysis content or at least JOKES and GIFS in a fandom that's literally 95% y/n fanfics/prompts or thirsting after the same 3 characters is literally worse than being trapped in hell I DONT CARE IF HES A SUB OR DOM IF U DONT ANALYZE THEIR PLATONIC RELATIONSHIPS RIGHT NOW SOMEBODY IS GETTING THE BULLET 🔫🔫
#yes “be the change you want to see in a fandom” but at a certain point they're beyond hope#also i wasnt really invested anyway i was just curious lmao some shows are not made for fandoms to exist#but thank god the bob's burgers fandom is normal. i dont mind selfshipping really but when its EVERY fanwork in the fandom its like#so u guys dont even want to interact with other fans of the show huh. you're just doing your own weird thing in the corner of this website#which is FINE.#i mostly see fischoeder selfshipping in the bob's burgers fandom which is whatever there isnt enough of it#for it to become annoying or the only thing anybody sees#not a lot of bob selfshipping surprisingly but i think thats bcuz he's already in a relationship and obvs none of the kids#so i guess fischoeder is the natural fuckboy of the show. sad how teddy is overlooked#it's okay. the gay community LOVES him <3#txt
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not to be cheesy but i actually love all those asexual in-jokes like dragons and cake and space and what not. like its literally so fun and silly whats the problem. did garlic bread push ur mom off a cliff or something
#obvs if ur going to far and using it as like a stereotype or gatekeeping etc thats not cool#but i feel like having a couple light hearted in jokes is fine#esp since the ace community is still developing and people need that sense of community. being aspec can be so isolating sometimes#asexual#ace#ash rambles
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can someone geniunely explain to me why people dont like tumblr premium besides its tumblr begging for money? i was in the trenches liveblogging mcr concerts i've hit post limit before and let me tell you 250 posts are not enough to go insane over gerard way outfits. i didnt know there was a like limit but its nice to have that boosted too. there is geniunely no loss here other than you're giving money to tumblr
#me.txt#someone PLEASE explain why ppl are upset i geniunely dont get it#i think its fine#obv its giving money to tumblr. and if u dont want to give money to tumblr then thats ur perogative i dont want to either#but like. why are u pressed abt the post/like limits being boosted ?
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just saw the MOST despicable comment under a TAYLOR SWIFT edit of Perry and Doof
#what if perry wanted doof as a father figure????????? I SURE HOPE NOT THATD MAKE THEIR DYNAMIC SO FUCKING WEIRD#kalec.txt#ok fun fact this was in my drafts for a few days bc the comment SHOOK me to my core#ive seen like. human perry aus w that dynamic and thats fine and good bc human perry always changes the dynamic a lil#so it makes sense if their human perry is significantly younger if not an actual teen/child lik obv#but in the show perrys just a Grown adult Man where could you ever see this#pnf
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its so embarassing likee. going to talk abt a feeling you have but you already know ppl will be like Oh that sounds like depression lol and its like. well yes . i know . trust me i am so aware i am depressed . but its still like a thing ive been thinking abt and wanting to talk abt but ik itll just be like Ok hun 👍. idk idk what response i would want tho ig FNFNFNF
#not anything serious i was just thinking how like. idk. this is gonna sound rly stupid#but for me personally like. sometimes. How do i phrase this without sounding rly evil#i think obv ppl can spend their money however they want but like. its kind of hard 4 me to grasp sometimes like. there r things that ppl#spend a lot of money on bc it makes them happy like umm. vacations or pets or hobbies or whathaveyou. and obviously thats fine but#i iust feel like its all so. temporary and like. idk. idt im ohrasing this right at all i just likee. the thought of working all year to#afford to take a vacation and then working again to afford another vacation just makes me feel like i want to die. like. idk... i like#vacations we dont need to go on them a lot but ig its just like. everything we do just feels like a waste of time. not in like a Ohh you#should be doing more work Obviously its just like. idk. maybe it is just me. but i feel like im just waiting until i die and can be done#with it i guess. and everything i do is just to fill time until that happens. yk ? which is silly bc of my whole. Thing i cant talk abt#but ppl talk abt like. going out and partying or going on vacation or whatever and i like. I like those things its nice when they happen#but they dont rly make me longterm any happier i guess. everything just feels like another thing im doing. idk. this rly isnt coming out the#way it is in my head. and Again i know this is just depression shit or whatever im just like. its all exhausting. it just makes me feel so#tired. to think abt working and working and working so i can pay to be alive and i can save to do one fun thing every so often to keep me#sane enough to keep working and working and working and i probably wont ever be able to retire itll just be. work. and then ill die. yk.#but i feel like the vacations and stuff dont like. refresh me very much. maybe its just bc ive only been on one 'vacation' as an adult and#it was just like. coming home to see my family. and realizing id have to move back home yk..#+ like. my mom nd my gran taking me out for a weekend when i lived up there#nd those things were nice and all but once its over its like. it doesnt fuel me to keep going it doesnt make me feel any better abt having#to work for the rest of my life#ik im being ridiculous bc im literally unemployed and i cant even get up off my ass to get my stupid fucking ged so i can get a job and be#Useful to my family its just like. idk.... i try so hard to be like Oh nothing mayters and thats why everything matters type thing like. Yes#all things end and the point is to just try to be happy until it does#but i feel like it just doesnt happen for me. i feel like any happiness i feel is so insanely like. it happens and then its gone. and its#back to just. the knowledge that im still fucking stuck here. and i will be until it happens. yk. i play video games tomoass the time until#i go back to sleep then i wake up and i make a spreadsheet to pass the time until i go back to sleep#and everyday just feels like passing the time until i go back to sleep and itll just keep going until it happens. and its nice to have nice#days but whats like. the point. yk. everything just ends#IDK. this is all very whiny im sry. ive just been feeling it a lot lately . i hope this doesnt feel like me being like Ohhh you ppl r so#dumb participating in hobbies and going out and having fun dont you know yr gonna DIE? thats not what im trying to be like#its just like. i feel like it doesnt make me as happy as it does other ppl like. none of it refreshes me or makes me want to keep going
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