#but i'm so tired of it

[yandere-sins]

You know, the really frustrating thing about regularly receiving requests with compliant darlings is that it makes me not want to write anything remotely close to it...

There are so many alternatives like drugged darlings, stockholm syndrom, compliancy out of fear, compliancy out of desperation, etc. All of those would be absolutely a-okay for me and I'd really like to write them again (because I know I did a lot of them in the past) but I had to put up the hard boundary of not writing compliant darlings because there was such an overwhelming surge for them, so now I'm stuck on defiant darlings because it's the safest choice to not fall into compliant darlings category and get called out for it (even if the ones I listed above are still far from "darling is okay with everything the yan does and is just happy to be with them").

Once again, the lesson is to just delete and move on from things, but this is your quaterly reminder to ✨ spice up ✨ your darlings. At least for my sake ;;

[dreadlockholiday]

mentally i'm ill

[kiwi2229]

Being around people always helped me with anxiety. Not it became the source. And I have no idea how to deal with it.

[rosantha-tindall]

I'm so tired of all the pornbots. It is quite literally a daily job to block them all after they follow me. If I don't, I'll have dozens by the end of the week.

I'm just...

So tired.

[lgbtlunaverse]

The world exists in such a baffling state of simultaneous sex-aversion and sex-hegemony. Every social platform on the internet is trying to banish sex workers to the shadow realm but I can't post a tweet without at least two bots replying P U S S Y I N B I O. People are self-censoring sex to seggs and $3× but every other ad you see is still filled with half-naked women. Rightwingers want queer people arrested for so much as existing in the same postal code as a child and are also drumming up a moral panic about how teenage boys aren't getting laid enough. I feel like I'm losing my mind.

[solpoogaa]

Their adventures are deadly, but they deserve a moment of peace from time to time.

Thank you so much for so many responses to my previous posts, I read everything you write to my art, your words warm my heart

[archibaldtuttle]

[dramatic-dolphin]

"'boys will be boys' should mean-" why are you obsessed with this phrase. why does it have to mean anything. why can't we just get rid of it.

[tyanis]

Kinda feel like there's some untapped meme/reaction image potential from old horror movie trailers...

[satturn]

star by mitski 🌠

[ardri-na-bpiteog]

Also increasingly aware that a LOT of people "manage" getting through the 40+ hour work week by sleeping less than is healthy and relying on stimulants like coffee and energy drinks to keep them going.

For people who are unwilling or unable to do this...work really does just dominate your life. Like we really should not have to rely on unhealthy practices just to have a social life or keep on top of housework or whatever.

I know I post about this a lot but I'm so TIRED all the time and it's just so depressing that this is how we're expected to spend the one life we have.

[theaceofarrows]

Reblog if you're asexual and tired

[letmetellyouaboutmyfeels]

I am incredibly serious right now when I beg you all, please, and if you have Twitter or Tiktok or whatever to please spread the word: click on an author's profile on Ao3.

You want to know if an author has written more? Want to know if they're still writing? Want to see more from them? Want to know if they've written a trope or kink or sex scenario you enjoy?

Click on their name. And look at their profile.

I cannot tell you how many times in the last six months someone has read a new or newer fic of mine and said they (a new reader who has read nothing else I've done) "can't wait to see what you do next!" I've written 50+ fics and over a million words already.

"I don't know if you're still writing..." click on my profile. I am. I literally wrote a 128k+ fic for that ship last month.

"Would you ever do X?" "Please do Y!" I already did. Click on my name and look at my works.

Archive of our Own is a library. It's an archive. Not social media. It is your responsibility to fight back against the laziness that corporate algorithms have trained into you.

Click my author name. Just click it. Just click it.

Before you demand more, or ask if a writer will do XYZ, or wonder if the author still writing, or anything - click on their profile. Click on the author's profile.

I'm not trying to be mean or condescending or anything like that. I'm just exhausted. It's disheartening and frustrating to repeat myself ad nauseam, because someone couldn't take thirty seconds to do the tiniest bit of work to see if I've written lately, if I've written more for their ship, or scan my works to see if I've written what they're asking for. Please. Please. I'm begging.

Click the author's name, and explore before you ask.

[teaboot]

Shoutout to the guy with the white cane at the emergency access door who heard me say "hello sir" and just dropped his head, sighed, and went "this isn't the entrance, is it." Either you're going thru some shit or you're a very funny criminal doing his best and I appreciate that

[lazylittledragon]

made a sticker for anyone to slap onto their work if they need to