#but i also want to put the tag so that people who are sick of hearing about this man can blacklist and not have to deal with it

[deadhands69]

Thanks for tagging me @shigarakislaughter and @kitkat13001 !

last song: they not like us - kendrick lamar (i've been listening to him allll day)

last book: manga: jjk. non-manga: the body keeps score

last movie: uhm.. love lies bleeding? It was intense, I did NOT expect that (I also didn't know what it was, it just came up on suggested)

last tv show: invincible? does it count if i'm watching it by proxy (my brother is watching that and everyone in my house is watching one piece so those) but the last thing I put on was solo leveling

last thing i googled: kristen stewart tattoos (she has a 7eleven one!?)

favourite colour: purple or green

sweet/savoury/spicy: spicy. or sweet if it's fruity sweet.

relationship status: i have a human who means a lot to me

looking forward to: a few concerts, some tattoo plans, and honestly going back to work/school/life things after being sick for a week

current obsession: does shigaraki count?? i kind of hyperfixate on things so writing, art, and tattoos rn

I know all the same people as the two who tagged me soooo I'll try not to double tag: @moonstonejpg (if you're up for it!), @cryptidfuckerofficial @redr0sewrites @s-0-ckz @seros-girl and I'm bad at remembering to tag people so anyone who wants to, plz tag me I'm nosey

10 people i’d like to get to know better

thanks for the tag @acian0 🌻🤗

last song: Starvation by Aurora

last book: i've become a fanfiction addict, so i hardly ever read anything that doesn't give me instant joy. But I'm currently trying to read Murder in the Crooked House by Soji Shimada

last movie: Arrietty by studio Ghibli

last tv show: Shrinking Season 2

last thing i googled: Sōji Shimada's name for this post xD but before that it was just the address of a new bakery in town 😋

favourite colour: yellow 💛💛💛

sweet/savoury/spicy: today was my "sweets are allowed" day, so, SWEET!

relationship status: single

looking forward to: obito-week, kakaobivalentine, and kkobweek 2025 🥳💛 + springtime, planned and improvised trips 😊

current obsession: Obito and Kakashi ❤️‍🔥

tagging 💌 @back-to-rose @ichaichahatake @hairybeardtongue @waruemi @kawkawsrii @spacealligator @protectbatson

[beneathsilverstars]

if i failed to protect my kid during the apocalypse and they almost died wandering on their own but got rescued by a team of four competent, battle-experienced adults who cared about them very much and made them feel less scared and useless but refused to let them fight, i think that would be a pretty decent outcome and i'd be pretty okay with it. sure i could dream up a better situation but there's a hell of a lot of worse ones too.

[moogghost]

...so now that grandfest is over and the results were revealed am i allowed to say that some of y'all were such dicks to team present over their team choice for NO good reason ever since grandfest was revealed or am i going to get mauled for being right.

anyways congrats to the team past members who weren't assholes about their team choice and those team past members only every match against you guys made me feel like i was crawling in the trenches and it's very impressive 👍

[piratemajimaa]

"pEoPle wHo kNoW HiM caLL hIM BUCK."

yeah, well, there are three people in his life who have the privilege to call him Evan and Tommy is one of those three people so shut the fuck up already :)

[voetballers]

I will say that I am extremely sorry for bringing my discussion of this situation to my blog where I'm aware that none of my followers (save for like... 4 friends who I already talk about how much I hate Dream) really want to see, but I do just want to rant about how purely disgusting this man has been as of late.

We all become aware of yet another victim of his, an underaged fan that he was acting sexually towards (a 16-17 year old whilst he was 20), someone who has contacted the proper authorities and after contacting them, posted video proof that Dream had sent the victim a SnapChat video of him moaning and saying that he wants to "fill (them) up", and says previously that Dream was in possession of CSEM, and he calls the person calling him out an "not mentally stable individual" and that "it's from a person who hates (his) guts" because 1) of course he would default to saying "oh she's crazy don't believe her" that every perpetrator loves to say, and 2) of course the kid you were acting sexual towards hates your guts. Of course a friend of someone whom you sexted when they were 16-17 and you 20 would hate your guts. That is typical behaviour of a friend — my friends hate my sexual abusers' guts. I would be upset if they didn't.

He actually confirms that he had contact with this teen, says that they "were in an awkward and weird relationship with (his) ex-girlfriend" — who is known for... also grooming his underaged fans to get sexual material from them — and still tries to paint himself as the victim. He says, verbatim, "I made the mistake of being intimate with with this completely above age friend years ago, and haven't talked to them in years", however the individual is currently 20. A few years ago, when he still had contact with his ex, the victim would have been 16-17. He doesn't deny that this happened, does not write it off, and yet still says that it is only being brought up to "kick him while (he's) down". He is a truly despicable individual, and it's sickening that he still has millions of fans whom will stay defending him, and whom still actively defend him even now. He said that the middleman (the person who made the burner account/talking publicly about it) screen recorded the video yesterday, however the victim had these videos back in 2019, when they would have been underaged.

He makes "jokes" about he, himself, liking minors, even with all this being known. The first time someone came forward, he said that it was the individual hating him. The second time, it was accusing them of defamation. This time, it's "they want to kick me while I'm down". He is vile. And this is not even counting everything else we already know about him.

[crimeronan]

warning this is an "i've lost my temper" post

people leaving comments on my vaccine post about how they """""can't""""" get vaccines because of needle phobias like what kind of ridiculous backwards-ass mental-gymnastics dumb fucking able-bodied nonsense are you on. you shortsighted twat. you circlejerking fucking asshole. you know what'll make you have to contend with needles???? getting an IV in the hospital because you came down with COVID. and now every single time you move you feel the straw wiggle uncomfortably inside your veins and you can't get it out ever you're trapped helpless on your back forever getting stuck by needles CONSTANTLY.

so. unless you're ready to lay at home and die while refusing all medical care, which would be good because at least you'd be putting your money where your fucking mouth is, i think you Do In Fact want to take the shot. you Fucking Moron??

[pezpenser205]

the main reason i know im not femme in the slightest is bc i cant comprehend why anyone would Ever want to be feminine. i can understand neutral leaning fem, but the idea that people are born wanting to be feminine is appalling to me personally because femininity always felt like imprisonment and torture. it was and still is a restraint. a training weight i was forced to bear. i cant fully empathize or understand anyone who wants to be more feminine because i have never and will never want to be more feminine out of anything other than pressure or insecurity. im most comfortable being gender neutral, hairy and disgusting in old gym shorts and stained tshirts no matter how much insecurity it causes me. i dont care. im never dressing up all pretty for anyone elses benefit ever again. and i assume this is how people who want to be feminine feel about masculinity to some extent. if thats the case im super glad we could trade because holy moly

[anakinh]

been trawling through the meljay tag on ao3 because i was curious about how many fics there actually are of this pairing (very few. if you sort by kudos it's almost offensive). anyway, I noticed there's quite a lot of people who didn't like the fact that Jayce accused Mel of using him? Even though she, uh, did use him? People are allowed to have flaws.

Idk, i think that's actually the fun part of the meljay dynamic. It's very "this boy seems very manipulable. i am going to take advantage. oh no he's sweet. oh no i have feelings. fuck." it's a very popular romcom subgenre!

Similarly there's a surprising amount of commune jayvik fics that act like the commune is a good thing, which. why? Isn't the whole point of commune jayvik fics mostly 'viktor puts jayce in his commune and he thinks everything is perfect until one day he realizes he killed his soulmate' with a dash of 'angsty dub-con with captive jayce'? think about it.

also part of the reason I was kinda offended with the tag on ao3 is because most of it was actually jayvik. i brought jayvik on this post so i guess by my own rules i should be going to jail.

[throwaway-settings]

biting. biting. biting.

[eclarinet]

same soup... different day

[pyrriax]

ANYWHO goodnight tumblr i'll be back on the art grind tomorrow i think 🙏

[hauntingblue]

Why only kiku against kanjuro??? They should gang up against him I don't believe in fair fights

[pinkcadavart]

Mama, they say I'm a terrorist

[shedidntevenswear]

I don’t condone Matty’s actions but I’m having a hard time with the cancel culture. He screwed up. He admitted to it and apologized. He followed up those apologies with change of action. He has a pattern of actively apologizing when he says or does something dumb. It isn’t my job to forgive him but I feel like he isn’t just giving lip service over the mistakes.

I’m a mom to a kid with raging adhd (his words are faster than his brain filter) and a wild dirty sense of humor. I have to correct him all. of. the. time. just to try to make him understand the impacts of his words. Time/place/audience included. It’s killing me to think that the world is so harsh that there is no room to make a mistake.

*I feel like I have to reiterate that I also understand others feelings and the unwillingness to accept the apologies. This is just me sharing my weirdo alternate opinion.

ok i'll start my answer with repeating my caveat that i've paid as little attention to this man as humanly possible until taylor became involved, not because i didn't care about his impact but because i just dont follow him/his band and the few times i saw him i was like hard pass.

ANYWAY that being said, i think i've missed the part where he has apologized for almost anything? my understanding from convos with my irl friends who are 1975 fans over the past couple weeks is that he thinks he's doing a bit, so when he gets called out he either doubles down or ignores the criticism or condescendingly rolls his eyes at how misunderstood his performance art is. would love to be proven wrong on that, like if he has meaningfully apologized then cool but given that lots of the bad stuff we've been talking about has been within the last few months it doesn't really feel like meaningful change and growth is occurring.

in a general sense though i agree with you on allowing humans to make occasional mistakes as long as they are actual mistakes and they apologize and enact real change afterwards. we all do stupid stuff, its what you do after you are made aware what you did was harmful that matters in the long run i think.

[rtvoid]

I just want to say that every single person who has followed me with "anti-endos" in their DNI has continued following me despite my repeated statements that I am anti-endo. So I'm having to conclude that you're all just fake asf and virtue signaling while secretly agreeing with me because why do you keep following me????

I remember once I even directly used @ on someone saying they should probably unfollow me because I'm anti-endo and they responded with "well I don't really do DNIs, my about is more of a guideline but we can still follow." It took me putting my foot down and saying "clearly we both have a boundary here that needs to be mutually respected" for them to actually unfollow me, but otherwise they would have continued to follow me despite having "anti-endo" as one of their supposed deal-breakers in their about.

And this is the only group of people I regularly see do this which makes it funnier. Eg. people who have "no TERFs" in their bio aren't then mutualing TERFs because they realise how harmful that would be. So on some level do people just realise how fucking stupid this is and that the real harm is being done to the DID community or what? Because that's the way I'm forced to read this behaviour when it happens with staggering regularity. If you actually thought being anti-endo was harmful and toxic you wouldn't be following me while faking to everyone else that you have this super strong moral stance.

[the-smiling-doodler]

slams my head violently against the wall /neg