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pezpenser205 · 4 days ago

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the main reason i know im not femme in the slightest is bc i cant comprehend why anyone would Ever want to be feminine. i can understand neutral leaning fem, but the idea that people are born wanting to be feminine is appalling to me personally because femininity always felt like imprisonment and torture. it was and still is a restraint. a training weight i was forced to bear. i cant fully empathize or understand anyone who wants to be more feminine because i have never and will never want to be more feminine out of anything other than pressure or insecurity. im most comfortable being gender neutral, hairy and disgusting in old gym shorts and stained tshirts no matter how much insecurity it causes me. i dont care. im never dressing up all pretty for anyone elses benefit ever again. and i assume this is how people who want to be feminine feel about masculinity to some extent. if thats the case im super glad we could trade because holy moly

#op #doing sex work has also solidified this boundary for me btw #youd be surprised how many people love forcing specifically butch people into feminine clothes and get off on it #like specifically search for young or inexperienced butches and/or ftms #without actually explaining to them what they want to put them through in full detail beforehand or are very vague #but theyre holding money you dont have as an unemployed person over your head so its kind of hard to say no #these experiences have shown me dykebreaking style kinks are actually really popular even in queer communities #this brand of ppl just kind of do it then after the fact call it forcefem or detrans kink and call it a day without communicating beforehan #i think its really shit because now i have a bad taste in my mouth about that kind of stuff #but just bc i had bad experiences doesnt mean everyone will #thats like saying we shouldnt let people transition bc 1% of people detransition or something #i got manipulated by bad people and thats not anyones fault other than those peoples' for being awful people #so if youre wondering why i trigger tag forcefem jokes and stuff. that is why.#with how common it is id rather trigger tag it for someone whos far more sensitive about the subject than i and doesnt wanna see Any of it #i tried being feminine. hated it. 0/10. will never again unless i feel like it inexplicably some day.#the most feminine ill get is wearing bright colors and having shoulder length hair or wearing pink accents in my outfits i guess #or maybe when the thought of wearing them doesnt make me feel sick anymore ill wear pleated skirts again #all these unrelated tags to say #please communicate with your partners especially younger ones. just bc theyre over 18 doesnt mean they arent young and kid like.#brains dont stop developing until around mid 20s and if you as a 30-40 something year old arent communicating properly thats messed up #and just be careful out there #practice ethical/safe kink please and ty ily <3 #qtag

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