#but I'm learning to deal with it lol

[mistysblueboxstuff]

had to spend my day in a suit so might as well take some pictures xD

[lunarharp]

fwee top 5 things i had fun with this year :-)

[jojo-the-puppy]

gonna try to word this as best as i can but, if you're tme and kind of stupid in regards of transmisogyny issues, you can like ... listen. it isn't that hard.

trans women and transfems as a whole are constantly doing the hard work for you, explaining why something is wrong, how you can make sure they feel safer, that Hey! This Show Is Kinda Transmisoginistic, So Maybe Don't Recommend It To Me!, etc etc, they're literally doing the heavy lifting for you, and if you truly care about them the way you say you do, you'll educate yourself at least a little

"trans women are women" in your bio isn't enough anymore

[knightwhoisni]

*drifter seeing the protoframe they'll romance for the first time voice* i think i hauve the infestation

[justalittlebluetiefling]

Something I've seen a couple people saying is that they want to make sure that Laudna understands that she's not the only one who has been through trauma. But like. Laudna is not the only one who needs to learn that lesson. Actually, it's not even that Laudna needs to learn that she's not the only one that's been through trauma at all, because they're all very aware of what they've all been through. This became an inevitable confrontation when Laudna decided to let Delilah back in, though, and after rewatching the scene, I actually think the only people who managed this situation correctly were Imogen* and Ashton.

Orym and Laudna are both more focused on their own pasts with the sword and not thinking about each other. Orym should have talked to the group and come to a decision with them about using the sword and Laudna should have talked to him about it instead of trying to steal it.

*my feelings about this are still up in the air don't read into this too much

[icewindandboringhorror]

"We can get through this by working together, reach out to your friends, community is all we have, a social network will be your security in the world, now is the time to lean on others!"

I do agree, and it's scientifically sound (pretty sure there is data about how people with better social networks live longer and etc) but also....augh..... what about the severe social issues, difficulty to leave the house, physical issues which lead to like zero socialization energy a majority of the time, etc. etc. Social support can be a replacement for structural support, but.. I guess I just wish it didn't have to be. Community is extremely difficult to build, even moreso if you're someone who has issues with social cues or group conversations or even just being around others in the first place. And blah, nuance, of course I'm just complaining or maybe being too negative or maybe misunderstanding, but, I hardly have the energy to brush my hair once every 2 months.. how am I supposed to maintain a wide social network and be active in a Community and Join Groups lol... sometimes it kind of feels like "er.. well if thats my only option then...... ruh roh". It's overwhelming

[cultivating-wildflowers]

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[ox1-lovesick]

hi

[us-the-voices-and-more-voices-2]

me unironically twice a month

me: hi I'm autistic! I struggle with alot of things, even though I can talk quite normally and make eye contact. I am still disabled! and still face systemic oppression from my government and the school system!

some random ass aspie: those stupid bitch level 2's and 3's.

me: why are you saying this to me

some random aspie: autism is not a disability your just fucking stupid

me: again.. why are you saying that

aspie: ...

me: ...

aspie: bc your autistic the bad kind, the should be locked up kind.

me: what the fuck man.

[katsy-kitty]

I live in constant fear of being annoying af

[sysig]

You say “Jump” I say “Forget it” (Patreon)

[sincerecinnamon]

My mom's side of the family is doing a Thanksgiving breakfast at IHOP so we can all have separate Thanksgiving dinners, so instead of feeling insecure at a relative's house, I'll feel insecure in the international house of pancakes 😎

[l832]

jean valjean and cosette's relationship as father and daughter is great and adorable but it's also not without issues in the way that there is no parent-child relationship that is without issues and i know that certain adaptations have taken this idea to weird places but i also. umm. i don't know i personally like to think about cosette having complicated and mixed feelings about her relationship to jean valjean. i think it's an interesting area to explore from cosette's perspective specifically. his enigmatic logic towards basically anything. the fact that while yes he is a kind and generous father who, um, goes to very great lengths to make sure she has a safe and happy life, he is also guilty of being emotionally manipulative at times. he's a good dad but he's isn't perfect, is what i'm saying. i guess.

[francy-sketches]

Hiiii uh I am not an artist and I’m wondering what tracing and referencing is?

I'm just gonna explain this with pictures bc it's easier lol.

so basically: this is tracing (going over a picture line for line, usually not really understanding what you're drawing which can lead to some uh. interesting looking results)

vs referencing (using a picture as. well reference for your own art) excuse the shitty drawing lol but you get the idea

[gentlenotes-moved]

i remember quite a long time ago when i was like 8 and i was at my grandma's house crying about something small and i was so confused why i was so upset about it. my grandma said "well, you might be angry about a lot of things right now, and it's all building up" and i sat there thinking that that was the most idiotic thing i've ever heard. but like. 10 years later and i'm in the exact situation she was describing.

[keeps-ache]

once again i am on the playlist lol