#build to suit

[cristalgarciarealty]

Located in the distinguished Mesilla Vineyard Estates, this one-acre piece of land offers a remarkable opportunity. The east-facing rear of the property presents stunning, unobstructed views of the majestic Organ Mountains, providing an ideal backdrop for your dream home. The ample space available allows for a custom-designed residence that reflects your unique style and aspirations, with a lot depth of 398 feet and a width of 114 feet at the front. Additionally, the property enjoys the convenience of nearby utilities, while a paved road enhances accessibility.

[balis77]

Fun fact: Samus' zero suit is a bodysuit in more recent games instead of the tank-top she wore in older games because at this point, she's been spliced with so many species' DNA you really don't want to see what the rest of her skin looks like.

[csuitebitches]

Crafting a Personality and Capitalising on it

How do we craft a personality that is socially charming yet true to our roots?

How do we mingle and meet new people without feeling awkward or shy about it?

How do we not lose ourselves while following all these blah blah etiquette rules?

Welcome to part 2 of my Chic Girl Mentality series. 🤍

Today, we will focus on crafting a personality that is still you but better.

First, let’s talk about people in social settings. You’ll meet people who are confident, secure and socially charming. You’ll meet quiet people who may be equally socially charming or just very shy and conscious. You’ll meet the braggers and the doe-eyed followers. There’s a lot of different types of people in the world and knowing how to gracefully navigate most of them is nothing but a learned art.

People, regardless of their bank balance, are insecure of what they do not have yet. This can be looks, money, experience, lifestyle, and so on. How do we capitalise on this without exploiting or manipulating anyone?

By knowing how to tell a story.

That doesn’t mean that you need to become a public speaker or politician, it just means that you need to be able to craft intriguing stories about yourself, using your own life and experiences, to “sell” an interesting version of you socially. We’re all interesting people but only a few of us know how to say that we’re interesting without saying that we’re interesting.

Experience 

People, even those with money, will always be more attracted to those who have experiences, especially, unique ones. Whether it’s travelling to exotic locations or trying new culinary destinations, or wearing unknown designers, knowing obscure artists or writers, or being at the top of your industry… experience is the most important thing to cultivate first.  You already have experience. If you went to school, high school, college, joined clubs, your first job, any travelling, etc - these are all experiences.

Make a list of 5 of the most interesting experiences you think you have.

Hobbies and interests 

Have a couple of lowkey hobbies that you feel enthusiastic about. Whether it’s doing some charity work on Sundays, or cooking, or pottery, whatever it is, keeping a hobby is healthy. 

There should be something to you that an acquaintance can remark about: “CSB? Oh yes, I’ve heard that she’s a great dancer.” 

Vulnerabilities 

Certain vulnerabilities must never, ever be shared. It will 100% be used either as gossip or blackmail. 

However, coming across as someone with no weaknesses is rather untrustworthy- it makes the other person feel that you’re clearly hiding something. 

Make a list of vulnerabilities that are small and you don’t mind sharing. These should be vulnerabilities that will never ruin your reputation in any form but can be used as a form of bonding with empathy. 

And make a list of hard core vulnerabilities you know you should never share with anyone. Keep it memorised rather than written down. 

Experience + Hobbies or Interests + Safe Vulnerabilities = Personality

Storytelling 

Now that you have some experience, hobbies, interests, and your “safe” vulnerabilities sorted even if it’s limited - what will make it stand out is the art of storytelling. Some storytellers can make even the most mundane experiences sound magical - it’s all in the words and delivery. There’s a reason why every Holy Book is a story, packed with lessons and morals - it’s impactful, easy to remember and recall and relatable. Craft your experiences into stories. Use those 5 experiences that you noted down and start writing them down as stories.

Take up an online storytelling class or watch videos. Start honing this skill by writing and reading good literature. 

Refine your 5 experiences further. Run it through chatGPT, say them out loud and most importantly- start testing them out on people. See what makes them chuckle and what doesn’t; what makes them empathise and what doesn’t.

A famous comedian whose name I can’t remember does the same thing. He creates his set. He goes to a small pub and tries it out on the audience there. And the first set is always the first. The audience may not laugh at his jokes, they might boo him or sometimes, he might get a laugh out of them. But every time, he goes home and refines his set further. Once his set is fully refined, and he accomplishes his goal of the audience peeling with laughter at every joke, that’s when he goes on national TV / on tour etc etc.

The most important thing is to craft your stories of your experiences in a way that it delivers the value you want the person to remember about you.

For instance, if I want to be seen as creative and innovative, I won’t tell the person in front of me, “oh, I’m soo innovative and creative!”

Rather I will weave that into a story. “When I was 24, at my first job in the advertising space, we were losing clients left and right. And one weekend, I was on a trek on the mountains - it’s one of my hobbies - this idea hit me, and I suddenly knew exactly how to get our clients back. My team was hesitant about my idea, and we got a lot of pushback, but we went ahead. The night before my launch I was so nervous, I got hardly sleep. And you won’t believe it, but the idea worked! The response was fantastic.”

Let the other person come to the conclusion of you being innovative and creative. Human beings love to deduce things and jump to conclusions and provided you set the context the right way, you should be able to project the version of you that is the best part of you.

Vocabulary 

A sign of a good education- even if you don’t have it - is a diverse vocabulary. I’ve always had a little more respect and awe for those who are articulate, can speak smoothly and speak confidently. I’ve noticed that my American friends, for instance, tend to talk fast with lots of filler words, and sentences tend to end with a pitch up instead of down, which to me indicates hesitation or indecision. Speaking slower, ending your sentences with pitch going down to indicate a full stop rather than up makes you seem like a refined speaker even if your subject is utterly stupid. 

Body language and mannerisms, social interaction 

Watch old classic Hollywood movies to really understand this - especially romantic ones. Choose ones with a femme fatale or siren-like female lead, and watch how she enraptures the male lead or the audience around her. 

A combination of fantastic storytelling and body language will take you places beyond your dreams. Some of the biggest frauds, scammers, politicians, criminals are also some of the best storytellers. Humans are attracted to stories, we pick up body language intuitively, we can sense when someone is nervous or isn’t. Unfortunately the world isn’t a kind place and will not necessarily help you out of your shyness- in fact, that might just make you the best target for exploitation. 

Storytelling + Vocabulary + Body Language = Your Best Personality

[yo-yo-yoshiko]

Couldn't stop laughing this week! Gavv has set up such potential for Miraculous Ladybug level of shenanigans...

[ophernelia]

building a townhome for rhiannon. the exterior isn't done but i got bored and started decorating the inside. the floor plan might be functional so i maybe i'll t put it up for download. probably unfurnished though. also i don't have a floor plan for the building next to it yet. idk what to do with it.

[elderwisp]

𝒮𝑜𝓂𝑒𝓌𝒽𝑒𝓇𝑒 𝒷𝑒𝓎𝑜𝓃𝒹 𝓉𝒽𝑒 𝓈𝑒𝒶…

huge thanks to @surely-sims @lumenniveus and @doctorsimcraft for allowing me to test the Bioshock deco yesterday! it was amazing being able to bring Rapture into my game and you guys truly did a fantastic job ⋆˙⟡♡ here's the link

[bubbytheliverstealingskeleton]

The silliess

Finally finished this yesterday after leaving it to sit mostly finished for like. A month

[helveticathestitcher]

GUNDAM AERIAL IRIS

Happy Pride! I've been messing around with air brushed gradients recently and thought it would be really fun to do a full rainbow gradient build for pride month. I've also been wanting to get my hands on the KOSMOS LED kits for a while so this seemed like the perfect opportunity to do both. It took me a little longer than anticipated to finish but art is art and it will happen on it's own schedule. This custom variant is named for the goddess of rainbows in Greek Mythology. She also happens to show up in The Tempest, from which G-witch pulled a lot of names, so it seemed like the perfect fit.

You can check out some of my other builds here

[logicpng]

so here's. a fucker i've been meaning to draw since forever and never did because of a major art block. because the brain decided to remember about buckshot roulette again

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[shorthaltsjester]

the mighty nein - critical role

this is a place where i don't feel alone. this is a place where i feel at home.

[kirider]

[05/12/2024]

You never forget your first favorite 😌

[cristalgarciarealty]

🚨 𝟐.𝟑𝟗 𝐀𝐂𝐑𝐄𝐒 𝐅𝐎𝐑 $𝟔𝟎𝐤!🚨Call me for more information or to buy this land! 📲 𝗖𝗿𝗶𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗹 𝗚𝗮𝗿𝗰𝗶𝗮 (𝟱𝟳𝟱)𝟲𝟱𝟬-𝟱𝟬𝟯𝟵, Real Estate Specialist in Southern New Mexico.

[passiberri]

Norra Cottage, Henford-on-Bagley, Kitchen

inspo

[demilypyro]

Don't talk to me or my daughter or my daughter's daughter or my daughter's prototype

[turtleblogatlast]

Unironically think that each of the bros (+April) don’t actually get how impressive their feats really are so they just do what they do and on the off chance someone comments on those feats they all react like:

[athena-gunpla]

trans and lesbian