#breakupcoaching

[karanscottcoaching]

To the newly brokenhearted who need to hear this: This is your reminder to stop looking at them through the lens of who you want them to be, and to instead start looking at them for who they truly are and what they’ve actually done. This is how you can free yourself by letting them go. Don’t cling to a mistake just because you’ve spent a long time making it, your life is waiting. Trust me I know — I’ve been there, done that and clawed back more than I lost. Finding yourself with a person who self sabotages in relationships is a truly painful experience, but please keep in mind they’re re-enacting their past traumas, and it was never about you. Be kind to yourself and let your heart heal. Karan 💕 Author | Too Relieved To Grieve Available now | https://amzn.to/2Y4sC0s (link in bio) #brokenhearted #rosetintedglasses #mistakes #divorce #breakup #divorcecoaching #divorcecoach #breakupcoach #breakupcoaching #toorelievedtogrieve #thealternativeheartbreakhandbook #karanscottauthor #karanscottcoaching #karanscott #authorlife #memoir #whattoreadnext #selfhelpbook #heartbreak https://www.instagram.com/p/CoIIfxegOVT/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[drmarr]

The same thing that causes you STRESS can be the same thing that allows you to LET GO… Seeing life in black & white… The more we see things as black and white, right and wrong, the more judgmental and opinionated we are. We all know (well, as we get older we tend to find out more 😆) that A LOT of life happens in the grey zone. But at the same time, seeing things in black and white has saved me. It has allowed me to let go of things causing me pain. Namely, in relationships that are no longer working. I remember a relationship I needed to let go of but was having a hard time. When I was justifying and making excuses for the person (even if they were true), I was living in the grey. And in the grey was uncertainty, hope, and a bit of losing myself… The only thing that allowed me to let go of this relationship was seeing it in black and white. Ie: he wants to be with you, or he does not. There is no in between that works for me. And seeing it as black or white allowed me to see no grey… grey wasn’t an option. If it was white and I wanted black, there was NO MORE CONFUSION. It actually made sense! Which made the excuses in the grey completely irrelevant. This is another benefit of understanding how you see your world. You become incredibly aware of how your viewpoint is helping you, or hindering you, and you are able to adjust it accordingly. I’m not usually a “black or white” thinker, yet here we are with another paradox of life… I mean, would this Ellie 🐘 Sunset 🌅 be the same if it were in black and white? ➡️ I don’t think so… #blackandwhite #thepowerofperspective #perception #mindset #mentalwellness #strongmindset #mindsetshift #relationshipcoach #howtoletgo #lettinggo #blackorwhite #rightorwrong #livingingrey #internationallifecoach #needtoletgo #situationship #situationships #walkaway #howtowalkaway #lifeinblackandwhite #judgements #howtojudgeless #breakupcoach #breakingup #breakuprecovery https://www.instagram.com/p/ClRhnAVvA6s/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[solutiongiven]

THE IMPORTANCE OF FINDING A SUPPORT SYSTEM AFTER A BREAKUP.

If you want to get over a breakup, it is important you find a support system. Find friends or family who will support you and listen to you. Avoid talking to friends who will gossip about your ex or who will try to set you up with someone new. It is also important to keep yourself busy. Join a club or take up a new hobby. Getting out and doing things will help you take your mind off your ex and the breakup. Finally, give yourself time. It takes time to get over a breakup and there is no set time frame.

There are other crucial things you must do to completely get over a breakup, CLICK HERE to learn them all.

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[e-c-l-e-c-t-i-c-i-s-i-t]

Part of a break up resembles war. And I don’t mean because both of you have to hurt each other and that one side is always more wounded or at a greater loss… No I mean you lose territory, you lose places  restaurants, favorite coffee place, favorite songs, favorite walking trails… How and where does one simply begin to reclaim any of that…

[revsinnerael]

[numgul123]

When You’re Nonetheless Therapeutic From All The Methods Love Broke You

While you’re nonetheless therapeutic from all of the methods love broke you, you don’t at all times say what you're feeling. You’re afraid to say or give an excessive amount of as a result of the final time you probably did that, you ended up with a damaged coronary heart and a bunch of misplaced recollections. The final time you trusted an individual together with your coronary heart, they didn’t perceive it, they didn’t nourish it, they took it with no consideration. The final time you trusted an individual together with your coronary heart, you ended up with a bunch of regrets and one other disappointment.

While you’re nonetheless therapeutic from all of the methods love broke you, little issues can flip you off; sure behaviors, sure phrases, sure actions set off all of your fears, they remind you of a sample you’ve seen earlier than that didn’t be just right for you, they warn you that this will not be a special story in any case they usually remind you that possibly your coronary heart is fooling you as soon as once more.

While you’re nonetheless therapeutic from all of the methods love broke you, you make it a degree to by no means get too connected to anybody, to by no means want an individual as a result of they will at all times go away. You’re at all times ready for that second, you’re at all times relearning how one can dwell by your self. You strive to not get blindsided once more. You’re at all times able to be by yourself as a result of that’s what really took ages to construct, your shallowness and self-worth, and that’s the one factor you’re making an attempt to guard.

While you’re nonetheless therapeutic from all of the methods love broke you, you study to simply let go. You need to combat for sure individuals however you cease combating as soon as you're feeling such as you’re combating alone. You need to journey the world with the individual you're keen on however you additionally e-book a ticket anyway. You need to give the whole lot you’ve bought however you additionally maintain again once you really feel such as you’re the one one giving. You need to present all of the weak and smooth sides of you however you additionally know how one can be robust and resilient; not prepared to bend or compromise your requirements.

While you’re nonetheless therapeutic from all of the methods love broke you, you unknowingly put an expiration date to any new relationship when it makes you extra guarded, extra skeptical or extra confused. You unknowingly pull again as a substitute of letting your self fall and if I’m being sincere, I’m nonetheless making an attempt to determine if that’s a blessing or a curse.

[onlinecounselling4u]

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[williamjavier73]

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[mohnish-fan]

(via Tips: How To Move On After Painful Break-Up)

[drmarr]

“If you ask people in a toxic relationship, “Why do you love this person?" And the answer is… “I don’t know… I can’t describe it. It’s just like… magical. I can’t put it into words. We just have this connection. They just, feel me… you know?” They can’t articulate it. But when you ask a person in a healthy relationship, “Why do you love this person?”, the answer is very clear. “Because I respect them, and they respect me. We share the same values. We have incredible times together. I feel safe with this person.” They give you concrete evidence. But when someone's “like… magical”, and you can’t describe it, it’s because it’s a trauma bonded connection. A confusing space. This ain’t magical. It’s dangerous to go exploring, to stick around and find out . And it’s a wake up call. And opportunity to choose differently. How do you know? Go with the energy. Energy doesn’t lie. Your gut knows. Does this relationship help you grow? Does it fill you up? Does it feel nurturing? Do you feel safe? Genuinely loved? Or does it shrink you? Cause you to to be unstable, unsafe…? You don’t need words. You feel threatened, you don’t feel like yourself, you feel yourself reaching for old toxic behaviors…” ~ I wish I could remember who said this (it wasn’t me) Energy doesn’t lie. The energy says it all. (Run) #relationship101 #toxiclove #toxicrelationship #unhealthyrelationships #unhealthyrelationship #relationshipcoach #breakupcoach #cantdescribeit #dating101 #datingadvice #selflove #selfprotection #selfawareness #thingstoknow #thingstoknowinadvance #internationallifecoach #healthylove #healthyrelationships #relationshipgoals https://www.instagram.com/p/CkQkCdmunCW/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[revsinnerael]

[kalameabhi]

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[iamdaliamith]

“This much I know is true, that God blessed the broken road, that led me straight to you.” _ You are the answer to every prayer, and the the proof of God’s faithfulness. This moment right here is far more amazing than I could have ever imagined. Thank you for exceeding my expectations and showing me what true love is supposed to feel like. I can’t wait to spend the rest of my life with you! 💍💞💫 #engaged #heputaringonit #hesmyperson #godisgood #itwasalwaysyou #cantfeelmyface #sothankful #soblessed #love #relationships #gratitude #trustyourjourney #neversettle #personalgrowth #lifecoach #breakupcoach #lifelessons #womenwhoinspire #womenempoweringwomen #womenempowerment #wordstoliveby #wordsofwisdom

[akblacklove-blog]

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[drmarr]

There’s probably no more relatable time than right before a break up… agreed? And, in the meantime, this whole time you have been thinking about it and not acting, the energy around avoiding it is sucking the very life out of you, a little more each day. I get it. It’s hard. Probably one of the most universal feelings and one of life’s hardest emotional challenges. But there is no freer feeling than in the other side of that initial 20 seconds… when you finally get it out…When that weight of the world is off your shoulders, you will have so much more of that energy back to direct at how you will move forward with a life that is in more alignment for you. You will probably start to feel more like yourself again, sooner than you think. How good will it feel to have that energy back? Focus on THAT. I’ve never seen this movie (>>>swipe for full quote), but I’ll quote it! I’m sure it’s true for so, so many other things. #breakup #breakuprecovery #youdeservelove #youdeservepeace #peace #innerpeace #bestlife #happylife #loveyourlove #toxicrelationships #toxicrelationshipsurvivor #lifesbiggestlessons #lifelessons #lifeschallenges #lifechallenges #breakupcoach #selflove #selfrespect #respectyourself #emotionalintelligence #breakupsupport #ripthebandaidoff #bitethebullet #truth #internationallifecoach #meaningfulrelationships #youmatter #yourhappinessmatters #breakups #breakupsarehard https://www.instagram.com/p/CZxnpMdu3rR/?utm_medium=tumblr