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dusty-fat-boy · 1 year ago

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SATURDAY MORNING BREAKFAST

#every morning i take him out for breakfast so he can stretch his legs until great gramma is ready to take him out while im at work.#i live with her so i abide by her house rules until i get my own house with enough room for the boy to have his own space.#gramma said she want a clean house and while we in it she dont want any rabbit poop on her floors.#so dusty chills there until she has his play pen ready and until i reach home so he could have unrestricted zoomie time in my room #dont let him fool you though #we got him spoiled #breakfast rituals #bnuuy #dusty fat boy #bunblr #bunnies #bunnies of tumblr #bunny :)#fucking bnuuy #bunbun

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inkskinned · 2 years ago

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this is sort of pathetic, but when you were younger, you were sort of puzzled by the cartoon representations of fathers: how a kid would be outside with a mitt, waiting to play catch.

it's not that your father never played catch with you, but you also didn't like when he did. something about a hard ball coming quickly towards your face doesn't seem exciting. not that you'd ever say you don't trust him. you trust him, right?

it's not like he never tried to teach you anything. or never tried to parent. on rare days, a strange person would walk in your father's skin. bright, happy, magnificent. this version of your father was so cheerful and charismatic that you would do anything to keep him. and this is the version of your father that would laugh and gently coax you try again. this is the version of your father that would break down the small elements of a problem and point them out so you have an easier time with them.

as a kid, those days happened more often. but somewhere around 11, you started being too much of a person, and he was often cross about it. when he'd try to sit you down to learn something, you spent the whole time with your shoulders around your ears, nervous, uncertain. terrified because you didn't immediately understand how to navigate something. worried you will run out of his goodwill and then you will have the Other Father back, and you will have ruined a good day for your entire family. something about you being visibly afraid - it just made him angry. he would accuse you of not wanting to learn and storm away.

on tv, it's not like there's a lot of versions of men-who-are-mostly-fathers. they can be good dads, but usually their stories are not told in the household. so it's normal that your father is there, but he's never around. you know he was in the house, somewhere, it's just not that you guys ever... "hung out". he just seemed to get kind of bored of you, annoyed you weren't made in his perfect image. frustrated with how much energy it took to raise a kid. over time, you kind of adopt a bittersweet band around your throat - he knows nothing about me. he says at least i never abandoned my family.

and it's technically - technically - true. he was there for you. sometimes he even made an effort and made it to the big moments; the graduations and the dance recitals. he grins and tells everyone that he taught you. it almost erases the days in between, where he complains because you need a ride to school. the weeks that go by where he doesn't actually ever speak to you. the times you say i am struggling and he says figure it out on your own. i can't help you.

and that's fine! that's all fine. you can call him if you are having a problem with your car. or if you need a ride to the hospital. he loves playing hero, he just doesn't like the actual work that comes with being a father. and you've kind of made your peace with that; because you had to, because you don't want to live your life like he does; the whole world at a managed distance, a little rotating and controlled orb he can witness and take credit for but never truly love.

as an adult, you are rewatching some dumb cartoon - and again, the child standing in the rain, with a mitt, waiting for their father to come play catch. as an adult, there's this strange creeping dread - this little thing? this little thing, and their dad can't even show up for that? oh god, holyshit, it's not about the mitt, is it. oh god, holyshit, your father spent most of your life leaving you hanging.

#spilled ink #writeblr #:) lol . anybody notice how i write about dads in second person exclusively #me: haha silly cartoon #also me: ): this child is not getting what they need #also btw this is about a father but it might apply to any parent or caregiver #there's a really weird space of like #''this person was technically around me but either ignored me or was actively harmful to me''#and like u learn this very strange ritual of like... this person is my parent/caregiver on a technicality #that you almost spend all ur time with them like... tiptoeing and acting as THEIR parent so u don't upset them.#like you're 17 and ur mom is suddenly hit by a wave of wanting to talk to you so she's like :) lets make breakfast together :) and ur like #uhhhhhh okay?? bc you feel like this is absolutely going to go wrong and is why u usually make breakfast alone #and she starts being like: THIS is called a TEASPOON ... & u know all this stuff but you also know to just be very quiet #bc if you say like ''mom ive been making this breakfast every day since i was 13'' she would FREAK OUT and be like #DONT ACT LIKE I NEVER DO ANYTHING FOR YOU DONT ACT LIKE I DONT CARE ABOUT YOU. FUCKING DISRESPECTFUL .#so u have to smile like ur a preschool teacher and be like. OH COOL! i didn't know A CUP existed! tell me MORE! :)

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field-cryptobotanist · 5 months ago

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Technically the following are all the options locally downloaded on my laptop but these are my favorite

Rb for larger sample of people telling me what to play? Idk

#bastion #strange horticulture #bloodstained ritual of the night #hades 2 #night in the woods #wizard with a gun #darkwood #momodora #wytchwood #death's door #shovel knight #bear and breakfast

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german-enthusiast · 9 months ago

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Die Sendung mit der Maus

An institution in Germany, originally only an educational TV programm that aired every sunday morning, die Sendung mit der Maus also has a website! wdrmaus.de

There you can listen to shows and podcasts, watch shows, play games, learn to code (click on the Elefanten-Bereich) Yes, all of Sendung mit der Maus ist mainly aimed at kids, but they still take them seriously and talk about adult topics! It's definitely worth checking out!

#it was a ritual in my family that we kids got up from the breakfast table at 10am to go watch SmdM #and then call my father when shaun das schaf came on #german #langblr #learning german #language learning #german language #german learning #deutsch #deutsch lernen #language #german vocabulary #sendung mit der maus #deutschland

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lynxfrost13 · 19 days ago

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I love buying bagels because then breakfast for the next 5 days is bagels

#and I mean this genuinely #ily asiago bagels with cream cheese #she does so much for me #I don’t delight in her often #lynx talks #this is also great bc it gives my otherwise atrocious breakfast ritual some structure #i know what’s happening which I just like!#if I was more organized and did meal planning and such it would be so over for u guys

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annabelle--cane · 4 months ago

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I love my mother I love my bestie I love my girlfriend but sharing a house with all three of them after a lifetime of being a reclusive only child does have me wishing that I could barnabas bennett myself for a week or two

#can everyone just agree to not interact with me and pretend I don't exist for a few days. please. please.#I would like to make one (1) cup of breakfast tea without having to take off my headphones make smalltalk and throw off my whole routine #on my hands and knees why does it take four direct dismissals and ninety minutes to get everyone to leave my bedroom #sigh. it truly is not anywhere near as much of a problem as I'm making it sound but I am somewhat cranky. my solitary rituals...#marina marvels at life

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evabloom · 8 months ago

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This morning breakfast, paradise house, april 2024

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c-kiddo · 1 year ago

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so sad that in the tmn reunion tonight(?) caduceus is going to be interuptted from watching hydraulic press and slime videos on youtube in bed to have to fight an evil moon. ableism .

#kiddo say #hes so busy eating porridge leave him ALONE.#sidenote . ik its for important religious reasons but cad being perfectly content and focused about doing that exact same ritual #every single day for a year to remake the temple is autism coded. 2 me #he literally loves just being in hsi house and doing the same thing every day hes so autism . i bet he eats the same thing for breakfast #every single day also

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beautyallaroundus25 · 2 years ago

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