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I recently had to do a project in one of my psych classes, and man, I knew that CBT was used for every little thing, but seeing over and over, "do CBT! CBT is the best for every mental illness!" was so jarring. I'm absolutely biased because of my own experiences, but I just don't think it's as universal a treatment model as it's touted.
If you didn't benefit from CBT, it's not because you're lazy or didn't try hard enough or lacked intelligence or foresight into your own needs. Frankly, it's a therapy model that (I think) shouldn't be the only readily-accessible model and among the only therapy models covered by insurance. Some of us should not be treated in a CBT model and that's okay. It's not a sign of poor character or unreasonable demands, and if you don't think it's a model that works for you, then it's your right to express that!
#mental health#mental health advocacy#it was just so annoying because every resource i could access for this project often ONLY recommended cbt and#that just doesn't seem helpful for a good chunk of people#because i know i never benefitted from that model of therapy#obligatory: i am not against this therapy. me having a negative experience with it is not indicative that i believe it should be abolished'#if it works for you: KEEP DOING IT. cbt is not inherently harmful for MANY people and it's a good and valuable tool for many#but the overemphasis of cbt as the Only Therapy Model You Need sends this message that YOU failed...#...if you don't miraculously recover with that therapy model. it often feels like you'll Fail Recovery/Therapy and you're now a Bad Person#i've tried for over a decade to stick out cbt with a dozen therapists to boot. so i think i know a thing or two about my experiences with it#and overall its an unimpressive model (for me) as someone whos had a history with abuse and miscellaneous mental knickknacks rattling around#it's also frustrating because i genuinely like psych and i love learning about people#it's just. i'm tired of only being exposed to cbt (because i hate it honestly)#i feel similarly about cbt as i do with sigmund fucking frued#anyway i just want other insane people (affectionate) to remember that they deserve to not beat themselves up over this#if you're an insane person reading this: i love you i love you i love you i love you#i will share a slice of cake and homemade bread with you <3
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smth smth about 'the thing that the character did that you thought was rly rly funny in the moment is actually linked to a terrible trauma that lies within said character.' or wahtever.
#jrwi show#jrwi fanart#jrwi riptide#gillion tidestrider#made this within a short span of wahtever bc i gotta go up to the mountains for my stupid gay job tonight n im trying#nnot to frrRREAAAK THE FUCK OUUTTTTTTi dont wanna work but. get that bread we fuckin shall i guess#ONWARDS TO THE FISH TORMENT!! sometimes flowers feel pain when you trim them before their blossoming. atleast i imagine so#i used to draw gillion with loooong hair tied into a big ol braid. and then it was confirmed that he had short hair when he was little.#AT FIRST I WAS SAD. but then i realized the duality of. when they were little. gill had short hair. edyn had long hair.#AND NOW THEYRE OLDER. and gillion has long hair. and edyn has short hair#both mirroring eachother. looking up to eachother. subconsciously or not. they most certainly care. and most certainly miss eachother.#GILLION ALWAYS LOVED HOW LONG HAIR LOOKs. atleast i imagine so. he hasnt cut it since he left the undersea. sure he wanted to go back home#but even at the very start. he knew he was free in some way now. free to grow out his hair. an adventure would await him before he returns.#he knew it would be a while. so he cant let this go. he cant let this sought-after hair-length get cut away from him again#not yet. not yet. i like to think he loved music too. I SAW SOMETHING INTERESTING A BIT AGO#i see alot of ppl commenting on my baby gill comics like;'i wouldFIGHT this teacher i wanna KILL EM i want them DESTROYED#all very good and nice sentiments! i LOVE the energy here! and it would be nice. to have that catharsis#but the story of young tidestrider is not a story of catharsis. it is a story of agony and being so so small and so special and also so dum#and sucking so bad. and just being a kid and doing the things that a little kid does and so many tired tired people reacting badly to it#youre supposed to be the hero that will save us. our world hangs in the balance and you are the one who tips the scales.#YOU are supposed to SAVE US!! you NEED to SAVE US! CAN YOU PLEASE STOP SQUIRMING IN YOUR STUPID CHAIR!!#you'd think that young tidestrider ought to prevail. and be tucked someplace all safe and sound.#elders gone missing and rotting in a jail. their cultists nowhere around. but theres no happy endings. not here not now.#this tale is all sorrows n woes. you may dream that justice n peace win the day. but thats not how this story goes#BIG ideas for this lil baby gillion series. if anything i make ever gets disproven im killing myself in a well as to poison a water supply
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Hello! What kind of workouts do you do, and what youtube channels do you rec???? I know youve answered this before, but i cant find the ask (^///^ )
hey! i don't really follow any youtube channels closely anymore, i just do my own thing. and also i don't mind this question being asked like 50 times because i like getting people active LOL. if my mediocre body inspires people, then i don't mind at all! read carefully anon :)
again to be completely honest, i am not an expert, never claimed to be, so whatever advice you're going to read right now is just my own experience/research. i am just a casual person who likes to move.
i started doing pushups during the pandemic in 2020 after a breakup basically, i was looking at shirtless guys on tiktok and i got inspired LOL so i just googled how to get a chest and it said pushups do the trick. and it does in fact work.
right now i'm trying to walk everyday, for example today i walked like 12-13k steps (your phone tracks this automatically, you can download an app for it too) because i read that walking is extremely good for weight loss, and just VERY good for you in general.
aside from that i have a pull up bar in my room, so basically i just lift myself up with both arms, as much as i can. i do this everyday pretty much, just randomly. i don't track anything, i just do it to maintain my body i guess? like i said idk what the fk i'm doing LOL i just workout for fun. genuinely.
in general, diet is key, make sure you're eating like an insane amount of protein per day. like 100g per day average, depends on your weight. i think the recommended amount is like 0.7-0.8g of protein times your weight. do not stop eating protein. every single day eat stuff like greek yogurt, protein shakes, protein bars (i get these from gas stations and amazon tbh) like you have to be consistent lmao.
i know protein is DISGUSTING most of the time. especially those chalky protein chips and bars. but, beauty is pain. just do it.
#anon#i need to start a fucking tag for this shit#i swear i have one already idk#but since i keep getting asked lmao#sen's workout advice#i should get paid to write these LMAOOO#ALSO please note (i hope people still read tags) my diet is pretty shitty right now#i prioritize happiness and eating good food over looking good#but i still wanna look good shirtless/naked lmao#so idk i'm at this eternal conflict between eating fat/sugary stuff like sweet bread at korean cafes#but then i'll chug like protein right after#etc. etc. it's just a constant battle#like with my current diet my abs will never reveal#so just letting you know i'm not really a good role model
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More official/proper ref of my Metalocalypse s/i 💖🫶💖🫶💖 I needed another milf for the books, I'm obsessed with it guys!
Like I said before she's the manager for @hotrodharts and @1980ssunflower and does a kickass job of it! She's meant to be something of a parallel to Charles whom she has THICK sexual tension with and possibly a mysterious past history with? :0 oooooo~ either way she's very fond of the boys, especially Toki, and in my dreams they see the both of them as parental figures 😊
EDIT: original meme by @tarraerae on Twitter 🫶
Flat colors!
Taglist ♡: @crushes-georg @changeling-selfship @me-myself-and-my-fos @tiny-cloud-of-flowers @sunstar-of-the-north @dearly-beeloved @adoredbyalatus @squips-ship @cherry-bomb-ships
#artfarts#self insert#self ship#self insert x canon#oc x canon#metalocalypse#charles offdensen#🍞 my bread and butter 🍞#SO JUST FINISHED SEASON 3 TODAY TOO 😭😭😭😭💖💖💖💖#GODDD IT WAS SO GOOD#the songs were all great and so were the character focused episodes!!#AND UGH THE FINALE THEY REALLY DO LOOK AT CHARLES LIKE A MOM#the way they were wanting to hang out with him 🥺 and the applogy AND THE TOKI HUG!!!!#FUCK#HOW DID IT GET THIS BAD THIS FAST THREE DAYS!!! ITS BEEN THREE DAYS!!#i dont think ive ever f/od a character FASTER#i guess we'll see where it goes in the end but godd#hes my fucking WIFE 🥺🥺#and ssshh ignore the fact that shes sitting on nothing#we aint gotta talk about it
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This episode has fully moved me in the throuple category for Hoy, Tattoo, and Arun. Like I have been Team TattooHoy from the beginning because I know what I'm about and I still am (I'm with them till the end of the line baby), but I now think all three of them would just be so absolutely beautiful together. Like Tattoo wanted to comfort Arun while he cried, but didn't know how to do it. Hoy walked in and instantly got mad thinking Tattoo made Arun cry and was able to comfort him. Arun leaned on Hoy and Hoy let him like that shit was natural for them both and then Tattoo inserted himself between them on the couch. The show has long since established that Tattoo and Hoy are besties that will do pretty much anything for each other and now they have Arun. The only reason he's even living with Tattoo is because Hoy suggested it. And Hoy would be living with them too if he wasn't too lazy to move his shit back from the temple, lol.
And I don't know shit about tarot so please know I'm not speaking on what the cards actually mean, but the fact that Tattoo got The World while Hoy got The Star and Arun got The Moon just further confirms they would be the most beautiful throuple since the moon orbits the world and the stars surround them both.
I see the vision. I perceive the truth!
#jack and joker#jack and joker the series#jack & joker#tattoohoy#ArunTattooHoy#I put Tattoo in the middle because he has two boyfriends#like they also have each other but Tattoo is the meat in between their bread#and I will always be a tattoohoy girl#they are MY DumbLoser4DumbLoser couple#but I think Arun would made a good addition for them#they are MY DumbLoser4DumbLoser4DumbLoser couple#I'm all in baby!#let's fucking go!#and I am someone who has liked probably like 2 throuples in like 30 decades of TV and movies#so you know me wanting this is just#I am Super Cereal about them#regular clyde
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The thing about me is that I'm always one step away from wanting gyoza. Any mention of gyoza or dumplings in general and I'm like damn I want gyoza. They're so good. Basically the ideal food. I should get gyoza.
#Most restaurants list them as appetizers but I'll just fucking. Eat a tables worth of them as a main course#They're so GOOD#Dumplings in general ideal way to eat food. Pierogi and shit. Delicious#I wonder why American dumplings (maybe just southern dumplings?) are just bread everyone else has stuff in theirs#Chicken and dumplings is good also tho
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veeeery parasocial of me but i love jon matteson hes just a silly little dude
#guys the hatchetfield brainrot is getting to me#jon matteson#hes just a little DUDEEEEE#im just looking at his vocals in tgwdlm compared to npmd#and his tgwdlm vocals were SO good don’t get me wrong#but i feel like his npmd vocals are somehow so much better????#and yes im aware the npmd proshot uses the studio recordings but even looking at that vs the tgwdlm album#he is so talented……..#and all his lines were so fucking funny in npmd his comedic timing and delivery are excellent#nani is my favourite line in the whole show i think#his vocals on ‘im not a loser’ UNMATCHED!!! so raw and powerful i cried#and watching all the little ‘jon matteson being a starkid fan’ compilations… it’s doing things to my psyche#im being SOOOOO parasocial rn#but like. love that dude hes just a funky guy#and the video of him and his fucking sweet bread babies or whatever they are on insta#giving them names and putting egg wash on them.#like????#love that silly little dude#nerdy prudes must die#starkid#tilda rambling
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#sorry ignore this it’s post-election venting.#like just completely unproductive doomerism I need to get off my chest#ok real talk I have been feeling so hopeless and dead and depressed since the election.#I hate this country and I don’t think it can be fixed. not meaningfully in my lifetime.#I think I need to leave this place but im not financially able and im a transmasc person in a red state#with unsupportive parents.#I’ve given up hope on the idea that ‘ppl here are generally good and just misled into voting for the worse of the 2 evils’ and know just#feel these people are subhumanly stupid. beyond saving. no hope. they are voids. cesspits. empty headed useless ontologically evil braindead#soulless husks. it is useless to try to reason with them or inform them or convince them of anything. they are lost causes. it’s better#to leave this country while they rot in the dying empire They chose to make this bad.#they Want this. they Want fascism. they don’t care about other ppl#they are individualism poisoned Americans with no interest in a better future.#I hate them. I hate Americans. I hate my family. I hate my community.#none of it is worth fighting for anymore. they are lost causes.#the best course of action is to leave. but I can’t so im stuck with these fucking useless morons#so until then I have to rot with them. im stuck in this fucking tar pit of a country#with these fucking tar pits of ppl#illiterate fucking rednecks and functional alcoholic suburbanites. the fucking moldy white bread of humanity#I hope we all die. we deserve this.#useless fucking dnc allergic to winning.#barely coherent braindead voterbase. useless fucking male loneliness truther incels#the world would be better off if this country was fucking nuked off the map.#sorry silly fandom mutuals for being a whiny american. but things r materially going 2 get so much worse for me and my friends next year#project 2025 is terrifying and trump wants to put tariffs on everything which is going to cause prices of everything 2 skyrocket even more#and just knowing ppl are reveling in the ‘liberal tears’ aka ppl being upset that their lives r about 2 get worse makes my skin crawl#and makes me nauseous. these ppl are not human#they don’t care about Palestine they don’t care about Ukraine they don’t care about Sudan#and they don’t care about trans ppl gay ppl any racial minorities#some of them Are racial minorities and want 2 separate themselves from the ‘bad ones’#im just fucking disgusted by the ppl here voting against their own interests bc they r fucking dumb and misinformed.
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Boy made a two pound apple strudel then joked about me eating it all for my birthday (today) how am I supposed to say normal things after that
#when we hung out last he made me eat some snack that was just white bread butter and chocolate#then watched me eat it#it’s all just too much#he’s doing all the things I need him to but haven’t said a word#sir knows nothing#but is so good already….FUCK#boy
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anybody remember the stephanie brown essay I was working on under a research grant fully last summer? yeah it’s not done yet it super needs to be done and I’ve been avoiding working on it for weeks. someone tell me to just do it already
#the problem is. actually there are several problems#1) I’ve been out of the Batman/dc comics phase for almost a year so I don’t care that much about the topic#2) I am fifteen pages in and have not touched it in months so I’ve completely lost my train of thought#3) I can’t just reread it because I hate first five pages or so and I know I need to change it but I was trying to finish before editing#so now my only solution is I need to open up a new doc and completely restructure the whole thing by splicing together the existing writing#so that I can figure out where the hell im going with this and make sure things fit together better#unfortunately that sounds fucking exhausting#but I told my mentor I would have an update for him by the end of the week and. well. it’s the end of the week#I have to present it in April. I have to write and submit an abstract in March#the school gave me $1500 for this stupid essay and if I don’t have anything to show for myself.#well. I don’t know they can’t take the money BACK but it’s not a good look#and also I would feel bad#I did the research!!! i interviewed comic writers even!!! I just haven’t finished WRITING IT DOWN#and I KNOOOOWW once I get started it’ll be fine once I’m going I’m going#but STARTING is hard because I feel like I have to finish it in one go which makes it so huge and daunting#I’m like. slamming my head into a wall. just write a couple sentences Jess something is better than nothing#just start it you don’t have to finish just START just MAKE the new DOC#I know!!!!! that is what my therapist would say!!!! Jess you’re trying to oneshot it bc of your dumb adhd brain!!!!#stop looking at it like that and making it scarier!!!#but even tho I know that logically I’m still like oh I should put away the dishes o should make bread#I should work on my six different art pieces I should do laundry i should play with the puppy I should go for a walk I sh
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At it again.
I do intend to actually clean the Sand one up and do it properly because I do have it partially built in the Sims because that's who I am as a person, but apparently we're doing Ray's rich boy rooms first.
In crayola coloured pencil and crayon because I never actually went and got my architecture degree and I can do what I want.
#adventures in ofts#my whiteboard has mlc ages and coral island fishing times written on it#the others have a skillet bread recipe and my grocery list on them#so scrap notepaper i found on the floor and colouring pencils it is#and also crayons because i couldnt find a felt tip#so this is. a lot more chaotic.#realising ray's rooms all have sliding doors rather than swinging doors fundamentally fucked me up#ray lives in a closet#he's just not very good at it#it's a very big closet tbf#i'm still not over the floral decorations theyre so#and also jojo/crew were sitting in what i assume is walk in/open closet space for the bathroom scenes#i'm so entertained#i was. not doing this on a flat surface. is my excuse#and not that i'm in a lot of pain and had too much coffee#i have a whole bunch of screenshots that are just me going ???? WHERE IS THIS#but i'll get there#this has so much missing from it
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I think that part of what like. kills me about the whole media literacy and critical thinking aspect of enjoying media these days is that people refuse to like. contextualize that
A. Bad media can still hold significant meaning to people
B. Media made for a demographic you aren’t apart of is not inherently bad media
C. Media made for and consumed by the opposite demographic is not inherently shallow or flawed nor is it above criticism for its media tropes either.
#unimportant thoughts#i dont feel like dropping specifics in post but like. people online drive me legitimately insane#good example is Ready Player One. its an okay book but people LOVE to hate on it for being a shallow nostalgia grab for old male demographic#and like. yeah. but also comsider that it Was written earnestly by a man in that demographic? and that people enjoyed it???#and maybe im soft hearted but my Dad was a nerd in the 80’s so both of us reading that book and comparing our experiences with it and#learning about his childhood from him. it was awesome yk??? was the book groudbreaking or particularly moving? no#are there a lot of fair criticisms you can make about the book regarding its poorly written female characters and painfully male tone#throughout? absolutely. its not the most vile piece of media its barely mediocre and its not the best thing since sliced bread either#and it kills me because instead of being able to have conversations like thay#people just attack and attack and attack and ATTACK#I don’t know i think the rise of this booktook wattpad level romance smut is another big part of this#are those books incredible? no. definitely not. are they decent? yeah theyre fine enough#are their characters shallow; do they follow tropes; are the characters clearly romanticized objects for us to googoo eye over? yeah#so fucking what??? they arent winning pulitzer prizes theyre just popular online and easily accesible#people love consumbable media thats not an inherently bad thing#and i think its hypocritical for people to defend one and attack the other or even to attack both#media doesnt exist to be appropriately Deep and Meaningful before people are allowed to consume and enjoy it#like. i think theres a LOT of levels of undestanding compassion and respect that people need to reach before these conversations are worth#anything. because right now it really feels like girls and boys arguing back and forth on the playground over whos show is better#anyways. i could go on but i wont.#bottom line i suggest you take a deep look at how ‘realistic’ and ‘meaningful’ the media you enjoy actually fucking is before you start#critizing other media for being too shallow or unrealistic depictions of something#hate to break it to you guys but 90% of fictional characters are fictional and dont act like people irl ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
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Making spinach noodle egg casserole but i am dumb and should have put the spinach ontop so the noodles dont get burned :(
Will probably still be tasty tho but lets see
#i made this pretty villy nilly just throw things in a casserole dish and badabing badaboom tasty food#oh i hope this actually is going to be tasty i havnt made a casserole in so long#anyways i had a big day today and got lots of stuff at the supermarket and dollerstore#i walked alllll over my part of the city to like 4 different stores#but now i have strawberry milk powder for the first time since i was like 5 and i will be happy#also got myself some elderflower syrup yay!#and a journal#and some good ol' liver sausage wich sounds bad in english but trust me is soo fucking tastey as a spread on bread#now im just rambling sorry
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do people actually hate coleslaw i kinda like it
#CONFESSION TIME#i hate ham#like sandwich ham#so when someone would make a sandwich for me#i wouldn’t ask for ham#instead i would ask for#coleslaw and cheese.#that’s it#no meat no nothing#just bread coleslaw and cheese#until i realised that’s fucking gross#because i don’t even like cheese all that much#BUT#coleslaw by itself is pretty good#daisys whimsical words
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reached that point in my diet journey where i always wanna eat but the thought of it makes me feel disgusting and like a failure. so how are yall doing
#its not even that drastic of a diet and the doctor is actually very nice he doesnt pressure me or anything and im actually never hungry#but its just so. joyless. even eating bread now makes me feel guilty cause im only supposed to eat so much yknow#and its hot as fuck!!! i just wanna eat fruit and icecream til october!! but apparently thats not good for you. or whatever#anyway idk how to tag this#diet talk/#also im tired cause ive been on this diet since december i think??? i miss pork </3
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#two mimir#tandemaus#pokemon#pokemon sv#pokemon gen 9#sorry bintendo i pirated this game but i wouldve bought it if i knew it was such a good game at the end#that ending was actually so good id put it as my favourite pokemon game#and the music holy fuck my ears were blessed#okok next time I will buy the new game#shit made me crave sandwiches so bad then i made my own bread and got sick of sandwiches after 2 weeks#now im getting tired of caesar salad#i need more recipes for work#i promised myself i would never buy another drink at gongchass after they fired me but then they released some cute ass 3d keychains#I'll just get my bf to do it#i wanna play the next gow#please let me refund aitsf 2 i dont feel. like playing it but steam wont let me#idk why I'm too lazy to play it even tho the games expensive ash#need more multiplayerr games to play with friends#terraria got boring after 2 days#zomboid is good#plate up got boring after a week#where is my motivation to play apex#raft is dead#devour need more maps#no im not going to play LOL or AOE#i wish i celebrated christmas#if I could experience something again it would b my childhood xmas spirit and mythical-y energy#i feel like ill always be mentally stuck at 17#how bout i physically go back to 17 too i dont want to start paying my fuel#shit goes down so fast
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