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“Boundaries are, in simple terms, the recognition of personal space.” ~ Asa Don Brown
#boundaries #healthyboundaries #personal #space #personalspace #toxic #toxicity #toxicindividuals #protect #feuds #traumas #grief #loss #relationships #couples #family #work #colleagues #classmates #WikiHow #PowerofPositivity #AsaDonBrown

#boundaries#boundary#boundary setting#beyond the boundary#boundary break#boundary post#boundary wall#boundary holding#boundary firm#boundary insistent#relationship#couples#families#family#friendship#work#dr. asa don brown#asa don brown#psychology#counseling#counselling#children#asadonbrown#canadian counselling and psychotherapy association#mental health#canada#united nations#united kingdom#united states#human kindness
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Videos: Behind the Scenes of Episode 6 | Interview with the Vampire | New Episodes Sundays | AMC+, Autumn Brown - Dressed to Depress with Roxane Duran and Xfinity Hangouts: Jacob Anderson and Sam Reid
i applaud their dedication.... for their hickies competition 🤭
i know that other vampire shows have some type of prosthetic make up to put above the actors skins so the other actor could bite without having to make direct contact with eo. i am really surprised IWTV don't use that technic. Like, is either sucking for real until you leave a bruise in your co-worker, which Jam clearly don't mind or pretending by playing with angles and potentially having saliva running down your neck or whatever they are pretending to bite.
On a side note it seems they was working with a different intimacy coordinator for season 2. The one in Season 1 was Deven MacNair and the one in Season 2 according to Jacob in the 1st video was someone called Kat (?).
#jam reiderson#jacob anderson#sam reid#roxane duran#interview with the vampire#iwtv#season 1 press#season 2 press#between this and the refusal to do stage kissing and them insisting to have to rehearse kisses... they're wild#They have no shame at all#jam is like: i am gonna suck and bite my costar bc i like it and we have no boundaries with eo#and we will also use tongue when we kiss#the intimacy coordinator is only here to prevent us to f*ck
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hey remember when the OFMD s2 teaser video dropped and there were people who were somehow CONVINCED that Stede was referring to Izzy when he said "I don't care what any of you say, he's actually a good guy" and not, y'know, Ed, whom they were literally just talking about in this scene?
like what the hell was that about
#it was around this time last year that i knew i was gonna have to take a hard break away from the fandom til the entirety of s2 was out#bc i KNEW. i just KNEW it in my balls that there would be some Bad Takes and annoying discourse#and i KNEW there'd be spoilers bc people can't fuckin help themselves#and boy was i smart for doing that#thanking my past self for establishing that boundary#our flag means death#stede bonnet#edward teach#gentlebeard#ofmd meta#ofmd#ofmd s2#not to be a hater. but#in some cases: *Zoidberg meme* your media literacy/interpretation of a text is bad. and you should feel bad#sometimes opinions are just wrong#like why can't you just love your blorbo without insisting he's somehow the main character in the show when he's just not#btw: lest anyone forget. the show is the relationship (between Ed & Stede)#per David Jenkins himself#sometimes you read things and you just wonder “wtf did i just read”
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i’m gonna be real with you guys: matpat is uh, Not my favorite youtuber, to put it politely, but i think we’re getting a little too comfortable with catastrophizing every time a Big Name Clickbaity Horror Youtuber looks at welcome home. nobody likes it when something they love is relegated to reductive theories and comparisons to fnaf/bendy/ddlc/poppy/whatever tae fuck is hot on the market rn, but ultimately i find that the best cure for things like these is to just not give them any attention at all (or at least as little as you can manage. technically i’m defeating my own point by writing this post, but i’m a pedant so whatever.) the it’s so over around us may burn bright but the fuck it we ball inside us burns brighter,
#public notice#welcome home#also. if you insist on posting a reminder about clown's boundaries#maybe like. actually look at clown's blog first. or at least just reread the posts where he Establishes those boundaries#bc i've seen Wayyy too many people just make shit up wholecloth#soapboxing#EDIT: also technically i Was guilty of this but tbf there is a reason i deleted those posts#the big one being that i was in a Generally unwell state of mind that had little to do with WH
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It’s Dorian “I need to hear you say yes” Havilliard
#booklr#books and reading#throne of glass#manon blackbeak#tog#dorian havilliard#manon x dorian#manorian#KING OF CONSENT#as unhinged as Manon is he was not going to overstep any boundaries#so sexy of him#no wonder she quickly became undone#like he’s so kinky and doesn’t hold back but first things first#I love a man with priorities#he promises Manon a good time but she has to give him consent first#he’s also big on safe words#you KNOW he will insist on it because it’s just the man that he is
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people in this fandom just say anything like why have i seen several wincesties asserting that canon dean is a rapist and has canonically raped sam... genuinely what are you guys talking about!!! back in my day rape in this context meant sexual assault and canon meant it was actually right there in the source material but what the hell . words can mean whatever you want them to i guess
#are there instances of dean completely disrespecting sam's personal/physical boundaries?? of course#it's not crazy to think hmmmmmm maybe striking your adult brother unprovoked or beating him unconscious is NOT just Haha Typical Siblings#and does in fact constitute abuse#but RAPE?#it'd be one thing if you just liked to think about it i love and respect the attic wife sam girlies#but insisting that it's somehow canon that dean winchester has sexually assaulted his own brother and then hating him for it????#ummm bestie . you made that up! let's all relearn what those words actually mean ok <3#every fawking day in this fandom#“it's canon!” and the canon in question is personal interpretation/preference or confirmation bias or misunderstanding or cherry picking or#god!!!#i love aus i love dead dove i love fic but at leat save your real critique for offenses the character has actually committed in canon!!#leave him alone otherwise!!!#wincest#samdean
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how are you gonna have rules against ageplay and incest and then proceed to call an account based on both of those hot… hmm….
you’re being rly weird
#i don’t wanna write Your age play and Your incest i wanna write it on my terms#you and your weird insistence to breach someone’s boundaries makes me uncomfortable and you’re a bad person#indy shoots the shit#anon#tw incest mention#tw age play
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i am begging on my KNEES for my pinned post to be read… i do not derive any sort of joy from blocking people but,
if you are an ageless blog and you come into my inbox to interact in any way, much less ask me about the honest to god porn i’ve written, you are getting a block.
once more, i am not doing this out of malice. please respect my boundaries to not want to discuss nsft content, or any kind of content, with someone that could be a minor.
#sev.screams#please. please just read the pinned post#‘i could lie’ then that’s on you#i have made my boundaries expressly clear#if you insist on pushing them via dishonesty that is on your character#the number of times this has happened to my moots is also annoying to be succint#just. respect boundaries#keep yourself safe or at least SAFER on the internet
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You know, I love Kris to pieces, and I'm absolutely all for the super cool, ultra-competitive, often sassy/sarcastic, absolute girlboss depictions of her. She truly deserves all of it!!!! Her character design alone definitely gives off those vibes, and I'm sure there's in-game evidence to support that kind of personality (I haven't played Crystal yet so I can't actually confirm that part myself). But I'm also begging people please please please let her be just a tiny bit cringe because she deserves that too <3 I think that if you wanted to (key word is want---I'm genuinely not trying to police or judge anyone here, as there's nothing wrong with simple characterization---I'm just pointing out a common thing I've noticed), there's so many interesting ways to explore her personality without making her just another Cool Girl(TM).
(I've seen a similar thing with Lyra being simplified to sweet-but-a-little-ditzy and/or cheerful-but-secretly-Sad(TM) and/or having an "I can fix him" thing with Silver, but that's probably a conversation for another time >_> )
#really really really hoping no one takes this the wrong way#i struggle with tone so please know this is 100% lighthearted and not at all upset#pokemon#pokemon hgss#trainer kris#my version of kris is a fucking dork and i love her#sends 50/50 cute pokemon pictures and incomprehensible memes to her friends#insists on taking handwritten field notes despite having the worst handwriting#sulking quietly to herself when someone corrects her on something she swore she knew about#consistantly found in the lab at midnight with an energy drink hunched over like a goblin because she just#knows she's on the verge of a breakthrough (she's sleep-deprived and delusional)#with underlying themes of dealing with burnout and setting boundaries and defining herself outside of her aspirations and relationships#she's such a beloved. to me. <3
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nobody even writes about stone tops x pillow princesses anymore. that's because of woke
#the things i would do for wlw fics that give attention and care to stone tops/touch me nots and their boundaries#nothing irks me more than one person being insistent on not receiving anything back or not wanting to be undressed#only for them to have to do it anyway because their partner begs them to or eggs them on#we're losing our recipes... i will kill everyone i see
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Here, have a bunny Mirai.
#i insist#it's on me#anime#kyoukai no kanata#beyond the boundary#kyoto animation#kyoani#2010s#bunny girl
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Why does my mom get so weird about me having friend, she keep asking me some weird shit like “am i jealous” or to put it bluntly “are you insecure about yourself or do you in any way hate your friend” Like ok bro thats so fucking personal no normal person would ask about that in pure daylight
#ignorelist#why cant she be ever be normal about me#she act like im the devil fucking incarnate when she pushed my boundaries all the time and when i explained stuff to him CALMLY she still in#insisted on making me uncomfortable#and the only way to ever fucking get her to stop if i treat her badly#i want her DEADD
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procastinating at work but here's my philosophy for today: it's okay to hate a behavior in someone else but also understand that this behavior does not make them a bad person. like i HATE when i'm venting or talking about a serious problem i have and then the person i'm talking to starts trying to relate by talking about a similar experience they've had. like absolutely hate it. make me feel like the focus is being taken off me and it genuinely is in some ways, regardless of your intent. yeah, i understand that's your way of trying to comfort me -- but that's not the way i need or want to be comforted, and that's what matters in a situation where i'm coming to you to be helped.
and that's okay! like. no one is in the wrong here unless i have explicitly asked you to support me in a different way and you're intentionally refusing, or if i lash out at you when i could just disengage. it just means you're not a person i should go to for help when talking about my problems. we can still be friends, you and i can probably support each other in different ways, but we're just incompatible in this regard. and that's like....okay. it's okay to be incompatible with people.
#i need to stop going on instagram sooooo many hot takes on there piss me the fuck off#ok going on a rant here but like.#soooo many 'neurodivergent' posters on there are like 'neurotypicals suck bc they dont realize im being comforting when i talk abt myself#when they're upset!!!' and its like my friend i can understand your plight but like#1. this is an easily changable behavior#that tbh does not require much change on your part aside from just like. not talking.#2. the so-called neurotypicals in ur life are allowed to have boundaries and accomodations to their needs and ur currently not doing that#3. not every neurodivergent person does that. and some also hate it like the so called neurotypicals.#4. why are you prioritizing your emotions when a loved one comes to you for help or comfort. are u just a dick.#this has nothing to do with you being neurodivergent i think you're just self centered lol#like genuinely if you do this you are not a bad person. it's not a bad thing. i thinnk im just mad at the people who insist#that it's the only way they can ever try to comfort someone and they act like asking them to change this behavior is ableist#and if they genuinely can't change this behavior then fine!! like they i wont go to you with my problems#and that's also fine#but yeah anyways these tags are so different from the message of the post lol but anyways just needed to rant
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On the list of things that made no sense in the middle of this episode:
You mean to tell me that Dee just left his apartment full of 30+ lit candles with dinner on the table with out his phone while in his tiger costume and just didn’t say anything. Especially when he’s been really good at shutting Ter down thus far.
Like he didn’t even blow out the candles.
And they weren’t that burned down so he wasn’t gone that long but it suggested he ate a whole ass meal like he didn’t have dinner on his table at home. But also he looked so uncomfortable at that dinner table and still somehow ended up looking over the presentation.
I…You could have set the whole building on fire my guy. The whole building.
#wandee goodday the series#like dee was clearly super into the date#and it was right on the heels of kao insisting dee tell yak how he feels#and he’s had boundaries with ter#so I don’t know why they disappeared here#except for story purposes#which is why I hate when plot ignores character#ter felt correct though
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dishwashing machine broke, mom's coming home in three or so days so I'll have a patient to care for on top of brother & sister, dad's stressed out and I've never been better. admittedly still have to work out a study schedule but life will be a lot easier now that...I don't have to go to school and can skip the commute, family has to listen when I tell them not to do [insert thing that is inadvisable, like trying to walk a km when you're feeling faint], and I can. access the internet of my own free will [used to be chained by the whims of the wifi owner]
this is so nice.
#a big part of why my family has so much trouble with life issues is that my mom & dad overcommit. they don't know limits & it's not funny#they think isolation during illness is dumb which is why we get sick as a family often#and my mom with her various health issues insists on placing priority importance on dusting and sweeping.#meanwhile my dad always freaks out about things like using the aircon for too long when we could get it serviced with the money he spent on#stock gambling#they're really bad at adulting tbh#so while my dad's too tired to argue and my mom is down#im staying at home: pretty much skipping school and holding the fort#and it has never been better. finally some decent household management can be input#can google for help anytime i need to figure out an issue#can contact household instead of rationing 3gb of backup data#can entertain the littles with movie trailers without being yelled at to make them r e a d#because apparently 5 year olds need to study#they always say they're ok with whatever mark my little sis gets but I Know Better#a big part of why my parents are bad at parenting is that they oscillate between spoiling the children (letting them do whatever they want)#and going full on maniac mode#no expectations no rules no boundaries#just this mood swing and whim driven attitude#atp im honestly convinced im losing weight because I'm so much less stressed#dropped another 200g today...#this is doing wonders for my mental health#I can't imagine what it'll be like when I'm an adult#I'll probably combust of happiness
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judith thanking god that she had a cavalier who taught her “the limits of what they will be to each other for the rest of their lives” so early is soooooooo. ohhaug. she says she’s lucky she so lucky. sure yes sure she wants and wants and wants and joined her hand to marta’s with the “purest intentions.” she’s wanted coronabeth for 12 years. but she’s so lucky marta told she couldn’t be with her entirely. so she isn’t tempted! it isn’t an option. she’s so lucky and thank the emperor for it. i feel lightheaded
#judith deuteros#when your lesbian repression and your insistence on strict boundaries and autonomy in necro/cav relationships is patched together with#militant devotion to the fucking guy. who. the fucking guy who fucking#the sin of denying yourself for nothing#does she have a point about codependency of course yes and i agree it was an act of kindness for marta to turn her down#but. and yet. and yet!#it’s the act that i’ve taken and that has been taken for me and it’s like well when is it already too far. when does acting on desire#become meaningfully riskier than the shaking vulnerable risk of being in love without touch. your heart is still on the line#your heart was always on the line! judith…
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