#binary trans

[cl0wnc0ll3ge]

[pet-shop-of-horror-fan]

Popular Trans Blogger: You should never misgender any trans person ever. It does not matter what they have done or how bad you think they are. It's transphobia, plain and simple.

Same Popular Trans Blogger: If you think theyfab is a bad thing to call someone, that is proof that you are a theyfab and hate trans women. Even if you don't use they/them pronouns, even if you claim not to be afab, even if you have given no indication of your gender, pronouns, or agab, you are a theyfab, trust me, I can tell.

[theatrekidenergy]

Any other bisexuals feel like their attraction, no matter what the gender of the person is, still feels queer in some way?

[counting-stars-gayly]

Dear trans people, you DO NOT have to conform to beauty standards designed for cis people! No one does but they are pressuring you especially because you are trans!! They want you to justify your existence and earn their acceptance by “looking like” them, but you DO NOT HAVE TO. You can be a man/transmasc with a big chest who doesn’t bind and doesn’t take testosterone. You can be a woman/transfem with a small chest who doesn’t tuck or shave or take estrogen. You can be whatever the fuck you want and still be beautiful because you are innately beautiful and they CANNOT take that away from you!!

[rjalker]

"cis people are actually more accepting of nonbinary people than binary trans people and that's just a fact!!!" - someone who's very clearly never spoken to a nonbinary person in their whole entire life

you people will just straight up lie about anything to do with nonbinary and pretend it's a fact and then wonder why you're marked red in shinigami eyes.

[your-average-teenage-mess]

Ok but like. I know that everyone love making jokes about how "the first step for passing as a trans person is being skinny and white", but in reality... Both of these can actually kinda be disadvantages when it comes to that?

Like, skinny white male and female bodies are the bodies that society knows how to categorize best. They're the ones that the collective gaze is focused on. They're the ones we're shown in anatomy textbooks. So if you generally don't fit the criteria for a body that people know how to categorize in other ways, people will be more likely to assume your gender based on how you dress, talk, move, etc.

Like, I don't mean it as a "being skinny and white makes life harder for you actually" kinda thing. Objectively speaking, it clearly does the opposite. But I also think that, again, objectively speaking, trying to claim this is how that power dynamic behaves in this specific context, just ignores other factors at play.

[poll-boy]

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[adamsuniverse1144]

enough said.

[agaricgarlic]

CW Questioning /Detrans

I've been hearing about detransitioners and it makes me nervous. When I think of detransitioning it makes me sad and uncomfortable because I don't want to be a woman it's just off . But then I hear people that were like trans for a decade that detransition in some way.

Its hard because looking back on childhood I realized that a lot of the things I did and the way I forced myself to try to be super feminine and as pretty as possible was because I wanted to be accepted in guys spaces because I wasn't already since I wasn't a male.

And when I see myself in the mirror Ive never really seen it as "yeah this is me" it's like "Oh there's this person in the mirror. Oh wait that's me? That doesn't make sense." And now presenting as a man and passing before T and stuff it's like I see myself. like I can see myself and I'm a guy and I'm more confident in myself and I want to medically transition and when I'm aware of my body I can feel the discomfort and dysphoria but im in my head all the time like i dont even exist in my body.

So I keep making reasons for why I'm trans and why I want to transition but I keep feeling like "what if I'm wrong?" I don't want to be wrong I want to be a guy forever so it's scary. Idk

[korrasera]

Again, Binary Trans Isn't A Thing

Long story short:

The gender binary is a social construct that says there are only ever two kinds of people, cis men and cis women, with literally anyone who doesn't identify that way either being a liar or wrong or both. Part of breaking down the gender binary is acknowledging that this is not true and that the gender binary is entirely socially constructed. People come in a lot more configurations than what the gender binary suggests.

Explanation:

Trans folks that don't use the term non-binary to describe themselves are not "Binary Trans" and you shouldn't be calling people that. It's bad reasoning, an artificial dichotomy that just restates the gender binary only this time including trans men and trans women that aren't being trans in the right way.

Cis men and cis women aren't the problem and putting trans men and trans women right alongside them doesn't help dismantle the gender binary. The problem is the idea of the binary itself, the idea that only two kinds of people exist. That's what we need to break. You shouldn't be categorizing people on the basis of whether or not they're on the right side when the problem is categorizing them in the first place.

All human beings are non-binary because human gender expresses along a spectrum that at best features a bimodal distribution where most people use the term man or woman to describe themselves. Plenty of people exist on that spectrum between, around, and all together different from those two terms.

We use the term non-binary as an identity descriptor when people want to specifically call that out as an important part of their sense of self and self-expression, but human gender is non-binary.

When you seek to dismantle a faulty social construct, it's important to not just recreate it in a different way. Categorize people as binary trans and you're just putting the bricks back in the wall.

[trans-enby-culture-is]

Binary trans culture is being irritated and offended by the question "are you a boy or a girl" even though one of those options is correct. They're rarely asking in good faith.

#67

[pet-shop-of-horror-fan]

"Do you even notice how many trans men and trans women used to identify as non-binary? I'm not saying non-binary people aren't real or anything. But it's a common stepping stone for trans people."

That only makes sense if you erase the non-binary and genderqueer people who used to identify as binary trans men and binary trans women.

And the only reason to do that is if you devalue non-binary and genderqueer people.

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