#being sexless

[worshipfulmercy]

i have so many thoughts about his gender and how he's kind of textually a woman and/or abinary (read tags if interested)

[danielsarmand]

if you view viktor as asexual or aroace (for, like, actual reasons and not out of blatant ableism) all the power to you but my personal headcanon which is now a core belief of my person is that viktor is lowkey a sex god with a moderate-to-high sexual appetite and has plenty of experience (WAY more than jayce) because whenever he is particularly stressed he winds down by fucking random men who end up forever changed by the encounter

[kuromi-hoemie]

ngl it does really annoy me when everyone accepts “ace people don't have sex” as the baseline assumption instead of ace people just not experiencing sexual attraction.

you can still have sex but be driven by different reasons, like to me it is a kind of affection and way to hang out with people that is influenced by the relationship we have with each other. i can think people are pretty to look at with or without their clothes without sexual attraction in the mix.

when i see something full of ppl assuming ace people don't have sex i always want to jump on it and be annoying like MEEEE I'M ACE PEOPLE WHO HAS SEX, WE EXIST WE EXIST STOP ASSUMING WE DON'T THERE ARE PEOPLE WHO STRAIGHT UP WILL NOT DATE OR BE INTERESTED IN ACE PEOPLE BECAUSE OF THIS MISCONCEPTION AND WE E X I S T.

stop!!!! assuming ace people do not have sex!!!!!!!! if you don't know then ask if it's appropriate!!!!!!!!!!! stop thinking about it in a binary you either do or don't have sex kind of way!!!!!! this is fundamentally off!!!!!!!!!!!! if you are ace you do not have sexual ATTRACTION!!!!!!!!!!!

as to how we feel about and handle sex, that varies person to person but sex favorable aces are a lot more common than you'd think. hell, figuring out I'm ace was the hardest thing to figure out about myself because all i ever saw people talk about was whether you have sex or not. I'm sure there's a lot more people who haven't figured it out for this same reason, and let me tell you it's hard to know you're missing a whole ass type of attraction when you've never experienced it before and didn't know it was missing to begin with!!

ace is not synonymous with sexless. aces who don't have sex don't speak for me, and y'all gotta stop letting them be the only face of the community. there are More Of Us, it is All Of Us.

accepting that baseline at face value leaves you uninformed and it's frustrating to see this over and over again. challenge yourself to do better and try understanding ace people more.

[pineapple-cheese-bread]

Man I really looked at the options for Gender and Sexuality and just said no❤️

[whatudottu]

Wouldn't it be funny for the hot doctor Knock Out to not actually be that big a fan of sex. Still tho- it doesn't stop him from tormenting his husband with horny thoughts <3

Hah, instead of leaving him cold and sleaveless in just scrubs alone, I gave dear KO a puffy racer jacket (you know damn well it's ruby red), and to give himself an excuse to wear it in the medbay and on the field, he's got the Decepticon medical symbol patched on his arms :)

hmm does the implied impregnation mean i need to tag this as something?

[sassypantsjaxon]

lulaw summarized

[littjara-mirrorlake]

happy pride month to every core-born phyrexian with pronouns

[mithliya]

i feel like some of you do genuinely need to go offline tho bc of all things to have a victim-complex about, being simply told not to date men should not be one of them. that is quite literally what every woman has been raised to believe her purpose is. women are literally treated as inferior failures with no value if we, for whatever reason (including innate sexuality), do not want to be with men. you will live through your boyfriend being called jakey, and you will also live through being told you're not a radfem because you have a boyfriend. it will not kill you, i promise. you will be ok. go offline, kiss your precious boyfriend, and maybe go on a nice picnic date together so you can remember just how normal and accepted, even encouraged, heterosexual relationships are.

[aziraphales-bentley]

i love that crowley thirst traps are like

*crowley walking* *crowley drinking wine* *crowley sitting gayly* *crowley smirking evilly*

and then for aziraphale its like

*aziraphale saying his own name with a silly little moustache drawn on* *aziraphale with tiny glasses* *aziraphale straightnening his bowtie* *aziraphale smiling tenderly*

[thealogie]

doctor who is about a “man” being so unbelievably sexually repressed about women but going full whore with the first gay man they interact with (many such cases)

Sometimes a gender-shifting alien person ruins the life of every single woman they’ve ever met because, well…..

[aropride]

teenage boys "cant control their hormones" so nobody can wear tank tops in high school. but also teenagers are "too young to know" if theyre ace or bi or gay or whatever else. make it make sense -_-

[bennidraws]

they're what kids these days call "toxic" 😞

(something something being an asshole who enjoys provoking his partner but being married to a wife that got diagnosed with hysteria)

[tomwambsgans]

when he goes out of his way to tell everyone that he likes women but in the process alludes to a song where the protagonist specifically fails to have sex with a woman

[tangsoso]

chung myung

[daniclaytcn]

is that piece of media ‘fetishizing’ lgbtq relationships or did the characters, like. have sex once.

[sevicia]

Guys can I be honest. I don't think someone having cringe writing warrants this kind of hate. Is anyone else seeing this.