#because im aroace.
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I’ve been cooking up a bit, hope you’ll like your meal!
#I love her sobs#my favourite since ever!#trying some colouring styles#how did I do??#gumi#gumi megpoid#gumi vocaloid#gumi fanart#vocaloid#vocaloid fanart#aroace#because im aroace.#digital art#drawing#fan art#aro#ace
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Even if an asexual does find sex to be gross that still doesn't give you the right to infantalize them.
#text#ace#asexual#aroace#sex repulsed#sex averse#i keep seeing ppl say that they shouldnt be infantalized for being ace because they dont find sex gross#but also its important to note even if you did find sex gross#that is not a reason to infantalize someone#its not childish or innocent to be repulsed by sex...#me being repulsed doesnt mean im a child
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aro/ace themed valentine's day teddy bears ^^ because i just recently found out i might be arospec but also just cuz like..... why not
#this may be out of character for me because just a few weeks ago i strongly disliked valentine's day lmao#now that i know im probably some kinda flavor of aro? i.. dunno how to feel#how i feel about the holiday is complicated#while i still dont like the romantic aspect of it.. at least i dont find myself rolling my eyes at valentine's themed stuff as much anymore#idk maybe i'll go back to disliking the holiday next year who knows lol#i guess its just the catharsis i suppose..#aromantic#asexual#aroace#aspec#arospec#lgbtq#valentine's day#valentine's#teddy bear#digital art#art#toby draws things
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what the fuck am i doing. scheduling this at 1am.
#MD personality shift au#murder drones#murder drones fanart#murder drones N#murder drones uzi#serial designation N#uzi doorman#murder drones Nuzi#Nuzi#enzi#biscuit bites#tw suggestive#??? i guess#no one actually notices it but he's slightly lifting her shirt. lol. lmao.#being aroace is making suggestive/nsfw art that you gradually lose interest in because you just don't feel it yknow? LMAO#it starts out like “oh boy! this one's SPICY!!” and then it devolves into “oh yeah whatever. gotta color here and shade there.”#“dang i fucked up the anatomy there. wait what was i drawing?”#shoutout to my fellow aroacers who do this full-time cuz i could not I'd literally die of boredom LMAO#its . 1am and im jsut rambling in the tags
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i love that rogue's idea of the fake relationship drama escalation was a fucking marriage proposal. at the same time, he got called a cad and his first instinct was to get on his knees, so like,,
#i swear for a hot second there i thought “surely he's not gonna blow him right there” because i forgot marriage proposals were a thing#dont judge me im aroace but with the emphasis on aro#but aside of that damn that whole scene was fun#doctor who#doctor who spoilers#dw spoilers#fifteenth doctor#rogue
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I hate it when people's first reaction to me saying I'm aroace is "oh but don't you wanna have a partner and kids in the future, won't you be sad without that" Like no bitch I'm gonna be happy living alone in the peace and quiet with my cats and dogs and 1000 books to keep me company and I'm gonna be just as happy and complete as every other person out there if not happier.
#rage post#aroace rage#like yes i can find people attractive#BUT THATS BECAUSE IM NOT BLIND#im probably demiromantic but at the same time romance looks boring so imma just say no#aro#aromantic#aroace#ace#arospec#asexual#acespec#aroace pride#aromantic asexual#ace pride#aro pride#aspec#everyone is valid#but aroace is better
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okay, as someone on both the ace and aro spectrums, there is nothing wrong with shipping aroace characters.
it is a Spectrum, and just like there are sex favorable aces, sex neutral ones, and sex averse ones (or people like myself who are somewhere in between!), there is more than one way to identify as aro. for fucks sake, please stop harassing people in fandom for shipping things because it doesn't fit your definition of what being aroace means.
#cheshire rambles#hazbin hotel#alastor hazbin hotel#aroace#aromantic#asexual#hi sorry for the rant <3#it was annoying me because i was starting to guiltrip *myself*#for enjoying ships. and it took me 40 minutes to go 'wait. im aroace.'#'and i am not against romance *or* sex. why am i feeling bad about this'#honestly i was just looking through the radioapple tag and had a Moment
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okay i think all of these are easily some of the coolest things i own now
thank you so so much @bloggingboutburgers for doing this kickstarter!!! (and also everyone who made it possible to follow through with!)
i absolutely adore all the comics you make about your aroace experience, they seriously mean so much to me :D
#i was also listening to music when i got the package and the beat dropped Right as i noticed it which was magical to say the least#and you bet your ass i got the package with everything in it because of Course the artist is someone i want to 1 bajillion % support#but also its just all sick as fuck? like theyre genuinely such good comics and trinkets and AH im so so happy i have these#aroace#aro#ace#aromantic#asexual#og
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Aroace culture is not knowing when someone is dating even though to others its "very obvious"
#aromantic#aroace#asexual#aspec#aro#aromanticism#ace#arospec#asexuality#acespec#or is it just because im neurodivergent?#idk man
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Just imagine Steve figuring out he's bisexual and realizing that when he dates a girl, at a certain point into dating them, he's gonna have to tell them that he's also into men. Of course since it's the 80s, the chances of them being okay with that is probably slim. They might think he's disgusting or that he's just gay playing straight.
So he tries dating guys instead, thinking that's safer. And he ends up meeting a great guy named John at a gay bar who he really likes. Things are going strong until they started talking about past crushes and first loves. Steve casually mentions celebrity crushes on women and having loved Nancy. And thus Steve gets his first ever experience of the rampant biphobia in queer spaces. John accuses Steve of being confused and trying to hold onto his "straightness". Steve tries to explain himself by saying that, no, he really does like women, but that only makes things worse. John now believes that Steve is just going to eventually leave him for a woman, if he hasn't already been cheating on him. John ends up storming out leaving Steve devastated.
He goes crying to Robin and explains what happened. He's horrified to realize that no matter who he dates, there's always going to be the risk of them not accepting him, guy or girl. But he can't hide that part of himself, it's too big. It's who he is. Robin is there to reassure him that if someone can't accept him being bi than they don't deserve him. It's able to cheer him up a little, but the damage has been done.
Steve is now very reluctant to date anyone. And if he does manage to bring himself to go on one, he gets complaints of being very emotionally distant or having a fear of commitment.
When Steve inevitably falls for Eddie, he's scared out of his mind. It's clear that Eddie is gay based on his hanky, but, again, that doesn't mean he'll accept Steve's bisexuality. One night, while the two get so high in Eddie's trailer that Steve has to stay over, they argue about sleeping arrangements. Eddie keeps insisting that Steve would probably be more comfortable with Eddie sleeping in another room for some cryptic reason and Steve, who gets incredibly clingy while high, keeps shooting back with them sharing a bed being fine. When Steve keeps asking why they can't over and over again, Eddie blurts out that it's because he's gay. Without hesitation, Steve's says he knows and points at the hanky on the dresser by the bed. Staring at Steve for a moment, Eddie then asks how he knows about the hanky code. This time Steve hesitates. For awhile. It honestly scares Eddie for a moment, thinking he's been vecnad. If Steve hadn't been high, he maybe would have been able to think of an excuse, some way to get out of this conversation, but he can't. So he admits that he likes guys.
Eddie very excitedly starts asking a bunch of questions and talking about how they finally found something they have in common, who knew? When he notices the tears in Steve's eyes, he stops, confused, and asks what's wrong. So Steve tells him. He's not like Eddie. He's bisexual. And he braces himself for the backlash. For loosing his best friend and crush.
But then he feels a hand grab his. Eddie tells him that they still have something in common because he's also bi. Steve points out that he said he was gay, though. Eddie asks if he has ever told anyone that he was bi before, specifically gay men. Steve nods. Then he asks if it went well. Steve shakes his head. Eddie tells him that's why he said that. He's explains how tiring it is to have to explain his existence to people who won't get it and/or react badly to it. So he just tells guys that he's also gay. It just makes things easier. And Steve gets it. By God, does he get it. They spend the whole night exchanging stories and experiences, for the first time able to talk freely about their love life.
And by the end of the night, they stumble over each other trying to ask the other out. They laugh and both say yes.
#eddie just saying hes gay comes from my aroace experience of being too tired to have to explain my sexuality to people#and then having to defend it. its just so much easier to say im gay or queer as an umbrella term#also i like when biphobia is brought up more in fics with steve#because of how much being bisexual was an unknown/foreign concept to people#also i think bi eddie is neat#steddie#bisexual steve harrington#bisexual eddie munson#bi4bi steddie my beloved#tw biphobia#cw biphobia
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Ace post Ace post
Ill crush him under my foot
#he’s so stupid#literally urgh#anyway he’s ace#duh#ace twst#ace twisted wonderland#ace trappola#ace trappola fanart#twisted wonderland#twisted wonderland fanart#digital art#drawing#fan art#ace#aroace#because im aroace.#he is aroace.
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Everytime I hear someone say "love is what makes us human"I think of that one guy who was trying to describe humanity and said humans were featherless bipedals and another guy responded to that claim by bringing in a plucked chicken saying "BEHOLD A MAN"
Like I could hold up a million animal species and say "BEHOLD A HUMAN" because they feel love. Something that isn't just a human experience.
The point being that describing a group based solely off a few features or emotions makes the definition too broad to claim that it is what makes that species said species.
Saying humans are humans cause they have no fur would include furless animals. Same with saying love is what defines humanity. Like either you think elephants don't feel love or elephants are human. Your dog doesn't actually love you or your dog is human.
You can't use vague overly broad concepts to define humans as a species. So maybe stop trying to dehumanize people for not feeling the same emotion as you in the same way you do?
#text#aro#aromantic#ace#asexual#aroace#aplatonic#loveless#aspec#amatonormativity#allonormativity#i wont go into the science part of it because im definitely not knowledgeable for that#but from what i do know its that the lines between species are more blurred than ppl realize#so trying to define humanity by 1 overbroad concept will never work
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“Aroaces can still date/have sex” do you non-aspecs actually understand and respect that or do you just want an excuse to ship canonically aroace characters?
#Because the way most of you talk I can never tell#ive had a few online spats with people about this#and im in a mood#so#like this aint mcd related#BUT YET SOMEHOW#SOMEWAY#DONT WORRY ABOUT IT#anyways#aroace#asexual#aromantic
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every time i watch anything with him in it (admittingly, predominantly from the Dropout app), i am reminded that Lou Wilson is the most handsome man to have ever lived. like, objectively. he just is. i will hear no arguments for any other person to be ranked higher. Lou Wilson: whose face single-handedly shows humanity can go no higher in beauty. he is THE most attractive man in the world. argue with the wall lmao
#lou wilson#dimension 20#dropout#game changer#i feel compelled to mention this comes from (a) me having had this opinion 5ever and needing it published as i rewatch Neverafter#and (b) that i am on aroace spectrum (im a demi-bi/pan-romantic asexual. mouthful. ugh) so like#the ''hot tingling'' feelings y'all alloromantic-allosexuals get? i dont get those. i feel like this somehow equips me to be#objective while y'all have subjectively biased preferences. dont ask me questions about this flimsy defense. im so objective. all the time#(if you need a tone indicator here: im being sarcastic and joking. i know my queerness does not make me objective. but let me joke about#this because i feel like i am SO RIGHT ABOUT HOW GODDAMN ATTRACTIVE LOU WILSON IS. PUT THIS MAN'S IMAGE IN MUSEUMS TO LAST FOREVERMORE)#how can a man still be hot after voicing Pinocchio. idk. ask Lou Wilson the most beautiful man to ever exist#he's just so stylish and pretty and funny and he has a great smile. A++. put him on the cover of magazines#my post#mine
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warm day
#LISTEN. listen. im aroace for the record. but morally. ethically. i cannot stand for the lack of manchest in the tags. so im fixing that#so here. menlikers. cmere. heres the worlds tamest pinup for you all. enjoy the stretchmarks and hair. this is a command.#in stars and time#isat#isat isabeau#isat fanart#lucabyteart#anyway i have my personal methodical in-text deductive reasonings for what specific changes isabeau may have or not done but i gotta say#he seems like a guy who got top surgery BECAUSE he thinks scars are cool and badass. even if he didnt go for full on flat. gotta have scars
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kiss you in aroace, and we're both boys.
#one piece#monkey d. luffy#trafalgar law#lawlu#my art#described in alt text#me drawing luffy in orange and law in blue because its the aroace flag: im so smart (its also the canon colors but shh).#i had forgotten i had made these. when surviving a tummyache that day. this is about like. i wanted to like. explore aroace&aroace#relationships and how you're more likely to be affectionnate among fellows aros and aces because youve made it clear theres no intentions#behind it. like man. imagine a beautiful world when no one has to feel like they cant hold or kiss their homies because it's seen as#inherently romantic or sexual. also im still trying to figure out how to draw kisses and this was a good opportunity to try again.
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