#be discriminated against for that instead?
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THAT’S WHAT I’M SAYING THO
especially about media trying to use metaphor to educate children about racism too? like take the movie elemental for example (loved the art btw it was so fire) - yeah, it’s all fine and good, you showed what systemic racism looks like, but it’s a fundamentally flawed representation because the fire people actually kill the other element people on contact (besides the air ones). and the water people actually kill the fire people on contact. like ok, you’re trying to show that whatsherface firegirl’s parents want racial purity in her marriage, but actually i think that’s a perfectly normal response for a parent to have when ur kid comes home like “hey ma, hey ba, this is my boyfriend” and it’s a guy who will literally cause ur child severe injury with the lightest touch like “exCUSE ME SIR BACK THE FUCK AWAY FROM MY KID” is a perfectly normal response to that???? and i get that the whole “GO BACK TO FIRETOWN >:(((((” thing is supposed to be like a “GO BACK TO YOUR COUNTRY” thing but the thing is i also wouldn’t want to live too close to people who would literally put me in hospital just by accidentally brushing against me??? and yeah, the fire folk are separated from the rest of the city, but cmon guys, it’s a city. it’s crowded. do u want it to burn down????
my point is, if u want to teach kids what racism is, just tell them outright. you don’t have to go into gruesome specifics, but flawed metaphors just teach kids to rationalize and justify racism or develop really extreme viewpoints about diversity. just tell your kids that “hey, so there’s this thing called discrimination, and that happens when powerful people treat groups of less powerful people unfairly for no reason, or because they think that the less powerful people are less human or incorrect”
that will teach your kids that discrimination is bad. ik it’s hard to do that, because you don’t want to scare your kids, and you don’t have to tell them when they’re too little that outright, but you have to introduce them to the real concept instead of trying to display it using backhanded, ineffective metaphors.
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the reason "robot racism" is often a really stupid metaphor is the same reason that like. discrimination against demons or vampires or whatever doesn't work, is because there's often a pretty justified reasons humans are scared of vampires or robots or whatever, in a way that doesn't apply to real life minorities, like a fantasy author will be like "the reason vampires are discriminated against is because most of them and kill and eat people for fun and pleasure, and so humans respond by trying to kill them, isn't that so sad" and like no that's a perfectly fine reason to not trust vampires i think.
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Saw Sinners today and absolutely loved it, and there’s one detail I really liked that I haven’t seen talked about elsewhere:
There’s a fantastic sequence where we see Jack O’Connell surrounded by other vampires and leading a jig while singing “The Rocky Road to Dublin”. The song is a traditional Irish folk standard about a man traveling for work and being treated poorly at every turn for being an outsider — for his accent, for his clothes, and then for just simply being an Irishman in Liverpool.

So it’s a song about discrimination against an Irishman, sung by an Irishman who is trying to compare his history of oppression to that of the black Americans he wants to recruit. Except instead of sharing his music freely, like Sammie does — he forces everyone around him to dance to his tune, in his style, assimilating them all even while trying to present himself as sympathetic to their struggle.
#sinners#jack o’connell#Ryan Coogler#michael b jordan#hailee steinfeld#delroy lindo#spoilers#sinners spoilers
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one of the things that I found particularly interesting in Demigods of Olympus is that it finally gives the best direct comparison we've seen so far between Percy and another character's experiences in terms of academics and particularly ableist discrimination.
The way Zane describes his experiences and what we see in his POV is that, while he is similarly discriminated against for his "atypical" behavior and blame is placed on him, the only sorts of punishments he receives for this are relatively benign, such as an increase in counseling. (It is also notable that Zane is somewhat autistic-coded, such as having the "incorrect" scripts when speaking with adults and Sam explicitly reminding him to remember to make proper eye contact.) Percy, on the other hand, similarly experiences discrimination for "atypical" behavior, but whereas Zane is treated as "too smart for his own good" and given slaps on the wrist, Percy is automatically labeled as aggressive, destructive, and a trouble-maker based on preconceived assumptions about him and is more severely punished, such as being frequently expelled.
We rarely get this level of direct comparison between Percy's experiences and that of another character, particularly such similar experiences, so looking at the differences is really interesting to gauge what their different experiences with ableist discrimination is like - and how it could potentially tie into intersectionality and other forms of discrimination at play for them.
For instance, Zane's parents are generally heavily implied to be middle-class and/or generally financially secure, versus Percy who grew up poor, so it could be classism in combination with ableist discrimination. Alternatively, it could be intersectionality with racial discrimination, as neurodivergent behavior in people of color is significantly more likely to be punished more severely and labeled as aggressive or disruptive behavior due to racist preconceptions - particularly since we know Percy's experiences with ableist discrimination are also somewhat based on assumptions people make regarding his appearance. Both Zane and Percy are racially ambiguous - Zane's appearance essentially being completely unspecified, but Percy at least having some notable details such as having a deep tan complexion. If not racism, it could also be colorism, which in this context often has similar intersectionality. There's a lot of potential options.
It's just very interesting to me! I love having such a direct point of comparison to examine the experiences of two characters within.
#pjo#demigods of olympus#riordanverse#percy jackson#zane carver#analysis#disability#adhd#one of my biggest gripes with analysis that i see often in the fandom is people erasing Percy's experiences with ableism#particularly academically and instead electing to frame his experiences as ''only possibly being from [x] - there's no other explanation''#which is really sad to me because it just highlights how little people understand what ableism and ableist discrimination look like#and simply seem unable to process our experiences and stories meant to reflect our experiences#so having another frame of reference to compare Percy's experiences against is REALLY nice and particularly fun for me personally#because it gives an opportunity to highlight both the general disabled experiences Percy faces due to his adhd/dyslexia#but also how that potentially ties in to intersectionality with other demographics he's a part of or may be a part of#because now we have a point of comparison between how two disabled characters are experiencing similar discrimination for the same thing#but there *are* differences between them in specific ways that potentially indicate something occurring in addition to just ableism#which is fascinating! and allows those discussions in the context of intersectionality WITHOUT erasing disabled experiences! yippee!!!#anyways this is mostly off the noggin since ive just been rotating the thought for a couple of days#chewing on this chewing on it chewing on it
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The real reason the Rings of Power Elrond is so excluded from Gil-Galad’s court:
He kept interjecting to point out that not everything in the world can be blamed on the Fëanorians.
Unfortunately this was not a popular take.
#silmarillion#tolkien#the rings of power#elrond#gil galad#you can’t very well discriminate against the heir of turgid and thingol for being too feanorian#it’s bad politics#discriminate against him for his blood status instead!
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I wish the queer community would stop with the “trying to demonize ”the other sex“” bullshit. every trans discourse is just "reinventing girl vs boy nonesense but now its woke i swear"
#Its always some form of misogyny/sexism as well#The other side is always seen as some form of “dumb girls who dont know what theyre talking about and need to shut up and listen”#you are not punching up😭NOBODY IS HERE😭just because we are under different boots doesnt mean we arent going thru the exact same shit#And thats not even mentioning the blatant discrimination against intersex people#I hate seeing queer discourse on my dash. Why does everyone want to just become the bully instead of. STOPPING THAT#tw discourse
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Tory party stop being fucking fascists for one minute challenge (immediately failed)
#uk politics#Barclay outright declaring that discrimination against trans people in hospitals is OK#instead of... idk actually fixing the NHS#anyways#Tories are REALLY buckling down on the whole culture war thing because they know they don't stand a chance otherwise in the upcoming GE#but unfortunately it means that Keir Idiot Starmer who is terrified of pissing off middle class voters will probably not roll this shit bac
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Why does the right constantly believe they are not being idealistic, the world needs to conform to your beliefs for them to work too, things are not going to just turn on a dime because you think you're intellectually superior for not thinking about the impact your changes would have on other people
#both sides drive me up the fucking wall#yes I position myself in the right side of the political spectrum but holy shit#'abolishing the police is a bad idea but we should abolish public schools'#'taxing the rich won't work because they avoid taxes like the plague so let's abolish all taxes and rely on people's generosity instead'#'we have declining birth rates and this is going to destroy the middle class and the military and the elderly but fuck maternity leave'#'employers are increasingly discriminating against women and mothers who need to work to support their families because the middle class is#shrinking but employers should be allowed to discriminate against whoever they want because they can't possibly have existing biases'#there's no quippy way to say it but the right believes gun safety laws can never properly be applied much like the left believes#pro-life laws can never be properly applied therefore restrictions are illogical at best and dangerous at worst#do you guys see what I'm saying here
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god I was thinking well I have some old voicemails from when the disability services tried to call me (before they realised I was deaf) so I can test how difficult mobile audio is for me to listen to without lipreading by going thru them! :-) but it just sounds like a big crackly tangle of gibberish. it's so over </3
#not being able to make or take phone calls (unless im very familiar w ppls voices or im super lucky) is the bane of my life#it shuts so many doors for me man#debating whether i just suck it up and call them regardless and pray they have a good mic and an accent i can understand#bc i can always hang up or explain im hoh if it does just sound like nonsense#or if i email instead + risk losing the opportunity bc employers love to discriminate against disabled ppl if they can get away with it#urgh. it makes me feel a little sick to be honest bc i actually rly want this one#maybe ill ask if one of my friends can practice calling over mobile w me aaaa#.diaries
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@zeroabyss replied to your post “Reading a certain script and spotting things I...”:
For me this situation is a lot more nuanced than others, since Soren by his own past was treated as an outcast by Laguz as a Branded. It’s not great of course, but he’s an actual victim of prejudice as a child who ended up impacted by that. It’s one of the reasons the Laguz treat Branded is such a flaw of theirs continuing the cycle. Branded as a whole generally don’t like their Laguz side as a result, which we know. Since they can at least “pass” for being human and will be treated as people. Whereas Laguz can tell by instinct alone.
Indeed, Soren has his own reasons to be prejudiced against the Laguz, and iirc since he was around Gallia when he was young/meet Ike, he already faced the beast laguz's brand of indifference when he was younger - which is why he, most likely, so viciously attacks and insults Mordecai, aka, blue teddy tiger bear, when they first meet.
While his backstory with Laguz is not comparable to Jill's - who was legit raised/indoctrined since her wee days to think they're subhumans so to her it's a natural thing to call them there is no animosity, and who has to "unlearn" what she grew up with - Soren's BG isn't developed at this point (I think? i don't remember if POR supports are chapter timed?) so we have a situation where Ike (the player) is very severe and angry at people who insults and discriminate at the Laguz (Jill and several NPCs), but some members of the cast still insult/discriminate against Laguz, and by the end of this game (FE10 shows some growth!), even doing all optional conversations, they do not grow - which is sort of rich, given how the protagonist wants people to grow out of their initial prejudices and ultimately work together.
Hell, even Shinon, the loudest Laguz "hater" in FE9 gets to support a Laguz, Janaff, and they ultimately sort of make-up, with Shinon wanting to learn more about Janaff's life experiences.
I know Soren's growth will happen in FE10, he will ultimately help Skrimir - a laguz - without calling him a subhuman or any names, and even suffer/tolerate his stupidity.
And yet, in FE9, his behaviour sticks out, maybe more strongly, because he is supposed to be close to Ike and Ike actively fights against any discriminatory prejudices/feelings in his own group.
So while Soren has his own reasons - that explain his behaviour but doesn't justify it in the slightest - FE9 fails to adress and condemn his prejudice like it does to Jill, Shinon, Lethe and even Stefan* - who has a similar background! -, save for that line where Ike gets a minor injury due to Soren insulting Mordecai and Lethe.
Jill talks to Lethe and her character arc is growing past her prejudices, Lethe talks to Jill/Ike and finally accepts to have Beorc allies/friends, Shinon talks to Janaff and sees him at the end of their support as a fellow being with life experiences and not a suhuman anymore, Stefan talks to Mordecai and they ultimately became friends...
I know the devs always intended for Tellius to be a duology, so maybe they reserved his character growth for the second game (I still hope they didn't want to nuke supports as they did from day 1 !) - but as FE9 stands, it's as if we're told "Soren can still be prejudiced as fuck in this game and it won't cause any problems because he will grow in the next game".
Which is... sort of meh tier writing.
*Just like Soren, Stefan is a branded who "insults" Mordecai, but he later talks to him, shares more about his POV and own prejudices (why he thinks Laguz hate Brandeds on a racial level), saying he and Mordecai cannot be friends, until Mordecai says he doesn't give a fig about his universe laws and will befriend Stefan nonetheless.
#zeroabyss#Fe Tellius#character salt#sort of?#Tellius writers gave us really nice characters who are flawed#it's refreshing given how later on we will get one note characters#but all the appeal of a flawed character is to see that flaw have consequences on them or spur a character development#Soren most likely doesn't react as Stefan does right now because he is younger?#and his supports with Ike are heart breaking given how he finally uncaps the feelings he's been bottling up for years#Nasir says it better though prejudice breeds prejudice#it's not because you're prejudiced against that you should in turn discriminate#maybe this issue sticked out more when I first played FE9 bcs i was younger and FE9 really puts the emphasis on Laguz slavery#but in a game marked by character growth especially on prejudice being static realy felt meh#I didn't talk about the birds in the characters who grow to ultimately accept the others and stop the chain of prejudice#but when the genocide survivor accepts to later use the word Beorc instead of the derogative 'human'#the plot not glaring harder at Soren's actions/words let it be in optional conversations or in mandatory ones really feels wrong
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robot culture is becoming a lawyer for other robots
#Are your human counterparts accusing you of trying to overthrow the government and in turn the human regime?#Are you tired of being discriminated against for having wires instead of veins?#Well so am I! I’m Magisikada Septendecim and im here to defend YOU !!!!!#(This is all /j obv I’m but a little bug robot thing trying to live and maybe become an English teacher </3)#S.K thinks
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There are people – some in my own Party – who think that if you just give Donald Trump everything he wants, he’ll make an exception and spare you some of the harm. I’ll ignore the moral abdication of that position for just a second to say — almost none of those people have the experience with this President that I do. I once swallowed my pride to offer him what he values most — public praise on the Sunday news shows — in return for ventilators and N95 masks during the worst of the pandemic. We made a deal. And it turns out his promises were as broken as the BIPAP machines he sent us instead of ventilators. Going along to get along does not work – just ask the Trump-fearing red state Governors who are dealing with the same cuts that we are. I won’t be fooled twice.
I’ve been reflecting, these past four weeks, on two important parts of my life: my work helping to build the Illinois Holocaust Museum and the two times I’ve had the privilege of reciting the oath of office for Illinois Governor.
As some of you know, Skokie, Illinois once had one of the largest populations of Holocaust survivors anywhere in the world. In 1978, Nazis decided they wanted to march there.
The leaders of that march knew that the images of Swastika clad young men goose stepping down a peaceful suburban street would terrorize the local Jewish population – so many of whom had never recovered from their time in German concentration camps.
The prospect of that march sparked a legal fight that went all the way to the Supreme Court. It was a Jewish lawyer from the ACLU who argued the case for the Nazis – contending that even the most hateful of speech was protected under the first amendment.
As an American and a Jew, I find it difficult to resolve my feelings around that Supreme Court case – but I am grateful that the prospect of Nazis marching in their streets spurred the survivors and other Skokie residents to act. They joined together to form the Holocaust Memorial Foundation and built the first Illinois Holocaust Museum in a storefront in 1981 – a small but important forerunner to the one I helped build thirty years later.
I do not invoke the specter of Nazis lightly. But I know the history intimately — and have spent more time than probably anyone in this room with people who survived the Holocaust. Here’s what I’ve learned – the root that tears apart your house’s foundation begins as a seed – a seed of distrust and hate and blame.
The seed that grew into a dictatorship in Europe a lifetime ago didn’t arrive overnight. It started with everyday Germans mad about inflation and looking for someone to blame.
I’m watching with a foreboding dread what is happening in our country right now. A president who watches a plane go down in the Potomac – and suggests — without facts or findings — that a diversity hire is responsible for the crash. Or the Missouri Attorney General who just sued Starbucks – arguing that consumers pay higher prices for their coffee because the baristas are too “female” and “nonwhite.” The authoritarian playbook is laid bare here: They point to a group of people who don’t look like you and tell you to blame them for your problems.
I just have one question: What comes next? After we’ve discriminated against, deported or disparaged all the immigrants and the gay and lesbian and transgender people, the developmentally disabled, the women and the minorities – once we’ve ostracized our neighbors and betrayed our friends – After that, when the problems we started with are still there staring us in the face – what comes next.
All the atrocities of human history lurk in the answer to that question. And if we don’t want to repeat history – then for God’s sake in this moment we better be strong enough to learn from it.
I swore the following oath on Abraham Lincoln’s Bible: “I do solemnly swear that I will support the constitution of the United States, and the constitution of the state of Illinois, and that I will faithfully discharge the duties of the office of Governor .... according to the best of my ability.
My oath is to the Constitution of our state and of our country. We don’t have kings in America – and I don’t intend to bend the knee to one. I am not speaking up in service to my ambitions — but in deference to my obligations.
If you think I’m overreacting and sounding the alarm too soon, consider this:
It took the Nazis one month, three weeks, two days, eight hours and 40 minutes to dismantle a constitutional republic. All I’m saying is when the five-alarm fire starts to burn, every good person better be ready to man a post with a bucket of water if you want to stop it from raging out of control.
Those Illinois Nazis did end up holding their march in 1978 – just not in Skokie. After all the blowback from the case, they decided to march in Chicago instead. Only twenty of them showed up. But 2000 people came to counter protest. The Chicago Tribune reported that day that the “rally sputtered to an unspectacular end after ten minutes.” It was Illinoisans who smothered those embers before they could burn into a flame.
Tyranny requires your fear and your silence and your compliance. Democracy requires your courage. So gather your justice and humanity, Illinois, and do not let the “tragic spirit of despair” overcome us when our country needs us the most.
Sources:
• NBC Chicago & J.B. Pritzker, Democratic governor of Illinois, State of the State address 2025: Watch speech here | Full text
• Betches News on Instagram (screencaps)
#he also announced banning phones in schools & a bunch of other good policies for illinois btw!#wish some very blue states in the northeast would take note & do more…!#this is the message btw#(read the rest of the speech - it’s very positive)#jb pritzker#us politics#long post#mine
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Terminally online weirdos are actually losing their shit over this? Lol.

#literally what is insulting in this pic#troons be like ok sex based oppression is important too but u are bullying us instead of concentating on it! 😡#and then start outrage over shit like this. like i thought you agreed that afab ppl are discriminated against no?#lolcows
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Okay so we have this huge problem with forgetting about everything that’s happened by the time the next election rolls around so I’d like to keep a running list of things as they’re happening to help remind us when the 2026 midterms roll around. And please add to this if I’ve missed anything.
January 2025:
Donald Trump pardoned 1500 people who participated in the insurrection of January 6th, including those who violently assaulted and nearly killed police officers.
Donald Trump has declared that trans and non-binary people don’t exist.
Donald Trump is working towards firing everyone in the government who isn’t loyal to him.
Donald Trump has effectively fired everyone who he claims is an “illegal DEI hire” …whatever that means
Donald Trump pulled out of the Paris Climate Agreement and the World Health Organization
Congress are trying to pass the Laken Riley Act to, effectively, round up every immigrant in the country, including LEGAL immigrants
Donald Trump removed caps on prescription drug prices.
Donald Trump wants to withhold federal aid to help combat the LA wildfires and help the thousands of people who have been displaced and lost their homes.
The Department of Justice has put a hold on all civil rights cases.
Donald Trump has cut off aid to Ukraine.
Laken Riley Act has been passed by Congress and is awaiting being signed into law by the President. Here’s the breakdown of the votes: House Senate
Donald Trump purged a dozen inspectors general from the federal government and intends to replace them all with people loyal to him.
Pete Hegseth has been confirmed as Secretary of Defense. Here’s the breakdown of how the Senate voted. Note, it was a 50-50 tie that JD Vance had to break.

Donald Trump imposed a 25% tariff on Colombia after the Colombian government turned away two airplanes carrying migrants. Columbia has retaliated by imposing a 25% tariff of its own on US goods.
Donald Trump has also issued a travel ban for Colombian citizens and revoked visas from Colombian migrants coming to the US.
Donald Trump has now backed off the tariffs and other threats against Colombia. Note for future reference: this comes just hours after Trump made the threat in the first place and he and the Colombian president got into a big fight on social media.
Nearly 1,000 migrants were arrested mostly in Chicago on January 26th by ICE and ICE has been told to meet a quota of 75 migrant arrests every day.
Donald Trump rescinded an anti-discrimination executive order from Lyndon B. Johnson
Donald Trump signed an executive order banning trans people from serving in the military and also ordered that people who were discharged for refusing to get mandatory vaccines be reinstated.
Donald Trump has frozen all federal grants to institutions.
After pressure from state governments, activist groups, and the general public, the White House has rolled back some of the freezes on federal funding.
Representative Andy Ogles (R-TN) has proposed a change to the 22nd Amendment to allow Donald Trump, specifically, to serve a third term.
Donald Trump is trying to fire all federal employees who don’t want to return to the office (work-from-home saves the federal government millions of taxpayer dollars in overhead). He also sent an email to federal employees saying that if they’re not loyal to him, they’ll be investigated.
Donald Trump has signed the Laken Riley Act into law.
Donald Trump has said he doesn’t think Palestinians should be allowed to return to Gaza but instead should be sent to Egypt and Jordan.
Native Americans have been targeted by ICE raids.
Donald Trump has ordered undocumented immigrants to be sent to Guantanamo Bay
Donald Trump signed an executive order to expand federal funding for school choice programs. [x]
Donald Trump signed an executive order saying that he will deport visa-holding students who protest against Israel. [x]
Donald Trump has blamed DEI for the plane crash that killed 67 people in Washington D. C. [x]
Donald Trump signed an executive order that schools should no longer teach about racism and discrimination. And that schools should only teach history that is “patriotic” [x]
Florida Representative Anna Paulina Luna wants to add Donald Trump’s face to Mount Rushmore. [x]
Trump’s Department of Education has called book bans a hoax. [x]
The Department of Justice has barred certain news outlets from receiving information from the Pentagon. [x]
The Trump administration has fired multiple FBI officials who investigated the January 6th insurrection. [x]
February 2025
March 2025
April 2025
I’ll keep adding to this list as new things come up and, again, please feel free to add anything I’ve missed. I know that in this world of constant news it’s easy to forget, so let’s give our future selves a little help!
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So according to today's ruling regarding the biological sex, I am probably safer in men's space as a masc presenting non-binary person and this is insane to me. 20 years of progress reversed in 1 day. Good job, Scottish Lesbians (organisation, not scottish lesbians in general).
Apparently we will now need a Gender Recognition Certificate to be trans/nb (how does that ever work with nb, many of us don't identify with either binaries in any shape or form) and we're not allowed to say we're discriminated against as the binary gender we identified as (for trans people in particular, still don't fucking know how this even works for nb). And intersex people omfg the fucking rabbit hole of discrimination and issues for intersex people as well? Step right into the dystopian, why don't you.
EDIT: Oh yes and to add to this insanity, trying to even see someone in the gender clinic through the NHS takes 5 YEARS AT LEAST and can get up to a DECADE to get any gender affirming care. So yes, most of us probably won't even be able to get a certificate in the first place. This is just so sick.
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#I am very tired#love how they're punching down instead of actually dealing with the patriarchy and the men in power who are actual abusers#yes throw the groups that are heavily discriminated against into the fire#instead of the people causing harm to make yourselves feel like you did something when you did fuck all#women will still be abused because they did FUCK ALL to stop the actual perpetrators
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side tumblr ranting again.
#just found out one of my friends that I considered to be my best friend has been using the r slur in an actual ablist kind of way and hasnt#been reclaiming it like I thought they were.#I said “why do people tell others how to and how not to reclaim things we have or are that have been discriminated against for.”#and RIGHT AFTER THAT they said “I'm not autistic and it wont stop me from saying it!” (it refurring to being told how to reclaim stuff)#and I... feel so stupid because I looked at them and said “that was a joke right?”#I also feel so selfless (/neg) because instead of standing up for myself I was more worried about offending them by saying I thought they -#- were autistic.#I feel so used as if they were using me as a shield to 'reclaim' the things they were saying#I believe people are allowed to reclaim slurs however they want (as long as they respect their friends boundaries and actually struggle --#-with said discorder because it puts yourself in a position where you're above what it used to mean against you) but they basically just --#- told me that they dont gaf about how it negatively effects others. they're using it because of its emotional impact.#It feels like I've been stabbed right in the back.#They loved me and cared for me and we joked and laughed and sure we had arguements but that isnt stop us from caring about each other but -#- then they say something with such impact as if the people who are effected by the word don't matter.#like I don't matter.#Idk how to talk to them about it.#I feel so stupid
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Feeling extremely disappointed in the community response to Trump's gender order regarding X gender markers on documents. Can y'all quit with the victim-blaming and "I'm so glad I don't have an X gender marker, I knew it was a bad idea" statements for two seconds to support those of us who are targeted by this?
I have X on all of my documents. Birth certificate, passport, ID, you name it I have an X on it. I'm intersex & trans. I'm percieved as ambiguous 100% of the time and I can't pass for shit. Stealth is not an option for me, I am visibly intersex/trans no matter what.
Having either M or F on my documents wasn't any more feasible than having an X on everything at the time I got my documents. Which I had to work my ass off to get, by the way, because I was homeless and had no documents and I needed to obtain everything from scratch, which of course is made as hard as possible to do. (How do you provide proof of identity without any identity documents? How do you provide proof of address without an address? How do you pay for any of this when you can't even afford your own groceries and you get all your needs met through local mutual aid? How do you drop anything off or attend interviews or court without transportation?)
Goddamn right I was getting an X on my documents after having to go through hell to obtain them. If I had to work that hard for them, my documents were going to be how I wanted them.
Now I'm being told the president is trying to invalidate my documents, that depending on how things go I may be held if I try to go anywhere due to my passport having an X gender marker, that we don't know the ways this will be enforced and whether I will still be able to use my documents or not, and my trans community is saying it's actually my own fault for having an X gender marker in the first place and that I was just begging to be discriminated against by having one.
I am in a very vulnerable position and I should be supported by my own community when anti-trans anti-intersex discrimination targets me and people I care about. Y'all are dropping the ball and abandoning your siblings when we need each other most.
Also, for the record, I believe that no documentation should have gender markers. However, the US requires gender markers on documentation at the moment and that fucking sucks. It seems like this will be the case for the foreseeable future. The way people have been saying "nobody should get an X gender marker because gender markers shouldn't exist" just feels very "your strategy pales in comparison to my strategy, firebombing a Walmart" and then not firebombing a Walmart. While we can and should work towards gender markers not existing in the future, people with X gender markers exist right now and maybe y'all should support us instead of constantly throwing us under the bus.
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