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#assume the dad position
mossymandibles · 1 year
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does kraw ever refer to gen as his daughter/kid? Does he do that in front of her?
Kraw normally just has nicknames for her like ‘runt’ ‘peapod’ or ‘guppy’ which were similar names used for him by Mayv. It’s more of an unspoken thing and he’ll just casually say ‘she’s with me’ and such.
Gen is very distrusting of any sort of authority, so anytime Kraw would openly say that she was his kid she kind of took offense to it, feeling like she was under his authority instead of seeing that he simply cares for her because of how her early life was. She’d rather think of Kraw as her ‘big dragon friend’. Couldn’t tell ya the exact moments but there were just a lot of little instances where Kraw would just assume the ‘dad’ role and they both went with it, usually being when Gen was in trouble or danger.
As Gen grows up ofc Kraw eventually graduates to becoming ‘the Ol’ Man’
The first time Kraw calls Gen his daughter she used it against him since she wasn’t exactly comfortable with it at the time.
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tea-cat-arts · 20 days
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I think the neat thing about minimal world building surrounding Jin Guangyao's watch towers is that it puts us in the perspective of the common people. Like, we know they were effective, we know what his reputation was before the reveal, and we know his reputation after the reveal, and that's it. We don't know if they were built out of altruism or if he was trying to become the next Wen Rouhan and we never will know because we'll never be inside his head and he wasn't sect leader long enough for us to see any kind of long term plan working (assuming there even were any long term plans and "long term" means "takes longer than 10 years" in this case). The only thing we really know is that we'll never have a solid answer, and all we can really do about it is speculate and gossip
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acegodzilla · 13 days
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So I thought I just had a cold I'd caught from my dad but I haven't been able to smell or taste very well for like three days so I took a covid test and uh
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paragonrobits · 11 months
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it kind of goes without saying but between Fionna obviously being characterized as in her 30s even if she's a little childish about it, the romantic subtext inherent to her first glimpse of Simon as Ice Prince and the lack of any kind of parental vibes between them at ALL, I really flinch a lot whenever I see people referring to Fionna as one of Simon's kids in a EEK kind of way
she doesn't seem written to have THAT kind of family dynamic with him; she's a grown woman who has no need for role models, if this was an actual bar meeting she would have accidentally wound up with him in the back of their car as the two of them desperately tried to figure out what the heck happened
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isfjmel-phleg · 9 months
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skrunksthatwunk · 10 months
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kinda drives me up a wall when people go "hey i think x action in a war/combat scenario is inhumane and cruel and shitty" and someone responds with "oh but within the laws of war it's allowed or there's procedure for it etc etc". it doesn't have to be a war crime to be unforgivable man it's a shitty rulebook anyway
#like whether or not something's bad isn't determined by whether or not it adheres to arbitrary rules people made up and never obey#i thought we all knew that already. c'mon man. get a grip#obviously war crimes are bad but that's not where the badness potential ends y'know#this post is due to my dad talking about smth i sent him mentioning US troops firing on a bunch of guys in smth on deserters and he was lik#well they're not like citizens or refugees or deserters they're retreating enemy combattants. so it's different.#it IS different but isn't it still like. overly brutal? idk.#like would you want them to pursue Your ppl regardless? are they not allowed mercy just because you proved stronger? your positions could#be swapped easily and you'd think that as fellow combattants you would feel that deeply. idk maybe i'm just too soft or whatever but like.#seems stupid to me. war generally seems stupid to me but this specifically right now seems stupid to me#yes i know there are practical concerns and sacrifices in combat that make sense when you're actually there and me saying there should be n#wars and we should make it a fucking priority to not have wars doesn't mean ppl already in a decision-making role in the field should do#what i (an idealist) would do. they're responsible for minimizing loss and shit. whatever. doesn't mean it's not fucked up anyway.#and that's assuming the best case scenario for a leader in such a position. usually they just want to minimize Their side's losses. usually#by maximizing the other side's. or they just want to win and will sacrifice anyone for it if it's practical#which happens a Lot. usually it's a mix of the latter two to my understanding#as if americans' lives matter more than anyone else's and the other side doesn't have a right to mourn bc they offended us somehow#ugh that shit irks me so bad dude. there'll be like a terrorist attack in europe or smth and the news'll be like#ONE AMERICAN WAS KILLED. and twenty swiss. THE AMERICAN WAS VISITING FAMILY THERE ON SUNDAY MORNING WHEN TRAGEDY STRUCK etc etc#fucking hate that. i don't care if they're on 'my team' or whatever they're all equally human and equally dead#why the hell should i care if one of them was an american. just say 21 people died. like i get reporting on it briefly ig to like notify#ppl At Best but like. it's so grating. why can't you be normal about other people fucking goddamn you#why is this a controversial statement. why is giving a shit about people killing each other (often for like 10 ppl's financial gain) wrong#like. come on. i don't care if they 'deserve it' or whatever because i don't think they do. and even if they Did i don't think it's#America's Time To Step Up!!! every time smth like this happens (but only when it is financially beneficial to us to do so#such that we ignore atrocities all the fucking time bc it's inconvenient. we're not superheros. we're cops.)#not saying america shouldn't do anything bc like. idk. you screw everyone over to have all the power maybe you should use that influence fo#good. but my definition of 'good' is wayyyy way different from everybody who's ever held office here apparently so like. nuts to that#eugh. anyway im cutting myself off here rant over. for now
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either we're getting a happy ending on btsv or both miles and miguel will have a point proven
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hauntedtotem · 5 months
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I think the biggest red flag for me regarding the hopelesspeaches and lio convoy stuff, their entire group (especially lio) has near identical speech patterns and dynamics as my mom's online friend group. Which is less of a red flag and more of a raging wildfire tbh
#I listened to all the calls when they 'leaked' but I didn't know they were leaks I thought lio posted that stuff proudly#I didn't know that they weren't meant to be seen by the public until just now lol#Anyways I'm pleasantly surprised people are talking about how fucked up they were#Bc tbh when I was like 'oh this makes peaches (and everyone else) look like a bitch kinda' the first time I heard the calls-#I thought I was maybe being too judgey or sensitive or something?#But now everyone else is like 'yeah they are all being bitches actually' im like. Oh! So I understood right and wasn't just overreacting#Mostly bc lio was ranting about being a conservative Christian and weird 'nuclear family values' on one call and my immediate thought was#'oh gross Im too biased against this man to be able to look at this-#-discussion objectively. I'm gonna think he sucks regardless of the situation and therefore idk lf im a fair judge ?'#So it's cool to get confirmation from other ppl saying 'oh no ur right he sucks and here's why'#this is the 2nd time this week I got 'no youre not just overreacting. Other ppl are upset too' validation abt a topic. cool#//shade#I'm sure there's plenty of found family groups online that are great but so many of the ones i hear abt feel like a cult imo#My mom is in a group where this dude calls her and other women there his daughters like lio does to peaches and it feels gross to me idk#Ik everyone craves found family connections but. Idkk it feels weird to be taking that in a literal sense and calling them dad/my daughter#Feels like introducing unnecessary power dynamics.#Theres a difference between 'oh this person is like family to me because we're so close'#vs 'oh i am adopting this person and assuming a parental position over them'. that sounds unhealthy I think ?#Edit I just found out lio posted a response but it's midnight and I have a date tomorrow I'm not watching that rn lol#imo both him and peaches are bad and idc if one is worse than the other or whatever.#Peaches has been two faced for a while; lio might've taken advantage of her bc he's kinda creepy. They're both saying the other abused them#This is like jade and julian talking shit about each other to me. Idc guys I hate both of u srry <3#Iykyk
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anthyies · 1 year
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parents are fascinating you will have not worn a dress since high school prom and they will be like but you should shave your legs! what if you want to wear a dress!
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rabbithaver · 11 months
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being crushed by the overwhelming sense that i am annoying and complain too much and just overall miserable to be around
i have covid (probably) and i absolutely do not have the energy or the clarity of thought to shut down these feelings so theyre just kinda running rampant while i lay here and fantasize about dying of my ailments 👍
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dingleberry-7708 · 1 year
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i was at walmart earlier today and there were NO monster high dolls (except for a lone creepover frankie w no friends)!!!!
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luimagines · 2 years
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Oooh what inspired you to do wars as winds dad xo
Well! The request included Warrior as one of the parents, so that helps. XD
I'm also a huge fan of Older Brother! Warrior in literally everything. But just tweak it a little bit. (I think that Warrior would have been projecting from Young Link from the war- even if Wind was there too- but Time is a grown man now. So Wind gets the brunt of it- two fold- hence Dad tm.)
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spatio-rift · 2 years
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ok well. i rewatched raimon vs teikoku. i will not say anything since i consider the entirety of it to suck immensely. however like... i feel bad for shimerigawa :/
little dude did not deserve to be treated like this. i dont really like how he was just used by kageyama to disrupt the team and told hes useless and dropped from the team and no one cares to argue w this decision. hes literally just a kid. younger than everyone else on the team. they should take him under their wing after what kageyama did to him. my god i do not like how theyre trying to act like kageyama is being a good coach now he still has no regard for other people. well whatever. shimerigawas my baby now
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I’ve been having so many feelings lately but the one I’m feeling right now is grief over never having the dad I wanted much less one I deserved.
the girls who grew up with good dads have it so lucky. I always thought I’d somehow escaped having “daddy issues” and that, well, I never had my father in the home so there was never a “void” left in my life. I thought my general disdain for men was just a healthy skepticism that everyone had. I was so wrong
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lesbianlenas · 2 months
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we did a draft for bb for the first time in my house & the way my draft team is def the worst now 😭 my dad didn’t even pick his team he just got whoever my mom & i didn’t want & his team is better than mine……bleak 😔
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cats-in-the-clouds · 4 months
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my sister got engaged and we’re all really happy for her but my bitter rain cloud of a dad (who naturally she told last) is giving her a bit of passive aggressive grief about it despite her boyfriend being like the best man of our generation (presumably either because he’s not catholic or because my dad sees them as young dumb unemployed people who aren’t ready for marriage or because he’s mad he barely has any real love with his own wife or something). so like pray for us? i wish i knew what to do
#if my dad had any brain cells or observational skills whatsoever#he’d realize that in terms of our faith the problem is not the boyfriend. that guy is brilliant and open minded and would probably ace RCIA#the problem is my sister. who is catholic in name but it’s clear to me how hard she’s fallen away from the faith#but like my dad has created such a bitter home environment we never have meaningful conversations with him#so like he doesn’t know *anything* about our inner lives#all he sees is labels. all he judges people by is labels#literally you can still get married in the church to a non catholic it’s just a matter of expecting them to convert eventually#and promising to still live according to the principles of the church and raising your children as such#but my parents are absolute fools if they think that’s the issue. if my sister was true in her faith her bf would have converted already#i am sure of it. the guy is smart he just needs to be guided the right way#evidently my parents don’t realize that about him either#if my dad could become a decent parent for once and stop trying to drive his kids away from the faith by only cherrypicking the parts of it#that intersected with republican/conservative boomerisms#ugh. if he was a virtuous father she’d be a virtuous daughter and therefore all her friends and loved ones would be virtuous as well#should i blame my dad for all our family problems? no.. not rightfully……#but like. the impact a father has on one’s life cannot be understated#ugh i’ve had the sense for a while that God wants me to be the one to fix this family#because looking around it doesn’t look like anyone else is gonna do it#but that’s such a daunting task… especially alone… i don’t have any true friends (ie who share both my faith and life experiences)#and like. it’s really hard to try to assume the role of a teacher or counselor when someone is older than you#or uh. in a position of direct power over you for that matter. esp when clearly deeply mentally ill#the concept of trying to essentially parent my own parent while i myself am miserable and unstable#esp when he is the primary cause of that#just. ughhhhh it’s such a vicious circle#like i’ll do this if i have to i’ll undertake that daunting mission but i have to be so careful and really sort myself out first#or for that matter if i were to volunteer to like. catechize my sister’s boyfriend (heaven knows she couldn’t do it)#i’d have to really study my stuff bc i think the intellect is the only real appeal here#like i said tho his conversion can probably never really happen as long as my sister remains the way she is#what i know is that the first step is fixing myself. i have to be a pillar of virtue if i wanna stand as any sort of authority on the faith#problem is i suck and shouldn’t be regarded as a role model for anything. i have the knowledge down but that alone won’t fix me
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