#asexual wednesday

[wendsaddams]

Wednesday Addams is biromantic and asexual. Sorry I don’t make the rules

[writerswho]

I saw someone saying Wednesday has hetcomp and just wanted to slam someone.

First, tired of people using that shit created by a transphobic when heteronormativity exists. Second, Wednesday's case is allonormativity and mononormativity.

From the beginning, Wednesday hasn't been interested in either boy, but everyone keeps pushing her in their direction, not only that, but they keep telling her she has to pick one and try to be normal. At no point does it cross anyone's mind that Wednesday just isn't interested in romance, they think it's just her lack of interest in people in general, which it isn't.

The fact that Wednesday has trouble showing and interpreting emotions helps to force her to try because everyone thinks that's what she has to do, and even though she's rebellious, she still does various things just because people expect it of her [most of the time they're criminal things, but still].

So, she goes out with Tyler because everyone says that's the normal thing to do, even if she doesn't care about him or anyone that way.

Ah, the mononormativity is because the whole narrative revolves around choosing one, and at no point they thought it's possible to choose both.

[tttrashmouth]

happy wednesday to all my fellow aroace folks

[d3ad-squid]

Every single fucking time… can’t you allos just be happy with what you’ve got????

[lokiiied]

as an asexual - the fact i was created by sex is pretty acephobic tbh

[vaguelyaperson]

yes. yes yes yes. "It should canonically mean something." Especially if it's someone who has every reason to want to fall in love (never been brokenhearted, has healthily married parents, ect), but they're still disinterested. Even if something changes and they do experience attraction. Even if all it means is that the character is acearo-spec, they're still on the spectrum.

A character saying they will never fall in love is the aro equivalent of someone saying they are not attracted to the opposite gender. It should canonically mean something, the only reason it doesn’t is because so often such sentiments are only expressed for characters to “grow out of”

[aroacesafeplaceforall]

I’m going to start QPRing/non-shipping ships, and not just any ships, but the ships everyone “agrees” on.

Merlin and Arthur - QPR hardcore, kissing is okay, sex not so much, committed

Sirius and Remus - not romantically together, both aro coded HARD sex is 100% on the table, they’re committed but also just vibin no romo yes homo

Buck and Eddie - QPR. No notes

Enid and Wednesday - honestly Wednesday was always repulsed aroace coded to me, so maybe QPR but more friends who have a closer relationship

I have more I’m just tired but everyone add their own!!

[unrestrained-balderdash-art-blog]

Woodpigeon Wednesday? Woodpigeon Wednesday.

[since-times-long-forgotten]

Alastor says happy Wednesday

[breawycker]

As a fellow asexual, it really do be like that.

Meanwhile, Wednesday with Enid 😂

am i just too asexual to understand crushes or did most of Wednesday feel like this

Wednesday: (exists)

Xavier and Tyler: YOU'RE GIVING ME MIXED SIGNALS WEDNESDAY DO YOU LIKE ME OR NOT

[kipkiphoorayy]

[saffigon]

aros can be in romantic relationships

aces can be in sexual relationships

apls can be in platonic relationships

aroaces can label themselves alongside being aroace (i.e. lesbian aroace)

[spinsun]

SO I HEARD SOMEOME RECENTLY CAME OUT AS AROACE !!!!

[super-ace]

Never felt so seen 🖤 Wednesday is aroace in my eyes and I will not be taking any questions at this time

[floralcavern]

Wednesday is on the aroace spectrum and is attracted to rays of sunshine that she meets in places that she really doesn’t want to be at

(Although Joel is more of a slightly cloudy day with a little sun poking through)

[unrestrained-balderdash-art-blog]

Woodpigeon Wednesday!!