#as for having work life balance i mean a standard 9-5

[mistype360]

hello!

im infj 5w4, however, I'm having a bit of trouble finding out my tritype (instinctual subtypes, as well).

can you please tell me how 541, 549 and 548 will differ for an infj? and possibly shed some insight on the subtypes too?

thank you nonetheless x

-t

INFJ 5w4 or 4w5 - how to determine your tritype

of course! i will make a separate, larger post later for subtypes of 5's and 4's since a lot of people struggle with it as well

before looking at the tritype descriptions, i recommend most people look at the gut triad and their reactions to anger

8's externalize their anger - impulsive, tendency to immediately respond towards situation, emotionally charged in the moment, focused on punitive measures, use anger as a force for change in protecting themselves or what they value

9's repress their anger - calm types on the outside, instead of anger they may experience sadness, avoid conflict, hate when people fight, can be somewhat passive rather than confrontational, retreat from any tense situations, hold underlying resentment towards people

1's internalize their anger - inclined to resent the world, seem calm and controlled on the outside but feel as if they are an emotional wreck on the inside, tries to almost control the situation, feels weighed down by the worlds "failures" and imperfections

541 - do you ever find yourself conflicted with rational judgements and your internal emotions? between your head and your heart? 1 + 4 makes you hard to please, conflicted between restriction, control and wanting to experience life to the fullest. this type is often pretty standards and moral focused. when you were evaluating yourself in the past, did you struggle between determining wether you were stronger in fi and fe? infj's are known for their "greater good" ideals. a 541's would revolve around fairness, justice, or order. they may feel even more stronger towards these ideas than any of the other 3.

548 - this tritype is double-reactive, and non-attachment. they are often emotionally intense and impulsive. not necessarily in an angry way, per say, but more towards protecting what they care about and feeling strongly. have you ever been mistyped as a thinking type? do you prefer not to work with others? 548's are also generally known as a "scholar" type, and can sometimes associated with thinking functions. maybe you are very thoughtful and opinionated, or have been mistyped as a thinking type in the past.

549 - having a 9 fix makes you more focused on your fe and se. if you find yourself being pretty balanced in your intuition and sensing, you are probably a 549. it's also a triple withdrawn type, meaning you would be a lot more distant, thoughtful, or philosophical. maybe you are also very self aware and self-conscious, however you struggle to express those emotions to others. you have lots of opinions and thoughts, however you do not share them as much with those close to or around you. infj's are known for their "greater good" ideals, albeit being a stereotype. this tritype usually has one towards harmony or peace. compared to the 2 other types, this tritype would not feel as strongly towards these ideas.

[pubbamoon]

hii, I wonder if you can interpret my destiny matrix chart?

Also I really enjoy your posts☺️

Hi! I'm glad you enjoy my posts. I appreciate that. Thank you for letting me read your Destiny Matrix chart. Let's just begin!

Your central number is number 4 (The Emperor), which is the most important number in every Destiny Matrix chart. This means that you are a hardworking, logical, ambitious and disciplined person who is willing to achieve goals. The Emperor represents a divine masculine energy and it's not that spiritual, his prioritizes are mostly physical and material matters. Number 4 represents hard work, while The Emperor is associated with discipline, maintain order, making the rules and expecting people to follow those rules.

Your karmic tail is the 6-8-20 code and is called Disappointment of One's Lineage. The lineage often means family in this case. This karmic tail is a combination of number 6 (The Lovers), number 8 (Justice) and number 20 (Judgement). The Lovers (6) here indicates issues in relationships and feeling unloved by those you love. Justice (8) here signifies imbalanced environment and making unconventional choices that are out of laws and norms. Judgement (20) here suggests family issues, problems with your parents and feeling like a black sheep in your own family. When combined, this all indicates difficult family dynamics. You might grew up with parents that set high standards to you and criticized you a lot during your childhood. This challenging upbringing you faced may lead you into a low self-esteem, making unconventional choices and repeating family mistakes. But with The Emperor (4) at the center of your chart, I sense that you might have a power and discipline to overcome these hardships you may experienced.

Your Destiny Matrix chart shows me that you were born on May 5th or on May 23rd, possibly in the year of 2008, 1999 or even earlier. Your Life Path number might be number 2 in numerology. When we add these numbers up (5+5+10+20), we get number 40 and then we get number 4, which is placed at the center of your chart. This is why always tell that the central number is the most important number in every Destiny Matrix chart.

Did you notice that the 5-14-9 code appears twice in your chart, especially on the upper side of your chart, representing your talents, gifts and the area of your life that you're good at or that goes easy to you? This combination means that you are very knowledgeable person who had an ability to share knowledge (5 - The Hierophant), who has a calming nature, who is creative (14 - Temperance) and who is very wise, mature and has a strong analytical skills (9 - The Hermit).

Justice (8) near to the heart emoji indicates that your partner might likely be organized individual who plays fair and who lives a balanced life. The Chariot (7) near to the dollar sign signifies career in leadership positions, something like CEOs. The Chariot is a very ambitious card with a strong will, so whichever profession you're into, you might have a will to achieve success and to be the best of it.

I hope you enjoyed this reading and that you can resonate with that. Wish you a very successful week ahead!

Best regards,

Paky McGee

[gunsanammunition]

Glock 21 Gen 5 and GLOCK 22 Gen 4

The glock 21 gen 5 can remember the old “Police Special” chambered for 38, well the Glock 22 Gen 4 has become the modern equivalent – albeit in semi auto form not revolver. Over 60% of law enforcement officers in the USA carry Glock as well as countless other military and security industry professionals globally. The 40 S&W caliber closes the gap between the heavy 45 Auto calibers and the 9 x 19mm  service calibers. GLOCK was the first manufacturer to make the advantages of this balanced caliber accessible to law enforcement agencies. By applying the Gen 4 technology with the Modular back strap design and the reversible magazine catch to this pistol model the user may instantly customize its grip.

Glock 22 Gen 4  Rough Textured Frame Surface

This more aggressive, non-slip surface provides a more secure grip and better traction. For quite a while, some Glock owners had been getting custom texturing on their pistols to get what is now standard on Gen4 models

Glock 22 Gen 4  Replaceable Backstraps

The Glock 22 Gen 4 has  two insert options, medium and large or you can leave the pistol as is, in small or what Glock refer to as short frame configuration.

Glock 22 Gen 4  Magazine Release Catch

The enlarged mag release catch is now easily reversible to either the left or right side.

Glock 22 Gen 4  Magazine

The Glock 22 Gen4  Magazine now features a pair of notches that will allow positive operation with all types of existing mag catches.

Glock 22 Gen 4  Recoil Spring

The Glock G22 Gen 4  has a dual recoil-spring system that features a progressive spring rate reducing felt perceived recoil.

Calibre – 40 S&W

Mag Capacity -15. optional 16/22

Weight Unloaded -725g

Barrel length – 114mm

Size (LxWxH) – 202x32x139

The GLOCK 22 - G22 .40 Caliber Safe-Action Pistol features lightweight and compact design and a safe-action system.

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Glock 21 Gen4 .45 ACP Pistol | Gun Review

The .45 ACP round has been experiencing a bit of a resurgence in popularity. Honestly, it is as much a move away from the .40 caliber, since the 9mm is also regaining a strong following. Improvements in bullet construction have made all pistol rounds more effective, meaning the other factors are more critical—shot placement, complete reliability and putting the biggest bullet on target effectively. For those interested in capacity, the 9mm is fast becoming the first choice, but for those looking to move up to a bigger bullet, the .45 ACP is king.

With this move comes a need for a combat-reliable pistol. For many, that means a full-sized pistol with the capacity of a double-stack magazine. Many of these pistols, especially in the 1911 platform, are expensive and not always well suited to practical carry. The most reliable of these tend to be the most costly, putting them out of reach for many shooters. The best choice is often a polymer-based pistol, and that’s where the Glock 21 certainly delivers. Having carried my first Glock 21 on the streets some 15 years ago, I know this pistol well, and that same pistol rides in an officer’s holster to this day. Though there have been several opportunities for him to trade it in for a newer gun, he’s rebuffed them all with great fervor. Why? Because it works, and that officer knows his life depends on it doing just that.

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Glock 21 Gen4 Legacy & Future

For many, the Glock 21 is the quintessential high-capacity, .45 caliber combat pistol. It has proven reliable, accurate and indestructible. With a 13+1 capacity, it provides easily accessible firepower in a proven caliber. It maintains the ergonomics and simple practicality of all the Glock pistols, and accessories, holsters and spare magazines are plentiful. For those making the move up from the G22, the transition is simple and easy. Available with factory night sights, the G22 is ready out of the box for duty, the range or anywhere else. And all of this is at about half the cost of many high-capacity .45s.

The G21’s only real issue was its size. It is a bit larger, and those with small hands often have some difficulty controlling it. The Short Frame model helped, but the changes featured in the Glock 21 Gen4 were really what made the G21 accessible to more shooters, providing other enhancements. Handling a new Glock 21 Gen4 pistol, I first noticed the textured finish on the grip. It is a nice modification to the rougher versions of before and fits in the hand well. It just feels less abrasive while remaining solid.

Next was the magazine catch, which is not only easily reversible but also much more intuitive. I found it easier to access without needing to shift the pistol in my grip. The catch also remains flush with the grip, eliminating many of the accidental release issues many after-market parts present. It is about as close to perfect as it gets for this platform. The finger grooves on the frontstrap are nicely contoured with matching checkering. The frame is cut high into the triggerguard, allowing for a solid grip.

More Glock 21 Gen4 Features

The real difference here is in the backstraps. Unlike many systems that require you to use one panel or another, the G21 Gen4 starts with no strap. In my “keep it simple” world, this is perfect. Leaving the grip as-is provides the shortest trigger reach on this frame size to date, with nothing to come loose. If you prefer the Gen3 feel, you can simply add the medium strap. (A thicker strap is available for those with even bigger hands.) With no grip panel attached, this pistol fit me just about perfectly, so I completed all the testing in this configuration.

To round out the Gen4 package, Glock added a dual recoil spring assembly. This tends to tame how recoil feels to the hand and can add significant life to the springs. The sights provided were the base versions, a simple white-dot front and the white-outlined U-notch rear. A rail is molded into the frame to accept tactical lights. Three magazines were provided along with the commensurate reloading tool, as well as the two backstraps and a tool designed to remove the grip-strap pin. Lastly, the finish on the slide is a bit less shiny and slippery. It is more of a dull gray, which lends itself to the pistol’s no-nonsense purpose.

Glock 21 Gen4 Performance

All of the G21 pistols that I’ve shot over the years are very accurate. Short of the G20, the G21 pistol is the most accurate standard-equipped Glock for me. Testing this pistol proved to be no exception. G21s are just plain accurate and some of the easiest double-stack .45s to shoot well. The shorter trigger reach only made this better for me. I accomplished the best accuracy with the Winchester Ranger 230-grain SXT rounds, with a group measuring 1.7 inches with a cluster of four shots within about an inch. The G21 put everything into around 2 inches at 25 yards. Having had pistols at twice the price display equal or less accuracy, that is pretty impressive.

Where this pistol truly shines is on the move and under stress. This gun just ran and ran without any issues. It remains one of the softest-shooting .45 pistols out there, making it much easier to maintain accuracy on the move. The shorter reach allowed for easier trigger control, and the textured finish really locks this pistol nicely in my hand. Fired both with and without gloves, it was impossible to lose my grip on the gun. It was easy to get a good, solid grip out of the holster. I tested the G21 Gen4 from both a tactical thigh rig as well as a similar holster in an OWB-type carry mode. The draw was smooth, and the sights came up quickly. For those in need of tritium, the pistol can be ordered from the factory with night sights.

For me at least, the most noticeable advancement in this generation is the magazine catch. It may not be the most technical, but it is the most used, at least in training. In the past, magazine swaps required a pronounced shift of the pistol in my hand to get a solid release of the magazine. The Gen4 catch makes this unnecessary. Granted, my hands are pretty big, but the catch could be easily reached without a shift, facilitating very fast magazine changes. It does so without adding any pronounced protrusion, making unintentional magazine releases unlikely. The maga-zines all dropped free easily, empty or not. Loading to capacity was a bit stiff on the last round, but time and repetition will likely loosen the mags up a bit.

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While attending the Glock 25th Anniversary Class at Gunsite, I was able to spend a day with a G21 Gen4 utilizing a medium grip panel. Rather than change someone else’s pistol, I shot it as is. It was flawless and very accurate, making it through one of the most round-intensive days of the Gunsite 250 class. I greatly anticipated the chance to set this pistol up for my needs and really put it through its paces. Of all the Glock platforms, this is the one most often used in my career as a police officer. The G21 has always been my favorite. Even without the shortened frame, it fit my hand better than any of the other pistols.

Shooting the Gen4 version was better. The shorter frame only enhanced my ability to shoot this pistol well. The new textured finish is just about right, providing a nice mix of aggressiveness without the commensurate abrasion. The standard trigger was predictable and controllable. The new magazine release is perfect for this gun. Having access without the need for a pronounced shift of the pistol in your hand is huge. It makes fast and positive magazine changes possible without losing sight of the threat. This was especially evident when shooting on the move. You could really just move, shoot, reload and continue as necessary, staying focused on the threat.

Having never been a big fan of the “new and improved,” my opinion is different in the case of the G21. Everything changed only enhances the capabilities of this fine pistol. If you are looking for a solid and dependable double-stack pistol in .45 ACP, make sure you take a look at this pistol—it is sure to impress! For more information, visit

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Glock 21 Price

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GLOCK 21 Gen4

Remarkable for its accuracy and light recoil, the GLOCK 21 Gen4 delivers the power of the 45 Auto round with high magazine capacity. The Modular Back Strap system makes it possible to instantly customize its grip to accommodate any hand size. The reversible magazine catch makes it ideal for left and right-handed shooters The Gen4 system is the perfect complement to the 45 Auto caliber cartridge.

The GLOCK 21 - G21 Gen4 .45 ACP has a 13 + 1 capacity and features an octogonal rifled barrel. The black interchangeable backstrap grip offers a secure hold.

Features and Benefits

Specifications

What's in the Box

PRODUCT DESCRIPTION

The GLOCK 21 gives you everything you would expect of a .45 pistol. 

New Glock Factory G21SF also for Sale.

Firearms must be shipped via Fedex Overnight, to your selected FFL. This is a flat rate, $40 charge.

ADDITIONAL INFORMATION

Yes, you can purchase a Glock handgun on this website and have it shipped to a local FFL dealer in your area. Then, you will need to go to that dealer and fulfill the local and state requirements necessary to own a handgun at which time you can take delivery of the gun. 

"SF" Short Frame  The circumference of the receiver is reduced at the rear, or "backstrap" of this pistol model, which will appeal to shooters with smaller hands and offer increased comfort and control to all. 

The "big bore" .45 caliber belongs to the United States like stars and stripes. Americans have always had a very special relationship with this timeless caliber. The GLOCK 21 gives you everything you would expect of a .45 pistol. Countless law enforcement units swear by this superior pistol for more than just its above-average magazine capacity of 13 rounds. 

Standard models come with two 13-round magazines.  California models come with two 10-round magazines. 

Length: 7.59 inches  Height: 5.47 inches  Width: 1.27 inches  Barrel Length: 4.60 inches  Weight: 26.28 oz. unloaded 

We can and will customize and install parts for you at no charge and ship the gun fully assembled and ready to shoot. Just add the parts to your shopping cart and please make a note in the comments section providing us with any details or special requests. 

Please note:  No discounts are available on the purchase of Glock factory handguns. Discounts will only apply to accessories and parts.  Firearms must be shipped via Fedex Overnight, to your selected FFL. This is a flat rate, $40 charge. 

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Pairing the famed power of the .45 ACP with the reliability and safety of a GLOCK®, the GLOCK G21 SF .45 ACP Semi-Auto Pistol puts proven firepower and trusted reliability in your hands. GLOCK's corrosion-resistant, ergonomically ideal, stronger-than-steel polymer frame provides a strong base that dampens recoil. The durable cold-hammered steel slide and barrel are coated with GLOCK's high tech Tenifer 64 HRC surface treatment. Safe Action trigger system teams a trigger safety, trigger bar, and firing pin lock that automatically deactivate one after another as the trigger engages. The barrel's rounded interior profile offer easier cleaning and longer lasting precision. Loaded chamber indicator. Built-in mounting rails for tactical lights or laser sights.

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[jokeringcutio]

2, 3, 12, 12, 30 from the ask game? ^^ im a curious person asdkfljsdfk

[ Answering to this game ]

Thank you so much for asking :) ♡

2. Go to your AO3 “Works” page, to the sidebar with all the filters, and click the drop-down arrow for “Additional Tags.” What are your top 3-5 most used tags? Do you think they accurately represent your writing habits? Top five are: Reader-Insert (9) Angst (8) Older Man/Younger Woman (8) Age Difference (7) Dubious Consent (6) And well, they do on this account :') . Not quite what I wrote in the past. I have gone from humor and romance to disturbing dark romance fics, I suppose? Though the older man/younger woman age thing has always been my kink, I mean, even in real life.

3. What are some tropes or details that you think are very characteristic of your fics?

Polite/kind Reader. I know this isn't in any tags, but my standard/basic Reader is quite polite. Doesn't curse as much as I see readers do in other fics, doesn't fight as much as I read in most fics. Might react atypically to what you might expect in certain situations - which is excellent when writing villain/bad guy fics because they will expect the obvious and need to re-adjust their reaction when the reader surprises them. It could just be why the Reader is kept alive and survives. My basic go-to Reader is usually inspired by the thought "now what would I do when I was caught in this situation?" Though, when I am writing for a friend, I will make the character react more like they would. Which is even more fun than imagining myself in such a situation. "I am a worrier, not a warrior." (JokeringCutio ) - and yes, you can quote that with my name attached to it - I worry. A lot. And I try to solve things without fighting but by talking or finding solutions. Unless otherwise requested, I try to come up with reactions for the reader by placing myself in their situation. My basic Reader won't fight as much on instinct, I can't even slap someone if they ask me to (Yes, that has happened). But apart from the reader's depiction, you can find details in fics that derive from this as well. When I imagine myself in situations, important questions arise: where are the toilets? Is there anything I can use when I get my period? But who will feed the hamster? If there's a window, how can it be that no sound escapes the room? Expect things like bathing, using the toilet, menstruation, getting dirty, getting hurt and fearing infection. They are basic human things that I worry about and that I have noticed are quite often glossed over in movies and stories, but that make it all the more grizzly to read. Other details: Look for: A feasible ending. I like my stories to have a happy end, unless otherwise requested. But because I try and imagine how it would be if I were really caught in that situation, that ending might not be "they married and lived happily ever after". I mean, with a villain, murderer, slasher, or mentally ill person, happily ever after might just end a different way. Look for: Girls are better friends. Most of my recent fics have had a female reader involved with a male villain. But if you look closely you will see I often can't help a lesbian crush or relationship added to the mix, even if not open or explicit. 12. Are there any tropes you used to dislike but have grown on you? Reader-Insert. Used to hate them. Now I want nothing more but to write and read them. Hear me out, I like to perfect my reader-insert skills and try to avoid all that irritated me in the past. So I try to avoid mentioning specific things like the length of hair, body shape, skin tone, and background information that could trigger or put a reader off. And yes, in some cases you can get away with it, no problem. It's looking to find that balance. I failed with my multi-chapter Grabber fic. I wanted to avoid mentioning hair on the reader for a specific reader I have seen lurking around the fandom but it slipped in a few times anyway. If you are that reader and read this, please feel free to request a hairless reader fic/hair not mentioned fic. I would love to make it up to you ♡ 30. Have you ever written something that was out of your comfort zone? If so, what was it, and how did it affect your approach to writing fic thereafter?

Yes. The first smut I wrote was (as a virgin at the time and totally not into the kinks requested) very much out of my comfort zone. But I had to look up a lot and learned a lot new terms. Ahum... I like to challenge myself by stepping out of my comfort zone so, we'll see what the future brings :)

[vulpine111]

1: AREA OF GREATEST BALANCE IN LIFE

3 of Wands

My sense of confidence and what I have to look forward to is auspicious. I have a great future ahead and it's okay to act like it.

It is also reassurance that the right relationship is out there for me when I am ready. I am finally embracing the waiting period for what it is- a chance to invest in myself and my growth.

Right now is a good time to continue to get to know myself and develop my standards. I learned a lot about what I don't want in a partner. It's time to consider what I DO want/what I am seeking.

My abuser tried to convince me I'd never find what I am looking for and he's the best there would ever be. He always wanted to be the defining factor in things.

2: AREA OF LEAST BALANCE IN LIFE

The Hermit

My balance between social interaction and solitude is skewed somehow. It's okay to take more time for myself, the things I love, and introspection.

3: BALANCING ENERGIES

Judgement

I am going to start a band new relationship without the baggage of past wounds. This relationship will have a deep and meaningful purpose. It will be truly meant - unlike others I've encountered. In the mean time, I need to trust myself and keep planting seeds of growth.

4: WHERE/HOW I SPEND MY ENERGY ON OTHERS

7 of Wands

The advice of this card is simple. No matter what, I need to maintain my boundaries and stand my ground. It's going to take effort to maintain my position. Some people think I don't deserve the opportunities being given to me- even though I worked extremely hard to get to this point.

When things get tough, remember what I believe in and keep fighting for it.

5: WHERE/HOW I SPEND MY ENERGY ON MYSELF

9 of Chalices

Entering a new stage of life. Joy after loss. Something awesome will happen regarding my work and the things I am passionate about.

6: BALANCING ENERGIES

Strength

I have more fortitude than I often even give myself credit for. I am a strong person. This could be a sign from Marchosias and other entities I've turned to for strength, too. Remember the series depicting his return to Heaven may be some of my most important work. Make time to pray about it soon.

7: HOW MY SENSE OF EQUILIBRIUM CONNECTS TO MY ENERGY'S OUTFLOW AND FOCUS

Knight of Cups

Continue to seek professional help with my new or remaining struggles. Continue to pursue emotional fulfillment through activities, relationships, etc. that are meaningful to me.

[alyjojo]

Advice to Work on Yourself 🙈 in September 2023: Scorpio

Ace of Wands - King of Cups - 8 Pentacles & 9 Pentacles

Regarding: 5 Wands

This is shadow work, no two ways about it. We all have parts of ourself that cause problems if not controlled or dealt with. Maturing is a process that never ends, and doesn’t mean what you think it means, I’m getting that loud and clear. Every zodiac sign and placement has a good and bad, best and worst, so you’re not being attacked. The same astrology placements that made Jeffrey Dahmer a serial killer could’ve made him an amazing surgeon, or mortician. Why *that’s* where we’re going with this, I don’t know. Caravaggio is now looking more ominous 👀 No violence please. But everyone gets these kind of messages (less dark tho 💯), it just depends on when/who needs them.

Your message is scathing, but your communication is scathing and I’m getting “that’s the point”. Spirit is talking to you like you talk to others. I’m going to nice it up though, because that’s also the point. Anger issues are coming out strongly, maybe avoidance of those issues as well, and that needs more attention. You may hold your feelings inside until you explode, rather than addressing them calmly in the moment. King of Cups is your energy, and normally a very mature & kind person, with balanced emotions, but you’ve got a red flag on your own head and it’s due to how you deal with conflict.

The Dog with a Cross and Judgement both show a conservative sort of belief system and view on things. Possibly religious. Are they your beliefs? Your judgements? Or someone else’s? Because Dog also shows a lot of people that have opinions and want you to please them or live up to some expectation…no. Your life. Respectfully 🙏 That same sentiment applies to others where you are projecting this judgy & holier than thou attitude towards them. No. Their life. Respectfully 🙏

You’re confused about a partnership, a lover, either one that you already have or one you want to have but don’t know how to get. Queen of Pentacles is your dream, someone who can and does do it all, they have money, a thriving career, raise the kids, clean the home, pay the bills, take care of life. Practically. And you may judge all of your people, or potential people, based on these inner judgements and standards that seem imposed on you? by some outside source. I’m getting you need to look at things way more deeply. And then ask yourself? Are YOU even this person? Can someone throw 1000 judgements and expectations your way and you will strive to meet them? Or will you tell them to fk off? Because I’m getting in this moment, as thing stand, most people are going to tell you to fk off, and this is why.

Most people have dreams and desires for an ideal person sure. Boundaries are necessary, being communicative about expectations are good, and so long as two people (not just you)‘s expectations are compatible and met on both sides, there can be 10 Cups. What’s not okay is constant complaining, moving the goal posts, like today it’s fine to do xyz but tomorrow it’s not, or things are only okay when you do them - not someone else. You have a tangled web of “standards” imprinted in you that in reality you might not even really care about, but you use them against people, and that’s toxic.

The advice is to put more work into yourself, your money, your career, and take the time you need to sort out what it is you do really want. And the Dog energy, other people and their opinions, has got to go. You need to not care, and make your own decisions that you have to live with. The person your Mom would pick would probably be a millionaire, but if there’s no passion or chemistry, what’s the point? The only thing we should all know about Spirit is that they like to test us and our beliefs at our core, as a lesson to be a good person, and more loving towards everyone of all walks of life, which is the only real lesson in any religious book, and it’s in all of them pick one. Releasing the ego 💯 If you are religious, then you already know it’s not *your* Judgement that even matters 😉

The other side of this is it’s fine to have certain desires and standards based on your experiences in the past, and your personality. What is a good fit for you, what balances your own life, what do you *need* to be happy, what does 10 Cups look like to you? That’s the fairy tale ending, happily ever after. You can figure that out and look for it, be up front about it with potential partners, but what you can’t do is take an available person that’s NOT that - and bite their head off with criticism and judgements so that they will become that - or just blindly expect it. They will be them and it’s what’s best for them, they’ll just avoid you 💯

This also applies to someone in your life that is this way with you. A partner? A parent? A friend? All of them. That’s why “vote someone off the island is here”. You don’t owe anyone a damn thing, and they don’t owe you either. But if you want to explain, do so in a kind way, and allow others a chance to speak how they feel, what they want, etc etc and “Improve Your Listening”. If you don’t agree, okay, hope you find what you’re looking for, and move on ❤️

Delving into your own birth chart could be really beneficial to you, just to explore yourself. And someone else’s if there’s a particular person/people you heavily conflict with. Synastry charts could help you there. Google has everything you need to research individual aspects, or there are millions of astrologers that offer these things. Some of you may have firm beliefs against that, and that’s okay too, this is just for those open to it. Apply that mindset to life.

Animal Oracle: Dog 🐕

“Your loyalty and faithfulness is misplaced by serving too many masters.”

“Whom do you serve?” is the question. When you compromise your integrity to placate others out of fear of disapproval or disappointment, you give away your power and deny your own inner authority. You become their servant, and they your masters. You allow this by assuming some other person or organization has more of something, whether knowledge, spiritual power, confidence, beauty, and you therefore put yourself in a “lesser than” position. While some people do possess these gifts, you can honor them as teachers, not masters.

Children start out leashed to their parents for wisdom and guidance, and as they grow the leashes stretch and eventually are severed as they make their own way through life. Over a number of years, you’ve allowed many leashes to be put around your neck, you’re serving too many people and it’s diminished your sense of self. Cut all of the leashes off and free yourself.

Artist Oracle: CARAVAGGIO

- Try to keep violence metaphorical.

- Adjust your eyes to darkness.

- A head on the shoulders is worth two in the hand.

Advice:

- Improve Your Listening

- Vote Someone Off the Island 🏝️

Charms:

Cross ✝️ on Dog are religious/familial based due to you being surrounded by people that for some reason have a say in what you do, how you think, what you want & how you behave or believe. This is saying to cut the extra baggage and/or just figure things out for yourself.

Fractal Heart ❤️ on Caravaggio has many many layers, projecting your own judgments and beliefs onto others when it’s better to have your own head on your shoulders. Keep the violence to yourself, and in this case, violence is communication & “hate” towards things, but Ace of Wands can show real anger too. I can’t know all of the intricate details of this heart, or the Key to follow, but you do, and it needs work.

Fractal Key 🔑 on Improve Your Listening shows the “Key” to the reading. If you want explanations that’s okay to ask, but you have to listen and really hear people, understanding that others are not like you and will not do what you would do. People don’t think like you, love like you, have the same goals, that’s what makes you an original person. But if you want another person - The Lovers & 10 Cups - you have to know someone else’s thoughts, the way they love, the goals and beliefs they have, which are just as important as your own.

Feather 🪶 on Judgement is a message from your angels, spirit guides and spiritual team about “Grace” because that’s what I heard when I held it, and in biblical terms no less. I’m also getting that the word is enough for you, and I should just leave it.

Red Flag 🚩on King of Cups is saying you have alarming shadows that you need to face, and also that you project yourself and the worst of these behaviors onto other people…avoiding the shadow work you need to do, probably from a righteous perspective. This is a message of “you’re not God, God is love, you need work”. But that’s okay, once you see it ❤️ If there is some dream person in your life, or a past one you’re having issues with (Judgement can show a rebirth) this is also saying to take it very slow in approaching them, because where things stand, they’re going to “nope” you right of their pool of love options. But also, that there’s a chance if you face your demons and come at them cautiously & respectfully, giving both of you the time and space that’s needed, working on it a little at a time, every day. Dang this one was intense. Hugs & love to you ❤️

[getthebutters]

The Best Lube For Anal (2023)

Let’s face it, finding the perfect lube for anal is… difficult. Well at least it was until you came here! Cause I’m gonna give you a run down all your options and tell you which one is gonna make back door entry as fun as humanly possible.

Let’s start with your options:

Water-Based like Astroglide. Safe with all condom and sex toy materials. Duration rated 5/10. Which speaks for itself. Slickness 8/10, which is why people still use it.

Silicone-based like Sliquid or Gun Oil. Safe with all condom materials and most sex toy materials. Some blends of silicone can react with silicone toys. Duration rated 10/10. Slickness rated 6/10. Which is why I hate it.

Oil-based like Palm Grease. Safe with condom materials and most body safe materials. Works with: Silicone, glass, wood, ceramic, leather, PVC, sil-a-gel, lamb skin, polyurethane. Duration rated 9/10. Slickness 9/10

Hybrid Based like The Butters: Lube Aloe X Shea Duration rated 10/10. Slickness 10/10

Now after listening to that, you probably think the answer is clear. But, if that was true, we could wrap things up here! How boring, our lube is the best, go buy it. Boo. Tomato, tomato, tomato.

The whole truth is that depending on your circumstances, any of them could be the best. Like I hate most water based and all silicone lubes currently. But if I just gotta make some peach cobbler and all I got is silicone. Welp, pass on over here. Obviously, you’re not always gonna be desperate, though. So, when you have all options, what’s truly the best? Well that still depends.

Are you using latex condoms. If so, grab you some water-based lube. There’s no better option for your butt when using a latex condom. If not then, let’s get the Oil-BASED or OIL-WATER HYBRID AND GET FUCKING!

Years back, when I was just a sex blogger, I was asked what’s the best lube for anal. Even back then, I championed Boy Butter (water/oil based) as the worthiest choice. Since then, things have changed dramatically. The once formidable king of the hill has been supplanted by a pair of all natural, 100% vegan, long-lasting, pH balancing, wonder twins: The Butters Lube Aloe X Shea & Palm Grease!

Yes, I make The Butters and that means I’m incredibly biased. Still, it was after 7 years testing lubes professionally, I decided to make something better for a couple reasons: silicone isn’t slippery enough, water-based always dry out. They’re both expensive and you have to use a lot. Plus, even though I did enjoy non-Butters oil-based lubes the best, every single one had a bunch of emulsifiers and water in them. So, they’re not a lubricating as it could be. Now, 14 years in, not much has changed in the industry – even though we’ve seen many competitors pop up and disappear.

That leaves The Butters: Lube. With its great conductivity, perfect balance of slick versus tactile, tear prevention, tissue softening, extra-long endurance and versatility for even kinkier play!

Those other lubes have some catching up to do. Even still, let me give you some more details about why The Butters is the reigning best in ass.

 Price:

An 8oz tub of The Butters: Lube cost just $29 shipped. That’s 2 months’ worth of daily butt stuff for just $14.50/mo. or $0.48 per pounding. The best anal of your life costs less than standard Netflix. Even if you want the CBD versions, the cost isn’t that much more but you will get access to a world of orgasm inducing benefits. 

Quality:

I’m not super homo-pathic or whatever, but I like to keep things as simple as possible. That’s partially why I got fed up paying the high prices for other lubes. If I’m paying that much, I deserve better quality.

Take Boy Butter for example, theirs is only partly natural and the ingredients are kind of confusing. Let’s compare the first 3 ingredients:

Boy Butter - Partially Hydrogenated Vegetables Oils, Glycerin, Polysorbate 60

The Butters: Lube – Aloe X Shea - Shea Butter, Palm Oil, Coconut Oil

Palm Grease – Palm Oil, Soybean Oil, Grapeseed oil

I think you get the point.

 Endurance:

Boy Butter’s endurance could be a lot better. Now, this isn’t a knock against Boy Butter alone. In fact, almost all lubes don’t last as long as I want them to. That’s why I make sure The Butters will stay slippery through before work quickies and midafternoon marathons. I’ve even got video evidence to prove it.

 Overall Performance:

Endurance isn’t the only goal for lube performance, it should also help you feel more connected with your partner. With its unique collection of oils, The Butters melts just below body temp – meaning it’s creamy texture melts quickly to a thin, tactile yet slippery coating. That coating doesn’t mean you have to worry about an oily or sticky build up because your body can absorb and use every ingredient in The Butters.

 Made for your body:

Being able to absorb The Butters is crucial to it working so well. The ingredients all have unique properties that make them suited for use in lube. Most notably, though, soybean oil’s skin healing, grapeseed’s anti-inflammatory, and shea’s conditioning work together to prevent tears in the anus and heal the ones that do happen quicker. They work by simply making the anal tissue softer, stronger, and more flexible.

Palm Grease, on the other hand, melts above body temp. It has more of a thick, plush, juicy feel. It completely coats your insides for a deliciously buttery butt hole.  Either way, not only will those insides be ready to for action, but they’ll also feel better than ever. Soft, plush, buttery insides are the best. The Butters will help yours stay that way.

 Fisting:

One of my favorite activities, even though I don’t do it nearly often enough. In the past, I’ve resorted to using Crisco to avoid spending a fortune on traditional lubes for fisting fun. It’s definitely a classic. But it’s also goopy, takes forever to melt or wash away. Luckily, The Butters Lube & Palm Grease are thick enough to survive elbow deep fun time. Plus, The Butters blend with your natural lubrication, which will only make things easier and more fun.

 Possible Negatives:

Even though it's really great for anal, it's not so great with latex condoms. Sadly, non-latex condoms are harder to find in stores and some don't like ordering online. It's not too much hassle but it can be it can be a hurdle for many valid reasons.

Luckily, there's a whole wide world of magnum non-latex condoms available at Lucky Bloke including the female/internal condoms I've raved about. They didn't pay me to say/link that, I just like their shop and management from our work in the past. Also, I think you might find a preference for non-latex condoms. The ones I've used always seem to hug my dick a little better.

[libramonthlyhoroscope1]

December zodiac signs

December Zodiac Sign – December Born People Are Sagittarius or Capricorn: Zodiac Sign for December is Sagittarius or Capricorn – Sagittarius Tropical Zodiac 23 November – 22 December And Sagittarius Sidereal Zodiac Sign is 16 December – 14 January | Capricorn Tropical Zodiac 22 December – 20 January And Capricorn Sidereal Zodiac Sign 15 January – 14 February.

About Sagittarius

In astronomy, Sagittarius is the ninth constellation of the zodiac.This means that Jupiter is the ruler of this planet. People born under this sign tend to have fair skin, good looks, and a large forehead.People also like to be nice.Sagittarius people are often daring and brave, but they will never back down in tough.

December zodiac signs

Sagittarius people are very intelligent. They learn more while talking to people. Jupiter is the ruler of these people. He makes them strong and lively. They like sports and outdoor activities. They are always moving all the time. Their heart is always looking for new experiences, so they do not like being alone or isolated from other people too much.

Sagittarians are good learners. They learn from their mistakes better than any other sign. Sagittarians might do things when they are younger that can be dangerous, like driving fast cars, but if they make a mistake, they never do it again. They like to be free and work hard, but they will eventually use their intelligence potential to reach something that seems far away. He sets his own standards for what he wants to achieve in life. He will try to reach something that is far away, but once it is close, he wants to start a new project before finishing the one he has been working on now.

He likes to be free, either by being in a place with room to move around or by being challenged mentally or physically. It is not unusual for him to have two jobs at the same time. He enjoys mental challenges so he needs physical exercise as well. Getting tired means that he is bored and needs something new. He should try to control his restlessness, or else it will cause himself and other people to be unhappy.

Sagittarius Lucky/Unlucky Important Details

Ruling Planet- Jupiter is the planet that rules these things.

Symbol – The symbol is an archer. He shoots arrows at targets.

Element- Fire is an element. It can be hot and also has a color that is red.

Lucky Color- These colors are lucky: light blue, white, cream and orange.

Lucky Stone – Lucky Stone is a yellow sapphire with turquoise.

Unlucky Stones- Unlucky Stones are Pearls and Diamonds.

Lucky Numbers- Numbers that lucky are -6, 5, 3 and 8.

Lucky Days- Do you want to know when your lucky days are? Wednesdays, Thursdays and Fridays.

Business Partner- I am a business partner with Taurus.

Lucky Alphabet –A, M, L and Y

Best profession: Teacher, banker, publishing, advertising etc.

Best Boss- This is the best boss. His name is Leo.

Eventful Years- Every year I add 9. So in the years 6, 15, 24, 33, etc. my next eventful year will be in the years 5, 14, 23 and so on.

Body Parts –Hips, Thighs

Good Points- Good things about me are that I’m honest, broad-minded, generous, vivacious, fearless, and independent. I also have a lot of aspirations.

Bad Points- Bad points include being over-confident, inconsistent, boastful, aggressive, and short-tempered.

Soul Mates- Soul mates are people who love each other. Aries and Leo both have fiery personalities, so they might be soulmates.

Just Say No- The star signs Taurus and Cancer say no.

Sagittarius Man

Sagittarius men like to travel and ask questions. They want to find the truth, beauty, and wisdom in life.Sagittarius men are good listeners and they give balanced answers when someone is asking them something.

Love, Sex, Romance, and Relationships

Sagittarius men need someone who understands love like them. They don’t want someone who is just like them. Sagittarius men are good at being loved because they are honest with their partners.

Understanding Sagittarius Men

Optimists are people who enjoy exploring every day. Philosophers, people who think about morality and religion, are curious.You will have fun talking with them.

Money

Sagittarius men need to be independent. They are too optimistic to overlook any of the good or bad parts of their life, and they like to plan for money carefully.

Fashion

The Sagittarius man likes to wear purple and turquoise colors. He might like to mix different styles together.

Relationships

Men who are born under the Sagittarius sign are trustworthy and happy.They are the man of advice that they give without hesitating.

Romance

Sagittarius men do not make commitments to their partner. They want excitement and new lovers.

Health (December Zodiac Sign)

Sagittarius men can get bruises, broken bones, and lots of pain in their hips. To stay healthy, they should eat foods that are good for them and not weigh too much.

Career

Sagittarius men are good at being a publisher, teacher, philosopher, consultant, travel guide or academic. They can also be an entrepreneur.

Sagittarius Woman

The woman with Sagittarius is curious. She asks lots of questions and likes to talk about many things. She does not like someone telling her what to do, so she likes to do things on her own terms.

Love

Love is a secret for Sagittarius women. Sometimes they keep it as a secret but most of the time they really want to have it.

Relationships (December Zodiac Sign)

Women who are Sagittarius like to spend time with people who love truth, knowledge, and company.

Friendships

Sagittarius women are adventurous and intelligent. They like to spend time with people who have fun.

Fashion

Sagittarius women are different than most people. They do not care about most fashion trends and only really care about comfort.

Sagittarius Children

Children born with Sagittarius as their zodiac sign are fun-loving and would grow up to be popular. They are always optimistic and full of enthusiasm, and they’re usually outspoken too. Children with the Sagittarius zodiac sign usually always try to become wise, which is why they’re often very talkative.

Exceedingly popular (December Zodiac Sign)

Sagittarius children are good at everything, so other people will like them.People who do great things are really happy.

Greatly optimistic

Children born in Sagittarius are optimistic. This helps them.

Bundle of energy

Children with Sagittarius zodiac signs have a lot of energy and enthusiasm. They have the power to do hard things, like achieve their goal.

A free and independent spirit

Sagittarians are independent people and they do not need help with their activities.

An outspoken nature (December Zodiac Sign)

Some children are quick to talk and say what they think. These children can be identified as Sagittarius. That is because they speak boldly and it helps them stay successful.

Innate hunger for wisdom

They think about the intelligence of their activities.

Sagittarius Career Horoscope

Sagittarius are truthful and see really far. A person who is open minded is accepting. Freedom is important for them to perform well. Sagittarius are adorable people who can be good at jobs that challenge their body or their mind, like being a pilot or being a teacher, so they have many choices of what job they want to have when they grow up. If someone is female, she might love to travel and spend time outside so she could join the profession of travel agent salesperson or tourism salesperson etcetera. If they are a male Sagittarius, they should work in a profession that is related to law because people from their ethnic background often work in these professions.

Sagittarians are people who have a lot of experience and can turn things to their advantage. They are good at getting the things done from their employees.Their strong personality and knowledge always helps them stay ahead of others. They will be great at teaching, speaking in public, making engineering projects or working with banks. Mercury being the lord of the profession means that they will do well in law or accounting in company law or accounting companies.

As a boss, they are good. They never let down workers or anyone else. They are honest and have a positive personality. When it comes to team-building, they handle it in a diplomatic way without any chaos. The thing that makes them successful is the fact that they have an outgoing nature for their target and positive outlook on things.

Sagittarius Health Horoscope

People who are Sagittarius can be sensitive. Small things make them feel bad. They might get gout, rheumatic pain, lumbago, or fractures. Mars and Saturn can cause this too. Sagittarians should be careful of what they eat and take their medication on time so that they don’t have these problems.

Sagittarius Finance Horoscope

Sagittarius people are attracted to wealth. They either make it or attract it. Sagittarius has talent, energy and ideas that can create their own perfect world. But they need luxury in every area of life for satisfaction. They can find their dream financial status if they improve on their organizational and managerial skills.

[freelancersocean]

Benefits of Choosing Freelance Jobs Online

The number of people opting for freelancing is increasing globally. The simple reason is due to all the benefits that a freelancer possesses when acquiring freelance jobs online. From having a passive income to creating a successful career as a freelance; it offers it all to people.

If you are wondering whether you should try your hands at freelancing jobs, then simply go through all the benefits given below. It will showcase why such jobs are a remarkable option that people have nowadays.

How to Get The Right Freelance Jobs Online

A plethora of perks are available for freelancers in any field. However, the major and standard advantages that all freelancers enjoy consist of:

Multiple income sources

Flexible working hours

Job security

Location flexibility

Be your boss

Work-life balance

Select the work you want

Increase creativity

Take a look at these in detail!

i. Multiple income sources always

There is no limit to earning potential of an individual when working as a freelancer. The simple reason is that a person can acquire as many projects as he/she can handle. Moreover, an individual will be handling multiple clients meaning income comes from different sources in every situation. In addition, if people work at a traditional 9-5 job, then can always be freelancers and have multiple sources of income.

ii. Flexible working hours

When working only as a freelancer, an individual will have flexible working works. You will decide when you plan to work and when to rest. Thus, you can create a schedule daily according to your requirement and have flexibility when it comes to working. Thus, working freelance jobs online means as long as you meet the deadlines, you can choose to work whenever it is convenient.

iii. Job security throughout life

Whenever working as a freelancer, there is job security throughout life similar to any traditional job. The reason for this is the available of some of the best freelance websites; such platforms are where people can seek freelance work whenever they need it. Moreover, with more companies hiring freelancers nowadays, numerous tasks are available for people in their freelance niche.

The reason companies seek such individuals every day is because of cost-efficiency; rather than having in-house employees for a small task, a firm just hires a freelancer for a few hours and saves money.

iv. Location flexibility

This is one of the major benefits that a person can enjoy as a freelance worker. Location flexibility is what makes this career path more lucrative and convincing apart from ample earning potential. Sitting at home and working is one of the best aspects of freelance jobs online. Working from home is ideal for several reasons such as saving commuting expenditure, not dealing with traffic, and more.

Moreover, there are freelancers worldwide who choose to work from various travel destinations like stunning beaches, mesmerizing mountain areas, etc. This way they can travel the world and earn money at the same time.

v. Be your boss

Being a freelancer is like running a company where you are the only employee and boss. It means that people can choose what they want to work on without having to take permission from anyone else. Moreover, it allows one to create a work life that is autonomous and has complete authority over it. In addition, such gigs allow one to eliminate negative things like bad management, office politics, etc.

vi. Work-life balance

Being the boss and creating a work schedule accordingly is how an individual can achieve adequate work-life balance. In a traditional job where one has to reach the office by 8 and have to work till 5 is why people fail to achieve a work-life balance.

However, freelance jobs online change that completely and offer an individual time for socializing, hobbies, etc. for leading a satisfactory and healthy life. It is the ultimate approach to leading the lifestyle you want without hindering your professional life’s growth.

vii. Always choose the work that you want

When working as a freelancer, people can work with people they want and choose projects that they prefer to handle. It means that a person wouldn’t need to deal with clients they didn’t like or take up tasks that they didn’t desire.

Online jobs for freelancers allow individuals to simply interact with people that they want to work with and carry out tasks that are meaningful to them.

viii. Increase creativity

When there is complete freedom of choosing work according to one’s preference, people’s creativity will increase. This advantage permits people to choose projects that will require ample creativity and more. In addition, it will allow individuals to pitch new ideas to clients for better results. Such increased creativity will help one to be highly successful in the freelancing sector. These are some of the benefits that make people want to opt for freelance jobs online. If you are looking to make ample money or just a passive income, then join a freelancing platform today; it will help you get clients and develop your professional career immensely.

[itslouisan]

Answering as my oc Louis:

1- Well my home is where i feel most safe and capable of working, aka my shop, I'm living here for around 225 years (note: 1 Shinigami year = 50 human years) which is like, 4,5 years, so only recently....I found my home, well, I sell voodoo items, rituals, charms, magic items, potions, curses, for extra I do rituals and blessings as well, Shinigami items and candy, me and my assistant Kaguya share space in the attic and my lab is underground together with my training grounds.

2- ...with a ton of sake to forget or my children making me company so I don't relapse...

3- yes, my children, these lovable and special crows. My only, real and found family

4- trusting my creator, trusting my god, working without thinking of the consequences, fighting for the wrong side, not questioning and following orders like a dog, trusting they wouldn't take away the only part of me I loved.

5- I swore to myself 225 years ago I'd never ask this question again and I'd never look back, instead, focusing on rebuilding and being better than I could ever be before. But I admit, sometimes, I think if I shouldn't have gone violent before they backstabbed me.

6- my children, music, my lab, my nest, my trinkets.

7- a lot of things really even if I barely show rage or hate, but I think government, authority, loneliness, betrayal, the use of Innocents, playing god when we all are so small and greed brings me rage.

8- chaotic, confusing, warm

9- about the day I'll ace and fly through the sky again, when I can reunite with those I love, when I can avenge and retrieve all that I lost, of finding someone who will stay

10- currently? I only sleep one thing stand with a bunch of people when I'm bored and alone at night, I used to have a platonic lover, but that was 250 years ago

11- I'm pan, ace, genderfluid, musegender and crowgender. I use any pronuns but my standard ones are he/him, crow/crow self.

12- "saudade" in Portuguese, a complex yet beautiful word of a feeling no other language can 100% translate...

13- INTJ-T....whatever that means for you nerds, I'm also a earth rat, a Taurus and my blood type is O-

14- depends on who is asking, when is asking and how is asking, but in general, no. I, Louis, don't really consider myself entirely good, as well as I don't consider myself entirely bad, there's balance in me.

15- science, writing, painting, building equipments technology wise, I am creative, I can fight really well, solve puzzles, communication, acting, creating poisons,playing ukulele, guitar, piano, violin... there's a lot.

16 science and baking...also nesting... I love nests and hunts for trinkets!!

17- my crows! My beautiful, lovable and crazy crows, they follow me since forever, they are my children and I would do anything for them

18- sometimes yes, but, I'm happy with my current life so.. I guess that's how it should be in the eyes of the universe

19- ehhh, messy and depends on the person, but sure as hell I can fake to be what people want me to be

20- my katana "Indigo storm" or "Murakashi Ai Arashi", it's beautiful, unique, follows me on combat for a millennia, and it's classy...a katana, an umbrella...

21- I follow the traditional japanese style, dressing like a male of the Edo period of japan most of the time or the Haiwan period, I also dress in disguises as a Edo period courtesan style when it was necessary long ago..but other fashions I use are gothic lolita, classical goth, victorian clothing and dark academia styles.

22- My exile from limbo...225 years later and I still dream of it...this and the great Shinigami purge.

23- being alone and failing to protect those I love... losing my wings and freedom again.

24- my need for control and preparing for everything....and my trust issues of course

25- my wisdom.

I was bored so, here's 25 questions to answer as your ocs, feel free to share em' (I'll probably answer this by rebbloging later)

1- Where's home?

2- How do you sleep at night?

3- Do you love anyone?

4- What's your biggest regret?

5- Do you ever ask yourself "why"?

6- What comforts you?

7- What brings rage on you

8- If you had 3 words to describe yourself, what are they?

9- do you dream about anything?

10- do you have a type of lover? Romantically, platonically, just sex, anything at all?

11- what's your sexuality, gender and pronuns?

12- What's your favorite word?

13- mbti?

14- Do you consider yourself a good person? If yes, why?

15- Do you have any talents?

16- Favorite hobbies?

17- Do you have an animal companion or something that follows you around?

18- Do you wish things were different?

19- How would you describe your relationship with others?

20- what's your favorite weapon if you have one?

21- what's your style like?

22- what changed your life forever and you can't undo it no matter how much you try to, and you can't forget it no matter what?

23- what is your biggest fear?

24- what is your biggest weakness?

25- what is your biggest strength?

That's all :)

[motivationisdead]

35 Signs You’re in a Toxic Relationship

I listed all the ones that apply to Wei Wuxian and Jiang Cheng’s relationship.

Note: For the most part, a good relationship makes you feel secure, happy, cared for, respected, and free to be yourself.

And now, the signs:

1. All take, no give. Any relationship in which you experience withdrawals of energy without deposits will leave you in the negative.

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3. Lack of trust. A relationship without trust is like a car without gas: You can stay in it all you want, but it won't go anywhere.

4. Hostile atmosphere. Constant anger is a sure sign of an unhealthy relationship. You should never be around hostility because it makes you feel unsafe.

5. Occupied with imbalance. A one-sided relationship can never run smoothly.

6.  Constant judgment. In judgmental relationships, criticism is not intended to be helpful but rather to belittle.

7. Persistent unreliability. Mutual reliability is important to building trust and is at the core of any good relationship.

8. Nonstop narcissism. If the other party's interest in the relationship is really just a reflection of him or herself, it's impossible to achieve any kind of balance.

9. Loaded with negative energy. It's almost impossible for anything positive to come out of a relationship filled with negativity.

10. Lack of communication. Without communication, there is no relationship. Period.

11. Continuous disrespect. Mutual respect is the first requirement of a good partnership.

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13. Insufficient support. If you cannot turn to each other, is there a reason to be in the relationship?

14. Ceaseless control issues. If one person is in control, or a constant tug-of-war is going on, you're probably spending too much energy navigating the relationship.

15. Never-ending drama. Good relationships improve your life; they don't make it messier.

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17. Constant challenges. All relationships go through challenges, but good relationships work through them.

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19. Vibes of entrapment. Is the other person a positive force in your life, or are you there because you don't see any way out?

20. Always undermining. If a relationship can't be reassuring, it's failing a crucial test.

21. Empty pretense. Smiles don't always mean everything is OK.

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23. Brimming with envy. Partners are never equal in all aspects, but that should be a source of strength, not of a source of disruptive envy.

24. Shortage of autonomy. Anyone in any relationship should have the right to say no.

25. Permeates victimhood. You can't move onto the future if you're tied to someone who's still stuck in the past.

28. Makes you unhappy. If someone is constantly making you unhappy, you owe it to yourself to let that person go.

29. Feels uncomfortable. Sometimes your mind needs more time to discover what your heart already knows.

30. Lowers your high standards. Toxic relationships can cause us to slowly begin accepting what was once not acceptable.

33. Filled with criticism. A nonstop barrage of criticism never helped anyone improve; it's not about making things better but boosting the critic's ego.

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35. Cannot do anything right. If you cannot do anything right, maybe the relationship is all wrong.

That is… 29/35 signs. And it should be noticed that most of the one’s missing from this list are the ways in which Wei Wuxian didn’t let his relationship with Jiang Cheng affect him negatively.

For example:

2. Feeling drained. If, instead of feeling happy and productive, you're always mentally, emotionally, and even physically drained, it's time to re-evaluate.

16. Persistent self-betrayal. If you find yourself changing your opinions to please someone else, you're in a damaging relationship.

18. Feelings of unworthiness. It's an insidious thing negative relationships do: They leave you feeling you don't deserve any better.

22. Packed with uncertainty. When nothing is sure, forward movement feels impossible.

34. Brings out the worst. If you are constantly being your worst, you cannot be your best self.

Which is a credit to Wei Wuxian as a person really.

Source: https://www.inc.com/lolly-daskal/35-signs-youre-in-a-toxic-business-relationship.html

[mistype360]

mbti/enneagram typing for @eheu-vae-mihi

enneagram: 3w4 so/sp 8w9 7w6 387

straight off the bat, the fear of not living up to standards suggests you're somewhere in the competency triad (1-3-5). this is also why you seem to detach a lot from your emotions. struggling with introspection and trying to work through things logically is very similar to what someone in that triad would experience. you seem much more like a 3/5, as a 1 would focus more on being morally perfect. so3>5, as 5's don't seem to care about the guidelines for success set by society as you mention ("getting a good job", "earning money"...).

your wing for the 3 wasn't too strong, and was pretty balanced between 4 and 2. usually when this happens, it means that the wing is a countertype (meaning, the specific subtypes defies the stereotype/general description). between sp2 and sp4, the way you almost internalize/repress emotions was more fitting towards a sp4. this, on top of your answer to dealing with shame, which was very much internalized.

the part about wanting to make a strong impact on the world gives feeling in mbti mixed with e3, with a little hint of 8. the 8 is especially seen in your descriptions of anger (many ppl think 8's are feral angry rats but most of them relate to your exact answer). being fiercely protective of those around you is epitome of so8, plus the fact that you hate being controlled by others .

for your 8, 9 fits perfectly especially with how you don't find yourself being good at self-reflection. also with how you aren't too sure of where you want to go, suggesting you struggle with identity like a 9 would.

something that really solidified the strength of this fix was how when your at your lows, you find yourself worried about things, feeling worthless, and feeling life has lost it's meaning, which is how a 3 and 9 would disintegrate.

your 9 and 8 seem pretty balanced. i don't think that you're either a 9w8 or 8w9 tbh, because you seem to use them in a way that is complementary to each other- not really that one is stronger than the other. but since your mbti is an entp it made most sense to type you as 8w9.

lastly, for the final fix of your tritype, i notice you mention you want to do things w/o worrying about repercussions, which is pretty similar to how an e7 would function. most of the reasons for giving you this fix were slightly sprinkled throughout your questionnaire, there wasn't an exact answer that led me to it. some sentences gave me the impressions that you do value gaining experiences, while also slightly 'security" focused, like a 7w6 would be. an example would be your curiosity answer about preventing a big situation in the real world from happening, which was small, but still pretty e6.

mbti: entp

imo, the way you structure your answers suggests a lot of ne. you consider a lot of possibilities in the way you respond to certain questions, which is something a high ne user would usually do. in my experience people who say "it depends" a lot are usually a mix of ne and ti.

maybe it's my washy speculation, or maybe the intent was to add more info?? either way, this wasn't the only reason i gave you this typing.

i'm honestly too lazy to format so i'm just going to list reasons why you seem high in ne and ti that i noticed:

you're curious about "why and how" things work

you think "the past is gone, no use clinging to it" and think the future is "what we want it to be"

🚪🚶is the se/ni in the room with us?

values logical consistency

the future "is moulded by our visions"

challenging authority by own ideas

there are moments where you do value efficiency and seem to like having a sense of concreteness in certain things, but imo that's more attributed to your 8 fix rather than simply just te.

you also do seem to show slight se, especially through learning things with application. but i don't think that this se necessarily trumps your ne. i think your enneagram explains why you display some stronger sensory traits (having all 3, 6, and 9 in your tritype def proves it), but again, looking back to your cores fixes, it points much more to entp.

[feathers-scales-and-tails]

Been seeing a lot of “backyard eggs are cruel” articles lately, so I wanted to go through a couple of the points they raise and highlight why backyard eggs aren’t inherently cruel.

1) Chicks come from factory farm hatcheries

This point is entirely dependent upon an individuals purchasing choices. The only chicks coming from factory farm hatcheries are production hybrids, so ISA Brown, HYLINE Brown, Utility Leghorn, etc. so long as you don’t purchase these hybrids, you don’t support the unethical factories.

Although private hatcheries have their own plethora of ethical issues, these places are not suppliers to factory farms. The best place to purchase your chicks or pullets from is a private breeder who has good welfare standards. Neither of these options support the factory farms, and the claim that majority of backyard hens come from these factory farm hatcheries is false. I currently can’t name a single person I know with birds from a factory farm hatchery.

2) Male chicks are killed at birth

If you are buying factory farm chicks, yes. However as I mentioned above, few backyard hens are coming from this source. Private hatcheries which sex chicks either sell cockerels cheaper, or sell them in bundle deals for meat birds. Unfortunately private hatcheries are about profit, and believe it or not they can still profit off cockerels.

Private breeders rarely ever sex chicks. It requires specialised training and cockerels are harder to sell, so most sell chicks unsexed. Breeders also want to grow out these cockerels, there needs to be a keep back for the next generation of breeding. Either way, private hatcheries and breeders where a lot of backyard hens are sourced from are not killing male chicks on a large scale.

3) Hens are unhealthy and unnatural due to genetic manipulation

First of all, domestic hens lay more eggs than their ancestors due to selective breeding, not ‘genetic modification’ or ‘genetic manipulation’. Production hybrids are certainly unhealthy, laying over 300 eggs a year causes their bodies to wear out and they’re predisposed to so many reproductive issues. They were bred with the intention of maximum production, replaced after 18 months once this production declines. They are a mess and frankly should not exist.

This is the argument point which always frustrates me the most because, you do realise there are hundreds of chicken breeds right? And just like with dogs, these breeds all have different temperaments, characteristics, and health statuses.

A well bred Wyandotte who lays 200 eggs a year rarely experiences the health issues of production hybrids. These issues are almost unheard of in Sumatra or Sebright who lay 50-100 eggs a year. There are so many heritage breeds out there bred for their longevity, living on average 7-8 years rather than the measly 2-3 of production hybrids.

Most people who keep backyard hens love these birds dearly, these are their pets. Why would someone purchase an unethical production hybrid off the factory farms knowing she will die a horrible death in 2 years, when they could instead get a heritage breed who’ll lay them eggs until she’s at least 5?

I know very few people with backyard hens who keep the production birds

4) Hens are abandoned/killed when production slows/stops

I have yet to meet a single person who has purposefully gotten rid of their hens once production slows or stops.

Production hybrids rarely stop laying unless they are actively affected by reproductive complications, these birds sadly die before they stop laying so owners are definitely not ‘abandoning’ these birds, rather they die long before their time while still pumping out those eggs. Alternatively, heritage breeds will lay for years. We’ve had a 9 year old Sussex still laying eggs. For all the backyard keepers with heritage breeds, the time to ‘replace’ hens is often very far into the future.

This isn’t even raising the point that, these hens are pets. People can eat eggs and still bond fiercely with their hens, people can eat eggs and still value the life of the hen. I don’t think many people are going to turn around and kill their friend suddenly because she stops laying as frequently. My grandfather who used to own a small scale egg farm always kept his old hens who no longer laid, he’d had them for 7 years and that’s an attachment that’s hard to break.

The idea that hens suddenly stop laying eggs one day so people replace them is quite silly, it just doesn’t happen in a backyard setting. Certainly in egg farms, but not with pet hens.

5) Laying eggs depletes nutrients. Hens need to be fed their eggs to get these back

Laying eggs definitely takes up a shocking amount of vitamins, minerals, and amino acids. A big one is calcium, the egg needs a lot to shell it, but each egg also needs enough calcium stores inside the yolk to nurture and grow a chicks skeleton. If a hen doesn’t have enough calcium, she’ll draw it from her bones to produce eggs.

But the thing is, she doesn’t need to eat her own eggs to gain this nutrition back. Chickens have been domesticated for thousands of years, and in this time we’ve perfected their diet. There are many fantastic feeds on the market tailored specifically for a laying hens needs! She should be fed a pellet or mash diet, this ensures she gets the correct amount of all the nutrients, whereas with grain she can pick and chose parts and become deficient. Furthermore, chickens aren’t stupid animals. A hen will know if she needs more calcium, and this is why it’s important to offer them oyster shell, limestone, and crushed egg shells so she can eat extra calcium at her leisure.

Sceptical of the feed, or maybe you just think she deserves those eggs back after all her hard work? Well while it’s nice to treat your hens to an egg every now and then, too many can cause many fatal health issues. If she eats every single egg she lays, AND eats a nutritional balanced diet, she’s getting way too much of those nutrients since the feed is already replacing that loss. A really big concern is that she’ll put on too much weight from all the protein in eggs, this can lead to fatty liver disease which kills many backyard hens annually. Maintaining a good weight in your flock is vital to preventing other health issues too such as egg binding and heart failure.

I love letting my hens eat raw eggs, it’s hilarious and they love it. However I actually had to stop because one of my hens Sooty got dangerously overweight and was at risk of fatty liver disease. You might think feeding hens back their own eggs is great for their health, but it should be in moderation, there is too much of a good thing. Unless you’re feeding your hen rubbish, she doesn’t need the eggs since her diet replaces those nutrients daily, and please don’t feed your hens rubbish.

6) We are using the hens. They are not ours to use as we please

I suppose this point holds up depending on your personal beliefs. I personally don’t feel pet hens are being ‘used’ at all, rather it’s a mutually beneficial relationship. We give them food, safety, and friendship, so they return that friendship and sometimes eggs.

A part of domestication is that the animal adapts to living alongside us, with chickens it just happened to be the constant access to good food and a safe nest encouraged them to lay more eggs. We can’t change that now, so we may as well use the eggs. A dog or cat domesticated for companionship will provide that, are we abusing those pets as well by taking their companionship?

Also if I’m being quite frank, no one will ever get eggs cheaper by keeping backyard chickens. Feed is expensive, coops are expensive, veterinary care is expensive. Anyone getting backyard hens will have some other motive to it rather than just “I want free eggs” because these eggs aren’t free. Most people want a pet, they don’t want to support the factory farming, or they want to feel more self sufficient, maybe all three of those reasons! People aren’t getting backyard hens with the intent of ‘using’ them for eggs, because it’s cheaper just to buy eggs.

So to sum this up, backyard eggs aren’t hurting the hens! If anything, it’s helping them! Showing support for more ethical means of egg production will put pressure on the large scale egg farms to change ways. Hopefully these unethical practices will be phased out one day, it’ll take time, but one step at a time.

Thanks for reading! Epponnee says this egg is for you, they’re tasty and she wants to share! Please take it or she will keep crowing until you do!

[graceedcoup]

So anyways it's 4 in the morning but because of that last post I have to rank the boys on how neat they are when they eat pussy/ass

(It was 4am but I fell asleep on my phone halfway through and finished it when I woke up rn lmao)

11. Beelzebub - His oral fixation takes over and he just opens his mouth and gets the fuck in there. He's so lost in it he has zero sense of where everything is going. He doesn't even know he's drooling or how much, but he wouldn't be concerned about the mess even if he was aware. Boy eats good what can I say.

10. Diavolo - Has never had to clean a mess in his life so he's not paying attention. Is a sloppy eater anyway, not that either of you are gonna mind during. He's more than happy to get the job done for you

9. Mammon - Absolutely aware of the mess dripping down his chin but simply does not give a fuck. It feels good for both of you and hes here to do a job damn it, he's gonna get it DONE

8. Leviathan - Likely inexperienced and messy just because he's not quite sure what to expect yet, overlubes to start with using both lube and too wet a mouth and gets a little sloppy as he goes. Only realizes halfway through that hey, this is kinda getting everywhere isn't it?

7. Belphie - Lazy, lazy, lazy. And another brother who kinda doesn't give a shit. He goes nice and slow, no matter how much you beg. It reduces the amount of work he has to do AND drags it out for much longer than it needs to be for the sole purpose of being a little brat and teasing you. So some slobber is gonna happen.

6. Asmodeus - Getting sex messy is not something he particularly minds but it's not his favorite thing in the world, even if he can use it as an excuse to wind down in a bath with you after. But he keeps in the back of his mind to not let it ruin his makeup at least. He also knows what he's doing better than anybody so he brings you to climax pretty damn fast. Not that he's gonna settle for just once.

5. Solomon - Surprisingly pretty neat! Kinda just naturally. That and you had to forbid him from trying to use any kind of magic in bed so he's forced to put a little bit of thought in how to not drip onto his stupid turtleneck.

4. Satan - Does not like getting sloppy. But also applies himself to whatever he does with his whole heart. These two aspects of him balance out to a pretty standard level of mess. He puts a towel down for you too.

3. Simeon - I firmly believe that just being around an angel is enough to feel great and relaxed. That and his being extremely eager to please probably means you cum faster than you have a chance to make too big a mess. Hes also just pretty neat about it in general, doesn't lube up more than he needs and keeps to a pretty centralized area

2. Lucifer - Brings cutlery and tucks a napkin into his shirt

1. Barbatos - Barbs will go down on you and he's not particularly neat during the act but even so, when he pulls up, his face and your bits are mysteriously and perfectly clean. Don't even ask how he does it, he won't tell.

[serenheist]

What Jungkook is like in a relationship/ Jungkook as a boyfriend Tarot reading

I was gonna put Jin up first but I finished Jungkook quicker so oops but I’m finally back after 200 years of adulting things

1. How long does it take Jungkook to get into a relationship? 8 of pentacles, 2 of cups, the world Do he prefer long or short term relationships 7 of swords, ace of wands Nelys the alchemist 27 reversed, 5 of swords, 9 of cups reversed 

For an actual relationship and not just dating I think he can take a while if not a long ass time because he’s too much of a perfectionist and will work hard at making sure everything is right before getting into a relationship. I don't know why I’m getting like before things would get “steamy” he would never let them see his body until he worked out enough for his own standards like everything has to be perfected and mastered beforehand. There’s also a reoccurring theme of work getting in the way and even in the beginning stages it’s like he meets up with them does whatever then has to hurry and run back to work and is like “hey I gotta go but I’ll text you later” type of shit. Big focus mostly on career though so it’s hard to tell. But I still think he’s not just sleeping around with just anyone I mean they have to be important if the 2 of cups pops up. I don’t think he’ll get into an actual relationship with someone unless there’s a strong connection. Or at least to him it seems like an important connection.

I gotta say too that the 7 of swords usually screams fuckboi to me but in this case I think the lying and trickery aspect of the card can be taken literally to mean of course he has to lie and sneak around when fans would legit doxx and slit his partners throat if they knew they were together. But anyway in a relationship there’s definitely gonna be extremely strong sexual chemistry I don’t know why this keeps popping up but alright. But one annoying thing is that in a relationship jungkook seems to like fighting in a way. He doesn’t like to lose to anything and will want to win an argument even if it’s petty. There’s also a kind of energy of the other person feeling inadequate sometimes with how much praise he gets from the entire world. It makes the other person feel as exposed since they’re not doing as “well” in the grand scheme of things. And will sometimes not want to compliment him on things because he gets compliments from the entire world this is just day to day petty shit. Another thing is getting into a relationship thinking this person is the one but then realizing over time and all the work you put in was useless cause this is emotionally unfulfilling.

2. Past and present love life king of pentacles, wheel of fortune reversed, queen of pentacles 

Past: bruh his love life in the past is similar to the present. He was mostly focused on building his own career and wealth and love was on the back burner tbh. I think since he has huge goals for himself there was really no time to even do other things. But his love life right now seems like it’s a external long term problem affecting it. And I think he’s learning how to balance his love life and work life right now and just letting things happen and trying to take care of his body and mind.

3. What is he like in a relationship Tobaira of the waters 37 reversed, The glanconer 62 reversed, mother of dawn, knight of pentacles, flashover 11, 6 of swords reversed, addiction 11, envious gluttony 9, is this me? 4

When Jungkook is in a relationship he doesn’t fully feel like he can be emotionally vulnerable and instead will act mischievous and play around to hide behind vulnerability. It can tend to make the other person mad because they never know when he’ll actually be serious because he plays too much sometimes. There’s also playing up to peoples ideas of him. It’s not outwardly tricking people but allowing them to believe what they want and project their fantasies on him. It’s like a weird energy of wanting to rebel but also you feel stuck and want to please them so you don’t let them down. I think he overthinks legit everything and makes things a bigger deal in his mind than what it really is.

Another thing is he could have a tendency to stay with someone even if it’s toxic because of a mix of remembering the good times and also insecurities. There are big vibes of being emotionally stunted like I feel that he’s mentally a teenager still and even though he’s physically different and projects something different. When he’s in a relationship; he still feels like that insecure kid in his head and he can’t escape it. It’s like a false bravado thing going on. There’s a hole that leads to darkness and from that another one that leads to even more darkness. That's dramatic but that’s what it’s like for him. It’s like this emotionally starved monster in his head but in reality the monster is this scrawny young boy who wants to let go and open up but is blocked by himself and running away from his shadow aspects. I do see him though slowly moving towards becoming more open, honest allowing his vulnerable and passionate side out in a healthier way but it might take a while (unless he’s already been working on this) since the knight of pentacles is the slowest knight but he’s also the most stable and loyal.

4. What is his "type" the sage 19 reversed, knight of cups reversed, Jeanne the maid, golden empress, the lovers reversed, 3 of cups reversed 

His ideal type is someone who can come across as aloof, cold, excessively critical. Hey I tried to give him the benefit of the doubt but when I pulled a clarifier I got the knight of cups reversed lolll. Dude likes toxic people apparently. On the surface they might look “normal” but on the inside their inner world is overflowing and they have an abundance of charisma and sexual energy. Honestly that could be a big reason why he likes that. There’s a big dualistic energy in them and appearing the best on surface level but underneath is really unpredictable and has the energy of unrequited love. I think he likes those types of people who don’t fawn over him like he’s the second coming of Jesus tbh. This person doesn’t give 2 fucks and they don’t tell everything up front they’re mysterious and it’s more of a challenge for him. They’re really good at appearing humble and maybe innocent even but that’s just because they know how to woo people really. They’re confident and can convince people of almost anything especially around those in power they know how to present their best self to get what they want.

At first I was confused why your ideal type would be someone that seems manipulative af but it makes sense when Jungkook has a lot of deep dark shit he needs to work on from the other cards. I think it’s a big codependency thing and excitement that someone toxic can bring also the fact that this person is down for anything in the bedroom they’re not ashamed or shy about it. His idea of love is pretty distorted he thinks he needs someone who is as intense as he is but really it would be a bad combination especially with the lovers reversed. I’m getting especially that as long as he keeps going after these types of people, he’s never going to be with his “true love” for a lack of a better term. Basically not be with someone who is actually good for him. There could be third party bs but I’m getting more of an overindulged and addiction energy between both of them. Even if he knows they’re no good it’s just so intoxicating it’s like a damn drug to him and it feeds into his more animalistic side (I have no idea how to articulate this lmao) it’s like possessive nature. This reminds me a lot of the attachment types since there’s a lot of people like this who love a more avoidant person and I feel that Jungkook is probably avoidant himself so this is like home sweet home to him. It puts him in the cat chasing mouse position instead of the other way around. That emotionally unavailable energy is very appealing to a lot of people I guess especially when you’re used to everyone bending over backwards for you.

5. What is his love language: Ta’Om the poet 29 reversed, the bodacious Bodach 59 reversed 

He likes when someone actually does helpful things for him that is useful and not like the annoying meddling energy of just doing stuff for him that he doesn’t want you to do. He also does this for others. So acts of service mostly but you already knew that.