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aro culture is having the cishet and queer against you because they believe that you HAVE to experience romance.
every time people are weird about an identity within the queer community, I want to hit them with a sign that says "We are stronger together, solidarity forever, do not let yourself do the enemy's work!"
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i love (/s) how you'd call yourself a safe space and then put this garbage on my dash without even tagging it. what the fuck. was it worth it?
i hate the aspec community so much and i hope you all die and explode into a million little pierces
#i can't believe op has a similar url to mine thats wack. they dont deserve it.#aromisia cw#bimisia cw
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i am going to headcanon your favourite gay male as cishet and i am going to create an original character to be his wife. and i am going to flood his character tags with my gay erasure—actually, it won't just be gay erasure. it will be entire character erasure. all that will remain of him will be his appearance. he will be a totally different person. but he will be in love; true, destined love. and that's all that matters, isn't it?
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people be like "yeah, aros and aces aren't lgbtq but they are still valid!" and then go shit on queerplatonic relationships in their next sentence
#yeah i am tired if being 'valid'#if you really think my identity is 'valid' then act accordingly#cw amisia#cw acemisia#cw aromisia#also a reason why i don't trust people who say 'lgbt community'
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Aromanticism is a spectrum, you absolute asshole. Romance is a spectrum. Alloromance is strictly romantic attraction, but aromance is everything from experiencing no romantic attraction up to and until always experiencing conventional romantic attraction. Aromantic, while commonly describing someone who experiences little to no romantic attraction, includes people whose experience of romance is disconnected from normative societal expectations.
Greyromantic is a valid type of aromanticism. Demiromantic is a valid type of aromanticism. If you say or think otherwise, you are the problem. Not the aromantic people who aren't strictly aromantic. You.
Under the 'Keep Reading' link are labels of different types of aromance. The people who identity with them are all aromantic, and a valid part of the aromantic community. They are all part of the aromantic spectrum, no matter how much or how little or what type of aromance they experience. You do not get to gatekeep aromance simply because you do not agree with them.
[IMAGE ID: A screenshot of Tumblr tags that read: "#Aromantic. No kissy kissy #Except I enjoy kissy kissy #sometimes #And I want to date people #maybe #and also I might not be fully aromantic just with minor and fleeting romantic feelings" /.End ID]
Abroromantic, Acoromantic, Adfecturomantic/Affecturomantic/Adfectual/Adfomantic, Aegoromantic/Autochorisromantic, Akoi(ne)romantic/Aporomantic/Lithromantic, Akoiflux/Lithflux, Aroflux, Aliquaromantic, Amicusromantic, Apathromantic, Apothiromantic/Antiromantic, Apresromantic, Arohaze/Aromush/Arovoid/Neutral Aro, Aromate, Arospike, and Arovague are all valid forms of aromanticism.
Bellusromantic, Borearomantic, Burstromantic, Caed(o)romantic, Caligoromantic, Cassromantic, Ceaseromantic, Cruxromantic/Exige(n)romantic/Requiromantic, Cupioromantic/Dependromantic/Kalosromantic, Desinoromantic, Dreadromantic, Duoromantic, Duraromantic, Fictoromantic, Frayromantic/Ignotaromantic/Protoromantic, Iamvanoromantic, Idemromantic, Implaromantic/Inexromantic, and Inactoromantic/Initiaromantic are all valid forms of aromanticism.
Limnoromantic, Loveless Aromantic, Malaromantic, Metaromantic, Nebularomantic, Neuroromantic, Nonamorous/Nonpartnering, Noviromantic, Omniaromantic/Panaromantic, Placioromantic, Plat(oni)romantic, Polarromantic, Polyaffectionate, Preromantic, Propeestromantic, Quasiromantic, Quoiromantic/WTFromantic, Recipromantic, Requi(es)romantic, Romo Aro, Schromantic, Singuluromantic, Solaro/Unicum Aro, Thymromantic, and Venusplatonic are all valid forms of aromanticism.
There are still some labels or terms that I did not include here. They can be found at: https://www.aromanticism.org/en/all-terms#archaro
If you are still reading this, I hope you look into what each and every one of those lables read. Maybe you can educate yourself on what aromanticism actually is.
And if you don't even make the effort to learn about the people you are alienating and vilifying, then go fuck yourself you aromisic dickhead.
It's absolutely okay for kids to make a pit stop by some orientations on the way to finding themself.
But this?
Go away. Fuck off. Leave aromantic (and asexual) people completely alone and stop using us as some customizable attributes in your super special character creation because you think being straight or gay or bi or whatever is too common for your pretentious majesty.
"I'm aromantic, except--" You're allo. You experience attraction. I promise it's fine.
#aromisia#aphobia#tw aromisia#tw aphobia#cw amisia#cw aphobia#aspec#arospec#aromantic#aro#aromanticism#actually aromantic#aromantic safe space#aro safe space#image id#accessability
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Acemisic and aromisic bigots realize denying Healthcare to anyone because of their orientation is discrimination right?
Denying a person their antidepressants/other medications out of "concern" that their lack of romantic or sexual attraction is being caused by them is denying healthcare.
#aphobia is recycled homophobia#cw aphobia#cw arophobia#queer community#cw acemisia#cw aromisia#aspecs deserve better
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I'm a simple man. I see a blogger making fun of queerplatonic relationships, I block them and bleach my eyeballs!
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Daily Affirmation 1004.
Let us honor those aros who have fallen.
Those who never knew they were aro. Those who lost themselves in amatonormativity and self-denial. Those who hurt themselves because of self-loathing; those who ended themselves because they felt there was no joy ahead of them. Those who were hurt by others in an effort to change them, and those who felt they had no one to turn to. Those who were fighting for a better future for themselves and for others, but didn't achieve what they wanted for aros too.
We grieve for you. And we give hope and support those in situations like yours. Together we can make it through. Together we can remember those who didn't.
#all arospec#affirmation#amatonormativity#aromisia#anti aro sentiment m#suicide //#depressed aros#abuse mention cw#uhhhhhhh i hope this one gets across what i was trying to say
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Funny thing again: "Love loses" is an answer! For having love imposed on us! But who cares, right? In the end we don't matter enough. We are not queer enough to have a voice. We don't love and we are not enough.
I wake up to discover that us aromantics apparently hate gays? Omg
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Romance-repulsed aro culture is being told how "funny" it would be if someone came along and completely changed your mind on everything.
No, it really wouldn't.
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#aro culture is#aro#aromantic#actually aro#actually aromantic#ask#mod rust#romance repulsed aro culture#arophobia cw#aromisia cw
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Ja, aber Du kannst auch asexuell sein und ewig allein sein
Ja, aber Du kannst auch asexuell sein und ewig allein sein
CW Aromisia Sarkasmus Nachtrag Sept. 2020 “Yes, you can be asexual and in a happy relationship“, ja, aber Du kannst auch asexuell sein und ewig allein sein. Und mit “ewig allein” meine ich vollkommen erfüllt und glücklich ohne “feste” Partnerschaft!Leider, leider sind wir (gerade in Deutschland) noch lange nicht dort angekommen, um das auf gleicher Höhe diskutieren zu können. Hier müssen wir…
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[id: a screenshot of a privately-answered ask. the ask was sent by @arofili (my main blog), a user whose icon is an image of legolas from lord of the rings on a background of the aromantic flag. the ask reads “Look I appreciate y’all dispelling misconceptions about asexuality but could you not use arophobic language like “aces can still love” and implying romantic attraction is the definition of love. please and thank you.”
the response is from the prominent asexual blog @fuckyeahasexual, whose icon is an image of the asexual flag on its side with the words “fuck yeah asexual” over it. the response reads “Hi ! Im sorry if my wording came out that way but the screenshot the OP of that post used was from a post specifically talking about how not all aces might be aro too and might experience romantic attraction while also being asexual ! OPs points were only about alloromantic asexual people! I still edited the post to include “love romantically” btw ! Sorry again ! Have a nice day!” end id.]
the edited version of the post in question can be found HERE ; it originally used the word “love” in the final response where it now says “romantic attraction”. (cw: aphobia)
to the mod of @fuckyeahasexual who replied to me: thank you very much! i’m sorry to put you on blast by screenshotting and publicly replying to this privately answered ask - and i can delete this post if you’d like me to - but this is something that’s been talked about a lot recently in the aromantic community and i have some more to say about it that i think would benefit a wider audience.
the aro community has for months been discussing arophobia in the ace community, and most of our attempts to confront ace blogs have been met with silence, especially when the ace blog in question is as popular as yours. this is an ongoing problem; you can look through my “aromisia in the ace community” tag for examples and discussion. (aside: i am glad to see @acephobia-is-real , another prominent ace blog, just recently begin to address this issue as well.)
honestly getting this kind of explanation, apology, and most importantly action from you was a surprise! i expected nothing, especially from the response and content i’ve seen on the @fuckyeahasexual blog before. I wish you had responded to this publicly, because aro folks knowing our voices are heard is important.
if you’ve been doing this behind the scenes in other cases, thank you! sincerely! but being upfront about when you mess up and erase aros - upfront to the point of public acknowledgement - would truly benefit the aspec community. aros will know that our concerns are being heard, and not just the aros that write in to you. and allo aces will be exposed to the kind of aro erasure they are often implicit in and realize its effects as well as seeing an example of a blog like yours fixing the issue.
anyway - i just wanted to share for the sake of the aros following me that hey! this thing happened, and it got fixed, and that’s great! i wanted to publicly acknowledge @fuckyeahasexual for responding - though truly, this is such a low bar that it shouldn’t have to be praised - and i wanted to bolster aro folks who face shit like this every day. there are issues, and there will continue to be, but it doesn’t have to be this way and people will listen , even if it’s not as often as we’d like.
thanks.
#fuckyeahasexual#aromisia#aromisia in the ace community#arophobia#arophobia in the ace community#a speaks#long post#because i cant fucking shut up
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ID: A post by aro-rambles reading:
I think it's fucked up that allos don't know the word allo. Straight people know they are straight. I have heard cis people refer to themselves as cis. But allos? Allos are absolutely clueless.
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Arospec here. Fuck this post.
People who arent on the ace or aro spectrum, aka "allos", arent our oppressors. Its straight people. Gay "allos" do Not have privilege over us.
This shit makes me big mad. It separates the lgbt community when we should be comrades.
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Romance Repulsion
Hey I wrote my romance repulsion thing! about my experiences with it. It’s also a fair bit about amatonormativity, ofc. but here it is:
(CW: mentions of aromisia, threat of violence, and romance, and discussion on like, social disconnect?)
https://docs.google.com/document/d/15dq-bNVBd_kOfp769zPeDevU6waA2e0U1X3BHuSvQqQ/edit?usp=sharing
#romance repulsed#aromantic#aro#aromantic awareness week#aroaw#aaw#romance repulsion#i think i have more tags that will track already? anyway yeah#google doc bc long and gives actual control over it lol
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aro culture is being fillled with rage every time someone dehuminises an aromantic person, every time someone devalidates an aromantic person, every time someone dares to say that aromantic people "jUsT hAvEn'T fOuNd ThE rIgHt PeRsOn yEt"
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#aro culture is#aro#aromantic#actually aro#actually aromantic#ask#mod phoenix#arophobia cw#aromisia cw#amatonormativity cw
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Partially closeted aro culture is having a friend say they think aros are just traumatized and looking down at your aro ring like “stealth 100”
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#Anonymous#aro culture is#aro#aromantic#actually aro#actually aromantic#ask#mod phoenix#closeted aro culture#yikes yikes yikes#arophobia cw#aromisia cw
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