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amatonormativity: a romantic partner should be the most important person in EVERYONE'S life
NOT amatonormativity: MY romantic partner is the most important person in MY life, but i understand this is not the same for other people
allosexnormativity: EVERYONE should have sex and sex is something EVERYONE needs/wants/should want
NOT allosexnormativity: I PERSONALLY enjoy sex and love having sex because it makes ME feel good, but other people dont feel the same and that's okay
platonormativity: having friends is important for EVERYONE and EVERYONE needs/has/should have friends
NOT platonormativity: having friends is important to ME and I PERSONALLY love having friends, but there are people who dont and theres nothing wrong with that
faminormativity (is that the word?): family is important for EVERYONE and EVERYONE needs to have their family
NOT faminormativity: family is important to ME and I PERSONALLY need my family with me, but other people dont feel the same and i understand that
lovenormativity (again, not sure if this is a word): EVERYBODY feels love and there's something wrong wiith you if you dont
NOT lovenormativity: I PERSONALLY feel love and love people, but not everyone does and that's completely okay!
NOT amatonormativity: i dont have friends/have any desire to have friends, i am happy with other relationships/no relationships at all
NOT platonormativity: i dont have any desire to be in a romantic relationships, and i am happy with my platonic relationships
NOT allosexnormativity: i like hooking up with people and having one night stands or friends with benefits
NOT faminormativity: i care about my family deeply and am close with family members
NOT lovenormativity: i feel love for people i care about
it's not normative to personally enjoy something, so long as you respect that other people simply arent like you and aren't going to like the same things as you. taking down normativity is a two way street, allos and aspecs need to do it. support your local aros, aces, apls, afams and other aspecs today! remember to challange all normativities, and to not enforce other normativity by saying how bullshit other normativities are!
nothing is universal. romance is not universal. sex is not universal. friendship is not universal. family is not universal. love is not universal. nothing is universal.
#im sorry if i worded anything wrong!!#i am aroace and an apl and afam ally but im still learning and trying my best :)#if any apls or afams want to correct me in wording of this post i am welcome to criticism! /gen#i also dont know if i got all the words right but im trying and i hope this post makes some amount of sense#aromantic#asexual#aplatonic#afamilial#aspec#apl ally#aplatonic ally#afam ally#afamilial ally#aro#ace#apl#afam#amatonormativity#platonormativity#allonormativity#allosexnormativity#faminormativity#remember to learn and grow as people!! always challenge the system but dont go against fellow aspecs while you do!!!#loveless ally#ally#loveless#i am also not loveless by the way so once again loveless people please lmk if you want me to change anything!!#/gen#i added that after I'd posted this so thats not with the other tags#i dont mean to offend anyone at all im just an aroace kid who hates normativity
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It is kind of funny how much I've detached myself from appearance directly correlating to gender actually. When I design a character I go. Okay. What would they wear that reflects their personality and surroundings? And I make a character who is a 30 year old divorced man who looks like this:
#He is dressing more femininely than he'd prefer because his whole thing is that he is a closeted transman who is overperforming his assigned#gender for social reasons. BUT even after he starts dressing how he wants it's still the same amount of pink and frills because now he's#doing it because he LIKES it not because he has to. Once he feels more secure in himself.#Like appearance and clothes is important to gender expression no doubt about it but also the world is so beautiful once you go:#Wait I don't have to perform in any particular way if I don't want to. I can do whatever I want forever.#Anyway welcome to my blog where I ask one question: What if a character was repressed? But then gained a support system? And they felt safe#to explore aspects of their identity they'd been ignoring in favor of conforming for safety's sake?
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Tartar, what would u do if one of your sanitized smooched you
Tartar seems to have a strong aversion towards any sort of affection...
#splatoon#splatoon 2#octo expansion#commander tartar#sanitized octoling#my art :o]#responding to stuff :o]#posting this right after the kissing booth one lmaooooo#yes that is a Tartar-kitty you are welcome#experiences 12000+ years of isolation and could REALLY use some affection & companionship...#but develops a strong aversion towards it instead oops#I'm certain that 12000+ years of isolation made Tartar [very normal] and [well adjusted] and totally [mentally stable]!#the closest thing he has to any sort of connection is with the C.Q. Cumbers and that is only a surface level type business relationship#and the professor I guess who is very much deceased oof#lonely ahhh telephone got so used to the detrimental amount of isolation it doesn't even know how to connect with anybody anymore#Tartar's mind got so messed up it seems incapable of recognizing humanity anymore and only has a deeply distorted image of it instead#:o]
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#lmao what did he see#what did you seeeeeeee eddie#no way it's a coincidence episode 5 is my third favorite (1&2 being 1st & 2nd) aside from that glorious eddie and susie moment it's the#first episode with the least amount of freddy and it's only when he showed up that I realized I didn't miss him?#I'm sorry dan YOU'RE GREAT but your character is a bit much#not much of jimmy as well#JP however is welcome any time#ANY TIME#theo james#eddie horniman#the gentlemen
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hello everyone!!! for those who may not know me, i'm calie and in the last year i have dedicated myself to making resources for rps whenever i can. i've been unemployed and for over 13 years relying on my meds that currently cost between $190 (R$1,000) and $240 (R$ 1,300) per month, taking in consideration that minimum wage per month here in brazil is $261 (R$1,412) and i rarely get any freelancer job, that won't cover even 15% of my meds. so with a lot of shame, i depend on my parents to keep up my treatment that cannot be discontinued. my city is broken, has no jobs, and i currently have no conditions to move and start over somewhere else. besides, my city had been once of the cities hit by the big flood in brazil for over a month, which made finding a job even more difficult, since establishments are trying to recover from losses. in these last few months, despite needing money, i've been feeling emotionally exhausted and worried with the situation (of expenses and the tragedy in my state), that i simple cannot focus in any project, therefore not being able to take in commissions (that helped me a lot). with all of that being said, i decided to come here, very ashamed, and expose my situation to offer packs of all my sources that i've done in my time as a creator. if you can help me buying any pack, or a ko-fi (source link), that would immensely help in my situation and i'd be really REALLY grateful. under the "read more" are more details about the packs and pricing.
*se você for brasileiro e desejar adquirir algum conteúdo meu separadamente ou pack, me chame na dm!
pack psd templates & graphics: 12 psd character templates; 15 psd dash icons templates; psd graphics (enchanted = 2 promo banners; parker = 4 promo banners; carnival). [ link here ] $18
pack colorings: 22 colorings (corrects reddish, bluish, yellowish, greenish, dark and whitewashing scenes when adjusted). [ link here ] $18
pack gifs (gif icons & gif packs): [ link here ] $26
GIF ICONS FCS
elle fanning (180 gifs) evan lin (110 gifs) hong joshua (302 gifs) jeon somi (183 gifs) jonny beauchamp (410 gifs) kim chungha (222 gifs) kim hyunah (124 gifs) kim woosung (152 gifs) kwon eunbi (142 gifs) lee junho (150 gifs) park heesoon (153 gifs) yeo hwanwoong (156 gifs) zhu zhengting (86 gifs)
GIF PACKS FCS
amanda seyfried (200 gifs) angelina jolie (83 gifs) caterina scorsone (241 gifs) cho hwiseo (136 gifs) courtney ford (220 gifs) faouzia ouihya (63 gifs) freema agyeman (109 gifs) harry potter & the philosopher's stone (just the scenarios, creatures and spells - 136 gifs) hwang yeji (201 gifs) jenna ortega (312 gifs) jessica capshaw (314 gifs) ji changmin / q (325 gifs) j.r. bourne (205 gifs) jun hyoseong (135 gifs) kang daniel (180 gifs) kate winslet (270 gifs) katrina law (118 gifs) kim taehyung (148 gifs) lee sunmi (136 gifs) lim jaebeom / jb / jayb (348 gifs) margot robbie (47 gifs) milla jovovich (280 gifs) nilsu aktas (106 gifs) nina dobrev (135 gifs) paul adelstein (239 gifs) sarah drew (308 gifs) stefania spampinato (112 gifs) vanessa ray #01 (681 gifs) wu jiayi (43 gifs) zee pruk (402 gifs) zhou jieqiong / kyulkyung (166 gifs)
mega pack (all contents of all the packs above - psd templates & graphics, colorings and gifs): [ link here ] $36
thank you very much for your attention. my askbox and dm are open for any questions!
#c: personal.#rph#rpc#rp br#rp brasil#gif packs#gif icons#colorings#psd colorings#psd templates#reblog please!#i'm so sorry :(#any amount is welcome :((
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I'm perfectly normal about her-🌟☀️ TW: eyestrain, spooky eye peepers👁️
messy sketches over the pass week or so
#welcome home#welcome home fanart#welcome home puppet show#sally starlet#eyestrain#scopophobia#welcome home arg#arg horror#horror#ahhh if i missed any warning tags do let me know!#been rotating her in my mind FOR AGES#finally got some time to doodle her proper djksdjkjsjd#hhhhh i haven't seen a lot of spooky sally#there are some gems i've come across and i went: WE COULD USE MORE PERHAPS-#mmmm am quite cautious about how to characterize her#yes she's mah precious rambunctious theater kid but (WHAT IF A LITTLE SNEAKY TOO?)#jdkjsjdj brain rotting for reals-#love her a completely normal amount i swear-#inky doods
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I’ve been really thinking of reopening my art shop soon… I’ve been taking some practice doodles (hence all the posting lately) while I shake off my rust and I’m finding things I enjoy working on again. I miss trying my hand at more dragons/OCs and colors. my shop’s so broken rn lmao but that’s a problem for a later date it’s just nice getting back into art
#my mental health is starting to improve a bit#took a couple years but I found some meds that finally work better for me#ofc things aren’t 100% but I was really in a pit for a while#like ‘did not leave my house in months and slept 14 hours a day’ kind of pit#so. any improvement is better lol. but nah I’ve been making real improvement and im doing better. a lil shaky sometimes but that’s expected#diagnosed with chronic fatigue too. which is unfortunate but not unexpected. i am indeed god’s sleepiest soldier#i feel like a raisin slowly rehydrating but considering i was in a desert before any hydration is welcome#just learning how to enjoy things again overall#one thing I just couldn’t get myself to do (and enjoy) was art. doodles here and there but nothing to post#and it’s kind of funny because I feel like that downtime actually gave me a chance to think about what I wanted to work on#even when I wasn’t actively practicing#just paying attention to things I guess. enjoying art styles#i genuinely think my experimenting with stained is helping me learn colors#i spend hours in the scryshop im glad it’s paying off lmao#i want to tackle bigger things but i just gotta ease myself into the hang of things again#for now im having fun and that’s coooool. thank you all for your nice comments#i read all tags while kicking my feet and giggling. thank u all#that’s the update on Me tho. more to come hopefully#starting next month/julyish I will have a significant amount of time to dedicate to drawing which i intend on doing#so who knooowwwsss#rambles#funny enough coloring has become my favorite part of the process now. it used to be lineart. now lineart annoys me LOL#i also feel like i kinda lost my ability to write which has been frustrating but im focusing on art first#anyways that’s a whole different tangent rant over
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A little unpopular opinion on something I've seen happen more commonly throughout November/December and wanted to address quickly for my own blog: Please never hesitate to reblog anything from me. You see me reblogging a sentence starter list that you like? Go for it and reblog it from me directly without any pressure on you whatsoever to send anything into me before doing so. You like a GIF-set or musing that I reblogged? Nab it from me, it'll brighten my day to see that we share an interest in something. I like to see interaction between me and anyone who follows me. I like to see that little activity notification light up.
Honestly, it simply reminds me that we're all part of a community, and more specifically, a fandom that consists of characters and nations that we all came to love and then share that amongst ourselves. And honestly, seeing a reblog happen shortly after me but it's from the source, creates (in my opinion) an odd sense of chosen disconnect between people that can feel awkward, it's as if we're walking on eggshells as to not rub each other the wrong way. But what's wrong about going 'Hey, I see what you reblogged, I like it too!', it even gives you potential common ground to start a conversation. We're a community, and I don't know about you, but I like seeing people interact with each other beyond merely threads and notes. It's the little things that matter, after all.
#[ psa. ] seeing isn't always believing. and if you can't trust your eyes; you certainly can't trust rumors.#[ i feel like this whole 'reblog karma' rule has scared people so much into stopping with behavior that... ]#[ i think was healthy. interaction; no matter how small; makes it so much easier and comfortable for people to... ]#[ interact because you almost become 'familiar faces' through these tiny little asks. ]#[ the amount of times i've entered dms kindly/respectfully after someone's reblogged something from me-- ]#[ and the person and i proceeded to just gush about the reblogged fanart in question. or something similar. ]#[ which then makes any further ooc interaction so much easier and nicer-- the initial anxiety people may face is lessened. ]#[ because you've already found common ground. ]#[ like i don't mean to force anyone to reblog from me-- but it's like it's so obvious so often when people... ]#[ see something from you but then reblog it from the source. i dunno if it's just me but it feels odd. ]#[ it feels as if someone thinks reblogging from me would step on my toes or rub me the wrong way and i don't see?? ]#[ why that's a thing? it's so silly. reblog from me; feel welcome to do so. we all love this fandom. we all love our characters. ]#[ and each others' characters. it's why we interact; right? ]#[ any way. hi-- yes. i just mean never feel odd to reblog from me. if anything i encourage it. ]#[ i'll smile and nod at you in my activity; and you'll also pique my interest to be like 'hey! good taste 💙 ]#[ any way; i hope people are having a good weekend! ]
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#bit of hep lore here that's kinda depressing so scroll down if this ain't your thing#i haven't spoken to my older sister K properly. ever. which makes sense as she's 12 years older than me and moved out at 15#i have like 3 memories that include her and one's our mother's funeral. so we're effectively strangers#but she wants for us all (the 4 children of our shared mum) to have a meal or drink at Christmas#and now i feel conflicted. do i go and talk to K and S (older brother) and B (younger brother) who i haven't spoken to since last Christmas#or do i not go because it's a long journey and i don't know what I'd say to any of them#anywayss this *just* got proposed to me like an hour ago#welcome to a 🤏 amount of my family stuff. it's a doozy being a part of it all#if you read all of this then you're a ⭐
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Thank you as always for your wonderful art. Good luck with midterms and your classes!
of course, thank you for the good wishes !!! i can't wait until i can find more time to draw though: its painful having so much i want to draw but needing to be """"responsible"""" or whatever and waiting...
honestly i always thought i was a part of . Sizable fandoms and that i just had niche favorites, but the actual. AMOUNT of wonderful art and fics and discussions when it comes to cherik is amlost overwhelming i wanna throw up <- this is a good thing
#snap chats#i guess that's what'll happen when you get into a franchise over six decades old but anyways#no cause when id draw for my other fandoms sometimes i feel like. i was atlus ?? if that makes sense and as not-egotistical as possible ??#like it was very easy for me to overtake tags thats how much id draw in comparison to the amount other people'd post#WHICH SOUNDS SO EGOTISTICAL BUT ITS LIKE. IT WAS TRUE thats what id be told anyhow .... id get titles an shit for it#i never check fandom tags i get scared to do that BUT IN ANY CASE. thank you all for being so lovely :)#it is very jarring though because im not used to this kind of attention- maybe after a year or two but not two months jvA:JVKLJ#im happy tho im very grateful thank you all again for enjoying my art and for chatting with me !!!#i look forward to making more art and talking with you all down the line if you'll have me ^^#for now ... dinner time ... is 5PM dinner to you guys ? thats like. Evil Lunch#not dinner but too late for lunch... my childhood neighrs used to eat dinner at 6 tho so idk dinnertime always seemed like 8 to me#im rambling. anyways. thank you again everyone i look forward to chatting with you all soon !#i have a few more messages in my inbox .. something im not used to veajlkjea again the attention is very whiplash inducing- but welcomed !!
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#hate hate hate the 'i thought you were '''too poor''' to donate to [cause deemed more worthy]' people who show up every ao3 donation drive#you do realize that the people who donate to ao3 most likely are also donating to your cause(s)?#you do realize that the ao3 donation is something many people who donate have factored into their budget for a while?#why is donating to ao3 so so so morally reprehensible#but you still have a netflix account instead of donating your last cent to your most worthy cause?#guilt trips are not going to reduce the amount of money people donate to ao3 either they just make you look like a dick#(& before anyone comes @ me: i don't donate to either because i do not have any way to send money outside the eu#you are however welcome to yell at me for uuuh getting a coffee every once in a while or hording my tips as emergency money i guess)#to delete later
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GUYS.
New dupe real! Also new pod????? Olivia is that you girlie speak to me
#rat rambles#oxygen not included#screenshots are from the steam page#there is ofc a Lot to unpack here gameplay wise and Im guessing some things will be tweaked design wise but Im lore pilled so.#anyways Im not sure how I feel abt this dupe's design but I will still welcome them with open arms hello#but more important here to me is the pod#because erm. thats a very very different looking pod.#I dont wanna jump to any conclusions or speculate too hard because chances are its just olivia getting new drip#but like. what if its not. what if this is like a new new printing pod#I assume that if it is a new pod then olivia will like be able to connect with it somehow but idk#because it rly depends on how ambitious theyd wanna be with this dlc given that to rly make a new pod thats super not olivia theyd have to#do a lot of work to make that change prevelant in the rest of the gameplay#now chances are if it is a new pod its one that doesn't have a human consciousness inside it#even if it was there rly arent many options for who it could be and no good options from a narrative standpoint#now this pod looks quite gutted so maybe it is just a normal printing pod that got kicked back online when olivia sent some guys to kick it#now heres the most negative thing Ill say abt these screenshots. the fox critters are rly ugly imo#I like the bunny guys tho WAUTWIATSWAUT WAIT#ARE THEY THE SAME SPECIES AS THE ANCIENT SPECIMEN SKELETON?#I dont think they line uo perfectly if I remember correctly but the big one has the same tusks and is also yknow big and fat like the#specimen is described to be in tbe story trait logs#Im willing to bet so much that theyre at least related in some way#maybe the one that was initially sent back in time was used as a basis for these guys or smth#my main reason for saying this is that I have to imagine these guys have to have some other purpose than being data storage#its seems that you can shave their coats which is probably the main thing but I imagine they probably drop a good amount of meat too#also important to note that they are grazers which is good to know#also I think the upside down plant is going to be this planet's muckroot equivalent#oh and for the fox deer I assume theyll be farmed for their antlers which will probably shed wood or smth#not a clue what the new plants will do but idrc#Ill care abt the gameplay after I get my new lore <3
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WHY WOULD ME ARGUING WITH GIRATINA BE HARD TO MAKE UP. IT'S NOT LIKE I DON'T, AS TEREZI ONCE PUT IT, "4RGU3 W1TH 3V3RYTH1NG TH4T H4S 4 PULS3. OR 4NYTHING TH4T DO3SN'T. YOU D1D 4RGU3 W1TH 4R4D14BOT ONC3, R1GHT?" AND YES, I DID. I ARGUED WITH EVERYONE BECAUSE THEY WERE PISSING ME OFF. WHAT'S SO SPECIAL ABOUT GIRATINA THAT I WOULDN'T ARGUE WITH THEM, HUH.
@carcinofaller
Giratina is a legendary Pokémon, which in my world is essentially a god. Or in Giratina’s case specifically, a demon, because folklore and whatever and it being the shunned renegade that turned against arceus or whatever… arcism, the religion of Arceus, wasn’t big where me and my sister grew up or anything, but it has a pretty wide reach so everyone heard the childhood stories of giratina eating naughty kids. Myths and folklore stuff. And then, in my universe, well. I think giratina mentioned the “everything is real in some universe” thing so uh.
From my perspective the funny angry loud guy from old webcomic homestuck and a demon that everyone uses to scare kids into being good are arguing on my dashboard while my sister aggressively hums megalovania the song from undertale but before that used in funny webcomic homestuck. I genuinely do not believe someone could make up or roleplay this sequence of events.
#chatting tag!#karkat…#also I promise I’m not gonna be weird about the ‘knowing you as a character’ thing#you’re a person first and foremost#that being said welcome to the multiverse#I know a good amount about Pokémon if you need any tips!#real pokemon#pokemon irl#rotomblr
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okay maybe I should seriously reconsider my path in life and sell my soul to marketing or journalism instead
#okay venting in the tags you are very welcome to ignore or not respond to it i just need to yell somewhere#i always thought id be an art therapist because well i care about people and want to help them and love art#but everyday i wake up feeling like a fraud and an imposter so like. should i really be doing all that when im not entirely#certain i cpuld handle it??? like i know i haven't gotten the meaty bit of the education towards that yet but like#university costs a disgusting amount of money here and if i pick the wronf thing im likely doomed forever thanks to awful government#i know things could get better like they did after thatcher but honestly im not putting any bets on it considering how the current labour#party is so like if i fuck up here im basically dead#also can i actually do art uni. like could i cope with that. im deeply unethused with art at the moment and honestly will i evwr be#idk#it was jusr a thing i always did but education around it is fucking soul sucking#also the emotional weight of hearing and solving people's problems as a therapist. i would consider myself quite empathetic for the most#part i feel other people's pain quite strongly and obviously as a therapist id be feeling that quite a bit so could i actually cope with it?#ik therapists have therapists but still#i mean im doing work experience at an occupational therapy place so ill just be extra inquisitive about it all to make sure im going#the way i wanna#I'll be fine by the end of a levels ill probably understand what i want in life#if not then gap year to work it out#should probably look at unis for english language too then#sigh#ucas website i may as well marry you#ill be okay im getting in my head about stuff im actually pretty good at art even if there are things i can improve on (like patience lol)#yeah maybe the voice telling me i suck doesnt know shit and should shut up#yeah#shut it nasty voice you're wrong actually!!! im doing just fine and you're being overly critical#they should make a brain that's your friend and not mush that hides the amalgamation of every bad thing ever in its crevices#crevices shoyild be filled with kindness and love.#sex jokes about that#why the fuck is yahoo mail syncing i dont use you you washed up search engine#bue waffling#vent post
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ok today's bug discovery: the fade-touched nevarrite ability that makes the target explode on death says it does 75% weapon damage, but im pretty sure it actually does 200%
#da#dai#i see the mistake they made. the property used for the amount of damage is property 2 and that's set to 0.75#but when it's called later it doesnt call the property it just calls the number 2. so instead of 75% it's 200%#not something im bothered checking in-game but once again ive just accidentally stumbled into a probable bug#tbf the whole point of what im doing rn (going through these specific files) is to make sure they do exactly what they say#or more so to understand the mechanics but that just ends up being 'make sure they do what they say'#so i kinda AM looking for bugs. but im still surprised when i find them. esp when they're completely undocumented#that said. if any bugs are gonna be undocumented they're gonna be random side mechanics that you use so rarely that you'll never notice the#like who's going around checking that fade-touched nevarrite does 75% weapon damage when you kill something? certainly not i#if anyone WANTS to test it they're welcome to but im content to just be pretty sure i understand what im reading#personal
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