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vampire-nyx · 3 months ago

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Controversial idea but I think the idea of “the skinny girl who calls herself fat for eating food is terrified of becoming fat and therefore deserving of ridicule” is wrong and shitty and harmful and typically based on the speakers own hatred of their body and insecurity

#no they are not fearing being fat because they think you’re a disgusting monster and it’s a personal attack against you #they fear being fat because society will fucking abuse them if they don’t rigorously police themselves and stay skinny.#you should sympathize with that point.#it is VERY easy to tell the difference between someone who fears being punished by society #and someone who hates fat people #but you do have to get over yourself and your insecurity to do it and some of y’all are really fucking averse to that #just because someone desperately trying to avoid being abused by society in a way you can’t hurts your feelings #doesn’t mean they deserve abuse from you on top of that.#they are not better for succeeding at avoiding societal abuse and most don’t think they are #one of the things that made my eating disorder much worse in my teenage years #was my fat activist peers shaming me for having it because it MUST mean my worst fear was looking like them because I hate them #rather than fearing more social abuse and ostricization that I felt I could avoid

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thefloatingstone · 4 months ago

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The older I get and the more terrible takes I see the more in favour I become of gatekeeping

#text post #Normies who so so so badly want to be part of a certain crowd to be quirky while being actually disgusted by that crowd's whole thing #People going “I want that old man” but the character is 30 because they can't imagine someone REALLY thirsting after an actual older man #“He's so caked up!” about a Genshin Impact character because when people say that they can't POSSIBLY mean being attracted to fat people #“This game is ableist” because the horror game with horror themes explores extremely dark concepts #and they want to like the popular horror because it's cool to like it but they can't fathom people ACTUALLY liking REAL dark content #“This game should have an easy mode” because the super hard game known for being hard is too hard for them #and they hate not being part of the fandom about the hard game that's known for being hard #“Ok hear me out” about the most milquetoast character because when people say “hear me out”#they can't POSSIBLY be ACTUALLY attracted to the really weird shit #and if they are any of these things they are sick and twisted and problematic and -ist and -phobic and perverts and degenerates #I'm done #Stop trying to be a freak for clout when at your core you're actually happier with generic crowdpleaser media #Stop moving into spaces not for you and then demanding they cater to you #And forcing out the real audience using morality and shame as your weapons of choice #I'm so fucking done #vent

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tariah23 · 1 year ago

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This is such a harmful sentiment to push considering that you don’t necessarily have to be “attractive,” (beauty is subjective, yada yada) in order for men to want to harm you in the slightest… like man, what…

#the lady talks about being followed and harassed and so on as if every woman and girl in the world regardless of their age and #‘good looks’#hasn’t experienced this and will continue to #I hate when these girls especially ones who are conveniently attractive talk about stuff like this under the guise of speaking for all #women while x-ing out most women #this easily leads into the realm of ‘you’re too ugly/fat to be assaulted ANYWAY-‘#talk that I see spread by misogynists and bird brained women like it’s such a natural thing to even say it’s actually rly scary #especially when it comes to the assault shit which is usually about power and control anyway #they don’t care what you look like #you could be covered up head to toe and someone would try to hurt you just because #I hate when women like this go online thinking that they said something open their mouths I really do #rambling #tw assault #got dudes in the comments going ‘she’s not even pretty anyway she’s like a 4 out of 10’#completely missing the message (as if they care) and see #these are the kinds of people that stuff like this attracts #stuff like this coming out of a woman’s mouth especially is so dangerous #I don’t think I’m the most good looking person in the world and I’ve been followed sm times I had to run away from a guy once and luckily #my bus was right fucking there!!!#then the guy who was harassing me years ago at a bus stop and forced me to hug him and touched my butt and no one else was around to help #me…#and he kept on trying to get me to go back to his apartment around the corner like that was so #the man who followed me into the store as I was shopping and I noticed that he kept on staring at me #then tried to holla and he looked way older than me and I think he was a pastor or something too he had a nice car and tried to get me to #come with him #sm more incidents over the years like this is crazy pls don’t say stuff like this and act like it’s normal #someone in the comments said that people like the woman in the video think that being pretty will free them from the patriarchy and like…#YEAH 😭#it’s so obvious too lmfao #these be the same women calling themselves ‘girls girls’’

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misanthropicdoe · 2 months ago

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the problem is that in this world you're supposed to be an awful person

#i know people deny this #but like most people are just fkn awful in one way or another #even if they try to hide it behind being social justice hereos #if u arent shitty like them #most ppl will dislike and outright hate u #thats why i dont fit into any community or belong anywhere #that got clear to me when i was at a pr1dw festival #and they were on stage making cruel jokes ant a womans rape and everyone were laughing and hollering. just bc she was more rightist #and since then i've just discovered more and more that pretty much everyone is just a shit person #the thing is that they all sort themselves into what subtype of awful they are #but yeah. if u arent awful and shitty and dont fit into that #ppl will like straight up hate u #it makes them so so soangry to come across someone who isnt wired that way #humanity is nothing but a big fat giant joke that isnt even that funny

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animaldamnation · 1 year ago

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Fat men that mock and degrade fat women should be hunted for sport.

#radfem safe #radfems do touch #radfems please touch #radfems please interact #there's this weird subset of people who act like fat men are uwu Chubby Soft Beans and it's so hysterically funny to me #as someone that's lived with a verbally abusive unkempt fat man with anger management issues #and as someone that's known multiple geeky fat men over my life who had a visceral hatred of fat women #or geeky women that didn't fit societal beauty standards #even if those same women were still 200% more well-groomed and better looking than they were #you can't guilt-trip me into being sympathetic towards misogynistic fat men and i'm beyond giving a shit #stop showing up for men that will gleefully throw you under the bus in a split second #just because someone made fun of him on the internet or in high school #it won't stop him from hating your guts or treating you like a stepping stone when it's convenient

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selfinflictedgunshotwound · 6 days ago

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men are so disappointing in so many ways i know i shouldn't expect most of them to be dignified humans but it's crazy. i need to get over this guy he's making my sense of self crumble even faster than it usually does. like he's just so unlike my usual type and i'm pretty convinced he's stupid and slutty and not discerning whatsoever. not to mention boring like i know even if i did have a chance with him he wouldn't Get Me at all so it's a bigger waste of time that usual and i'm actually pretty tired of men in general and definitely tired of parasocial relationships because they drive me insane for months typically. thankfully it's only been like 2 weeks if that at this point. idk. sigh. i know literally virtually nothing abt him as a person and ofc liking any public figure who you know nothing about is only setting yourself for heartbreak and disappointment to begin with bc you already know nothing is gonna come from it but. in a way it's almost addictive to become obsessed with someone and not be looked at with the same level of scrutiny. i don't think anyone in real life would ever try to get to know me as much as i try to get to know people who i'll never even meet. lmao! but that's the thing... idk... i have a lot of love in my heart and it consumes me and i reject my pride usually when i'm into someone. i want to know more... like VORACIOUSLY consuming anything with information about them involved simply because i think knowing someone is a very deep form of love but of course you can never truly know anyone. not completely. and that scares me i think which is why it's always probably been easier for me to never really TRY to be with anyone or have anything real. idk. this turned into me psychoanalyzing myself real quick but SOMEONE needs to bc i need to understand what the fuck is wrong w me.

#like i'm not gonna lie and say i do this every time i'm even vaguely interested in someone. most of the time i'm just like 'ooo hottie'#and then save a bunch of pics before either the shame gets to me or i just stop caring and move on. happens quite a bit more than my #obsessive episodes. the worst one was absolutely the fact that i was obsessed with jeremy for basically 3 years and spent two hating him #simply because i thought i was owed anything. honestly i think i was just very very insanely depressed. that's probably why those #obsessive periods even happen to begin with because i have felt so so horrible like soul ripped out horrible the past few weeks lmao #and i think i'm just a grasp for any light in the dark type person like it doesn't even necessarily mean anything the person is just someon #i attach significance to them when i do this shit but i know deep down that i'm owed nothing and that i truly expect nothing #it's just nice to have a distraction from my life. and dgmw that doesn't make me any less schizo about certain details and happenings #like i'll still think that 'oh they're only doing that because i'm into them' or 'they only went here because it was related to something i #was thinking about earlier' and whatever else. i know what i am. i don't claim to be anything else. and i know it puts people off.#and that i'm not likely to get any better if i keep doing it. if it's even possible for me to get better. but idk. it's interesting bc i've #thought more about what my life means to me and the kind of person i am and how my brain works and how everything affects me #more in the past few weeks than i seem to have in the last 5 years. i think i'm really getting better at accepting hard truths.#time spent by yourself is still time spent with the world.... and the more i think... even if it's hurtful... i'm growing and changing all #the time. i don't think if this was 4 years ago i would've even acknowledged the fact that i can't write off on This Guy's zionism #and other things about him that give me the ick (hate that phrase but whtevr) like him playing that gay hogwarts game and being a nepo baby #like bro you have trans friends and supposedly always 'look out for the small guy'. he's also never dated a fat girl despite his mom being #kind of a trailblazer for fat women in the entertainment industry. there's always rumors of him dating literally ever costar he's ever #worked with i guess simply because he seems like that kind of guy. and to be fair he does LMAO #honestly i don't know if i believe he's a bad person but i won't sign off on a guy i like being boring and stupid. that's just me #i'm sure ppl reading this who also don't Get Me are wondering why any of this even matters and the point is that it kind of doesn't lmao #but it's my life and i typically choose to care about people who will never even know i exist. unpopular girl instinct i suppose. maybe i'm #destined to be unloved or something but for now i wear fantasies like a blanket. maybe one day i won't need them anymore. but i def #do not need to center my romantic ideals on a guy i would be embarrassed to tell people i'm dating if i were actually dating him. rough #now just give me a month to get over it and finish the 2nd season of a show i like that he's in and i'll be rid of it hopefully. we'll see

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lethiepie · 5 months ago

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its 2024 stop drawing willow park thin or skinny already

SHE IS A CANONICALLY FAT CHARACTER

FAT. CHUBBY. PLUS SIZED.

and we LOVE HER THAT. WAY.

#willow park #toh #the worst part ? most of the artists that do that are like #PROFESSIONAL artists ya know ? if it was someone who's still learning i can let it slide but #its CLEARLY people who KNOWS how to draw pretty well and just refuse to draw fat people #hm #and the excuses are the worst part #“she works out she exercises she looks thinner as the seasons go by specially the finale”#the day yall find out that people that exercise and are healthy can ALSO BE FAT your minds will blow up #and just compare willow to other characters and TRY AGAIN to say she is thin when she's CLEARLY NOT skinnier than the others #yall just hate fat people and characters. yall have all the characters in the world to identify with. let us have this one thing #and specially for girls. its rare when we get a fat girl character that is actually awesome and isnt the joke just for being fat

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atopvisenyashill · 3 months ago

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i am guilty of retweeting one or two emma d’arcy thirst traps & the rare bran stark fancam and that’s it! can i be blamed for being gay or susceptible to sad songs & neat transitions!!

#getting on my soap box #these are the people who LOVE to do the ‘my fave is skinny but yours is fat’ thing #the thing is u can’t even do this u gotta be on the algorithm’s ass or next thing you know #you’re getting rage bait threads titled ‘top 10 ways sara hess is a misogynist’ by someone w a name like daensvalyrians #and a lucrezia borgia badly edited w silver hair and purple eyes icon!#u think i’m being specific there are thousands of these people #and i fall for the rage bait every time that’s why i hate them aksjdjdjd leave me alone 😭😭😭😭#i’m not shading that anon!!! just thinking about all the crazy discourse i’ve managed to miss makes me mad akskdkd

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pickled-flowers · 4 months ago

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Every time I go to a party I'm reminded that it's not that I can't interact with people, it's just not a desire I have :(

#i always feel so guilty when ppl i just met are like wow u seem so cool! because im really not!#im good at masking and making people feel comfortable! its got nothing to do with my personality unfortunately #no version of me is as true as who i am by myself and idk i feel like a fraud for being nice?#ive had many people be disappointed when i just. dont want to hang out #im not a 1 on 1 person i hate being alone with someone #even with people i dearly cherish i just cant find myself comfortable when others are around #and its not about them either i think im just not compatible with social interactions #im not really looking for advice btw like this is just something im coming to terms with #i love people i truly do i just cannot exist properly around them #anyways fat bear supper was really nice :')#the mashed potatoes??? they were so fuckjng good like bro you dont understand #and shoutout to the ppl who made a salmon lasagna that was so good as well #friends played a beautiful beautiful song they made (if they end up putting it on spotify ill share it here its about a cow named Margot)#anyways i guess soft reminder you never know what people are struggling with regardless of how functioning they appear #(mashed potatoes recipe is as follow: unpeeled potatoes #+whole milk+butter+rosemary+thyme thats it thank u)

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valeechtine · 5 months ago

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The thing is "forced diversity" only became a real thing after people online got called out for only ever having like white ocs or just Never making women [ESPECIALLY TRANS WOMEN] and now sometimes I see a character lineup and its like Oh I can like actively see the diversity checklist you were crossing off in your head specifically to try and get tumblr woke points because you are being so fucking Weird about this. Like in an effort to be like LOOK LOOK AT HOW DIVERSE MY CAST IS I AM ADVERTISING THIS BY JUST TELLING YOU ABOUT HOW DIVERSE EVERYONE IS YOU DON'T NEED TO KNOW GENRE OR THEMES they make it so clear that making characters of color or women or disabled characters etc has to be a Conscious Choice instead of just. Something that comes naturally because that reflects our real world.

#Sorry I started thinking about that fuck ass paranormal park or whatever show #Makes a character who is a fat trans man. Makes his last name FUCKING GUTTMAN.#and again like. The complete performativeness of Woke Anachronisms #Like sorry man. If you make Sir Arthur and his knights do a pronoun circle thats stupid #The fact of the matter is a lot of the terms we use to describe things are new!#Like you don't have to have a character state every minute detail of themselves to be good rep #And frankly as someone who doesn't tend to bring things up unless its relevant like #I want more rep for people like me pleaaaaaase #There are so many of us that don't feel the need to be open with Strangers abt gender/sexuality/abled status/culture #like. It just isn't other peoples business!#I need to log off before I go on a tangent about how much I also fucking hate pronoun circles #I have to do them so much in college. Please. Please I'm so tired of how weird people are #If someone wants to know they can Ask Me stop making me choose between #Outting myself to the whole damn room or misgendering myself if the vibes aren't right #ANYWAYS. Bed time yaaaay ^w^#chittering

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ninelivesastrology · 8 months ago

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Y'all gonna hate me for this one, but you can't call it a homoerotic friendship if that woman was never into you. It's called lust, limerence and delusion.

#txt #lgbt #wlw #lgbtqia #there is nothing more dehumanizing than being on the ace spectrum and being on the receiving end of this #words cannot describe how betrayed i felt #like especially considering i had to figure it out for myself #some of them arent even gay or bi they just want someone who IS between their legs like WHAT #i was a relationship with my fiancé and reliving gay rumors about me like why would i ever use someone as a beard #people can't tell the difference between platonic and romantic attraction and when you're kind to someone they think you want them #there's a stigma of being bi or pan where people just think your body is a free for all #or that you're really gay and confused when you're with a partner who is your opposite gender #like i always stayed away from dating women after being harmed by them all my life and oooh that was my last straw LMAOOOO #like i hate that people get obsessed with the idea of me #and when i fall from their pedestal they just want to ruin my life because they didnt get sex from me #even worse when they dont like you but they want to BE you like you are not gay #like they dont have an identity in general and are just latching onto mine and using romance as the excuse for access #so sick lmao im venting in the tags #homoerotic friendship my fat ass like a real friend would NEVER

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engagemythrusters · 3 months ago

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listen im honestly not surprised bc

a: trumps fans are genuine fanatics at this point and the majority believe he is sent straight from god

b: america hates women (esp women of colour)

like was anyone really expecting anything different? he barely lost last time. he won against a white woman. of course hes going to win. it genuinely doesnt matter that he's a convicted felon and overall just beyond wildly incompetent and most of all a terrible fascist. america just hates women and loves a broken form "christainity."

#im WAY more mad about the senate.#esp in wisconsin.#shes had this job for how long now and she lost to someone who thinks fat people deserve to pay more for healthcare #good god i hate this country

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kneworder · 2 months ago

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did you watch tua s4 and if so what did you think :3

yeah i watched it

#crazy to be reminded that happened i've been trying to block it out of my mind since august but sure #honest thoughts: i've been kind of checked out since s3 was so mid but i didn't expect s4 to be THAT bad #i thought it was a terrible season with very few redeeming qualities especially when it came to five's storyline #pretty much completely nonsensical and removed from everything i liked about the first two seasons #also just lazy. like the plot doesn't make sense. why is jennifer in a squid. how did reg wipe their minds and why did he only do it once #why can you see other people's memories in the memory returning machine somehow #why did they hire a 13 year old in the fbi and how did he get such a high ranking position #what was the point of sewing all that irritation between diego and lila out of nowhere and why are they trying pretend diego was fat #what happened to sloane. what happened to allison's deal with reg.#if no one remembered ben's death why did they all talk about it like they did and how did klaus never notice that w ghost ben #why do they all care so much about a version of ben they didn't grow up with who hates them #how would five's initial plan for the subway fix everything if stopping the jennifer incident #would only save the ben who died in their timeline and not the one from the sparrow timeline who is causing the problem #if he knew they could timeline jump w the subway why wouldn't they just jump back in time to their original timeline #why is everyone in this world part of the jean and gene cult or whatever like there's no characters outside their circle who aren't involve #why does allison have new powers and why did she use them instead of her rumoring when she was trying to get info out of someone #and of course. what was the point of all that.#soundtrack wasn't even good. we used to be a society.#anyways. i liked viktor's bar and the implication that he still sucks so bad at dating #and five's ash ketchum haircut was fun.#i don't care about this season at all otherwise and i like to pretend it never happened so i can still enjoy the show and characters <3 #which is very is easy bc it was so mindblowingly stupid it doesn't even feel real

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my-thoughts-and-junk · 2 months ago

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a character's self-deprication being what keeps them from being in a relationship can be really good but mostly when the self deprication is 1. justified and 2. only no longer an issue because their significant other is Into whatever they're angsting about

#random thoughts #writing ref #like 'i can't be with them because i've committed horrible atrocities and know only violence' and the SO is like 👀👀👀 please murder me #or like. one i really like is a dude who's like a hardcore submissive. can't get off any other way.#and he's just kind of assuming he'll be alone forever because yknow gender roles and whatnot #figures at best he'll have a sexless marriage #and then he meets the world's bitchiest woman <3 #this is what i imagine clark kent and lois lane are like btw #idk. something about a big fat man. brick shithouse of a fella. being dominated by a very angry pixie woman #plus typically with that kind of setup the big reveal would be the woman *letting her guard down* and *submitting*#but i really like the idea of her letting her emotional walls down enough to let this man submit for her. to have someone reliant on her #like she's a business woman who's all work because she's been constantly disappointed in her dating life #because people try to ~get to know her~ and get her to ~let her guard down~ but like sorry she's just like this #she's the kind of woman who plays stardew valley with spreadsheets. runs that farm like the navy #she likes being in charge!!!#god the more i think about these two they're just becoming more and more autistic #they both like structure because the guy likes not making decisions and the gal doesn't like surprises #like the guy doesn't like making decisions on the spot and likes being guided through stuff #and he likes knowing that if he DOES do something wrong then there's a guarunteed result (safeword) which tells him to stop and change #and the gal likes being in control and hates surprises because it means she has to think up what to do on the fly with no data #she likes planning things and scenes make it so everything can go smoothly #she makes like. worldbuilding for her roleplay scenes. has a lore bible #both of them have to communicate effectively!!! NO ROOM FOR MISCOMMUNICATION #kink negotiation scene where they're both dressed in office casual. sitting at a table. they shake hands afterwards shksjakaka #i think they're like. i don't think they're dating. at least not yet #they're living together and having sex on a regular basis and would probably get married but i don't think they're dating #they don't kiss. i don't think she likes kissing on the mouth #they're like. best friends who fuck. queerplatonic. can people in queerplatonic relationships fuck?#god this got away from me

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poetic-wyvern · 12 days ago

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when did it become socially acceptable to be a complete fucking dick? like a proper asshole. on almost every form of social media, every public platform, people keep getting more and more comfortable with being utterly cruel. it should not be acceptable to say every little thought that comes up in ur nasty ass brain /dir. maybe it's a comment on someone's weight, or gender, or their fashion sense- maybe it's their fucking smile or something and people are going "oh ts pmo" "those are ugly you should've got different ones" "you look gay" "ew ur forehead is so big" "gross you're one of those people?" WHAT EVER HAPPENED TO IF YOU DON'T HAVE SOMETHING NICE TO SAY, DON'T SAY ANYTHING AT ALL??? WHEN DID WE STOP IMPLEMENTING THAT? "I don't wanna hear that, don't post shit like this" if you don't want to hear it, don't fuckin listen. keep scrolling. oh it's a therian and you don't like those? scroll. a furry? ignore it. someone who has a different fashion taste than you? good for them, you don't need to comment! a trans man and ur a christian? for the love of everything, don't tell him he's a woman. it doesn't do anything but waste everyone's time and make him self-conscious. CASUAL KYS COMMENTS? NEVER IN MY FUCKING LIFE DO I WANT TO SEE THOSE EVER. I DONT CARE IF IT WAS MEANT AS A JOKE, that is INSANE WORK, and you don't need to be promoting that. "I hope it happens again" "you deserved that" "I hope you die" shut ur fucking mouth. there is NO POINT in spreading your HATRED to people who do not deserve it. it is as SIMPLE as that. there is absolutely no need to behave that way, learn to keep your temper, emotions and opinions in check, please and thanks!

#when did people get to be so rude #I hate it #it's not hard to be kind #or at LEAST don't be rude #you can think it all you want #but don't verbalize it #there's no fucking way some of the shit y'all (/ndir) say is something you'd say irl #because i've never heard anyone walk up to someone in public to tell them they're fat #or that you don't like their outfit #or that their forehead is big #NEVER #so maybe!!!#apply that to your online persona too!!#and if ur a werido who's just rude irl and a dick to everyone irl too #I can't really say anything on that #i guess #people are so mean #why are people so mean #I genuinely don't get it

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dykeredhood · 2 months ago

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And that’s the fucking thing with being a ballerina for literal years… I have such mincing delicate affectations with how I move around that it’s difficult for me come off as badass

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