#and parents of ur group ??
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having good & true friends will literally save and protect you in a million unfathomable ways. like okay we have written so many times about lovers. but the way a platonic friend laughs and cries with you. the way they hold your hand at 14 years old and at 34. the way they keep a little silver tie to you, touching base over and over and over. how you can go years without talking, only to re-meet and discover: oh shit! you're still cool!
there are people who have been in my life for more than half of it, and i have loved every version of them. do you know how fucking beautiful that is. yeah love will save the world. but the way friends love you is gonna save the you.
#and before one of u is like '' i have no friends :(" i used to be there too actually#abusive partner cut me off from ALL of 'em. i didn't think i was lovable#it made me EXCEPTIONALLY shy. i still am actually!!!!#i just ... started saying ''yes.''#i would take pictures of flyers in my library and go to whatever events they had#i started taking community classes#if someone mentioned like ''i am gonna start x group'' i actually took a deep breath#and approached them to be like . okay i want in.#i started making the first move with new people - a small compliment#a smile or a little joke. just to share the space with them.#i have MASSIVE social anxiety. bad parent and bad relationship will do that to ya.#but i just... kept going. and going. and going. to each of these little things. and then...#like. .... idk i just am very blessed. i have a STUPID number of friends#a lot of which i reconnected with. bc it turns out love is never wasted. adult life just.#like. gets in the way. but also... i loved u as a weird little kid. i love u now as a weird big adult.#i promise i PROMISE ur friends are out there. u just have 2 find them. and btw#i didn't make friends with everyone. but i did get a lot of people to smile or laugh.#aint that something.#this process took me something like 2 years. it was HARD!!!!!!!!!!#i love u!!! hard things are often worth it!!!
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the root of community is a group of people with broken families finally being able to find that comfort in eachother. it’s finding people who feel as misplaced as they do, but who love them despite it all. like btw. if u even care
#community#nbc community#who needs two loving parents and/or partner when u have ur spanish study group
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tbh when mitski said “you’re my best friend/now i’ve no one to tell/how i lost my best friend”
#my freshman year of college my best friend and I were both a wreck#and on opposite sides of the country#during winter break I made the decision to share certain information with their parents bc I was actively concerned for their safety#they were deeply upset about me betraying their trust like that and asked for a break in our friendship#(a few months later (which happened to be early March 2020. lol) they did shrooms and realized they wanted to talk to me again lmao)#(so we talked and cried and now we’re still best friends almost 4 years later)#and my birthday is in january so it fell right in the middle of the period we weren’t talking#and my friends at school actually put together a really lovely party and it remains to this day the best bday party ive had#(most of my bdays have been sad and shitty lol)#but i just remember being drunk in my friends dorm room with my friends all around me#it was the end of the night people were just kinda chatting in little groups or whatever#and i was lying on my friends bed just miserable bc all I could think about was how my best friend was supposed to be there too#bc my parents were going to fly them out for the weekend as a present#and obviously that just got dropped#and id been talking to my friends about it kind of but all I wanted was my actual best friend#I left them a very embarrassing drunk voicemail that THANK GOD they deleted without listening to#but it’s just. the quiet agony of being angry and sad and hurt because your person doesn’t want to be ur person anymore#and still wanting to talk to them about it. still needing them to comfort you and give you their advice and insights#i don’t want to talk to anyone else about it. they’re not you.#sigh. anyway. ive actually lost several close friends for various reasons ranging from reasonable to bullshit#and it always blindsides me how much I want to talk to THEM about it#so thanks mitski for expressing that so artfully#op
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oh hello emotionally aware people pleaser who learned to deascelate conflicts and recognise emotions of other people as a child because of an immature emotionaly unavailable toxic manipulative hypocritical father parent whose mood affects the whose family
#how is having 10 different personalities made for 10 different groups of people#how does it feel when you re excited about ur favourite subcject of a long time and they hit you with 'i didnt know you liked it'#how did it feel when you brought up your traumatising memory and they said 'i dont remember' 'you always make me the villain'#how are these repressed childhood memories#how is your psychology degree going#how is pretending to be an extrovert but being exhausted because keeping up with the personalities is a lot of work#how is having a great time with that parent and the next second they painfully remind you why they suck#how is it fighting the fear to speak out#how is therapy going when you know whats wrong with you but noone know hpw to fix it#how is avoiding that parent once ypu learned to argue with them#because you ealized standing up for yourself causes them to ruin your whole family's day#please i need to find people who get iy#mental health#toxic relationship#toxic parents#childhood trauma
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you may have noticed i didnt post artfight attacks this weekend. sorrey. genuinely if u want me to post urs separately let me know it will be easier
#august wants me DEAD in the GROUND lol im ok though (through tears) (choking) (crying) (etc)#u ever try to look for an apartment and also ur parents r getting divorced and ur 26#and u find the perfect ideal apt but ur allergic to the persons cats lol ^^#texting 123#the reason im asking for individual reqs is that#im gonna wanna like. arrange all the group posts. and its gonna kill me LOL
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Lowkey hate mainstream production companies. Everything that comes out has this strange, fake, overly sanitized sheen to it. Now more than ever, support the creations of small, local artists and creators!
#post largely inspired by the news about the trans storyline being cut from that Disney show :((#stupidity#“we know that parents want to talk about death with their own children”#see how stupid that is?? it's just a fact of life just like any other person from a minority group#if parents don't like it then their kids don't have to watch it#but even with representation in gay media everything feels so removed from what life is actually like#everyone is beautiful thin and pretty (unless they're a yass queen slay funny gay) with no regard given to their struggles#other than lipservice or the occasional “UR GAY :(((” or alternatively the most traumatizing homophobia scene out of nowhere#and that isn't to say that nice gay media doesn't have it's place#(If I hear one more person bring up heartstopper discourse I'll cut my balls and penis off. heartstopper is made by a queer person#It's not the same as straight media sanitizing or erasing the queer experience)#but rather that production companies will never reach the same level of sincerity that a lowkey creator can#idk maybe I'm showing my ass and admitting that I don't have a wide range of media consumption#but also even if a show is technically good production companies still participate in egregious abuse of workers#and only care about the bottom line#so...#support indie projects!!
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Since today was the last time I saw the kids I train for this year, some of them gave us trainers a lil christmas present 🥰🥰🥰
#one gave us each some bath crystals#way better than just sweets in my opinion#and the other kid went wayyyyyy overboard#she got us like shampoo like a hair mask chocolate tea and a 10€ drugstore giftcard#like thats so sweet but pls dont give us a giftcard thats too much#like ik the parents most likely paid/ bought it but still#imma probs buy stuff like hairties for when the kids need some plus sweet for the kids etc so that basically im using the money for the kids#personal#in my group we always just give the trainers one present all of us together sp we basically only pay like 2 euros each#and mostly its like personalized stuff#like calndwrs with pics of us shirt framed pictures a meal together etc#just in general days like these when ur together with ur trainings group for half the day are soooooo nice#yes its always suoer busy and stressful but just feels good for my mind#i mean 30 min screentime really tells all
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i wish every parent who posts videos of their autistic child’s meltdowns a very die
#Autism Moms are my least favourite group of humans on this earth#no one should have their meltdowns posted online for views especially not a child ESPECIALLY not by their own parent#you are all scum and you should die#posting ur kid online in general is not normal or a good idea#and ppl who have entire accounts for their autistic child are fucking weird as hell#i don’t care if it’s all wholesome videos or whatever ur child isn’t an educational tool#that is a child who doesn’t understand and can’t consent to what ur doing leave them alone and let them be a child#they didn’t ask to be subjected to millions of strangers opinions and comments and attention#they don’t need to be treated like a cute dog or a challenge that their poor heroic brave parent has to put up with every day#just fucking leave kids alone omg
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imgojng to Fucking kill myself i can feel the crazy demon infested part of my brain kicking into high gear when i look at these two Ohhh its so freaking joever for me
#so . new duo for me everybody#And they were just very good friends 🙂#fawwwkkkkk theyrelike the parents of 22 kids imgonns puke#i just watched thesignal where they have a group meeting about who’s gonna move house#andt hey were 100% committed to staying together in the same room there was no question ALRIGHT????#‘i just put up my shelf:(‘ GIRL DONT START WITH MEEEEEE#<- she was really cute for thst#anyway#sorry for kpoping#but ur all gay and like gay rhings so here are two pretty girls i enjoy consuming content of
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would love to hear your take on the friend group as parents!
i’m sorry i keep trying to come up with a good answer for this but i’m just envisioning this scenario:
the girls go out for a much-needed night out without the kids so the guys stay behind and watch them. they return home to all of the guys dressed up and having a tea party with the girls.
aelia has done felix & festus’s makeup because she gave them puppy dog eyes and felix wasn’t able to say no. festus tried to say no and felix made him let her do it.
athena is painting hilarius’s nails while he drinks fake tea and pretends to gossip with Mr. Octopus (“Mrs. Bear said what!”)
june ruby is off in another room painting livia’s expensive white couch because it needed some color (liv & arachne volunteered to let the guys watch the kids at their place since they were both going out- never again.)
#it’s just straight chaos when the guys are in charge#asks#i’m sorry i only vaguely answered ur question#but i like to imagine they are all decent parents!!! until SOMEONE decides to start doing murder#friend group au
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I think the biggest red flag for me regarding the hopelesspeaches and lio convoy stuff, their entire group (especially lio) has near identical speech patterns and dynamics as my mom's online friend group. Which is less of a red flag and more of a raging wildfire tbh
#I listened to all the calls when they 'leaked' but I didn't know they were leaks I thought lio posted that stuff proudly#I didn't know that they weren't meant to be seen by the public until just now lol#Anyways I'm pleasantly surprised people are talking about how fucked up they were#Bc tbh when I was like 'oh this makes peaches (and everyone else) look like a bitch kinda' the first time I heard the calls-#I thought I was maybe being too judgey or sensitive or something?#But now everyone else is like 'yeah they are all being bitches actually' im like. Oh! So I understood right and wasn't just overreacting#Mostly bc lio was ranting about being a conservative Christian and weird 'nuclear family values' on one call and my immediate thought was#'oh gross Im too biased against this man to be able to look at this-#-discussion objectively. I'm gonna think he sucks regardless of the situation and therefore idk lf im a fair judge ?'#So it's cool to get confirmation from other ppl saying 'oh no ur right he sucks and here's why'#this is the 2nd time this week I got 'no youre not just overreacting. Other ppl are upset too' validation abt a topic. cool#//shade#I'm sure there's plenty of found family groups online that are great but so many of the ones i hear abt feel like a cult imo#My mom is in a group where this dude calls her and other women there his daughters like lio does to peaches and it feels gross to me idk#Ik everyone craves found family connections but. Idkk it feels weird to be taking that in a literal sense and calling them dad/my daughter#Feels like introducing unnecessary power dynamics.#Theres a difference between 'oh this person is like family to me because we're so close'#vs 'oh i am adopting this person and assuming a parental position over them'. that sounds unhealthy I think ?#Edit I just found out lio posted a response but it's midnight and I have a date tomorrow I'm not watching that rn lol#imo both him and peaches are bad and idc if one is worse than the other or whatever.#Peaches has been two faced for a while; lio might've taken advantage of her bc he's kinda creepy. They're both saying the other abused them#This is like jade and julian talking shit about each other to me. Idc guys I hate both of u srry <3#Iykyk
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idc yall could never make me hate richard cameron
#yes throwing keating under the bus was shitty but like?? hes a kid bro#got put into this expensive ass 1-way-ticket to the top 1% school. prob was told by his parents ab the sacrifices they made to get him there#theyre almost done with school and are being cracked down by the principal ab their club like what was he supposed to do#i feel its easy to say “i wouldve stood with keating i wouldve told the truth i wouldve blamed mr perry” when ur watching and not partaking#but in the moment its either the guy who can teach somewhere else or facing your parents#and even so yall act like hes the only one to sign. everyone signed the letter (idk ab charlie i know he was expelled) but like#only 1 out of the group actually stood out dont act like youre the same?? idk#and then i do gen believe that the school was looking for a reason to fire keating cuz his teachings are non-traditional so#idk. they all had their flaws none of them are perfect theyre all human i feel that cameron was just being a realist#the dead poets society#dead poets society#richard cameron#even todd who speaks out in the end signed the letter like 😭 it was a shitty thing to do but theyre teens and its real#l speaks#shut up l
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this is so funny. istimae writing this like "right. okay. who has she stabbed this time :/"
#tay plays dai#oc: ashara#i like to think the reason ashara stumbled on justinia is bc she got lost running away from the scene of the crime after like.#incinerating an orlesian noble in self defence or something 😶#plus the only justification i can think of as to why the keeper would send ashara (as opposed to an Actually subtle/rogueish clan member)#is bc the clan needed some space fr 💀#ironically despite not being a people person at all shes very much an advocate for collaboration and dealing more w humans#even tho she doesnt care much for them#she thinks its a straightforward path to gaining access to more inaccessible dalish history and artefacts and learning the Actual Truth#which is what she values most#and while i think the keeper agrees w her i think the rest of the clan are soooo sick of her picking a fight on this one issue so frequentl#so the keeper has to gentle parent her into like.. ''ok da'len im giving u this one lucrative opportunity to try out ur idea and go mingle#the humans'' - the rest of the clan vehemently in nodding in agreement <3#none of this is to say shes a 'not like other dalish' girl. she is. and her clan loves her. they just find it INCREDIBLY difficult sometime#but i like to think - after the word gets out that ashara was made inquisitor - mithra and a group of them storm over the skyhold#ready to bring the whole mountain down. fully under the impression that shes actually being held captive even in spite of this table missio#its like. ''shes our worstie and she pisses us off to no end but shes OUR worstie''
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It’s them! Will they kiss after this! Yes! Is this technically descendants au art but I realized pretty quickly it’s also just regular gals art! Yes! What are they looking at! Yes!
Also just Richie below because I like how she came out
#fem streddie#descendants au#sort of#streddie#fem richie tozier#fem eddie kaspbrak#fem stan uris#all that really makes this the descendants au is Eddie has short hair which implies good parents#who allow her bodily autonomy#they were gonna be looking at a book cuz I think Stan tutors Richie and Eddie Attends to be a Nuisance#and then they fall in love#as a group#but I can’t draw books apparently so use ur imagination#my art :)
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#christ. i feel like this is gonna b where i end up for school#it just seems like a really good place and i think it could help me be less intense lmao#more close access to the wilderness and all that. the ice driving is gonna stress me the fuck out but maybe not more than city driving woul#and i mean who wouldn't wanna live in a place with with moose and bears and mountains and snow#assuming they give me an offer. but the guy said it would prob b an easy conversation so im hopeful#sigh. ive done so much interacting this weekend. i fucking hate house parties. im so awkward#i mean most ppl r a bit but i tend to b the person sitting alone in the corner not quite knowing what to do. like we were xc skiining and#after the group was all huddled up talking and i was climbing around in the snow by myself trying to decide if it would b super weird for#me to roll around in it. i didnt bc i was abt to get in thr car but i shoudl have. whatever. i hopefully didnt leave too terrible an#impression. also everyone i meet with adhd @ me: ur problems sound like adhd. me: ok i hear u but also i refuse to listen until i have a#diagnosis lol. i think im just gonna white knuckle it until i start my program so i can use uni counseling bc im abt to get off my parents#insurance 😭 so just a few more miserable months. or like idk the timeline. hhhh let me leave the southwest. lol there were 3 fucking ohio#ppl on this recruitment weekend. were everywhere. everywhere but ohio rip#unrelated
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hoping u didn’t die cus u haven’t interacted in a while 🙏
(not saying u have to interact everyday i just wanna make sure ur doing ok!! rest up :3 )
nah i’m alive but i wish i wasn’t!!
#y’all don’t have to read this just ignore me#but i hate college#like studying in hs is one thing cus u just have to pass ur exams#and then ur done#but in college it’s like if u bs ur way thru it’s on u#cus this is is ur future job and if u don’t know shit ur gonna fuck ppl over#😭 i cannot see myself being a good doctor like i feel so stupid#also college is so lonely bruh#like everyone has different schedules so most of the time ur by urself#and i’m not big on parties but sitting in ur dorm studying for ur next exam while listening to everyone party outside is so lonely#like i wanna throw away my days and stay out till three am and miss my morning classes#but i CANT cus my parents wud kill me if i don’t pass#and even tho both of them r doctors they don’t understand mental health#and there’s no where to even cry properly here#like i thot being away from my parents wud make me happy 🪦#but instead i don’t feel at home at college nor at my actual house#😭 like where tf am i supposed to go then#and mostly everyone here is white and i feel so out of place#and in group projects i have to repeat my name ten times before anyone can get it#then they STILL mispronounce it#then listening to my roommate call her parents on speaker and listening to them tell her how much they love and support her#IT MAKES ME SO JEALOUS LIKE 😭 MY PARENTS DO NAWT SAY THE L WORD#anyway ya 😇😇 will update soon xoxo gossip girl#actually i won’t cus i’m annoyed at y’all for begging me for updates LIKE PLEEK IT TAKES TEN SECONDS TO READ THESE CHAPTERS AND HOURS 2 EDIT#ALSO CAN SOME OF YALL NOT READ IT SAYS THE TAGLIST IS CLOSED EVERYWHERE 😵💫 like i’m flattered u wanna be on it but just turn my notifs on#i hate tagging sm literallt the next 2 chapters are written but i’m too lazy to tag and annoyed at ppl asking for updates#ok that’s it#slay#i should kms#kai mail 💌
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