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#thinking about how jaime is like cersei isnt like tywin she is all wildfire while he is a glacier#implacable and relentless#cersei is the one holding the torch and the one that joins and speaks among tywin + the lannister ancestors#+ joff#in the weirwood dream#always found that interesting in terms of a less jaime centric interpretation#ofc shes the one that will remain with the lannister legacy she reaches into the lions cage but still#all the sibs have their emulation journey for different reasons and i find the way they contradict it (or dont) so interesting#but in general her being the one mf thats not disowned 😭#and ofc gender but u know
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every time i read a fic where lily evans is upheld as a paragon of justice and the underdogs and the vulnerable, i die a little inside
bc,,,,are we talking ab the same gal who kept defending snape for atleast five years of hogwarts and however many before that? who overlooked his bigoted actions, even when others called it/her out on it?
ugh
(now james, on the other hand? we have such clear evidence that he fits this archetype but ofc that’s overlooked isn’t it. gonna shut up here but will take the rant into the tags)
#james potter#reading another fic#where it goes#‘ur sense of justice is all lily harry she cared so much’#uhhhhh no?#she only cared about snape?#her entire problem w the marauders was that they picked on *snape*#one throwaway comment sn j hexing people does not a champion make#in fact my reading of lily actually puts her as extremely not empathetic actually#the way she behaved towards young petunia was also. hm.#she always seemed stuck up and righteous#idk where we got this impression of her from#but!!!!!! u know what we do have!!!!!#JAMES as the paragon of VIRTUE and JUSTICE#it is so obvious it’s almost too much#this dude was friends w a werewolf and a disgraced pureblood scion and a loser#he was so against blood purity politics he couldn’t even repeat the word mudblood#he joined a war bc it was the right thing to do n not bc he’s personally affected#his spirit animal is a STAG#a noble honourable protector like cmon how much more obvious can it get???#but ofc we have to Gender our headcanons in all instances w/o even realising it#so we end up w this clusterfuck of a characterisation#ugh#can u tell it annoys me a lot lmaoo#pen’s yapping#oh also i found my previous tag lol#pen’s whining#what do i do now
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i wanna live alone in a space with so many pink and cute things!!!!! 🎀🧸💞
#even if i lived with a man... i could mayyyybe have my own small room#like a reading room#where i can decorate it completely pink and cutesy etc#everything he wouldnt want in the rest of our place 😔#or maybe i could have a gf who likes the same as me ...#but also ofc it isnt only tied to stupid gender things#maybe i can have a partner and they like my style too#or i have a gf who hates pink and cute things#like who knows#but sadly 99% of my experience is that as a girl#it is the easiest for me to date guys.. and i have like never even met a guy#who is like yeah sure lets move in together#and then u can decorate everything in pink and florald and plushies everywhere and heart shaped utensiles sure 👍#if that exists and happens to me thats great (or a gf or a partner with the same taste as me) but i dont bank on it
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#blackened bones au just got so wild y'all#mr 'whats a king to a god whats a god to a nonbeliever' jaehaerys targaryen over there who is not king btw#and is instead like a 12 year old hand of the king (sorry tywin) because his oldest brother has a huge case of 'weird flex but okay'#and his extra early elopement and subsequent earlt creation of the doctrine for Reasons#made aegon go you have been promoted u are now one of my elite employees!! took him from cupbearer to hand. as one does#but anyway aegon mr black maegor black magic baby electric boogaloo was unable to produce more than one pregnancy in his wife lol#because the black magic is FUCKED for REASONS (maegor skewed it gay. also for reasons. namely fucking aenys reasons)#and now he has no (male) heir and HE wants to make aerea his heir bc aegon is the chad of this family. also visenya got to him young#rhaena the lesbian is on board for obvious reasons but alyssa is decidedly Not & either is the council bc like. the targs have been wilding#in one decade they balerioned the starry sept and vhagared the sept of remembrance killing like. most of the high ranking sevenists lmao.#lol even. plus jae and aly also eloped cause ofc they did the council was trying to marry her to a hightower. oh and also the doctrine#been a bit of a decade and all that happened in just 9 years. also viserys and lysarra (oc first maegor/aenys daughter) got married#which was the first post doctrine marriage. they're the two crazies. she has a mini balerion. went wonderfully as im sure you can imagine#anyway the targs need to CHILL. give the realm a breather. NOT CHANGE THOUSANDS OF YEARS OF INHERITANCE PRECEDENT.#aegon the chad is not helping them do that. so alyssa uses her big brain. & she's like well aegon is a black magic baby (thnx maegor)#and he's king. so why not get him a Surrogate and make him an heir. for Reasons it can't be any of his fellow maegor black magic babies#(black magic babies can't have kids with each other bc they're barely fertile on their own lol) and his remaining options are aly & vaella#both of whom are out bc they're a) 14 and 11 respectively and also b) married and a future nun. shit happens.#viserys is a no cuz lysarra is Crazy and aegon knows it and respects it. that leaves jaehaerys 😁 the good dutiful fourth son 😁#the og machiavellian propaganda maker 😁 who will do Anything to get what he wants 😁 esp for the good of his house and the Realm 😁#long story short jaehaerys the nonbeliever to hardcore sevenist loser gets valyrian magic gender fuckery & gives birth to the heir <3#a delight to negotiate with alysanne as im sure you understand. truly didn't almost end the marriage he rewrote the law and religion for#shit happens <3 long live the third prince of dragonstone aerys targaryen who is the second shipname baby future king#(the first was aenys. aegon = ae rhaenys = nys. now aegon the uncrowned that WAS crowned named his heir aegon = ae and jaehaerys = rys)#(bc naming his first daughter after aerea and his second after rhaena wasn't enough evidently. he is a crazy person)#(he names the twin [they're twins it is the worst year of jaehaerys's LIFE think renesmee & bella] alystair. for alysanne.)#(he is a crazy person x2.)#and that's on today's episode of:#blackened bones au
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nervous laughter
#text#was hanging out with a friend (had fun) but as his uber was arriving#i see my ex roommate (<- putting it lightly) walking back to the dorms with someone#and like. im nosy ofc but i also like. want to warn them#cuz i dunno if this is like. a friend or a new roommate or what but they’ve been alone EVERY TIME ive seen them#so this is new. and considering their track record.#i dont think i am super calm knowing they’re bringing someone back to that room.#im not sure if i hope its a roommate cuz maybe then its innocent#or if i hope its not bc i dont want anyone else to have to live with them#but like. god.#and they totally saw me n my friend looking at them LMAOO but like what r u gonna do. u cant do shit#im allowed to look in directions#but. yeah no. that makes me very nervous#and i didnt get a good look at who it was but they were like#5’6 ish short blonde hair looked kind of like they had a gender situation going on#(i love saying gender situation its my new favourite phrase)#but uhh. yeah. i need to find them i just need to like. know theyre gonna be okay#i want to warn them but that might be bad idea#so i dont know. i dont want them to not know but i dont want them to know at the same time. yk?#well. itsnfine. im hiding in [building] now and im around people and im safe and no one can hurt me#neg#🗒️
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weekend melancholy is starting to kick in >~<
#im gonna go and do my food shop etc to keep myself busy and hopefully my 2nd meds will kick in and we'll be able to handle it together#i think i kind of do this so regularly bc my brain is just processing everything bc i dont rly have time during the week#all cool tho im doing good overall def on the up n i feel way more capable of coping emotionally which is nice. i <3 meds#also.. possibly settling on the idea that i might be agender. very tentatively. lots of experiences n thoughts coming together rn#ive been reacting in unexpected ways to a lot of gendered shit atm which has made me reconsider the way i think abt myself#but very difficult to articulate it to myself let alone anyone else. so ive been sitting with it for now until it precipitates#gender stuff has never rly affected me much or ive never been in a place to explore it which is why i havent thought abt it super hard#but im not the sort of person who needs a lot of internal exploration to figure out my identity like im v self aware tbh#and while im wildly indecisive abt most things in my life for some reason i never have been abt stuff like this. i learned abt lesbianism#like idk 9 years ago-ish and straight away was like yeah that makes sense for me. never looked back since#n similarly ive experienced forms of gender dysphoria before n just immediately dealt with it symptomatically n moved on#its never been smth to agonise abt for me like i know what makes me comfortable in my skin so theres no question abt doing it#and ik im privileged to be able to do that. and also it helps that gender for me is mostly divorced from external perceptions#+ that im v autistic so social pressures dont stick to me very well. i mean yeah i was bullied for it as a kid but i was stubborn asf#so yeah from the moment i realised i was genuinely uncomfortable/upset abt it earlier this week i was like okay. lets try this instead#its given me pretty instant relief from any distress i was feeling so far which is nice. rare respite from one of my torture labyrinths#just testing out internally whether it frames things more clearly n makes me feel more myself/at peace before i choose to stick w the idea#but not gonna do a whole coming out fanfare either way. dont think i wanna change how ppl interact w me + im still a dyke#so i dont consider it relevant to anyone else unless they share a similar understanding of gender to me. or if we're v close#ill prolly broach it w other trans friends eventually bc insert philosophers talking image. but to everyone else its business as usual#happy to play my cis-sona at work. + w new queer ppl i meet ive been introducing myself recently w mirrored pronouns instead of any/all#and i think i prefer that. virtually indistinguishable but theres smth nice abt inviting ppl to recognise me the way they do themselves#like translating + localising a non-gendered language into a gendered one... simplifying decisions abt how to perceive me#and ofc ppl are still gonna perceive me however but idc much unless we're actually friends. the rest is all a performance anyway#doubtful anyone on here ever has reason to refer to me but if u do for some reason... im freeloading off ur pronouns now btw <3#but yeahhh. much 2 think abt. i need to read more alien/ai sci fi.. non-human sentience has been such a comforting concept lately#but yea tldr i woke up one morning this week like damn im prolly agender but i have a full time job to go to rn so idc abt that#.diaries#okkkk my dex is kicking in im no longer on the verge of tears lets go get these groceries wooohoooo
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first impression: oh shit sick art blog (mildly intimidated) current impression: sick art blog (youre kind of a dork /pos)
ksdjnv ty!
n lol yis. i am a dork. :3
#why does being called a dork lowkey feel nice lol#like. a lil euphoric#idk. brains r weird#to my knowledge there is no gender to that word lmao#didderd asks#anonymous#(kinda curious. abt who this is#n if they'r a moot#wanna know who's callin me a dork :3 /pos)#(don't revel urself if u don't want to ofc)
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shes so me-coded 🐺🦴🩸💉💜
#p#im lame but idc i like these pics!#i need to rewatch the 2nd one for my girl !!#fr tho i luv herrrr shes underrated n the 2nd movie is too idc !#i shld watch the original one again too but to be fair i have rewatched it once already lol#havent seen 3 idk what ppl think of that one but i shld give it a shot#to me shes autistic n has gender stuff goin on so. relatable#so like weirdgirl loner who looks pissed off n is a werewolf at some point ‼️ ofc i love her#shes a lesbian ofc but that part isnt me lol#ok2rb if u find this somehow w/out me tagging it. but ya know#shes literally normal (said by guy who is a freak as well)
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#the Monthly Blood Bath™️ has arrived that explains it!!!!#also i just rewatched harry singing girl crush#did i actually start crying? yes#am i feeling a lot (too many) emotions about it rn as a consequence? also yes#like ofc he’s super privileged and all that#but my heart also aches for him#i’m not gonna claim to know anything about his gender#but it’s so obvious that he’s never wanted to be your like typical Masculine Man#from day fucking one dude#and being under the biggest spotlight in the world rn like#if he is feeling gender stuff#i can only imagine how difficult and heartbreaking it would be to be going thru that at the same time and being under such a watchful eye#it was hard enough for me to break out of my original mold with like#15 people knowing me lmaoooo like fuck dude#ANYWAYS#harry ily and i hope that u are/get to live as authentically as makes u comfortable 🫶#rowyn rambles
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feeling v . hmm. interesting
#not bad actually ! just. interesting#my roommate cut my hair into a mullet/wolf/shag cut Moment and i luv it#but i’m hearing a oversized hoodie and gaa shorts and feeling lowkey gender? in a way that i have never felt?#like i’ve looked at ppl and felt Gender and seen that but i’ve never felt it like this when looking at myself?#and it’s a little. hmm . huh . bc i was very Like That when i was younger. 13 - 15 and didn’t want to be a Girly Girl bc.#internalised misogy . and it was Loud. and i’ve unpacked that (and still have more to go ofc!) but u am way more comfortable in myself now#and i luv makeup ! and dresses ! and traditionally v feminine things ! and i don’t give a fuck if ppl see me like that or if that’s their#first thought when they think of me ! it doesn’t bother me if they don’t think of me sparring or playing gaelic or any Tough Lad Stuff#and i’m not questioning my gender (rn anyway. who knows what the future holds) but i’m kinda vibing in this Gender feeling if that makes#sense? lol mb it doesn’t. mb i am wayyy too in my head and hyped up on no sleep but it is what i am feeling ! so i am going to enjoy it !#thank u for coming to my ted talk#will delete later#probably#if not ->#diary posting
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Aoo'.
#this is navajo btw#u say it like 'oh' but kinda fast and ofc clip it at the end#suprisingly this is an actually agreed on way of spelling it#did u know that navajo doesnt actually have gendered pronouns#i dont think anything is like gendered gendered#u have man rain (thunder and more harsh) and women rain (gentle rain)#but thats just it#like sure u have man and women but#u wouldnt use women in place of a medicine man#bc medicine man applys to anybody who does the medicine and stuff#also it was matriarchal#like the child took the womens “last name”#(the navajo didnt have last names#but instead used clans#which are the equivalent of last names)#the fathers last name would be second#then the mothers mother#then the mothers father#then the fathers mother#then the fathers father#men also moved in with the women as well#okk nvm im ranting abt the diferences now lol
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Ok I feel bad I rbed some genders & they're cool but ops seem weirdly interested in policing plurality & listen the gender has nothing to do with plurality so.......I'm just rbing it anyways...sorry that's evil but idrc. For the record plurality is weird, identify however, I am just here
#5.11.24#this is probably weird but if u see a dni on something that ..doesnt necessarily mean my “dni” aligns as well#except for somw things like i fuckig hate r*dqueer (sorry i haaate censoring but i dont want it to be in the tags)#but other than that like idk#when i did my mogai blog i didnt even have a dni cuz like#i cant. tell you to not identify with the terms i create cuz the whole point is that i made them public for people to relate to & id with i#they want to id with them???#like its one thing if youre like NEUROTYPICALS DNI on a term thats for autistic people#but i heavily disagree with barring people off from your terms when it is totally unrelated#like i did slimerancher genders#i cant tell r*dqueer people to not fuckti.g. have their gender be a slime from slimerancher#i dont even look at the people who int with me on there#the only time i really look is maybe on this blog cuz its personal??#unless its like theyrw reblogging one of my fansom posts#like the one limbussyyyyy post i made that got 200+ notes like im not checking#who are you people.whatever. enjoy#im for catering your online space ofc but like you cant stop people from looking at your shit#& if youre making content its probably gonna be looked at by people you dont like#its kind of healthy to let control of that somwtimes or its gonna eat you alive#source!!! i know#gloomy#idk??#technically?? maybe.#my text
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gotten really into not gendering strangers in public lately. whenever i’m talking about ppl at the playground w mr. 2yo i use “they” rather than assuming he or she and i realized i started doing it thoughtlessly when i was they’ing ppl at my buddy’s dance thing the other day. sometimes ppl give me weird looks but so far no one has gotten outwardly offended. accidentally degendering my mind whilst attempting to raise children in a queer universe
#d speaks#d works#idk can’t articulate that last sentence. we just need them to know that they are able to use whatever pronouns they want and have whatever#gender identity and we will love them#and ofc like we do the basics of reading books abt it and stuff but yeah i found a few years back that i needlessly gender toys#and made a concerted effort to stop assigning genders to toys#and now i’m doing it w strangers and it’s nice#will keep u updated on if this ‘confuses’ the kids#but my prediction is that it won’t because most of the ppl in their life do have binary gender identities and use he or she
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the reason i don’t mention her being trans is because these pages are diegetic in nature & the observer is not omniscient, so it’s mostly just stuff they might piece together through simply watching & things they’ve heard from word of mouth, myths & legends, gossip & fireside chats, etc. her being trans just didn’t seem like something that would be remarked upon if anybody in universe knew & it seems like she only found out herself relatively recently from embraced identity’s lore tab (& why i included it on this sheet!)
i actually made a trans flag version of her cloak and meant to add it to a reblog and simply forgor! there’s a free hi res download on my ko-fi :3
Micah-10 & Mihaylova
#i also coloured 3 of the ghosts the trans blue white & pink as another lil nod c:#trust me i have been on the micah trans icon train since beyond light#i’m a nonbinary exo lover ofc i was lol#i was actually talking with a close friend about what it must have been like to just like#wake up ressurected & not realize you were trans bc#you just Are#the transition happened & then you were transitioned again from flesh to metal#and you died and returned with no memories of your childhood or adolescence#as someone who went through so much pain & suffering over my gender identity until very recently#there’s something really beautiful & comforting about that#& envisioning the golden age & micah getting gender affirming care without (i imagine) nary a batted eye#aughhhh#also i hope none of this comes off as combatant cause like#how r u guys to kno these pages are written by a destiny OC of mine alsjska#some ppl know but i dont mention it often cause 98% of my art is commission work anyways so it could go either way!
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I was about to write that too 😌
lmaooo louies share one braicell (horny 😌)
smsjkszk it's 1 neuron and its only connected to one specific organ 😔
#do u know that post thats like i didn't chose my fave with my brain i chose them with my pussy skdhdk#pussy (gender neutral) ofc#ask#anon
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ok Tomorrow i will do One pride post in my drawings for the sake of pride month- also i think its cute bc i was thinking of my first ever tdov post years and years ago which is where i personally count me ‘officially’ coming out as anything. idk i think its cute and itll make me feel better
#liquid.txt#cute too bc for Me personally w sexuality and gender i was internally adamant abt myself but it took a While to say shit#and as a kid i was more passionate abt my feelings not that ofc a toddler knows queer theory but i remember being like#hmm something is brewing time to sip it#special drop dont miss it#coming out for me has many facets and trials and tribulations one way or another and Im ready for closure and being able to fully enjoy me#not that i havent ofc but u guys know how gender and sexuality are
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