#and my errands should be done

[arandomnomad]

I've been out since 9am running errands and just got home at about 130pm. I went to half the metro as well, but I got what needed to be done! And it feels so nice!

[todayisafridaynight]

[og]

[perilegs]

my sweet little baby man is no longer with us

[fleouriarts]

the newest developments in the hivemind furry extended universe (ive posted the eden pics before but whatever)

[vampatty]

class got cancelled today which means i literally haven't gone to a single class this week and have basically spent every day since monday in bed writing fanfiction. somehow i feel like i'm reaching a new level of hedonism with this already so maybe i'll just break out the wine and cheese for today too

[trebeksfault]

had a shockingly delightful day tbqh

[pilonciillo]

on another note

[balkanballad]

me and my dad mainly fix things when we are alone together

[crimeronan]

i finally did it. after three years. i finally caught the rona.

[meru90]

i'm dying to throw money at you and ur amazing work!! about when do you think your shop will reopen? :>

aaaaa🥹🥹❤️❤️❤️ prob 12pm cet

[doublesidedgemini]

one of these days I’m going to not open up tumblr for a few days and then come back to find my blog T WORDED omg I’m so afraid of this and I don’t even know why when I haven’t even been active lately?

[promithiae]

Kinda hate going grocery shopping with my mom because I always feel rushed and then forget to get myself a treat :'(

[swankpalanquin]

maybe i will go see gladiator tomorrow

[malachitezmeyka]

Decided to do a little work on an art piece I began in late May but had to put on the back burner bc of the Pride Month art & the Suiren anniversary piece, and now I’m really sad over young Haya :/

[heywriters]

Details That Convey Intimacy

Developing fictional relationships that feel authentic takes more than dialogue and grand gestures. Every detail below can be used to show platonic, familial, agape, or romantic love depending on context.

cooking a meal for someone, bringing them food, or spontaneously sharing a snack

sharing body heat/warming someone with outerwear like jackets and scarves

fanning them with something if overheated

getting a cold/hot drink for them

offering to carry something, whether it's heavy or just a jacket, to lighten someone's load or free up their hands

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changing the subject of a group conversation that will be personally discomforting to someone in the group

making sure to include someone in a group conversation, especially if it's a topic they have special knowledge of

waiting for someone to catch up when the rest of the group has walked ahead

remembering preferences/allergies ahead of time when preparing/ordering food

planning trips, whether in a pair or as a group, that provide something positive for every individual to enjoy

procuring personal healthcare items like sunscreen, moisturizer, lip balm, pain relievers, or a snack and keeping them on hand for that friend who frequently needs them

making room for someone in a crowded vehicle or on public transit

making room for someone under an awning or in another limited space to help them avoid bad weather

warning or wordlessly covering for someone with a wardrobe/cosmetic malfunction

remembering a small luxury someone mentioned they enjoy, and getting it for them the next time it's convenient

running an errand for someone to make their day easier ('importance of errand : depth of relationship' ratio should be explored)

escorting someone to safety in a sudden unsettling event

escorting someone who is drunk, sick, infirm, injured, or emotionally compromised

asking if light, noise, or other sensory factors are bothering someone and taking steps to make them more comfortable

getting gag gifts for someone to show you reciprocate their sense of humor or quirky self-expression (not everyone does this, not everyone appreciates it, and some people predominantly express love through humor and gag gifts; works well with some characters more than others)

holding someone's hand or arm as reassurance, especially when they are afraid*

using their body to block someone from wind, rain, or heat

picking up a dropped item, or carrying a train or other dragging garment for someone else

returning a recognizable possession to someone who may have lost it

This is an inexhaustible list as humans have many ways of showing love for each other. If you are writing spec fic with non-human characters, you can play with variations on these by remembering three core values the "lover" has to consider:

physical comfort of others

emotional comfort of others

social reputation of others

I'd add "sensory comfort" though I think it's tied to physical and emotional comfort.

Please do not try and force any of these into the mold of the misogyny-based "Love Language" trend. Human emotions and expressions of love are diverse and endless.

*While hand holding can be construed as romantic, in reality it varies. Some cultures do not see this as romantic, and some individuals only mean it as a sign of support or compassion. Same goes for long embraces and kissing, both can be done platonically and of course naturally between close family members or friends.

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[yes-no-maybe-soo]

Neither did I a mere couple of weeks back tbh, but Sylus has made me discover things about myself, man. And I haven't seen enough people talk about the glorious work of art that is Sylus Qin's nose, which makes me sad. Thus here I am making a thirst post about it dhdjfj

(As for his other tip... you best believe my female urge for it is very much alive and present 😌 Por qué no los dos, am I right?)

The female urge to feel the tip of Sylus' big beautiful nose press lightly against your skin as he trails kisses down your body 😩