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“There are days I hesitate.
I hesitate when I remember you’re no longer a constant in my life.
I hesitate to remember where you and I stand.
I hesitate to say goodbye.
And then I shake the hesitation out of my head.
I stopped hesitating when I realized you knew absolutely nothing about me.
I stopped hesitating when I realized I didn’t even want you in my life.
I stopped hesitating with you.
Because I don’t want you.”
#beautiful quote#life quote#life quotes#quote#quotes#write#writer#writing#my writing#writblr#writer and poets#writers on tumblr#i write#it took a long time to get here#i’m proud of myself#and if you relate I’m proud of you
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Going to break into your house with pots and pans and yell at you until you reframe your thinking of productivity to include more than just schoolwork or a salary or chores and the like.
Did you do a thing? Was there a positive result for you or someone else?
Congratulations, you did a Productivity!!!
You aren’t ALWAYS going to be able to have the energy to do what we consider traditionally productive. You won’t always have the motivation.
Yeah, maybe you could have spent two hours studying for that test instead of 15 minutes. Maybe you could have cleaned the kitchen instead of the dishes. And? That’s still something!
Productivity is doing things!! Did you eat food and drink water? You did something that helped your body work! Doodled in class? You made art! Even just posting theories and memes on tumblr dot com is a thing! You thought out the post, figured out how to organize it (even if you don’t realize you did that) and you made it! And now other people can see and you DID something and you should be proud!!!
Be proud of yourself or I am going to show up outside your window tonight and scream positive affirmations louder than a cat who has just discovered her food bowl is empty.
#ESPECIALLY if you are disabled or mentally ill or sick or neurodivergent or any of the like#For me with ADHD and oftentimes poor mental health I really struggle to be traditionally “productive”#And earlier today I was frustrated because I was having a difficult time finishing a school assignment.#But also?#I noticed and made a post about a parallel between comic panels.#I’m working on a long post analyzing specific quotes from Webtoon.#I got up and got a water bottle.#Is that not productive?#Does that not produce a result that I and others may enjoy?#y’all have GOT to acknowledge little victories because that took effort and THAT was productive and Im sosososososososososo proud of you!!#adhd#autism#neurodivergent#i dont know what all to tag this as so feel free to reblog with any tags you feel this applies to or apply to you in relation to this!!#productive#disability#actually autistic#actually adhd#rambles#Tw unreality#unreality#tw paranoia
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Pokémon Timeskip Series: Champion Dawn 🌸❄️
Known as Sinnoh’s Ice Queen, Dawn is best known for her intimidating yet caring nature. She’s fierce and calculating, never leaving any room for error especially when it comes to battling. On her off days you can find her in the contest hall, a hobby she picked up from her mother, or in the Battle Frontier/Pokémon Lab to catch up with her best friends. It is said she was recently engaged to a certain johto boy (Ethan. It’s Ethan.) however they will not publicly revealed their plans for the wedding as of yet
Made a timeskip adult champion Dawn design a while back! It’s still my favorite of my timeskip series hehehe I hope you enjoy!
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#trainer dawn#pokemon#pokémon#dawn pokemon#Art#Ally draws stuff#pokemon timeskip#Wait I can ramble in the tags that’s fucking right#ok so her design was heavily inspired by Cynthia obviously carrying over the same sorta philosophy#She has a few references to the Pokémon she uses! The scrunchies on her wrist for example relating back to (Shiny) Mega Lopunny#Very proud of that Diamond and Pearl necklace btw while her skirt alt design comes with a jacket so it’s v platinum-esque#She has moon earrings if you zoom in closely along with her star clips!#I still like the triangle clips she has cause it’s a more shape but star clips are cool hella regal#I forgot Lucas wore a beret tbh 💀 but translating her hat to a beret was hella fun#also DP color scheme ofc but I changed it up a bit hehehe#her shoes are a reference to palkia in a way! I paid a dumb amount of attention to how Pokémon translates shoes…#But yeee she’s my favorite timeskip design by far along with my Lyra#I have this whole story I’m building up I hope to release one day hopefully aaaa#The Cherry Blossom in the Winter Snow……….#Oh yeah the engagement ring…… she and Ethan are engaged btw 😳#pokemon dppt#pokemon bdsp#YUCK THERES A BDSP TAG NOOOOO gotta do it for the clout
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“A smile would be nice.”
2019 was the year Archie graduated officially as a fully trained F-35A pilot ☝️the other graduates were taking Polaroids of each other to put together as a keepsake, this was one of very few they got of Archie. They got one of him smiling afterwards I promise😊
Something that has been on my list to draw for a while, this one polaroid of Goose but make it Archie 😎
Ref pic under the cut as well as a close up. Hope everyone has/had a wonderful Christmas! ✨
#nomnomnom#anyways I loved how the jacket came out#and his face#you know I’m just very proud of this entirely 😂#a lot of my Christmas presents haven’t arrived yet#yes some of them are f35 related....r we surprised#had a solid roast tho very yummy#archie campbell#my oc#cod oc#my art#task force dagger#top gun 1986#military oc
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Can you believe that I used to be a tumblr person, and then left for a few years and was a person who had a lot of sex, and now I’m back to being a tumblr person and it’s way more fun than being a sex person
#y’all can go fuck if you wanna but rn being a no sex person is sooo nice#like yes that’s cause I’m asexual and was just overcompensating so hard#but I’m having a great time#my therapist says she’s proud of me#and geniinly one of my fav things about being back is that 100% of my thoughts can be here without filer#love my friends but they’re not into much nerd shit#and my other social media needs to be 20% more filtered than this#shitposting#yapping#thoughts#relatable#asexual
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*Slipping Through My Fingers by ABBA is playing in the background*
#god how i love this cast#look how small they were!!!!#our little nuggets#i'm SO proud of each of them#i’m gonna bawl my eyes out after s5#stranger things cast#finn wolfhard#noah schnapp#gaten matarazzo#caleb mclaughlin#sadie sink#millie bobby brown#byler#<- not byler-related but i'm sure you guys like it#Spotify
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Lat 🖋️
#I feel like the panels don’t really go together#and I realize some of the dialogue doesn’t make sense#but yknow….I’m just kinda proud to get something out#I feel like I had a long day haha#glad I was still able to draw something#and this wasn’t really related to anything. I just like doing these with characters#random comic strips/writing scenes#helps me get to know them better I think#I realize my blog isn’t really centered around any few characters?#I mean there’s definitely some characters I draw more than others#but I wanna develop my ideas about them#who am I kidding ive been trying to do this forever haha#at least you guys like the art so slow n steady I guess#I’ll get to wherever I wanna be someday. I’m still young ig#faith is key!#if ur reading this rn (u a real one if you actually read allat???) have some confidence in your future#that sounds very cheesy and overused but it’s true. I believe in u<3#hetalia#aph baltics#art#aph latvia#my art
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I don’t think people realize how all consuming October 7, the war and the rising antisemitism is to most Jews right now. I was just on a five day family trip and nearly every single conversation ended up circling back to what’s going on in Israel, across the world and at home. My mom knew Vivian Silver, an incredible peace activist thought to be held hostage and I had to sit there and watch her realize that not only was Vivian murdered at her home 38 days before but that she was likely burned if it took this long for her body to be identified. I was forced to sit there and watch my mom, my favorite woman in the world, watch her face crumple. We were sharing updates, accounts to follow, venting and releasing frustrations. It is a constant unbreakable struggle right now for me and most Jews I know to not be glued to our phones, to not pay attention. Because we’ve seen what happens when we don’t. Because we can’t afford to turn our backs on what’s going on. And there’s a deep ever present grief not only for the victims of October 7th, the innocent citizens of Gaza, the hostages and also for my own personal sense of safety and security. I am also grieving what is a shattering beyond measure of my present and future trust in people as I’ve witnessed how easily well intentioned kind hearted people have decided to say nothing, publicly or privately, or who have quickly fallen into vicious antisemitic rhetoric. I’m just sharing into the void at this point but it’s been unimaginably hard on a personal level. I’m not the same person I was when I went to bed on October 6. It’s as though I’m a shadow, made of grief and anger and tiny fractured bits of hope. Every piece of joy feels as though it’s been muted because of how quickly it fades. And even the moments that last are related to my Jewish identity somehow. I am not sure where I go from here.
Have a cat gif for reading all of that
#abby speaks#jumblr#I don’t know if anybody in the tag relates to how I’m feeling but it feels like the right place for it to go#not tagging I/p and antisemitism though this post deals with it because I don’t want to get bombarded#Jews can reblog as can followers#I’ll say it here to fend of comments; this is my personal reflection#I’ve stated several times that I believe in a Palestinian state and their rights of self determination libration and pursuit of life#I simply don’t believe that that should come at the cost of Israel’s right to exist and to Jewish safety around the globe#if that makes me a Zionist than I am a proud Zionist#I firmly believe that those taking advantage of this pain and horror to spread hate will be judged by karma#that includes the settlers in the Israeli West Bank; Netenyahu and his corrupt colition#and anyone who is ripping down and defacing posters of the hostages#Hamas is a terrorist organization that benefits no one but themselves#if you truly cared about the Palestinians you would have understood that they need to be removed and their agenda dismantled
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What sort of leg exercises do you do to develop your amazing ass? It’s a great piece of work.
You wanna know my secret?
I have a most speedy pupy who hits me with his leash whenever he wants 2 walkies…
#I really don’t have any advice to give lol I’ve been in my dad bod era for a few years now#I used to work out a lot but then I got a gainer boyfriend and rediscovered my passion for eating good food 😂#we broke up a few years back but it really helped unshackle me from the constraints of muscle culture tbh#I eat less now and try to do senshi proud by eating nutritionally balanced meals tho tastiness is almost always my primary focus#but like I’m not interested in sculpting my body so I have a chance with people who have appearance as their top priority#I’m not personally fulfilled by exercising tho I know many people who are#the only wrong way to live life is to do something you dislike bc you think you have to ✨#that being said I probably should do a little more exercise for health related reasons I’ve been getting winded pretty easily recently 🤔
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for the ship ask game...
feligami 🦚🐉
HI SELKIE 💘💓💗 let’s go into my room and sit on my bed. i have snacks 🥰
What made you ship it?
i didn’t ship feligami until very recently, since i have strong feelings about arocoded félix, but while i was making amvs i saw how many times they held hands and my heart was swayed.
What are your favorite things about the ship?
i don’t ship it enough to have an answer for this question 🤣 get nina in here. nina has essays on essays about queerness and abuse recovery. i suppose my answer is the hand holding.
Is there an unpopular opinion you have on your ship?
i have strong feelings about this one too. they would not have kids ‼️ they would not get married ‼️ down with the nuclear family ‼️
(ship ask game)
#miraculous ladybug#🦭#🌃#maybe i will ramble about why i think félix is arocoded eventually#although i think part of it is the level to which i associate myself with him i mean i get physical pain whenever i think about aus where#he’s replaced in adrien’s life because i feel his emotions so viscerally they’re entangled with mine#BUT i think the idea has narrative merit on its own i mean#just another way in which you’re called a monster not human not feeling things like everyone else#seemingly doomed to be alone because you don’t relate to other people in the right way#your cousin chooses love over you and you just can’t understand you know?#and possibly even félix’s inability to love being a command from his father#the bunny incident i mean#paralleling trauma based aromanticism and the complicated feelings of not knowing whether you were always this way or it was done to you#and how to proceed and whether you’re valid and whether there’s even such a thing as being fixed#but i also believe in aroace amélie which means we can draw another parallel between them and he can be comfortable and proud because of he#*her#and you could make an argument for aro adrien too but i’m getting way off track#whoops i rambled so much LOVE YOU SELKIE
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I think that pacing is truly the most frustrating part of my writing process. I crave a slow burn!!!! But how slow should I make it? Should it even be burning yet? Maybe I should write an exposition about the matches first, that way I can lead into the flame— no don’t leave stick with me
#I fear a rushed plot and unearned development#but then I get so impatient writing the build up that I quit before the real show begins#I’ve definitely gotten better at pacing as I keep trying new projects#I try to write what’s interesting to me even if it’s not the meat of the story yet#but I always feel like I’m either going too slow or too fast#thinking of this as I write chapter 3 for my fic in which the main plot hasn’t quite sparked#I mean I’m very proud of what I have and I think the build up adds to this story#but mannnnn I’m so excited for the flashy parts#it’s just as much a payoff for me as it is for any reader#almost at the drama ! planning for it to begin this chapter#major tone shift for chapter 4 and on#literally SO ready for it#lemme know if you relate I need more writing discourse in my life#writers on ao3#writers on tumblr#journal thoughts
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working on something
#would you believe me#if I said.#this was somehow#related to redub#anyways Sam hoodie Sam hoodie#idk how details I’m gonna make it?#I don’t exactly how a ton of fabric for it#it’s kinda just. vibes#I spent like 6 hours on just this#it’s a mix of machine and hand sewn#im fucking proud of it so far but I have no idea what im doing I’ll be so fr
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one thing I love about following celebrities/artists who are honest and proactive about their mental health struggles etc is I can’t count the number of times someone I know is going through something and I’m like ‘I’ve got a song for u’ and how much of my life involves telling myself ‘if [redacted] can do something/get better/etc then so can i’ (and having actual real evidence of it in front of me) and I can’t understate how much I appreciate these things.
but at the same time it involves a whole lot of watching people I care about suffer and you learn to read the signs and infer between the lines in songs and interviews, and yes we can never fully know what they don’t share with us, but when they do share things it’s not a big stretch to be like ‘this seems like it’s what life is like for you and I have taken encouragement from it but you deserve so much better’. and it’s easy to find ways to get angry at a predatory industry and realise things that could be hurtful if you’re already fragile.
and we can advocate for some things and help ourselves and the people around us feel better but it’s hard to meaningfully reach your faves as an individual. and there are things we can’t say on the internet in too much detail, speculation becomes the harmful kind of gossip, and so sometimes it’s a whole lot of internally saying ‘you’re doing incredibly well to have gotten to where you are but I wish for your sake things would get better faster’
#curse and catch 22 (not the song)#I didn’t mean to make this so anonymous as a post but maybe. it’s applicable to a lot of artists. I don’t know#just thinking about how sometimes someone will say something and it’s like ‘oh honey’ if you can see. why they might be saying it#like a glimpse into the top of an iceberg that makes a lot of sense to be there given other things they do and talk about#I feel like we’re in a unique position as a fandom with the way all four of them have been so vulnerable in different ways#and they may not be perfect but imo no one deserves to suffer like that especially for an extended amount of time. but the thing is#sometimes the fans are suffering and so are our faves and people appreciate the relatability and don’t have any basic compassion#or ability to see past their own struggles. with this fandom especially compared to a lot of others I’ve been in and I think I know why#but in the end the way I see it we’ve gotten so much relatable content and encouragement (bc the Finding The Positives Vibes which are ther#and sometimes there’s nothing we can give back apart from being a part of systemic change which all of us deserve for ourselves too#idk if this band is unique in this or I just find them more relatable personally and thus easier to see how hard they’ve worked#on themselves and taking risks in order to be honest. and it reminds me of the quote about how suffering won’t make your art better#healing will. and so imo anyone whose art is really good when they are going through a lot has me thinking. imagine what it’d be like#when life isn’t so hard for you?? or when you’re getting better but it just takes a long time I’m like. you deserve to feel better faster#this all said I’m incredibly proud and I’m not trying to insinuate there’s anything catastrophic going on bc there absolutely isnt#I am not in any way worried. I’ve seen tragedies about to happen and these guys show none of the signs. but I do relate to a lot of tidbits#pertaining to. certain chronic mental illnesses and/or being neurodivergent in an unaccommodating world (don’t ask which)#things I would anticipate would be a lot harder when there’s hordes of often fickle occasionally predatory fans to contend with#sometimes I just think of this idk#celebrities are people#5 seconds of summer#5sos#5sos fandom#cw mental health things
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remembering on my circa 2017 booklr I used to tell people to read Gemma Doyle by describing it as trc but with an all girls boarding school / all girl group in a historical setting… I was trying to do the lord’s work she deserved tumblr fame
#I do think that was an oversimplification of both but. Not totally off base there are some similar char tropes used I’m proud of past me for#the attempt. Also I think I’m going to start advocating for Diviners in that way now that trc fandom is apparently quite miserable post GW#you like gay people doing dream magic? you like witchcraft and ghosts and strong ensemble casts?#you like an ambitious abuse survivor getting a healing arc with learning to control magic/psychic abilities as a metaphor? you like four#book series where the first three books rock and the last book which is named king + corvid is a bit underwhelm who said that?#a positive point in diviners favor is Ling x Wei Mei >>>> RonanKavinsky. Generally find the take on dream magic in diviners more compelling#(although LingHenry + RonanHennessy both being mlm wlw duos who are the dreamers is kinda fun)#anyway. This is not actually a fair comparison because Ling is my fav or at least top two w Theta of the leads and I love Ronan but he is m#least favorite of the trc leads of which there are four all of whom I love so it says nothing bad about him. But it does put me as an#outlier re: fandom priorities..#on the flip side while I love diviners dynamics sadly I don’t think they ever come anywhere close to Gangsey levels of extreme codependency#so I can not care quite as much….#from what I remember the girls in Gemma Doyle are a lot more codependent good for them. Would have to reread to compare codependency levels#Ling and Theta are both my favorite in diviners in the same way Blue and Adam are my favorite in trc and Abed and Annie are both my fav for#community. basically one char who I love and overidentify with (Ling/Blue/Abed) and one char I love who in many ways I’m not like#but in a handful of very niche specific ways I also relate quite a bit. And am fascinated with (Theta/Adam/Annie)#s speaks#very off topic from my initial point which was you should read Libba Bray’s books#and in both cases I have a second and a half tier fav (Evie/Gansey/Britta) who I love fictionally but if I was trapped in a room w them I’d#kill myself. with the white blonde women I’d also want to make out w them debatable if that makes it better or worse#but like. I could not stand listening to them speak for that long I know this#Gansey might just die a third time by my hands…
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leave the girl alone
#chappell roan#i’m not her biggest fan by any means#but she’s been ‘famous’ for less than a year#she’s literally a singer#she’s not a politician or a lawyer#she doesn’t have a poli sci degree#she’s not involved in civic relations#she literally puts on drag and sings. that’s her job#she didn’t tell people not to vote#she just said that she’s not endorsing either side#and that’s her right#WHY does every celebrity HAVE to be a beacon for political partisanship or declare their affiliation??#if you can’t tell by the EVERYTHING about her public persona and everything she says she stands for: she’s clearly a progressive#she’s explicitly been a proud representative for lgbtqia people#she’s also openly talked about suffering from bipolar disorder#if she was any other rando 25 year old with a tiktok following who was like#‘idk yall fuck the right obviously but the left hasn’t been too peachy either. its just not my place to lead here’#no one would give two shits#and bill maher would have done TWO??? segments on it#if you NEED a celebrity endorsement there are plenty of those#they’re all for kamala it’s obvious#but let’s not bully this girl anymore jesus fucking H#she didn’t say they’re the same. she said that neither side is above criticism#personal thoughts#rant#also she literally said she’s voting for kamala so everyone get off her dick
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i’m going to be so honestly here i just took a real shower for the first time in an embarrassing amount of days and i kinda feel like some of the depression washed off in there cjskfjskfjak LOL i can’t believe it actually made me feel a little bit better
if any friends are out there struggling and can’t get yourself to do the basic self care things, that’s totally ok. you can take baby steps, if that means just putting soap and water on a wash cloth and basically just washing off at the sink that’s enough.
i washed my hair in the kitchen sink yesterday so if i was able to shower today it could take even less time. now im not stinky and it’s no longer looming over my head for at least a day or two if im lucky. my work day has been going painfully slow so far so i stepped away to shower and right now i’m glad i did that.
i still have to take my meds and eat something for day so reminder to you all if you need it! take your meds, drink some water, have a snack, and be kind to yourself, and happy simming if that’s your coping mechanism like me lol 💚
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