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As a gay Mike truther, this is my favorite bi-Mike evidence
#byler#don't like piling on the discourse#but again#as much as i am a gay mike truther#bi mike is something very special to me#one way ->#'it doesn't have to be one-way.'#oh... so what you're saying is mike's probably been trying to convince himself he can't be gay bc he's attracted to women too...?#but mike..#did you know you can like both?#that it doesn't have to be one way...?#mike in the shot alone right in front of jonathan as he says this#then panning over to reveal will and el paralleling each other#it's whatever#technically me saying i'm a gay mike truther bc the evidence supports it could be seen as invalidating to bi-mike truthers and vise-versa#but healthy discourse needs to be encouraged#just because you don't like someone's interpretation/it goes against yours that doesn't make it inherently homophobic/biphobic#it means you're feeling challenged and that's okay!#bask in it and move on#and if ppl are harassing you#just know they probably have a humiliation kink and you're just feeding it by giving them attention#it's likely they don't care that they've hurt your feelings and nothing is going to change that#not worth the energy
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maybe if these people spend a lick of their time creating for the media they love instead of harassing other people with what they enjoy, they'll be less miserable.
if you're wondering why there's less fan content here over the years.... it's this. this is why.
#and these ppl will finally understand how tiring it can sometimes get when you create things FOR FREE lol#seeing the ppl i follow get harassed for things they like and do is so sad ughhhhhhhhhhhh sending them all big hugs#its also why i have inboxes closed lol#also theres less interactions now which some creators really appreciate having before now theres 0 interactions in fandom#i personally dont rlly care and just post gifs because i want to but many ppl love having interactions and tunglr being more instagram-like#is also not really helping with how fandom is supposed to be which is a community#and its also why discord is now super popular as a fandom space#i dont blame em ngl bc i prefer discord too since servers can be moderated and looked after when something hella toxic is happening#personal tag
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Little rant and probably a controversial opinion, please don't burn me at the stake for that If i asked you to guess how many dazai anon accounts have i blocked here till now, what number would u think of? Bc i just checked - i currently have 9 of their accounts blocked. 2 from this week alone. And it's not like i go around hunting for them. I just randomly open tumblr to check what silly things did ppl say about my art, and then i see 50 different reblogs, comments or asks from dazai anon alone, being no longer only mean to Chuuya or skk, but bashing my art or telling me to off myself!!! Yay!! And u know, it wasn't a problem in the beginning. The stuff they write is comedic with how stupid it is. I could also interact with em smh (ngl, they left me for a good while after i drew them and chuuya making out that one time). And as i said, before they didn't attack me personally. But then i started getting comments that i shouldn't interact with dazai anon bc something something they're mentally unstable? Like im sorry, but how is this my problem. They come to me and regularly tell me to hurt myself, but i can't even reply to them bc "sab, it's no use, they're sick smth smth smth, just block them"?? Like bruh aight, it's just that sitting silently actually starts to affect me. Bc no matter how many accounts i block, they come back with a new one the moment they realize they're blocked. And the whole carousel of "block, dont interact" starts again. I just think it's not really alright to tell ppl that they can't in any way stand up for themselves? Why do i have to care about personal wellbeing or a sad backstory of someone who doesn't respect mine? Why should i even know about their problems? They're a complete stranger to me and i don't really go around reading random people's biographies on the internet. Like aughhh it's seriously starting to annoy me now,,,, i'm not saying ppl ACCEPT what dazai anon does, but using the excuse that they're not okay mentally just doesn't sit right with me, idk. Mental health problems should never be an excuse for hurting others, imo.
#sab yapping#this became longer than i intended#idk what im even talking about bc it's not like it's gonna change anything#ppl tell u that someone who harasses u is just mentally unstable so it's alright for em to just go around saying all that stuff#you as an artist shouldn't rile them up yada yada it's gonna help#spoiler: it doesn't bc yall just dont see the mess that r my notifs when they make a new acc each week#and like im currently on hiatus for a lot of reasons#mental health being one of em#i have my problems too but i dont go around being mean to ppl bc i disagree with em about some fictional characters oh god#sorry for the rant but im angy
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quick heads up to the antis that jjk ended and now the year is 2024 and fushiguro megumi is 22 if that’s going to help you sleep at night and hold your horses since you don’t get the concept of aging up characters
#— ai rambles#i am tired of those ppl they don’t deserve a platform srsly gtfo go chill in your corner why harass ppl over fiction#you clearly do not get it
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"transandrophobia"
> meaningless. It's posing as a sister-opression to transmisogyny; transmisogyny itself is an intersection of two oppressed conditions, implying the same for the other. However, misogyny is real, "androphobia" is not. The word you're looking for is transphobia
#transandrophobia#transmisogyny#transphobia#if my tone wasnt clear enough; transandrophobia is an sham built out of insecurity and implicit bias#i get the feeling a lot of you are uncomfortable with the idea that transwomen are in fact opressed in nuanced ways you could not experience#and that they're at a significant disadvantage to you. this is ofc exemplified in the ways you keep harassing the ones who arent palatable#to your taste and branding them with whatever wide brush that could absolve you of your wrongdoing: white/abled/freak/predator/etc#shockingly! these are the very same tactics employed by every other trans issue grifter to vilinise tma ppl#im not saying this is you. im saying you should consider why youre standing next to those ppl and if you wanna keep doing that
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so there’s this tiktok/instagram creator that goes by username azlan.t.bird (you may recognize her from the viral “we do not need more nice white women” video lol). she identifies as nonbinary and is on testosterone. she is currently having a very public major mental breakdown. I only know this because I saw people mockingly posting a video of her having a meltdown after being told she had to leave a hotel she was living at (she is currently homeless) because she apparently asked the workers to wear N95 masks.
But I don’t think any of this is funny now. This is someone who, by her own admission, has been diagnosed with autism and ADHD, as well as physical illnesses, which can make it difficult to hold down a job. As annoying as her content is I don’t think anyone deserves to be homeless, especially not a severely mentally unwell woman, and I would encourage everyone to be compassionate and not take part in mocking her during this time.
#like yeah it’s kind of dumb to expect ppl to wear n95 masks in the year of our lord 2024#but I don’t think it’s something you should be kicked out of a living space for unless you’re harassing them about it#idk maybe there’s more to the story but either way#she is homeless and severely mentally unwell#it’s really not funny especially given how many there are like her#radblr
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there it is
#whatever happened to fandom in these past 15 years#and you'd think this only accounts for so-called 'problematic' ships but no#(oftentimes very young) people will be like 'BUT THEY NEVER INTERACTED???? 💀💀💀'#or 'BRO THEY'RE NOT GAY IT'S NEVER GONNA BE CANON💀💀💀'#'UHMMM THEY'RE BEST FRIENDS/ SIBLING CODED 💀💀💀'#child i don't care#idk why so many ppl nowadays are OBSESSED with their ship having to become canon or otherwise it's not a valid ship#up to the point where they end up harassing not only other fans who don't ship it but even cast and crew of their media#like...this goes against the very essence of fandom#we're here to have fun and think up our little stories and write them and draw them#do i seriously expect deadpool and wolverine to ever make out on the big screen?#fuck no i don't and no one should because it's fucking disney#but in my head and here on tumblr dot com they are dating#married even#that's all i need#THAT WAS ALWAYS ENOUGH#why do you need it to happen fr to feel validated or even rewarded#why do you care if i ship something else than you do#why are you pitting ships against each other and make this a competition#why do you need your ship to 'win'#i'm sorry but that's really weird behavior#(and no this rant isn't actually about the poolverine fandom but i've seen this happen in other fandoms)#idek what the hell to tag this as#fandom things#shipping discourse#don't come at me tho i'm old
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well. work with your communities, keep donating to palestine and others in need, protest, don't blame minorities for this. n don't just give up; people around you have been fighting this whole time. falling to doom won't help
#this is what i predicted so i honestly woke up feeling nothing#the country has been moving further right. rich ppl are dumping money for trump. harris ran a shit campaign#put it all together n there you go. but ofc we're gonna see ppl lash out on nonvoters 3rd-party voters n minorities ect instead.#already seeing ppl i follow getting flooded w harassment#text post
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#{Listen I don't care if people thirst over my muse. I'm actually real chill about it and even joke about it myself}#{I know D is extremely handsome. }#{Listen anon if you wanna get mad at anyone waxing poetic about D's beauty then blame his own creator Hideyuki for doing that#{Each novel about D has Hideyuki pointing out how physically perfect he is. Its just canon lore at this point}#{stop harassing the ppl who interact with me its annoying and creepy.}
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I think we need to appreciate so called "cringe" fans of things more, they insulate fandom spaces and are often just the ones having fun. Fandom spaces being seen as "cringe" keeps out a lot of bad elements, they are important protectors of the ecosystem.
#you don't have to like them#but cringe is honestly a good thing in fandom imo#like where can I be cringe if not in my silly fandom space?#like I want everyone to look at tumblr and think “omg so cringe never go there” so they leave us alone to have fun in peace#twitter is a good example of what happens when for want of a better word “non fandom ppl” find some fan just making silly memes and posts-#their thing and DRAG them for it and it just leads to harassment#idk I guess it's that whole “keep portland weird” philosophy#you don't have to like the so called cringe fan#but they are doing you a favor trust me#sorry just another day on f1 twt full of a lot of annoying anti lestappies and rpf ppl#I rpf on principal being that it keeps out the casuals the f1 bros and the people who are no fun#it's a good barrier#if you can rpf you are fun probably
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i don’t think people understand just how broadly harmful puritanical thinking is. every group i’ve ever been involved with that has been anti-kink and anti-fiction has also flat out rejected harm reduction education - including harm reduction for legal substances, like recognizing the signs of alcohol poisoning.
this kind of moralizing, self-aggrandizing mentality doesn’t help anyone. you are not the kind, compassionate person you want other people to think you are.
#pro fiction#proship#anti harassment#profic#pro ship#🖋️#like i genuinely think these ppl are so insufferable that no one ever wanted to invite them to social events#and now their jealousy has morphed into an inextricable part of their personality#like hate to break it to your weird troy bolton dichotomy brain but you can be a nerd AND go to parties
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In looking for fia/Rogier stuff, i can find posts of people criticizing and accusing d/Rogier shippers of clearly hating women, yet I can find no posts containing actual fia/Rogier content that is not my own. 🤔🤔🤔
#what happened to making the content you wanna see#instead of bashing ppl who make pairings you dont like?#its exhausting how much ppl will make accusations about others' character when what they mean is#“no one is making the thing i wanna see and instead of rolling up my sleeves and changing that im gonna accuse ppl of bigotry#to guilt and harass others into doing it for me :)“#i just want sad toxic depressed people fucking and i want fia to make that bitch cry#hmmm new years resolution it is ~
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I think the fandom should just chill for one fucking second
I’ve been sent three separate death threats all calling me a pedophile for drawing ship art of
EricMichael
OgEliasMichael
And GerryMichael
I can’t fucking do this anymore
What do people want from me, who am I supposed to ship my blorbo with if apparently all of the ships are pedophilloic???
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.....what on gods green earth. Christ ppl need to chill wth. Ok @ the fandom
HARASSING SOMEONE OVER A GODDAMN SHIP WHERE NOBODY HAS A CANON AGE AND THE TIMELINE IS ALL OVER THE PLACE IS NOT THE WAY TO GO AND YOU ARE THE PROBLEM
You are not helping anything youre just being a massive dick and I hope you trip over a rock. Your welcome
#also how the hell are you pedophillic for shipping and depicting ADULTS#'ohhh but the age gap' you do realize pedophillia is a mental illness characterized by an attraction to children?#you know. children. not FULLY GROWN ADULTS. even if there is an age gap THEY ARE STILL ADULTS#shut up and go talk to ppl outside of the internet if youre getting pissy over a ship you dont like and harassing ppl for it#magpod#tma#the magnus archives#magpod confession#🗣
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I understand how uncomfortable part of the fandom feels with the new trailer. It’s the same feeling I get when I see domestic life w kids posts.
#omi.rambles#but yk what I don’t do? I don’t go harassing other people#even when those posts aren’t tagged appropriately#yes appropriately#anything can trigger anyone#but also ppl that have triggers should recognize them and avoid#I just scroll pass and continue with my life#do breathing exercises if I read something that upsets me. control my own mind.#or saw something+#I don’t even bother sending asks with *could you tag X or Y?*#BECAUSE ITS NOT SOMETHING THATS REQUIRED OR OBLIGATORY#tw rant#that’s being emotionally responsible.#also part of having triggers is being aware of them and being prepared. bc a triggered person is somehow dangerous in itself.#like that’s basic therapy stuff (me thinks).#you know. you prepare. you learn to live like this.#I am actively living with triggers. I can’t ask the bus driver to hold a sign with their trigger warnings
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one thing about me is you literally cannot make me second guess myself. i know who i am and you behind an anonymous mask will never make me feel bad about anything i’m doing. i’m a literal princess, you cannot get to me. what’s for me is for me and what isn’t simply won’t cross my mind. while you’re on my blog looking like the angry meme i’m out in real life pushing my dreams and making money. thank you 💕

#my thoughts#and that’s exactly what i turned it off#you guy’s see ppl doing what them happy and get mad#if you have something to say to me you can say it with your full chest#the same way i live my life. i don’t do anything anonymously#especially harass creators online
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