#and for my bf and i to be husband and wife
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It's crazy to me that I'll be spending two years away at grad school and that should hopefully be the end of the grind.
I just want to attend to my future family and play my viola.
And I look forward to being wed in either late 2025 or spring 2026.
#i juet want to be done#itll be a wonderful experience and ill be so much better at viola#i might even get on a track to teaching at a university#but i very very much want to be a sahm#and if income allows i could be a house wife with my orchestral gigs and my violin/viola studio#but we'll see#id be so happy at a farm#tradlife#tradwife#tradblr#im a little frustrated with the timing but god has a plan and i need to trust in Him#i just need to finish grad school and ill be fine#its only two years#i can make it#this is probably pre-cycle talking but i so badly want children of my own#and for my bf and i to be husband and wife#but we have to wait
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favourite stupid relationship dynamic: idiots who would immediately protect and defend the other but never themself
#still thinking about how lxl just takes whatever life throws at them without fighting back (esp in the lxl movie)#so it was up to the other (mainly yujiro) to do the protecting (of aizo) since he was clearly not going to do anything about it#poor yujiro never fought back against the longleg/shortleg until aizo was brought up… no sense of self-preservation with that one#‘you can mess with me but not my bf!!!!!’ kind of energy#ig aizo did kind of defend yujiro in the [redacted] anime ep 4 nonsense and pointless scandal scene but that’s about it…#give aizo more chances to play the hero for his cute bf!!!!! the princess carry wasn’t enough!!!!#though. ngl it’s kinda funny how aizo’s always portrayed as the husband and yujiro the wife in their r/s (see: meoto)#but yujiro is always the one fighting for aizo’s honour. l&k novel (i think; still havent read it). lxl movie. chizu hallway scene (kind of)#and even in honeypre he got aizo the werewolf costume (instead of the pumpkin). he was the one who gave aizo a gift on white day (like a bf)#he even turned aizo into a worried wife when he (the bumbling husband) wandered out till late in kyoto to look for a *phone strap*#hm. well. im not sure what the point im trying to make is other than the fact that lxl are idiots for each other ig#they may be really really stupid but they love(?) and support each other (in a sense)… two menaces in a pod.#they should just get married (again)#though speaking of lxl marriage remember when that music magazine spread misinfo about how meoto was set in the sengoku era#and everyone believed it? the mv sure shocked everyone in more ways than one lmaooooooo#lxl twt was on fire that day. ‘horns??? a fantasy setting????? what happened to the sengoku era?????’ it was so funny you h a d to be there#but. hm. we’ve had quite a lxl content drought… disregarding the [redacted] mv they havent been seen in 4 months#throwing out a guess that they’ll get a new song for a winter comiket cd or sth. idk#sure hope that lxl do not get a new song or mv before kimikawaii release though bc that��d be unfairrrrrrrrr
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I went down a rabbit hole last night looking at now (its just the gas) scenes and orin is so fucking gay for seymour in most scenes hes always touching him. Like in one of my fav productions i literally just noticed he grabs seymours ass??? Like oh my god??? Im clutching my pearls rn
#suggestive text#i feel like im losing my mind#i guess its just gay = funny#i kept gasping watching each video i felt like rhat wife wwtching her husband and his bf kiss from brokeback mountain
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my durge Severin and her evil boyfriends
#who are your bf/gf/so/wife/husband/partner#my oc severin#oc severin#durgetash#enver gortash#my doodle#my art#my durge#durge#I made astarion look pretty but gortash looks like a hobo#more like evil ex boyfriend and husband
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I’ve had a delightful Undertale-filled and Tempus-focused weekend at my friend’s and also I might have gotten married?
#NOT IN REAL LIFE#i mean. seeker and tempus.#nothing actually happened not even in the made up scenarios in my head I just. started using husband and wife instead of bf and gf#so I guess that?? happened????#seeker talks#tempus#doodle seeker#the character anyway#man i really need to either name her or just cut the crap and make her actually me
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it's just that sometimes you're so... impossibly happy and full of so much incredible joy that you gotta post about it on the internet otherwise you may get on the roof with a bullhorn yknow.
#gav gab#FEELING VERY GOOD ABOUT MANY THINGS RN.......#I LOVE MY WIFE. MY WIFE LOVES ME. WE KNOW EXACTLY WHAT THAT MEANS AND IT BELONGS TO US.#other option is like... dropping the lonely island 'i just had sex' song into my friends' dms lsdkjfs#and they don't need me to be doing that LMAOOOO#it's not just the sex itself that's not even really the point#(though it's. very very good. and i have now learned some ALARMING stats about straight women in relationships)#(ladies if your husband/bf/partner won't take direction that is a failure on his part frankly)#it's like... idk#intimacy. trust. fun. security. safety. etc. all these things i already had with this wonderful person in my life#and being able to decide together what we want to do and what we want it to mean#building something that's just ours. a life a home a relationship etc.#for all that there's no like. blueprint for marrying someone In A Friend Way#and that can be anxiety inducing#(i felt like my heart was gonna pound out of my chest the first time i brought up maybe kissing my fiancee lskdjfs)#it also means we get to make all the rules#we get to make all of our decisions together in whatever way we want to make them and it means what we want it to#and i think that's one of the really wonderful things about like. qprs and committed platonic relationships etc#and it's something romantic relationships could benefit from too tbh#sex ment in tags
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can we please stop normalizing being so freaking delusional??? Its honestly harmful in the long run and actually super embarrassing
#i dont even mean going like “*name* is my bf/gf/wife/husband” i dont care#but stop adding the NASTIEST caption i have ever friggin seen to an artist's selfie because its so gross and embarrassing#im not gonna mess with fanfiction because sometimes it harmless but yall need to chill#i understand saying that someone raised your standards because theyre really sweet/respectful/funny etc#but ultimately you will die alone (harsh) because you keep up with these awful fantasies and you wont let go#some of yall need a reality check asap smh#text#kpop#skz#stray kids#enhypen#twice#txt#bts#itzy
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Shadow Company sanctioned lacrosse game
#call of duty#modern warfare#blender renders#call of duty modern warfare#phillip graves#philip graves#shadow company#thanks to mikk for suggesting lacrosse#its now burned into my canon#some companies do ultimate frisbee or whatever#nah not shadow#this was supposed to be a quickie render but well#hes my wife what can i say#jackies bf/husband but hes MY wife#its simple#i could be idealist amd say he was captain#but nah he was probably just on offense#(knows nothing about lacrosse apart from whats in teen wolf)#hes too high and mighty for (american) football
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[Y'all reallyyyy doubt my abilities to have long term relationships huh??]
#got not one not two but three dms from friends basically saying “you have a wIFE??” and im losing my shit cackling#yes actually i do#i have two!!!#and i got them the proper way#homewrecking baby#<- encouraged them to and helped them divorce their husbands#i also got a lovely spouse that is not married so i got to skip steps this time :>#vorpy if you see this your bf is safe#for now#/j#promise :'>#modposts
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@br1ghtestlight mentioning Cheaty Cheaty Bang Bang made me remember this moment, which is probably my favorite moment in the episode. Bob’s panic is just too hilarious and relatable 🤣
I was actually laughing while screen-recording this because it’s just too good. I’ll never get over the “My butt” ☠️
With this scene as evidence, you cannot look me in the eye and tell me that Bob isn’t Autistic. He’s so bad at communication, bless him 😭
I’ll always be grateful to Light for bringing this theory/headcanon to my attention because it’s so glorious and real.
#bob belcher#just him freaking out over the ONE capitalization and then proceeding to make the situation worse is so neurodivergent#and linda telling him to stop calling and texting people is also hilarious#just an adhd wife trying to rein in her autistic husband❣️#also it’s absolutely adorable how linda is casually making hot chocolate for the kids. she’s mom of the year i swear#the autistic bob headcanon is so important to me now. i’m pretty sure i might be neurodivergent in some way but not sure now specifically#and my sister and bf 1000% have adhd so we just vibe in each other’s weirdness and it’s beautiful
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Hello, people of Tumblr, I have come to ask of your wisdom. How does one manage to keep hys Husband slash Boyfriend slash Wife slash romantic awake during the trying times of the late hours slash early mornings? I would very much appreciate any advice given, for my Husband slash Boyfriend slash Wife slash romantic has a silly, yet cumbersome habit of falling asleep when on a video call with none other than myself.
#this is satire#this is silly#this is not serious#i love him#i love my boyfriend#i love my husband#i love my wife#psys#hes so silly#hes so babygirl#hes so cute#hes so pretty#hes gay#hes gorgeous#hes handsome#hes adorable#hes a silly little guy#hes a silly guy#hes my babygirl#hes my wife#anyhow#yeah#i love my bf
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Seriously considering to print out a photo of narumi and idk maybe decorate it w little stickers to add to my wallet
#I have two genshin cards (husband and his bf) pics of akaashi and some pics of friends there…#ofc my idiot friends had to give their pics that look like they were under custody then my prev work wife’s childhood pic<33#danyl talks
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sooo since August is, like. himself now. does that mean that his wifey/gf was aware of him being gay? I think you implied that
Lol yea <3 him and Grace (that’s her name in case nobody besides me knows that lmao) were never really IN LOVE I’d say. Like they love each other, just not romantically really. They both had their reasons for getting together; they both went into their relationship thinking that this is just what they are SUPPOSED to do. August was trying to be “normal” and Grace wanted to make her own family and have a secure home and life (Grace is aromantic/asexual. Obviously she isn’t completely averse to relationships and the rest cus she got married and had a baby lmao)
They are family and they will always be family! They literally have a daughter and a dog and a house together, and it is just too much work to go about legally separating and splitting things, so they are still technically married lol. Grace is a stay at home mom/wife so them splitting would screw her over a bit </3 They are also still together under one roof for their daughter, Bailey, because they really don’t want to change her home life more than it needs to be.
He doesn’t seem like it at first glance, but August is really loving and protective of his family he made, even if it wasn’t created with the best most pure intentions. August cares about his own feelings and life a lot more now than he used to, but his wife and daughter are still his #1 priority and he’ll put them first for a lot of things
#ask#about my ocs#it’s actually really funny to take this into consideration when thinking about him getting with any of his poly bfs#Bubba especially was ‘aren’t you..married??’ and then August has a fucking heart attack as he tries to explain the situation between him and#his wife (‘NONONOO THIS ISNT AN AFFAIR OR A FLING I SWEAR WE ARENT TOGETHER LIKE WE’RE TECHNICALLY *TOGETHER* BUT WE ARENT IN LOVE I GUESS#OK I PROMISE YOU CAN STILL SAY NO I JUST NEED YOU TO KNOW IM NOT A LYING CHEATING HUSBAND SCUMBAG’)#it took August a decently long time to not feel so weird about him and his wife’s situation lmao like they’ve been living a stereotypically#normal husband / wife life until he just couldn’t really handle the facade anymore </3
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#a friend announced they are pre-engaged#which#as someone who has been pre-engaged i simply cannot recommend#but also if you're so pumped as to tell the whole musical cast you're probably in a good spot with it where i really wasn't#but anyway this came right on the heels of me reflecting on that relationship#and i was like#i would not have immediately pegged those two as dating i don't pick up Chemistry#but i can see a deep deep care between them#and i thought to myself that feels like a permanent relationship#so to hear news of pre-engagement i was like haha another validation in my prophesy pocket#and i told my bf#and it made him a little sad bc i can confidently say other people have permanent vibes#but i cannot confidently say that about us#and it's fuckin true but it's a bummer#and like suicidal ideation that makes planning difficult aside#i realized this evening#i don't think i have ever seen a long-term relationship that i would like to emulate#at least nothing close up#so many patterns in the western het world that i sincerely do not want any part of#and it's not any blatant lack of trust it's just that we're normal enough people#it would be easy enough to fall into those inequitable patterns#go read that essay 'i want a wife' you know we all know#and this is dangerous to say on the tumblr dot com#but it's one of the reasons i have felt so connected to queerness as i grow up#never has the husband-wife dynamic held any appeal whatsoever#and it's so scary to be told and told thru church and media#here's the pattern here's the aspiration you want this right? good cool cool good
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drunk again, thinking abt how love is undying
#had a rly good chat w my grandma yesterday at the cafe she took me to#abt her late husband#she accepts my spirituality is wiccan but i ovc dont dissuade her from talking abt christianity#the way she describes heaven as not a place but a feeling#one where ur known#no words spoken#she spoke w a man who lost his wife but the love never died with her#god...........#love isnt physical it IS a feeling#love and heaven are two in the same and thats so beutiful to me#how ppl expect u to get over grief like its the flu#how the grief is just as permanent as the love#life just grows around both#so beautiful#i hope i can put that love into nearly as lovely words some day#u can see love in the eyes.... oh how she could see it in his eyes#i hope my bf can see the love in mine
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hi venus darling, i just want to thank you for all the work you do 💕💗 i really love your writing and you’re the only person i’ve found who portrays childe as sick and pervy and disgusting as i imagine him 💓 this world needs more childe noncon,,,,,, tysm i love ur writing 🫶 have a good day darling
WAHHHH YOURE SO SWEET 。゚(゚´Д`゚)゚。 thank u SO MUCH LOVELY!! it rlly makes my day, week, and month to hear things like this i’m kissing u on the cheek and nose!!
i think weird taru is a severely underrated taru!! i’m always very happy to read other ppls interpretations of him but… i suppose i read into his character i bit differently ^^; not a bad thing ofc!! but i try and build a lot of different characteristics into him. i’ve come to have a particular fondness of the CN version itself. i like the way he sounds most in JP (his lil giggles make my heart BURST) but i’d recommend anyone take a peek at the more direct translations of his lines!! genshin, being a Chinese game from a Chinese company, does all of its work in Chinese and then has translations done for all of the lines and reading materials. BUT!! said translations are often made with their own ‘flair’ to appeal slightly further to the intended audience (referring to western here) which sacrifices some of the nuance involved in how the character is portrayed. for taru, the english translation loses a lot of the complexities of his personality that you learn from the way he speaks. you don’t get to see just how strange he is with how ‘easy going’ (?) his speech is in EN. anyways… he’s always a touch ooc with the way i write, as is the nature of aus, so by no means am i the Perfect Taru Stan but i’m absolutely the no. 1 Taru Stan!! no one cares abt him the way i do <33
(ps. i could go on for HOURS abt his character and how his speech effects it but i’ll save that in my mind so i don’t overwhelm everyone…)
#i’m very passionate#whispering to myself#no one wants the taru think piece i can give…#i’ve whittled him down to the BONE#that’s my fucking boy#my bf#my wife#my husband#my gf#chit chats
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