#and dating in the city is hard

[kiwidotcom]

Oh my god. Ok trauma dumping sorry

My ex kinda did this, but in his own way, I just saw a snap memory of him just putting his whole hand over my face and keep putting it back there when I'd move and oh my god how the fuck was that relationship so comfortable and why is dating so fucking hard pls just throw me off the pier

i hope u find someone that mindlessly plays with your hands and lightly strokes your legs and massages your back and plays with your hair and i hope that u feel like you’re home when u look at them

[potofsoup]

Guess who's excited to get their ballot in the mail tomorrow? Me! So I slapped together a quick comic, as well as a map based off of this and this. A list of when same day registration is available is at the bottom of this article.

But also: wow, early voting stuff is so confusing! For example, I get my ballot in the mail tomorrow, and I can immediately mail it back. But if I want to drop it off in person, I need to either go to a special ballot drop box by city hall, or wait for early in-person voting sites to open, which isn't until Oct 22nd for my state.

Or like, early voting in Louisiana is apparently from Oct 16 to Oct 29th? And then there's a week of no voting, and then polls open again on Nov 5th? Or like how the only day you can register and then immediately vote is Oct 26th?

Anyway, best way to figure out the info for your area is to check your state and county's election website. I've found usvotefoundation.org to have clear fact sheets for each state (including ID requirements, polling location finders, as well as direct links to state election websites): https://www.usvotefoundation.org/state-voter-information . You can also jump to each state's election websites via usa.gov, or by searching directly, though some websites are more confusing than others.

Happy voting!

Oh, and here's the voter registration deadlines map from last time, in case you haven't registered and want to register. Oct 7th is the last day for a bunch of states!

[tigergender]

I'm so peeved that literally every aspect of the Gerudo in BOTW/TOTK serves to make me mad bc I love the Gerudo desert and I think that some of the most interesting NPCs to speak to are Gerudo.........alas

[july-19th-club]

i love it when gay people are hicks . life mission of mine is to rep for the gay people who are not from cities and dont dress like it or talk like it and who don't plan to leave wherever small place they're from to be in a city, however easier it would be . i think even we think of our community as being city-based, and those of us out on the fringes get sort of forgotten unless we relocate, but we're out here! surrounded by corn tassels! looking for morels! a good 50% of us ecology people! dropping our consonants and wearing our barn boots and never seeing a gay bar ever come to our town but staying for the forest or the prairie or the desert anyway! yeehaw i love gay people

[buildarocketboys]

Messaged my spontaneous/flaky/last minute friend to be like. Can we PLEASE arrange to meet up a few days advance to do something I know I can definitely do (that preferably doesn't involve a bunch of other people I don't know) because I CANNOT DO spontaneous meeting up and I feel bad every time she suggests meeting up, like, TOMORROW, with no details like time or place, and I have to be like "No." even if I'm technically free

[despairforme]

He's swiping right on literally everyone now. Fuck it. He's gonna find a date.

[michameinmicha]

I want a dating app thats actually just tumblr except like with a geographic filter so i can meet people who live closer to me, but other than that its just blogging about gay shit until you fall in love with your mutuals and then you can actually hang out irl cause you live in the same country! Wouldnt that be nice!!

[poughkeepsies]

I was talking to my brother about how much harder it is to find dating options as a lesbian and he said "no, your gaydar just isn't good enough" so I replied "what, like yours is 🤨" and he goes "yeah, how'd you think I found Faith?" Faith. his bisexual fiancee. I can't believe I got got so badly by a hetero.

[dragons-and-yellow-roses]

The amount of talking and negotiating I'm doing with this landlord is giving Andrew Garfield as Jonathan Larson talking to the electric company. Y'know?

[beckiboos]

Le carnivale de merde

Best views in Night City

[loumauve]

the goddamn toast water post just made me utter "history is fucking real" in the most solemn and serious tone of voice, out loud, to myself, in the goddamn bathtub

[tirednotflirting]

no but like i’m going to lose it if i see one more twitter girlie complaining that ‘5sos5 isn’t getting a longer tour’

like firstly, asking your favorite band to do a tour the size of tmh tour every year is a little silly. like it made sense last year. they hadn’t toured since 2019, they had basically two new albums to promote, and the majority of the dates were rescheduled from an existing summer tour. like it made a lot of sense.

but the primary complaint i keep seeing (aside from them not playing another extensively long tour) is that this is somehow a ‘diss’ on 5sos5? when the tour last year? was literally. in part. a 5sos5 tour? it was renamed after a single from the new album to better reflect that? they played 5 songs (i think 6 at the aus dates) from the new album which when you consider the full songs they played on that setlist (that was also quite long!!!) that’s like almost a quarter of the set. i just do not understand where this complaint is coming from. it’s not unheard of to do touring for an album before it’s official release.

ok i’m done. also know i’m preaching to the choir here but i stg it’s a new tour! it’s a new live album! be excited damn it!!!

[arttsuka]

:(

[rurpleplayssims]

[iniziare]

Tag drop: Guizhong (don't mind me re-dropping this with the fixed ones, shh)

[todayisafridaynight]

if mine does actually come back i’ll unironically be really really pissed it wasn’t shinada both of them don’t need to but like first of all imagine the redditors second shinada.

i love myself enough to never consider redditors so i will simply Not Do That <3