#and are just being straight up rude
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I feel like between just like existing in the US rn and spending any time online has just caused me to feel angry so often that it has literally become exhausting. Like my nerves are fried to the point that makes me so tired
#personal#this is from all of the shitty political ads rn#that are literally just lies like flat out#that are airing in my state#this is also bc I have seen some people on here#who just like do not know how the internet works#and are just being straight up rude#I saw someone’s bio that was like don’t bother following if you’re not going to reblog anything#your corner of the internet like do whatever you want friend#but like I immediately blocked them bc i literally never want to see anything from them ever again#I genuinely don’t care what they may be posting or reblogging#bc it immediately made me so angry#I honestly can’t even tell you why it did specifically#I’ve been blocking people left and right#I now have a zero tolerance anymore#I’ve been avoiding using tumblr and like other stuff for that reason
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class swap design masterpost for convenience (from top to bottom: bard!riz, cleric!gorgug, sorcerer!kristen, barbarian!fig, artificer!adaine, and rogue!fabian)
#dimension 20#fantasy high#fhfy#fhsy#fhjy#riz gukgak#gorgug thistlespring#kristen applebees#figueroth faeth#adaine abernant#fabian seacaster#my class swap stuff! oh yeah I think I got a tag for that I'll call that#fh class quangle#gna slowly go back and get that tag on relevant posts too. for organization's sake#even tho I didnt really intend this blog to be that kinda blog lmao. we were all just gonna be out here dealin with that at our own pace#anyways uh! they! u know all the lore for the designs already I put em in tags. but otherwise this also collects like the#color keys kind of for these. mostly the things that change between designs#doing this did make me realise half of these are a Lot more consistent in color keys than the other half lol#like kristen's palette stays pretty much the same. and fabian's. the hit's mostly in the construction#a lot of this is overall like an exercise in remembering what high schoolers would actually wear and how to work in Costume pieces#on this point at least I straight up have No relevant recollection lmao all the basic education establishments I went to have uniforms#and outside of school I was. well kind of a shorts and tee guy. so#on that topic I feel like fabian's is the furthest stretch lmao. like if a guy in high school wears the same bright yellow raincoat#to school every day that's like. people would Not like that guy. fabian really is saved by being cute and a rogue#he will still have stans when he's deep in his fishing arc in junior year he's the manic pixie dream bf#anyways uh. things to do! stuff to get done. sleep first tho. have a good night lads#I have not caught new nsbu yet! seems I mostly catch them like two to three days late nowadays.#so please uhh. don't reply on my posts with nsbu spoilers? we are all excited and having fun but that's rude#ok thank u. signing off for the day have a good night#!!
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Strong teasing/gentle bullying as a method of flirtation will NEVER work on me. I like my men tender and real sweet to me 🚶🏻♀️➡️
#it actually pisses me off so freaking much lol idc if that makes me an unfunny bitch#there’s such a difference between actual innocent teasing and just straight up being mean/rude#you’re not funny I’m not laughing stop trying to disguise being mean as romantic interest#this is not elementary school grow up#diary
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the way some people straight up have no respect for asou's writing is actually kind of insane to me 😭 like youre a fan of HIS manga, but you outwardly express your disregard for the intentions he had when writing....... disregarding canon can be super duper funsies and cool sometimes, but to straight up say "i dont care what he intended and think my headcanons are more canon than what he wrote because i think he wrote it badly/he sucks at writing this dynamic/i dont like the ship (or whatever) he was trying to imply" is literally just insanely disrespectful IN MY OPINION 😖
i think maybe im just annoyed at how badly people misuse the words "canon", "coded", and "implied" (which im also guilty of occasionally- especially when i first came here) cuz like... "i choose not to acknowledge this thing that is canon or technically canon or implied" is fine (usually). "i know what the author intended but i dont like it or care, so im going to call my headcanon/ship canon and anyone who disagrees is disregarding canon and is stupid because i said so" is NOT fine... ☠️☠️☠️
#where did you guys learn fandom etiquette#OR ETIQUETTE IN GENERAL ?? CUZ WDYM 'ur bad at writing and my opinion is better than the actual source material lolZ'#not caring about canon or implied ships is fine but straight up being like#'well i like this ship better so im gonna say he just sucks at writing romance lol' is WEIRD#'he sucks at writing romance therefore my ship is more canon than the one he actually intended'#like what... ok..?#that is actually just straight up the opposite of what canon means... but ok...#critiquing his writing or expressing an opinion is very different from just disregarding and disrespecting the intentions he wrote it with#this isn't specifically about ships btw but its the best example i have of this#not targetted btw#this post is triggered by multiple things i saw on tiktok and reddit and maybe on here a while ago#dont really remember#also heres your obligatory 'u can do whatever u want but im allowed to call u out as rude if ur rude'#so nobody comes into my replies crying about how im not allowed to be annoyed at them for being annoying#do what u want it literally doesnt matter but u cant be an ass online and expect everyone else to just be silent#saiki k#tdlosk#the disastrous life of saiki k.#meows post
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CAN WE JUST NOT BE HAPPY IN RP?? I want my sillies back I don’t want everyone to be sad… :(
#mochi rambles <3#ALSO ANONS BEING RUDE DURING THE ANGST ON VERY SERIOUS TOPICS AND BEING STRAIGHT UP ASSHOLES#IM DONE WITH IT#just let’s hug and have silly times
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#so i have an appt. to the psychiatric department for personality disorders tmrw...#and like i tried sending a self referral to them last year lmao#and they only said that heyyy you're doing amazing sweetie you are high functioning 🖕🏻🖕🏻🖕🏻🖕🏻🖕🏻#then i've ben to the health care center and since they think they cant treat me bc it's too severe they've sent referrals to other places#which have all declined me... so they also sent one to the psychiatric who sent a referral to this pd department#who that time also said that they can't accept me#so the therapist at the health care center like idk exactly but she sent a report on how they didnt handl my case properly#which made them call on me for an evalutation appt.#but i have 0 hopes. i honestly think the entire psych care is fucking lame and bullshit#i highly doubt they're even equipped to treat personality disorders#& even if they are theire budgetis getting cut bc ppl love having rightists ruling the government .... which means no funds for healthcare#anyway. PLUS it's a man.... -_- which reducuses my chances of being taken seriously even more...#i also hate talking to male therapists/psychiatrists... no fucking thanks. but i have to </3#i just really dont wanna go. like im gonna have to put energy into trying to argue for my right for treatment. w ppl who should inferstand#UNDERSTAND* i hate typing on my ipad ffs. they should understand my personality disorders..#bit health care proffessionals are horrible ppl and dont give a fuck abt their patients lol. so they're only condescending and rude 🤢🤮#i hate being in these environments bc everyone treats u like shit. the receptionists are so fkn rude and almost outright mean and insulting#the doctors and therapists and psychiatrists are all bullies who look down on u and make u feel small and worthless#so im really dreading it... but im also at my wit's end. i am missing out on my entire life. im desperate for help#even if i wholeheartedly believe that these worthless wastes of space wont give me any treatment i'll still need to go and try#then ig i'll just have to keep pestering the healthcare system. i might wventually even have to start going to the psych. ER so they put#that on my records and like idk. that costs money tho. plus from everyone i've heard from...#being at a psych ER esp when your situation isnt dire is awful and hell#my cousin who had been ther after a sui attempt had said that it 'scared him straight'#and that it was so terrible that he did everything to get back home as soon as possible and do whatever to never end up there again#so yuh... i'd rather not!#i was supposed to (my own decision) to write a list with ALL my symptoms and bring and be like LOOK MONGREL!!!#but since i suffer from avpd...... i havent. i procrastinated and now it's too late whoopsie. i'll just have to wing it fuckkkk 🥴#ofc it also has to be 8.45 .. so early in the morning for me im so mad ahhhhh i dont wanna go i am throwing up and screaming#but atp i'd have to pay $35 myself for not going so that will motivate me enough to force myself to go
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i understand i used to be like that too i really do. The man should have been so much fucking nicer he really should have. Im trying to tell him next time not to do that.
But the sad thing is the rules doooo sorta say not to spam or make low effort posts. I don't want lila to get banned off the reddit if it means something to her so im sorta trying to calm the user down and trying to get lils to know like. "hey that is a rule you can get banned for and i dont want you to get banned" if that makes sense
Kjdksjfjdfb man istg/neg
#it's difficult to stay on the right sie#side#when the right side is being a fucking ass#it just annoys me#unnecessary rudeness annoys me#very deeply#/srs#if they doesn't chill out#I'll intervene I'm sorry#not fully defending lila#but straight up#idk#“how about fucking communicate properly”#or just#uninstall reddit#and kill him in my mind idk#/j
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tsar Alexander: I hate all these fake bitches with their pompous ceremonies and shameless flattery. I hate the court.
also tsar Alexander:
#sometimes I straight up don’t know if alex is a brilliant schemer or just utterly incapable of being rude to people#tsar alexander i#alexander i of russia#napoleonic wars#history#history memes#alexander romanov#didn’t use that one yet. the amount of variation on his name is annoying
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Good news everyone, Damangela doesn't deserve the hype because Smoshtwt has decreed Damien doesn't like being around people, apparently.
Jesus fucking Christ on a bicycle wheel.
The biciclye wheel continues to turn..
Twitter goes through phases of liking Damien and not liking him. The biggest thing is that they don't seem to understand his reaction to things, i.e. he's Autistic and neurotypicals don't really gel with that for some reason.
(I truly don't get what Damien has ever done wrong besides react differently than other people. It seems he fails their 'vibe check'?)
#smoshblr#im kind of pissed off with a couple people on twitter rn talking about how “Damangela doesn't deserve the hype”#most of the people that i've seen not liking damangela just straight up dont like Damien#they're also somehow thinking most of the cast dont like Damien???#I'm just chucking it up to young teens projecting their own thoughts and ideas on to the cast#Like most of the cast is in their 30'S THEY DO NOT THINK LIKE YOU#fully developed brain and all that#look I was a teenage girl once#I get it. I truly do.#but have some fucking TACT and stop being RUDE
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so tonight starts the first night of me living alone in a farmhouse for a full month. bthe closest town in 15 minutes away (and is also the town they filmed friday the 15th in) and i'm gonna have to both clean the house and take care of some animals. but! luckily my cousin only lives 15 minutes away (not in the town) so we can hang a lot and i can get her husband to teach me how to do work on cars and how to play guitar or smth :3
#im lowkey sad about leaving my brother at home esp since we're in the middle of watching a show together#but tbh he's been a straight up dick lately to me so fuck him lol#like i GET IT he wants to spend as much time as possible with his girlfriend I GET IT#but if you say we're gonna have a night to just smoke and watch as much of our show as we want#DONT COME HOME AT 11 PM AND THEN STOP AFTER 3 EPISODES JUST SO YOU CAN CALL YOUR GF AFTERWARDS#OR AT LEAST GIVE ME A HEADS UP BC I WILL UNDERSTAND!! AND DONT BE RUDE TO ME WHEN I TEXT YOU A MEME BC IM APPARENTLY INTERUPTTING TIME WITH#UR GF WHO YOUVE SEEN EVERYDAY THIS WEEK LIKE LITERALLY YOU DIDNT EVEN HAVE TO RESPOND TO ME IF IT WAS THAT MUCH OF AN ISSUE#anyways. yeah glad to get some space from him and also i'm gonna start making him pay more for his cut of weed.#also he said he didn't want to hang with me on my birthday so he's legit just being a dick#anyways#rant over#lonely farmhouse time :)
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hi there! welcome to today's daily lesson in how to use ao3! your public ao3 bookmark notes and tags are, in fact, public. and the author is capable of seeing them!
some discussion questions to consider:
is posting a literal numerical rating and judgement the most polite thing you could put into this public note that the author can see?
is it possible to, while online, perhaps keep your judgement either to yourself or to your private bookmarks?
is posting a note explaining what you didn't like about the fic something that you are required to do, or is it possible to not do that?
#ao3#ao3 stuff#internet etiquette#was gonna feel bad abt calling someone out but if you numerically rate every fic you read then you have to handle me being mad abt it <3#not gonna post the pseud but. still.#and like im not being dramatic. this guy rates every fic from 1-10 and then bookmarks with that number. almost 200 get less than 6.#anyways dude that's crazy and just straight up rude behavior !!!!#not to be mean but shut up! if you don't like the fic just click away and move on!#you don't gotta write how awful it is in the bookmark notes!
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what are they putting in all the canon queer ships in my silly little shows that makes everyone else obsessed while i am just unable to care about them on any level. especially when its a ship i should be like "omg this is such good and important representation" . love korrasami for what it did for wlw representation in kid's cartoons ! unable to stop disliking the ship on like a gut level im sorry. same goes for individual characters. like terry tdp trans king im sorry i appreciate what you're doing for explicit trans rep in kids shows i appreciate the portrayal of sensitive and kindhearted boys i also hope your evil girlfriend sacrifices you for dark magic
#korrasami caitvi chaggie huskerdust i do NOTTTT CAREEEEE#farcille too tbh i know thats fanon but its so popular i feel the need 2 mention it#YOU ALL JUST STRAIGHT UP LIED ABOUT THE YURI IN THAT SHOW ??????#i know i am being extra rude abt this i am having a bad day . no hate 2 ppl who like these ships#but i Do Not See It#maybe im just spoiled but like representation is NOTTTT enough to make me like or care abt a character/ship#on any level more than a meta appreciation#mine
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sometimes i look at the whole Thing that western gay culture got goin on and just. man. none of that's for me bro idk
#on the funnier and bitchier note its always the Top Musicians for lesbians nd queers like. oh honey that's not..... h.....#on the more isolating note. there is a weird nonexistent space between being a super mean gay and a Softe Baby Gay#(gay being an umbrella term here ofc)#and i sit in that grey (gay) area#straight up rich gays thinking it's cunty and cool to be rude to poor people or queer ppl who dont have the money to live their lifestyle#(or who dont want to live their lifestyle)#lesbians hating men. including queer men. so so much that its cruel and horrible#gay men sayimg shit like the one comment I saw that went “this was a good video until the girl came in” and it was just some random#clip of people chilling or whatever. stfu#and then on the other spectrum its like. these eternally victimised softe baby beans that are so clearly on tiktok and Tumblr too much#and think being gnc or queer has to Look or behave a certain way#i feel SICK. but maybe its not so much the queer spaces i hate. as much as americanised cultures in general#anyway flashback to when i was seeing Genuine Posts about how if you dont listen to girl in red ur Not a lesbian#or the opposite being like. if she listens to girl in red she's gay she's just in the closet#and they were dead serious abt it every time#now im seeing it about ch*pelle r*an and just. guys please shut up fr 😭😭😭
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mayyyyyybe i am like this bc no one's ever nice to me ever thought abt that huh....
#this is abt IRL interactions#like straight up ppl are never nice to me#and no it isnt bc im rude#im literally a doormat bitch and will cower and be fake nice to someone trying to stab me#ppl just see vulnrability and have to stomp on it lol#so yuh humans are literally terrible awful beings#but yeah i wouldnt be like this if ppl could just fkn be nice and treat me like a human being sometimes :p#i kno vulnerability i knooo
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#just me rambling#badvibe#god. i feel so let down by my friends these days#it's been a billion things piling up for many many weeks#and right now i just got told by a friend with whom I was supposed to go to a convention that she forgot I was coming#so she won't be able to pick me up cuz she's going with her mom instead#we made plans for visiting that city in the morning before going to the convention and all.#i put it down in my agenda and moved plans around to accomodate for it. but she straight up...#entirely forgot i was supposed to be there#she forgot about me#and i'm SO. FUCKING DONE. ABOUT BEING AN AFTERTHOUGHT ALL THE FUCKING TIME#this is just too fucking much. between this and my childhood friend who acts distant w me ever since there was a dumbass quiproquo#where i have to fucking work hard everytime at creating a good atmosphere whenever we see each other cuz she wont put in that effort#and another friend who's been utterly ignoring me on purpose for some fucking goddamn reason i don't know why or what i did#ignoring me or being rude other times#all of those are just examples but its been so many things#i have been. SO fucking patient with everyone. ive helped them so many times too- sometimes to my own loss#i've been so kind and understanding despite my personal struggles - keeping my feelings of anger and injustice at bay#and i get what in response? i'm fucking. forgotten i guess. pushed aside. treated like a nuisance#i feel like its at the point where the closer they are to me the less effort they put in. cuz i'm a given now. they can treat me like shit#they treat strangers better than their close friend cuz they know i'll just take it. or smth. i'm a punching ball for bad moods#i'm done being the understanding one. what about that. what if others were the ones having to come to me and be kind instead#what if i was the one people coddled and offered sympathy to for once in my fucking life#idk. just fucking explode#i feel so disrespected. and uncared for#and so deeply unloved#i'm done. i'm done#the convention thing was just the fucking hammer to break my back after everything#i'm so deeply heartbroken#do i matter to the people i care about
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also I got rly scared abt this last night or the night before because I suddenly realized sometimes people interpret it this way,,
so i just wanted to say that the reason i dont interact w people very much is NOT bc i think im better than ppl or anything - i am just very genuinely Petrified of messing up in social situations, to the point that I end up isolating and avoiding rather than risk making mistakes ^^;; WHICH ISN'T HEALTHY but . i havent figured out how to work through this yet dhdjdkl
BUT YEAH i just wanted to try to make sure nobody is thinking I'm some hoity-toity goober, I am literally just Extremely Terrified fjdjdkdl
#I've had nothing but good exps w ppl online for MONTHS but it hasnt seemed to improve my fear :')))#idk why im so scared honestly fhkddl i didnt use to be this ridiculously terrified ??#i could probably trace it back to a couple genuinely somewhat traumatizing bad interactions BUT CMONNN BRAIN !!!#its literally just a handful of Really Bad exps and all the rest have been totally fine 😭😭 those were OUTLIERS !!!#regardless. i rly hope i dont come off that way of being like. ''im too good for u'' bc thats absolutely not whats going on dhdkdl#im just. very very scared pretty much constantly and dont want to make any mistakes#bc i rly cherish this space and i am so grateful for everyone in it so i dont want to mess it up for myself i guess fhdkdl#any time i send a DM or reply or ask just know im probably fighting back Genuine Fear as i do so LMAO its so ridiculous honestly 😭😭#one day I'll figure it out and be able to interact w others without feeling like i am jumping straight into a lion's mouth !!!! one day !!!#(also theres a whole thing of me feeling like im scum of the earth and i don't want to make ppl have to be around me bc that would be rude)#(but the Fear is the main thing djdkdl the self-loathing is secondary at this point which... is potentially progress? maybe?)#(plus i am a notorious rambler. see example A (this right here). and i dont want to talk ppls ears off 😭😭)#dandy.cmd
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