#am i fictosexual? A little.

[csphire]

Oh just being a touch fictosexual, having a tiny crisis now, things...

Just read a comment under a fictosexual article and some asshat is calling it gross. Like ouch dude. Gross? Really? Why put that energy out there into the Universe? Who hurt you to trash others, who are hurting nobody, AND were probably so repeatedly traumatized by real people to the point maybe that's WHY they fall in love with fictional characters?

*covers face and sighs*

[joestarkisser]

Selfship spaces, even in the current year, seem to stagnate to the 'default' of thin white person. It's jarring how, for example, a fat person will note the rising fatphobia growing in the world, and seek comfort with their F/Os, only to find all the imagines and fic and art to be thin.

It's always language that denotes thinness and whiteness in fanfiction and imagines. It's always "visible jawline", "prominent collarbones", "thin fingers", "dainty legs". It's always "carded fingers through your hair", "the pink hue of your cheeks", "button nose".

That isn't to say these don't have a place in selfship spaces. Everyone is welcome regardless of gender, race, and everything else. But thin white folk are so used to being the default, to being the only thing worth thinking about, that they don't even pay any mind to the fact their disadvantaged kin are struggling with real life oppression, and go about their day. Some will never acknowledge it, and some will acknowledge it and degrade other selfshippers for that struggle.

When you have the privilege of being the standard in real life, you forget that there are people who are mistreated because they aren't you.

So for all the fat selfshippers, the black selfshippers: You matter. You deserve fat-centric selfship spaces, you deserve black-centric selfship spaces, you deserve to have both at the same time.

It isn't "cringe", it isn't "annoying", and it isn't "entitled" to want selfship spaces to include you. You deserve to be included.

[loveydoveylex]

I hope folks know that when I say tintin is my boyfriend I do really mean it wholeheartedly. I view our relationship as being on the same level as an irl one ❤️ I don't open up about my fictosexuality as much publically as I used to (because I've had some people be pretty nasty to me about it), but it is an important part of my identity.

[cartoonsforlife]

I'll love Lord Black Hat all my fucking life! No one will stop me! 😤💪

[squidkidcelebi]

Happy Pride Month!

Surprise

[6clawdy6]

How are we doin this fine Valentine's Day, watchful eyes?

I'm going to say a thing or two here because I don't think leaving it in a reblog or tags will do it justice. If you do not agree with anything that I say here and you are unwilling to be a mature adult about it, don't even bother interacting with this post or me directly regarding this, just block me and move on with your day because I am not putting up with any shit. Said things will be under the read more.

I have faced a great deal of criticism and damnation for doing stuff for me for the longest time, way more times than someone my age should have. As one can see, this kind of damnation will not stop me from loving what I love and I feel it shouldn't stop anyone else either.

Something that I think falls under this kind of thing is that no one should ever be damned for choosing to love a fictional character as opposed to a real person. I've done a bit of looking, and as it turns out, there exists a lil something called "fictophilia", which, as you may have guessed, is an umbrella term for the desire, sexual attraction, or intense feelings of love towards a fictional character, similar in strength and application for those felt towards real-life people. Because of how fictophilia/fictosexuality/fictoromance is negatively portrayed in media, people with this kinda sexuality feel like their thoughts and feelings are invalid and wrong. Personally, I don't think it's wrong at all, and I think being in love with a fictional person is just as valid as being attracted to a real one. Hell, I don't blame some people for being attracted to fictional characters instead of actual beings. Actual people have a very bad habit of being creepier than characters intended to be creepy, and that's saying something.

What's wrong wit y'all. Why are you like this. Stop creeping out the fictosexuals, people like you tend to be why they prefer fictional characters in the first place.

Another thing is that I believe that people are allowed to be uncomfortable with things like certain pairings and have the right to use whatever's currently handy to filter that out of their view. That doesn't give you the right to damn them when they're not looking, they're allowed to block you so they don't have to deal with anything you create or say that makes them uncomfortable. In fact, I can already think of several people who have damned others for this exact thing that I would love to block myself if not for the fact that I try not to judge, because y'all apparently can't behave yourselves when you think people aren't paying attention. Y'all should feel bad not only for acting like a spoiled child over someone not being comfortable with what you like, but also for being petty towards others all because they're interested in someone that ain't you, real or not.

I ain't saying names here because of that last bit, but if you're one of the people I am referring to here, you know who you are and if you're gonna act a fool about it, do not cry about it to me directly or on this post, because I don't wanna hear it, I will not hesitate to block people for not being the mature adults I asked y'all to be, and it ain't my fault you didn't listen.

Those that are willing to at least try to understand what I'm saying here and maybe even relate to this a little, thank you very much for being mature about this and feel free to stick around and vibe, I don't see enough people like you here on this site.

[moxanji-real]

💖Introduction 💖

To my non sharing Sanji doubles..

Don’t scroll, just block now! Please and thank you! It’s better this way! Trust. 👍🏻

StrawPage is a wip!

Banner arts are made by grubcakes

Before you interact PLEASE remember OP is very uncomfortable with NSFW. No NSFW jokes on OP’s posts or NSFW dm’s. Please respect OP’s BOUNDARIES.

Hi there! Welcome to my blog! I’m probably the most dedicated Sanji selfshipper you’ll ever come across. This space is entirely centered around my relationship with Sanji, so thank you for stopping by and checking it out!

💖Hello I’m Moxie. You can also refer to me as Fork. (I use the name as my self insert cause I kin her) I’m an 18 year old bisexual lady thingy. I have a slight personality disorder so if you see me texting in a tone that is different or acting in a way that is different, it’s NORMAL. I just can’t really decide on my personality somedays XD.

💖This entire blog is a self ship blog. I kin my one piece self insert and will often “pretend” to be her and talk like I am her. I ship Moxie with Sanji from One Piece and consider myself a yumejoshi, selfshipper, oc x canoner and fictosexual. I’m in LOVE with Sanji and consider him my soulmate to put it simply. And yes, I am caught up on One Piece in case you’re asking.

💖My blog is 100% SFW! I don’t do NSFW! I’m too shy to post that stuff. Also I won’t be reblogging nsfw too! Minors of all ages you’re free to interact! Just don’t make any… sexual comments/jokes please and thank you. The same rule applies to adults too! That’s my only big rule! I prefer wholesome shit on my blog! 😤💞

💖Asks are open. I have a lot of lore of Sanji and my One Piece self insert. Keep in mind my One Piece self insert isn’t me irl but I do kin her. That's why I’m called Moxie.

💖 I’ll only follow back if you have a solid introduction posted. I need to see your f/o list first! I’d prefer to only have self shippers follow me but if you like my content hell idc what you are. I’m just grateful.🤣

💖Sanji is my only f/o and I’m madly in love with him. I’ve shipped with him since I was 8 with my self insert and as years passed I still did. (Obviously I had done a lot of work on my self insert over the years but shhhh) I loved him for more than half my life and I still love him too. I’ve loved him before One Piece became super popular in other countries so I consider myself a true One Piece fan and Sanji lover. Without Sanji I don’t think I’d still be alive, he saved my life, my little hero. :’D💞

💖 I’m autistic as absolute fuck and I LOVEEEEEEE giving people my love and support. I NEED to make others happy- y'all don’t realize! 😤💞

💖If you have a One Piece f/o or if you are just a casual self shipper or do oc x canon please interact with me! Seriously, it would make me so happy!!! I’d love to be your friend! And don’t worry about me not responding, I’ll fucking respond and I’ll respond amazingly too 😩💞. I’m an extrovert! I know… spooky… we don’t see these a lot online lmao.

💖My current hyper fixations are One Piece, The Golden Girls, the Sims 4, Bleach, LPS, Sanders Sides and the X files

💖 I’m an artist, (not a really good one) and I do art trades and draw my self ship. Yes you can ask for an art trade and no I’m not picky on skill.

💖DNI: If you’re a Proshipper who supports incest or pedofillia or beastility. NSFW BLOGS or NSFT ALTS (if you are a sfw account but post nsfw content sometimes that’s fine! I just need tags!) If you’re a Minor who self ships with Sanji or simps for Sanji and posts nsfw content about him etc (Minors themselves can interact but NOT minors who are weird about Sanji.)If you write Sanji x reader fanfiction. If you constantly reblog Sanji x oc/self insert content from other people or the ships Sanji x Zoro, Sanji x Pudding and Sanji x Ace. ALSO DNI IF YOU SHIP SANJI WITH A NON SHARING SANJI SELFSHIPPER WHO IS NOT ME (if they’re poly and you don’t ship them with Sanji tell me beforehand so I don’t get any wrong ideas and also make sure they’re okay with it too!)

💖Policy on Doubles: Doubles? Yeah you can interact. Might not support your relationship but you can interact! If you’re comfortable with it give me a Sanji tag to block from your account if he’s not your main f/o. I am NON SHARING with Sanji, however I am very respectful about my relationship with Sanji and other people who have them as their f/o I don’t have any beef with. I’m chill… but however… Oc x Canon with Sanji? I do NOT wanna see it and will block on the spot if I come in contact with Oc x canon art of Sanji if I don’t know you. But if you want to support me you can because I do appreciate the support! (And hell, I’ll be willing to support your other ships. Just not the Sanji one unless I feel comfortable maybe to make an exception. But the possibility is rare Xd)

💖 Sanji and Moxie’s self ship tag name is Moxanji and all Moxanji related content will be tagged (some other tags I use are “Moxie rambles I guess” and “Moxie simping for her own man” )

⚠️Also before you engage with me.. if I ever do even the slightest thing wrong. Please nicely confront me about it. I prefer confrontation over random blocking. I’m 18! I’m still young! Let me know what I did wrong so I can change and be a better person. I can’t be a better person if you don’t tell me what’s up and leave me in the dark. Please and thank you!⚠️

Moxanji fanfics

Forever yours,stinky baby

The touch starved firecracker

[bugs1nmybrain]

Masterlist (18+) ♡☆♡☆♡☆

This is a comprehensive list of all my fics and headcanons. These are all x readers, and the reader is almost always fem. Listed at the end are things that I will write and won't write.

I do take requests!! I have busy schedule though, so it may take up to months for me to get to yours.

Characters I write for: L Lawliet, Tomura Shigaraki, Shouta Aizawa, and Professor Franken Stein, my ocs

I am also a self-shipper! I may post content about my f/os and the time I spend with them. If that makes you uncomfortable, then take a walk!

Minors CANNOT interact with these posts, as 98% of them are nsfw.

Date updated: 8/16/24

I have a personal blog I'm currently writing more than fanfiction about my experiences with fictosexuality throughout the lifespan. There is sensitive content in these blogs about csa, grooming, and trauma, but I've created "reader appropriate" versions of the first chapter and will continue to. You can find it here:

<3Lydia’s Very Convoluted but Interesting History of Romance with Fictional Characters (Titled to be changed later)<3

Chapter 1, reader friendly version

Chapter 1, uncensored

L Lawliet ♡♡♡

L Lawliet With a Shy & Insecure Reader (hcs)

Somno/Morning Sex with L (smut fic)

Fem!L x Fem!Reader

Food play with L (self insert smut)

Drunk 69 with L

Voyeurism and Somnophilia with L (smut fic)

L Lawliet x Bipolar Reader (headcanons)

Intricate: L x Chubby! Reader NSFW (smut fic)

Distraction (smut fic)

L x Curvy! Reader (headcanons)

What L Would Do When He's in Love (headcanons)

NSFW Headcanons

L and reader lose their virginities together (smut fic)

The Task Force walks in on you and L making out (fic)

Pet names he'd call you (headcanons)

L x INFP! Reader (headcanons)

L x Short! Reader (headcanons)

L x Reader: First Time Headcanons

L x Chubby! Reader (headcanons)

L SFW Alphabet

L NSFW Alphabet

L Relationship Headcanons

Tomura Shigaraki ♡♡♡

Bipolar!Tomura x fic (one-shot)

Shigaraki x Fem!Reader: Shiggy crushing on reader - Two Part One-shot

Bipolar Shigaraki Headcanons

Fem Shiggy Headcanons

Shigaraki walks in on Re-Destro talking shit about you (short fic)

Shigaraki's Psychological Conditions Headcanons

Shigaraki x Fem!Reader Anal Sex (One-shot fic)

Give Your Heart a Break - shigaraki x reader series

chapter 1

chapter 2

chapter 3

Clingy!Tomura x reader hcs

Kisses with Shigaraki (headcanons)

Shigaraki with a Girlfriend Headcanons (w: dub-con/non-con, domestic abuse)

Neko!Shigaraki and Reader smut

Stoned Bathroom Sex with Tomura

Sfw Reverse Comfort MDLB (mommy dom/little boy)

Mommy Kink with Shigaraki (smut fic)

Shigaraki x Chubby! Reader Headcanons

Nasty (Period sex) (smut fic)

NSFW Headcanons

NSFW Alphabet

Shiggy x Short! Reader (headcanons)

Tomura fucking you in front of Dabi (smut fic, TW: dub-con)

Shouta Aizawa ♡♡♡

Professor!Aizawa x College Student (this sucks n is vry ooc)

Aizawa x Bigender reader hcs

Aizawa x reader headcanons

Emotional Support Sex with Shouta

NSFW Headcanons

Aizawa x Bipolar! Reader (headcanons)

Aizawa x Virgin! Reader (smut fic)

Aizawa x Short! Reader (headcanons)

Aizawa SFW Headcanons

Aizawa x College Student! Reader (smut fic)

Aizawa NSFW Headcanons

Aizawa x Chubby! Reader (headcanons)

Aizawa Relationship Headcanons

Franken Stein ♡♡♡

Stein x Immuno-compromised Reader (headcanons)

NSFW Alphabet

Stein x Chubby! Reader (headcanons)

Liela Lovesworth (my oc) ♡♡♡

Confession (sfw)

F/O CONTENT

L x me art

Aizawa and I's 4 yr anniversary post

What I will write♡♡♡!!:

Nsfw/smut

fem characters (ex: fem L, fem Tomura, etc)

fem-reader

enby reader with female anatomy or male anatomy (please specify for nsfw)

male reader but I've never done it

Any character that I write for

fluff

sfw

crack fic

dubcon/noncon

problematic content

Mental illness (bipolar, schizophrenia, ocd, etc)

Mommy/daddy kink

Chubby reader

anal but not rough

What I WON'T write ×!×!×:

Minors/pedophilia

scat

blood/mutilation (with the exception of period sex)

Anything ridiculously out of character

brutal rape (any rape is brutal, but I mean gruesome to the point of no return after I write it)

Yandere (I will write obsessive partners and codependent relationships, but no kidnapping or stuff like that)

violence

Furry (except nekos)

Incest

Characters I don't write for

Chains/leather/etc

[r0tten-hav3n]

Hi Hi!! Welcome!!

◇I'm Haven

◇ I'm 18, use any pronouns, and fictosexual/fictorose

◇I am a NON-sharing yume/self-shipper!!

◇Although, if you have any of my f/os as platonic/familial, feel free to interact

◇I'm terrible at communicating or being social in general, but I like meeting new people

My f/os are

♡Alexis Ness (Blue Lock)

♡Wanderer/Scaramouche (Genshin Impact)

Gifs made by me

Self-insert ocs

◇Hanzo Akasaki (for Ness)

◇Ellis (for Wanderer/Scaramouche) both outfits

Tags for them

#Haness

#Scarellis

¡DNI!

●Proshippers/comshippers, shoo away please and thank you

●Doubles (please block me or just scroll past)

●If you like Kainess get off my blog

Dividers are not mine

Strawpage Platonic f/os here

Uh I have a Bluesky

I'm pretty inactive there tho

Discord: _sleepy_ghoul_ (I'm a little awkward tho)

That's it for now 👍🏻

[storyshift-mogai]

My experience with my orientation and hender: A ramble by an omni gay trans guy.

CW for talks of harassment.

I've had.. a lot of different experiences with my orientation. It's changed quite a bit over the years, some changes took years, others took months.

My first time I realised I wasn't straight- I realised I liked both girls and boys. I was probably around 11 or 12, and found the idea of bisexuality through a youtube video- one of those storytime channels, in which someone described their experience being bisexual. It felt right, hearing that, so I privately started identifying as bisexual. I became more public about it when I was 12 or 13 at school.

I attended a catholic school, and many students there were unfortunately homophobic. I was exploring my gender privately around this time, and I was starting to realise just bisexual didn't fit- I felt I was a genderfluid, bisexual lesbian. I was definitely more interested in women, both romantically and sexually, but I still had interest in men- but not in a way that was typical. My interest in men was bisexual, but my interest in women was lesbian in nature, if that makes sense.

When I became 14, I was introduced to the mogai community and the concept of microlabels. I was a little confused by them, but I was in a mogai server, which helped me explore my identity a lot more. I realised I was a genderfluid trans man, and that pansexual was starting to make more sense to me, and fit me more around this time than the label bisexual lesbian did. I also started identifying as multigender around this time.

Fifteen is when I fully started embracing xenogenders. I also took in some labels around orientation, but those I was very nervous about. I coined some of my own terms, xenogenders, and had started to find myself more- But then an event happened. I was harassed for being a trans man by a cis lesbian, and she had threatened to 'fix me'. After this, I had lost all my romantic interest in women- especially cis women.

I started to accept myself omnisexual, which took a lot of time, but I'm glad I did. I also accepted the fact I was fictosexual around this time.

When I was 15-16, most likely early 16, when I realised I wasn't *just* omnisexual. I was sexually interested in every gender, with a preference for men, yes, but.. No romantic interest in women. I was Homoromantic. Finally. I felt like I was me- Properly me.

Seventeen.. I think this was when I fully accepted the fact I was objectum. The idea had been brewing in my head for years, but finally, I felt comfortable being objectum. I also believe I felt more confident in my alterhumanity around here, and much more comfortable being polyamorous then I was in the past.

Eighteen: Which is now. I am still an Omni Gay, and I have decided I am comfortable enough to admit to myself that I'm homoflexible, that my attraction to women is dependent on whether or not my partners currently identify as woman at the time or not. There's other bits of my identity I didn't touch on here, like my demisexuality, my aegosexuality, and so on, but this post delves into the main point of my identity.

Thank you for reading, and I'm sorry if it's not the clearest.

[tomanationcentral]

I really need to get this off my chest, idgaf if this puts me on a hitlist. Any harassment I'm expecting will be deleted, so please, don't even try. It says a lot more abt you than it does abt me, who just wants to love fictional characters in blissful silence/peace. Yes, believe it or not, you can be an anti without feeding into a proshipper's delusions that all we do is harass others

Yes I age up my f/o's. No, it's not proshipping. Proshipping is an excuse for ppl that get off on p*do/r4pe ships. Aging up is used for many reasons, them not equating to wanting to disguise being attracted to children. We're not selfshipping with teenagers, we're selfshipping with adults that use to be those teenagers, but now has grown and developed. Fictional characters are there for us to have fun with. They aren't real. In fact, isn't this what fiction is for? We found a character that we found interesting, want to play around with a 'what if' situation, write an AU that is suited to our liking, and have fun with it? Frankly, unless someone is producing literal CP content + grooming irl minors, aging up a fictional teenager is not wrong

Perhaps someone was also a teenager when they selfshipped with a canon teenager, and they're f/o couldn't age up with them. "Oh, just move on, it's literally so easy--" Do you even hear yourself? Feelings aren't something you can just turn on and off like a light switch. By this logic, my husband irl (who is my irl childhood friend too) must've gotten over me So EaSiLy and vise versa!!! Seriously, my sister in law was worried on her 18th birthday, fearing she'd have to stop selfshipping with a character she absolutely adored. A character that was, yes canonically 16, but has helped her through panic attacks, relapses, and comforted her during dark times. And purity police expected her to just drop him on her 18th birthday! Just move on? Sorry we ain't moving on hard enough! Imagine telling someone their loyal and unwavering love towards their f/o's is not valid anymore! Imo, aging up with someone you loved since when you were small is one of the most romantic things and a huge part of my favorite trope (childhood friends to lovers)

Have you never read a college AU of a character before? Aging up is essentially that. Changing a character so that you can explore what would've been if they grew up. Aging characters up is a sign of your own maturity. You’re looking at younger characters and asking yourself what kind of adults they might be, and what experiences they could have in the future. In other words, aging up is not equal to an adult taking advantage of a minor. In fact, IT'S THE EXACT OPPOSITE! AGING UP TELLS ME YOU HAVE MORALS

You're telling me if I were to look back at my old highschool yearbook and see my ex crush's face, I'd say "Damn, I'd still wanna hit that!"? No, I go "Awww, I remember when I had a crush on him. Good times, good times..." Wow, it's almost as if the relationships we have irl and the ones we have in fiction can be differentiated by your brain

I was a CSA victim, have kids irl, was groomed by five different men (two of them being family members), and have younger brothers that were also CSA victims. I will never stop believing it is wrong of an adult to take advantage of a minor. If I can choose to get over my own feelings, then I never had them to begin with. Ik some ppl selfship cause it's a 'funny little thing' to do, or a fetish, but acting as if your feelings towards your f/o can be switched off whenever you feel like it lowkey invalidates ppl that genuinely have attraction towards these characters. Newflash! Fictosexual is a real thing! Feeling legitimate attraction towards fictional characters only! Not all selfshippers are ficto, but I've seen some identify as it. These ppl (me included, though I am still questioning if I truly am ficto) treat their f/o as their irl partner

Ofc if you're just slapping on the label and not changing anything else (that character is still in high school, still lives with their parents, etc.) or if you're aging up someone like a south park kid, then I'm raising a brow. But a character that already looks and acts like an adult, but is 1-2 years away from adulthood being aged up suddenly equals pedophilia? Especially a character that you grew up with, but they don't have a canon timeskip?

"It doesn't matter if you age them up, it still doesn't change that fact that you, an adult, is attracted to a canon minor" You're telling me if you saw Barou from Blue Lock or Jack from Twst without knowing anything but how they look, you'd automatically think they're 16?! Newflash #2! There are high schoolers in anime that look and act like ppl in their mid-twenties! AZUL FROM TWST HAS HIS OWN BUSINESS FFS! In fact, this just makes aging up characters easier! These characters aren't fucking child coded! By this logic, Caelus from Honkai Star Rail is off limits! "But he's 22-25 yrs old--" Actually honey, he's a year old, cause Kafka activated the stellaron in his body, bringing him to life a year ago :P It's not as black and white as you think it is!

"They're still canonically minors--" Honey, you know what's also canon? Your self insert not being in the media! Doesn't this community preach abt how you can rewrite canon for your own liking?! I've literally seen blogs thinking they have the right to judge others just by one look off their f/o list. Clearly are the same ppl that don't read a byf + dni. Sweet pea, I still expect you to be considerate and open-minded

The problem is not me not 'moving on hard enough'. Sorry my loyal feelings of genuine attraction towards a character extremely near and dear to me can't magically change. Guess I'm bottom of the barrel scum now. There is no problem, so as long as you are actually putting in the work to make them into a developed and fully grown adult. Aging up is not some 'loophole' out of the nonsensical logic purity police came up with just to weed out more ppl that fit their definition of a proshitters. It's not bending over backwards to yell at the camera "I'M NOT A PROSHIPPER!!". If you're out here trying to 'weed out' anyone that doesn't fit your justice code, then guess what? You're just proving proshippers' point. You're no better than the accusations they use of antis harassing them

Please

I adored and cherished this community sm, and it's such a shame that a once safe pocket of space dedicated to loving fictional characters turned into such a gatekeepy, stressful hellsite (I've deleted my old selfship blogs twice outta pure stress + paranoia). I'm tired of being shunned and shamed in a community that I looked up to, when I know I'm not doing anything wrong. Like many others, I tried being nice and quiet, but the sheer ignorance and just blatant lies is too much. I personally stopped giving a damn abt pleasing a community that seems impossible to satisfy, but I'd rather be honest abt my feelings

"Ummm, why are you being so defensive abt this???"...........because ik that harassers are going to be the same when they inevitably send me hate and try to start a witch hunt. Yeah....I'M the defensive one for getting riled up over being harassed over loving characters I worked hard into making adults, so they can safely consent to adult activities that may happen in relationships

Believe what you want, filter out your content, block me if you please, it'll be much easier that way, tbh. At least have the audacity to block me without saying anything rather than sending me an ask that you won't even read after you hit that block button </3 I'll be deleting any discourse, hate anons, actual proshippers using this as a trump card, etc.

[sadisttbunbun]

MY F/O(S) CW: Fictosexual!

MY MAIN F/O(S)

LUCIFER MORININGSTAR 🐤🍎

He/they/she

Genderfluid, bisexual!

Gentle, cool, loving and sweet જ⁀➴°

He hates jesters, so he hates mammon, he hates him a lot it's so funny.

we've been dating for four years now. we met in 2020!

HE IS MY MAIN MAIN F/O. DNI PLEASE IF U ALSO LIKE HIM. No doubles.

જ⁀➴°⋆(๑ᵔ⤙ᵔ๑)

princess loolilalu! 🍭👑

he/it/she

Non binary, pansexual!

Fun, hyper, silly and loving!

She loves bitter tasting foods and candys, she loves her people and she loves the little things in her kingdom!

We've been dating 4 months now! she is thee best!

ONE OF MY MAIN F/O'S, ALSO DNI I AM NOT SHARING MY BAE!!!

˖ ᡣ𐭩 ⊹ ࣪ ౨ৎ˚₊

MADOKA KANAME! 🩰🫧

she/they/star

Cisfem, Bisexual!

she loves her power and her freinds, she is thee kindest to anyone!

we've been dating for 6 years! shes been my longest running lover!

Main F/O! stand back! shes mine and im hers! DNI!

THOSE ARE ONLY MY MAIN! Will list seconds later!

[kaycode1999]

I am staring at this matchup thing you got going, Im a little nervous but I'd like an LMK matchup!

I'm an Aries INFP-T personality type, I'm nervous when it comes to conflict, but when I get to know people I tend to be a mix of hyperactive and chill. I don't really know how to hold conversations so I tend to be quiet most of the time. I'm also pretty indecisive so someone that can help me make decisions would be nice.

I go by They/Ero/Thy/Astro/Bruh/Void pronouns, I'm a sorta Fem Apagender Fictosexual/romantic AceAro so this'll mostly be a platonic matchup.

I tend to dress casually in over-sized clothes because I only like specific textures and don't like things being too close to my neck, I'm around 5'1 or 5'2. I love the color purple, and I'm the type to have a lot of purple items. I also enjoy space themed aesthetics!

My hobbies are mainly playing video games and drawing while listening to music! Sometimes I write ideas and stuff for OCs and AUs and stuff along those lines!

My preferences are specifically either Sun Wukong, Macaque or Red Son but I don't mind getting someone else

Extra info is that I have ADHD, Anxiety and Depression so someone who enjoys me holding onto them when I have breakdowns and comforting me when I'm anxious would be nice!

Hope you have a nice day!

You're in luck

I match you with

Red Son

The besties ever I fear

Seriously, you two are the best of friends

He's pretty quiet too (When he isn't yelling at MK or Mei or someone whose annoyed him) so that makes it easy to just sit comfortably and enjoy each others company

I think we all know he has strong opinions so I don't think him helping you make decisions will be a problem

Playing video games CAN get a bit spirited, but always a fun time

You're both artistic/creative so you both bounce ideas off each other and help each other

I think he also struggles with anxiety and depression so you both help each other through that

Though if he senses you are headed toward a breakdown he will try to make sure you get somewhere more comfortable to you as soon as possible

Fun fact- your zodiac sign is a fire sign so getting matched with Red Son works well😂😂

P.S I thought I was the only one! I can't stand to have anything touching my neck or I feel like I'm suffocating

[loveydoveylex]

this might sound really odd, but sometimes I feel a bit alone in the selfship community for the fact that it seems there's a general divide between 'people who selfship for comfort/coping' and 'people who just selfship for fun' - and, well, I'm kind of neither?

I used to think it was a coping mechanism, but that was before I dug a little deeper and realized that I'm just fictosexual, hahah. maybe I used to do it for coping once, and maybe that's still part of it, but primarily? it's a means for me to express my sexuality. does that make sense, or do I sound completely insane? 😆

I am very much genuinely in love with ray in the same way I'd assume alloromantic/allosexual people are in love with their significant others, and, y'know... it's kind of hard to express that love when your beloved isn't real, LOL. so this community is a wonderful tool to help me feel more connected and in tune with him! <3

again, that might sound crazy... who knows. maybe I have lost my marbles 😅

[croisstime-gf]

Hello! This is my (@movie-plush-baby) fictoromantic/selfship blog for Timekeeper Cookie and Croissant Cookie! Here I’ll be putting most of my art and gushing from now on.

DNI or follow if you’re proship, comship, or neutral. I do not want to interact with you.

While I take me and Croissant and Timekeeper’s relationship seriously, I am okay with dupes and ships. To me, that’s a different version of Croissy and Timey.

I also ship Croisstime. We’re all in a polyamorous relationship and this is a very big part of our relationship. If you aren’t comfortable with Croisstime please keep that in mind.

READ MORE FOR EXTRA STUFF

wheeee spinnies :3

- I kin Coffee Candy Cookie! My self-insert is a kinsona version of her named Ginger Candy Cookie, based off of my fursona. If you see a weird lookin’ Coffee Candy with cat features and three eyes, that’s me.

- I’m lesbian and use xenogenders and neopronouns.

- My favorite Cookie Run characters are:

Croissant and Timekeeper (They both get first!! I couldn’t put one lower than the other that would be mean :()

String Gummy (Despite how much I bully the guy he’s a cool character)

Chili Pepper (My first ever favorite)!

ABOUT US

- Me and Timekeeper have been together for roughly 5 or so months, while me and Croissant have been together for 4.

- I am a committed fictosexual/fictoromantic, and I think the term for that might be “waifuist” but I don’t really like the term (and r/waifuism is dumb anyways. They don’t allow poly. Cowardsssss.)

- Here’s a little ship template I filled out!

Thank you for reading :D! My tags for them will be these (although I’m probably going to just put them in the same posts anyways)

“#🕰️timey” for Timekeeper

“#🥐croissy” for Croissant

“#🕰️🥐my gfs r kissing” for CroissTime

[the-cookie-jar-system]

doing @radiomogai's experiences event yippee - day 1

[PT: doing @radiomogai's experiences event yippee - day 1. End PT]

!! warning, I yap for very, VERY long and I might have ran with the question bare ass to the world and forgot a little bit about the fact the question didn't also include "what is your identity?", sorry radio <\3 !!

The first question of the event was; “How do you organise or categorise your identity? If you don’t, why don’t you?”

I think this is a pretty fun question :3! Identity and labels have been a big interest and hobby of mine for years, and I’m an avid collector with a big complex system about how things should work and what I am in context situations. This means I have a big complex system of how to categorise my identity, I say categorise because I don’t organise it physically, as every time I’ve tried to build a coherent hoard, I fail miserably. (I don't really touch up upon how my systemhood affects my organisation because it pretty much boils down to; sometimes I doubt myself and then realise someone else is in front with me and that's why.) I'll touch on how I categorise my identity dependent on who I talk to; now.

First is the identity I show to people in general, even though it is absolutely not my preferred. I am not out to most people about my transness, however, my sexuality is something I am more open about. I label myself more outwardly as my assigned gender at birth and bisexual.

Next is one I show to friends, which is a mix of things. I am a trans man and I count myself as omnisexual, and use he/him. However, that’s the most I say to people who are not very interested in labels or very aware of labels.

Then I have a still quite general identity but for people who actually know me for longer, or understand more queer identity. I classify myself as a non-binary man who is both monogamous and polyamourous, omniromantic and bisexual. I use he/it and specifically never they/them. With certain people will I mention my use of the term “butch”.

I used to identify very strongly as a lesbian, turns out this wasn’t really the case but I became very comfortable in one specific part of being a lesbian which was being a butch. This word encompassed everything about my identity in a very comfortable way and therefore I found myself nervous when I wasn’t able to use it anymore, as I was told it “wasn’t allowed”. It took me years of reading old queer history and the sorts to realise, “well, all the queers before me did it, and they were fine,” to finally permit myself to use a word that is intrinsic to me. This has also lead me as a trans man to date a lesbian, and have no problems regarding it in that relationship, as I was still a butch. She respected my identity as a man and as a butch simultaneously and even while the relationship ended, it helped me discover quite a bit about myself and the word! Being a butch is its’ own specific term for me, its’ own category, and that’s why I mention it now.

Now, for this next part, I’m not gonna list every single term I have ever and do use, because that is simply just… not possible. I’m not panidentity (encompassing all identities) but I’m pretty damn close to it. Words are fun and I love them, therefore seeing words and terms and labels makes me excited, I attribute it to my autism. Not only that, but being alienated at young and often feeling “other” due to a lot of problems, means I find myself adopting term after term and categorising it. A general thing I call myself, in this usual order (order is very important for me); a transgender non-binary butch man who is biromantic, omnisexual, ambiamorous, pleonotic, hypersexual, fictoromantic, fictosexual, vallisromantic, vallissexual, objectum, intersex and a MOGAI foxfreak.

"… wow that is a mouthful, what does all of that mean and why in that specific order, Charlie?" Glad you asked!

I'll tackle the order question first, as it's something I actually have a good analogy for! My identity works similar to math (sorry, I'm a nerd), addition questions can have their numbers swapped around but the output will be the same. 2 + 1 and 1 + 2 will always equal 3, however, with subtraction questions, this does not work; 2 - 1 equals 1, and 1 - 2 equals -1. I categorise ALL my terms by this system, including the ones not mentioned, if a term is "addition", I can add it onto my identity in any order. If a term is "subtraction", I need to keep it in the same order each time.

My "subtraction" terms in the example above are; "non-binary butch man", "biromantic, omnisexual", "vallisromantic, vallissexual", and "foxfreak". My "addition" terms are the rest. I sprinkle them in either between or at the end of my description (yes, I know this would affect an actual equation, good thing MOGAI doesn't follow math rules :3). The only term in the example that differs is "non-binary butch man" as that always will come first, as a base. Sometimes certain terms feel like they fit neither, but either accentuate another term (a "multiplication" term for me) or even undermine another term (a "division" term).

Next is, "What the hell do those words mean, Sans?" And more importantly, what do they mean for me? Easy! I'll go in order of the example just after I talk about one term I think a lot of people will not know, pleonotic.

Pleonotic is a MOGAI term, one I actually only recently discovered image describing for Radio! Pleonotic is described by its' coiner (@/imoga-pride) as; "People with identities separated from their synonyms and pleonasms, often leading to not identifying with the gender-affirmative perspective of associating them all as the same. Examples: being a boy but not a man; being a gal but not a girl; being a male but not a dude." This explains me perfectly, I'm a man but often avoid the term boy, I don't see them the same. I'm male but not a boy, I'm a guy and a dude but not a bloke (I'm British, jumpscare) or a lad. I'm also non-binary, but any other synonyms rather than just the word non-binary is not me. Hell, I even use this for "freak", I'm a freak, not a weirdo (unintentional Radiohead reference).

Now I feel like I can talk clearer!

I'm transgender specifically (pleonotic) instead of trans, I may use the term sometimes but "trans" doesn't really encompass me as well. I'm a non-binary butch man instead of anything like demiboy as both my maleness and non-binary-ness (?) are separated and sometimes I feel one more than the other, the closest I can explain this with common terms is like bigender (two genders at once), but not exactly. I've already touched on the butch aspect. Biromantic means I have romantic attraction to two or more genders, for me; men and women, can be non-binary too but not inherently. Omnisexual means I have sexual attraction to all genders but with a preference, I find my preference alternating but I don't have a term for that, so I just say omnisexual with alternating preference! (Please send me a label for this if it exists!). Ambiamorous simply means I can be happy in both a monogamous and polyamorous relationship. Pleonotic I have described already! Hypersexual is a term for people who struggle with the symptom of hypersexuality, usually due to trauma. Fictoromantic and fictosexual mean romantic and sexual attraction to fictional characters, it is an a-spec identity (with it being an aromantic identity and an asexual identity respectively). Vallisromantic and vallissexual are also aromantic and asexual identities, they represent the course of attraction for me, being that I am attracted at first meet (generally), lose interest as I become friends and gain that attraction again as I get closer. Objectum is just the attraction to objects, also an a romantic/asexual term I believe. Intersex is my condition. MOGAI is just the community of labels I am a part of and foxfreak is a reference to my autistic connection to foxes, belief of being a fox in my past life and being a freak.

After that system? It is just by interests and the like! Thanks for reading my first ramble of the event! - Algae & Cat Charlie (term definition finding, because he is good at that and I am not.)