#also the chewy necklace.. so cutes

[toxicroyjamie]

So Phil got veneers, but do you think Jamie did too?

Yes. Or at least braces

I hc Jamie as a late thumbsucker, because he orally stims when he's anxious or upset + it's pretty common for childhood trauma survivors to hold onto self-soothing behaviors that helped them through the trauma

So I think like he sucked his thumb into his mid-late teens (not all the time and never in front of people who aren't Georgie but like. Privately, to get to sleep or when he was struggling with James), and it fucked up his mouth, so he got his teeth redone when he was able to because he got made fun of for having "binkie teeth" as a kid

(Phil never had an open bite but like if we're separating the Idea of the character from the actor's appearance for the sake of the question)

[chewysgummies]

Omg, I really wanna give my future mer frog these gifts so badly😭

[little-space-bug]

I really want some agere gear but I don't want my family finding it aaaAAARGHHHH

[chewytran]

chewy!!! i would love to see u put ur fav fma characters in diff outfits that u wear <3333

ANA!! omg thank you so much for this idea because i had so much fun with it!!!!! 🥹

i put riza in some of my dressier outfits for when i'm going out somewhere or just want to look cute 🥹 i like wearing a lot of beige, black, and neutral colors. and i also have a few dainty gold rings and necklaces! also i loved having an excuse to draw riza with a bob cut, which is the hairstyle i have!!

also i drew roy in my casual everyday clothes, which i wear most frequently. it typically consists of t-shirts and jeans in solid colors and a hoodie or a light jacket. also included my PJs which are just old t-shirts and sweatpants lmao

anyways this was super fun and self indulgent 🥹🥹🥹

[starsurface]

Hiiii!!! 1. i love your blog so much, im a really big MK fan and i literally didn’t know MK agere was a thing

2. can i request cg Kitana with a puppy regressor headcannons please?

3. i think ur headcannons are iconic and super accurate

-jack

Hii!!!

I'm so glad you enjoy it!! :D Whenever I enter a fandom, I like searching for any kind of Agere, and I decided I wanted to try and start one. :p

2. And of course you can!! <3 (really hoped you meant MK1 Kitana because that's what I did)

3. Really? 🥺 That means so much, I always get worried that they're out of character (or I'm projecting too much)

<3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3

CG Kitana w/ Puppy Regressor Hcs

💙 She loves puppy regressors!!

💙 She’d give you so many chin or head scratches!!!!

💙 ^ Not even when you do something good, she just likes giving you the attention

💙 If you like outside time, she’s take you out to the royal gardens to run around and play, to a more a private section so you can have more fun

💙 Many outside activities!! Rolling a ball around, tug-a-war, races!!

💙 Kitana’s a pretty good runner, but she’ll slow down, or make sure you always win so you two can go back inside and have some yummy ice cream

💙 Also more mellow activities, like rolling around on the blanket or the grass, taking a small nap outside, or having Kitana read a book to you while you try to grab at any butterfly that comes across your eye 

💙 ^ You have so far been unsuccessful at grabbing any :(

💙 If you like inside time more, that’s okay!! There are many fun activities to do still!!

💙 Kinetic sand, play dough, slime, a lot of fun little things she likes to try out (no, you can’t eat them, and you will get scolded if you try)

💙 Even puppies can serve time out, unfortunately :\

💙 Not long timeouts (and you can coax her to come over and cuddle you during your sentence) but your not leaving that corner

💙 No biting >:(

💙 It’s an absolute no-no, you can hurt someone

💙 In fact, Kitana would absolutely love to buy you some (safe) chew toys!!

💙 Whether it’s baby chew toys, or a chewie, or a stuffie made for chewing

💙 She just likes spoiling you, anything you want is yours

💙 She’d get you a custom made collar or choker!!!

💙 Your favorite color, maybe a cute design, a bell or whatever nickname you want on it!!

💙 If you need any kind of padding, she buys you literally everything you’d ever need

💙 Cute designs, mattress protection, whatever helps you feel comfy to use them

💙 Many treats, they’ve very easy to get form her

💙 Or, until she realizes that perhaps she’s giving you too many sweets and then you’ve gotta rely on your best puppy eyes (which most times don’t work) :(

💙 But if you continue to whine and mope about it . . . She’ll let you have more candy 😮‍💨

💙 But you’re having some apple slices or beef jerk or something after!! (she just wants you to be healthy, but she would never shame you if you were to over indulge or anything!!)

💙 Would joke about puppies not being allowed to have chocolate, but it’s only light teasing, she’d still give you some

💙 Will try to teach you ‘tricks’, like holding a treat on your nose (she’ll attempt to do it too, epic fail unfortunately, she’ll get it eventually)

💙 She’d let you sniff her hand before she pet you, or encourage any kind of ‘dog’ like behavior (as long as it’s not harmful)

💙 She’d make (human safe) kibble for you, or get things like beef jerky or Scooby Snakcs

💙 If you don’t like the ideas or chokers, she’ll make you a beaded necklace!!! Puppy themed too!!

💙 Light or baby blues (or whatever color you like), little paws and some puppy faces, your favorite nickname or your name spelled on it!!

💙 I think she’d just like making bracelets and necklaces and stuff for her friends :3

💙 She'd let you try to make some too!! And will tie the knot at the end so you can wear and show off your pretty bracelet

💙 Would be over joyed it you made her something!! (even if there's absolutely no theme or color coordination, just a bunch of pretty colors smashed together that looked pretty)

💙 I firmly believe she knows how to crochet, she’d totally make you some type of stuffie!!!

💙 Gets a little nervous about you crawling on all fours for too long, she doesn’t want your knees to go bad or for you to scrape them, especially outside :(

💙 She won’t stop you, but she’ll offer to carry you places instead, and will check your legs for no red spots or scrapes

💙 Design band aids!! Only the best for her little pup after all <3

💙 Don’t try running off if she’s not looking, she has a sixth sense that makes it able to know just when your about to move and will snatch you up (because she’s mean)

💙 She’ll give you so much attention and praise, there isn’t a second you ever feel unloved (and she knows when your down, it’s her personal mission to try and make you feel better)

💙 Will call you Puppy, Pup, Sweet Thing, Princess/Prince/Puppy Royal

💙 ^ Buttercup too!! (it feels like a puppy nickname, and it’s really cute)

💙 She’d encourage you to bark, and will try to bark with you

💙 But she’ll also have full on conversations with your barking, or blabbering, and will gasp and awe when you do it

💙 Is also very good at delivering different whines and barks, like the ‘I’m hungry, you’re starving me 🥺’ (she's not, you're being dramatic) and the ‘Ouchie!! Hit my paw against the bed!! . . . Now I must attack it >:(‘

💙 Finds it entertaining when you tell her that such and such was being mean, whether it was the bed or your stuffie

💙 She’ll tell your stuffie off for you, don’t you worry, they learns their lesson <3

<3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3

Kitana's cool, I like her. <3 (and I get to use the pretty baby blue banner!! :D)

The Gif I found was also so cute!! (And Sonya's in there <3 <3 <3)

[kisumitenderly]

Muses’ Accessories 🩷

👜 backpack: Kisumi’s usual bag is a leather pack that he can sling over his shoulder. He likes that it’s neutral and can match with basically everything he owns. Kisumi really loves mixing textures so a chunky knit sweater to go with it is perfect.

Kisumi also has a sports bag. It fits his basketball as well as shoes. He can take this to the gym or when he’s running about it can double as an overnight bag if needed, he always has a change of clothes and toiletries packed.

📱 phone: Kisumi always has the latest phone. He likes having something bright with backgrounds that change frequently with his whims. He usually has something to stick or prop up the phone so he can vlog or take selfies or mindlessly scroll while getting ready.

💄Chapstick/lipbalm: Kisumi always has some sort of lip stuff to put on. He hates when his lips get chapped, they tend to bleed and peel if he doesn’t stay on top of them. He tends to have some fruity flavor, most of the time something with berries. You won’t catch him with a citrus one.

💳 wallet: this is an item that Kisumi splurges on. He likes having a nice high end wallet. Currently he’s rocking a Louis Vuitton bi-fold. He likes something sleek that he can pocket easily. He tends to do most of his purchases through his phone, with Apple pay and virtual transactions. He doesn’t have a whole lot in his wallet to begin with.

☂️ umbrella: Kisumi likes cute plastic bubble umbrellas for purely aesthetic reasons. He loves when they have a cute print just to tell them apart from others. He doesn’t mind buying a new one if someone takes his by mistake. He finds it fun to change things up when he can. He always has an umbrella on him since he hates for his hair to get wet. If he’s caught in the rain without it he’s normally a grump for awhile.

💍Jewelry: Kisumi tends to wear gold jewelry. It’s his preferred color, sliver does doesn’t suit his skin tone. Kisumi loves accessorizing. with different jewelry. He likes to do ring stacks, layer with a few different necklaces. His big thing is mixing up texture so he’ll have some that are dainty and others that are thick and chunky. He likes a pendant necklace something with a statement. Kisumi also has his left ear pierced, he’ll go from a stud if he’s working out or playing a sport. But if he’s going out he’ll throw in something dangly.

💧Water bottle: Kisumi usually has some water bottle with a spout so he can chug after an intense workout. He likes something that can hold a decent amount of water cause he likes to be hydrated, his skin depends on it!

🎧 headphones: Kisumi prefers over the ear headphones to cancel out the noise. Being a runner these tend to stay on better. The little buds fall out or he loses them so it’s extremely annoying for Kisumi, he already bought a handful of them before making the switch. The noise canceling is a huge benefit since it forces his mind to focus and sometimes can help with his anxiety at times.

🔑 Keys: he likes hanging a cute keychain that usually his brother gifts to him. Whatever he wins from the claw machines Kisumi will happily place on his keychain until it gets too big and has to switch things out.

Miscellaneous: Kisumi also has an high end watch he wears, gifted to him by his Uncle. He tends to carry about a gaming system of some sort for when he needs to waste time and keep him occupied. He always have some sort of candy on him, tends to be sour but something like nerds clusters that have crunchy and chewy textures are always a hit.

[pumpkaboo-princess]

i need to know your hcs for little akito/nf i will take them and never return them >:D mwahahahaha

hehe :)

Sorry it took me so long to get around to this!! ;w; hope you like it!!

Pumpkaboo's Akito regression headcanons!!

-Okay hear me out,,, I get pet regression vibes actually? Like, I think Akito is definitely a lil puppy boi UwU

-I definitely think for the longest time, he didn't really understand or know about his regression; he had no idea what to call it and never told anyone about it (although I feel like Ena may have had sneaking suspicions that she kept to herself)

-He definitely sort of ignored/faked through his moments of regression in the past, never really indulged them

-It was pure coincidence that he found something online explaining different types of regression, and he started to connect the dots

-He refused to admit it even to himself at first, but gradually caved and realized that yes, he regresses, even if he's strangely ashamed of it

-This boy is starved for physical affection; if Toya holds his hand, or Kohane gives him a hug, he immediately feels like he's gonna melt

-Eventually he decides to tell Toya about it, and it makes Toya incredibly happy he was brave enough to tell him; he tries his best to take care of Akito if he sees him slipping

-Not like Akito particularly needs to be cared for, he can definitely still function fine on his own, but as stated before, he adores the affection, and Toya thinks he's extremely cute when he's regressed

-After a while, all of Vivid Bad Squad has caught on, although An and Kohane won't mention anything about it until Akito tells them himself

-Once he finally allows himself to indulge properly in his regression, it becomes pretty obvious that it leans pretty heavy into puppy regression

-He doesn't talk as much as usual when he regresses, mostly just making various noises, or an occasional couple of words

-He either gets really energetic, or really sleepy, there is no in between

-Needs a lot of stimulation and gets bored super easy; even when he's sleepy he insists on putting something on the tv or his phone to "watch" (he absolutely doesn't watch it, he just starts snoring)

-Really likes to spend time outside when regressed, and likes playing around like a kid!

-Has definitely had impromptu games of tag with the entirety of Vivid Bad Squad (he almost always wins; Tag Master)

-Plays lots of other games with VBS; hide n seek, the floor is lava, one they simply call The Arena (it's kind of just gladiator fighting inside of a trampoline, Kohane usually sits this one out LOL)

-He lives for headpats and for taking naps in somebody's lap (especially if he's napping right after running around n wearing himself out, those are the Best naps)

-He also buys himself one of those chewy necklaces cuz he realizes that he'll bite his nails or the ends of his sleeves when he regresses

-He winds up with several other kinds of fidget toys gifted to him as well; he loves them even when he isn't regressed, but especially when he is!

I'm kind of runnin out of ideas but! Thank u for the ask!! <3

[captainnameless]

I HAVE A THOUGHT

So lando has had a cold the past few days and he has to race at qatar and as we know its very hot and humid and from the minute he gets in the car all he wants is a cuddle but he pulls through and ends up like p6 or somthing but all he wants to do is sleep and get a cuddle so he does his interviews and everything and as soon as they are done he goes to his drivers room and very much struggles to get his race suit off and he grabs a teething toy or like a chewy necklace and his bear and cuddles it breathing through his mouth because his nose is so stuffy and oscar walks in to congratulate him and sees lando all poorly and upset and oscar doesnt really know what to do so he cuddles lando🥹

its really half formed but in my head its so cute😭

-🦆

my poor baby 😭 the thought of him having to race Qatar while being sick actually upsets me can you imagine omg.

but Oscar finding him all poorly makes me 🥹, he’d definitely drop everything to give Lando a cuddle, also knows to like get him out of his gear so Lando won’t be too hot and probably even gets him a cool towel to get a possible fever down.

all while texting “SOS!!” 20 times to the group chat which definitely makes all of the freak tf out.

[cgetbrmj]

been following the evolution series!! for the record, so on board with pacis, i hope ellie finds one that makes her feel SO cute, however!! may i suggest the idea of chewy stim toys as either a build up to the pacis or a replacement if you decide not to include them 👀 i got a chewy necklace and it was VERY good for being subtly little, i can see ellie finding that more grown up and acceptable than a paci (at first, at least)

super excited for the next chapter :3

Hello!! <3<3<3 Thanks for the ask!!! I get so excited whenever I see someone's talking to me lol

Glad to hear the paci appreciation!! I personally have never had the pleasure of using an adult paci before and it's been AGES since I've used baby pacis for agere - Desperately want a paci of my own but I don't live on my own so right now agere gear is sort of out of the question for me. Also, despite everyone I know being very supportive of any stim toys, etc, I've never actually looked into getting chewy stim toys for some reason. (If you couldn't tell in my writing) I'm like constantly running my fingers along my lips, biting my thumbnail, that kind of stuff so idk why I've never gotten something like that but ya know. SO glad to hear you've tried them and like them though!! Not sure if I'll include that kind of stim toy in the series, now that I'm leaning towards including pacis, but it's not because I don't like the idea of them. Though I totally agree about Ellie refusing a paci but being totally fine with a chewy necklace, kiddo is so so stubborn.

[we-were-meant-to-be-one]

More headcannon?

Don't even need to ask.

Veronica has a habit of biting her nails when she is stressed or anxious, so Chandler bought her a chewy necklace. She said it was to "stop her from messing up her hard work" but, she's just gay.

I am also a nail biter (used to be severe but I’m getting better woooo) so I love that so much

I love chandler being nice and loving it’s so cute 🥰

[peachys-sweet-dreams]

Day 5: do you have/want any little gear?

I don’t really have any, but I really really want some!!

The stuff that I have that I think kinda counts is I have 2 chewy necklaces that are actually meant for moms to wear for their teething babies to chew on. I got them online from a small business that I really recommend!! It’s Sparrow and Bean. The owner is super nice and made me a custom order and I love the necklaces so much!! I originally got them because of my autism because I like to chew on things and I wanted something more subtle than a lot of chewelry I’ve found is, but they’re also great for when I’m in my tiny space! I also have some kids coloring books and also a little sticker book- one of the ones where it has backgrounds and stickers for each page so you can set up a little scene! I love it so much!!

The thing I want the most right now is a paci. Just like a simple cute one! I keep thinking of buying one online, but I’m just too scared to….

I also want baby or toddler foods and kiddo eating things like the cute plastic silverware and dishes and sippy cups.

And also like a Princess toothbrush and bath bubbles and soaps!!

[chewysgummies]

GUYS OMG-

I actually got her the stuff I wanted for her!!!

I already told this to the plushie server, but I thought about visiting the build a bear store again just so I can try on this pink cozy jacket pajama and give Starfy my "call me" retro telephone pin

[leather-dragon]

Autistic mc x obey me

This is my first post so please be respectful and don’t sexualise my writing EVER! This doesn’t match up perfectly with their actual personalities. This is how my autism shows itself so when I talk about being smart I am not just going off of stereotypes but instead how I am. This has adhd mammon and autistic Levi.I’ll do meltdown comfort in the next one as I want this to be light as it’s my first post.

Lucifer:

He would see it in your file

He would do a bunch of research before you came

He would find food in devildom that matches up with common safe foods

He would protect you from any judgment that gets sent your way

He will say something about your autism and will kick himself for days

He would let you stim around him

If anything you did as a stim hurt you he would 100% care for you

If he lectured you he would think a lot about his tone and how loud he is talking to you

Would let you info dump while he did his paperwork

Finds it annoying that you don’t understand sarcasm

Thinks it rude that you don’t make eye contact

Mammon

Would understand straight away

You would spend hours just info dumping together

He is very loud so he would constantly be apologising for scaring you

Would always come to you with his chances of winning a bet

When either of you lose something you would make very little sense but one of you would always know what you’re talking about and know where it is

Would find your keys in the fridge and put his keys with them. No questions asked

Would also only eat beige food

You would both clean each others rooms

 You could 100% percent stim with him

Gives you sunglasses for when it’s bright out (or so you don’t have to make eye contact)

Leviathan

Immediately recognises that you are a fellow autistic

Let’s you have a pair of ear defenders in your favourite colour/colours

You,him and mammon have a group chat called “✨the neurodivergents✨”

His room is the “safe” room

He oral stims

He introduces you too an anime that becomes a special interest

Info dump 24/7

He notices you don’t like eye contact and he knows he doesn’t either

He wears clothes with nice textures

He has an entire box filled with different types of fidgets

Satan

When he finds out about your autism he reads a bunch of books about it

He understands how it effects you and tries to be understanding

He is incredibly sorry when his wrath gets the best of him and he yells at his brothers

Gives you ways to do things more efficiently that actually could work

Likes having sensible math debates with you

Gives you ways to cope with different things

Notices how you mask a lot at school

Tends to find it annoying when you move your leg up and down all the time

Not the best to stim around

Makes extreme eye contact to the point it’s uncomfortable

Asmo

Buys you a bunch of clothes that have all the perfect texture/materials

He buys you a bunch of fidget jewellery

You want chewy necklaces, sure. Fidget rings,bet. Fidget earnings ,of course.

Finds it annoying that you don’t understand a lot of social cues

He always goes on about your skin because of your safe foods aren’t the best for your skin

Buys you gloves so you don’t get overwhelmed with feeling/threat of germs

You can stim around him

He finds you stims “cute”

Lets you info dump

Sets you up a skincare routine

Beel

Doesn’t understand how only eat three types of food

Lets you hide in his jackets/zip up hoodies

Helps you when you when you want deep pressure

 Accidentally eats one of your chewies

Why have something to chew if you can’t eat it?

You can stim by him

Tried to get you to eat more than three types of food

Doesn’t mind not making eye contact

He is always kind and understanding

Lets you info dump

Belphie

Understands a bit about autism

How can you barely sleep

Tries to fix your sleep schedule

You can stim around him just don’t be loud

Doesn’t mind no eye contact -his eyes are closed most of the time-

You can info dump just,once again, don’t be loud

He leaves you alone most of the time

He wears the best textures ever

He gives a nasty glare to whoever is rude to you

Doesn’t care that much about what you do

[queenofallimagines]

hiii! i was wondering if there was any way you could do tsukishima, iwaizumi, akaashi, & ushijima with an s/o that had adhd? it’s perfectly fine if not though :3

Oof 4 month hiatus(working 50 hours a week sucks DONT do it) and we back at it again with the adhd headcanons😔👌🏿 I’m like 90% sure I did tsuki but I’ll do him again bc I got more to say

Ushijima:

- Ard so boom

- He likes organization

- So he’s very what to help you do the same

- Quickly realizes lists are pointless at helping and makes something else

- Helps with homework

- Like you go through each subject at a time instead of trying to do everything at once

- Tried to help you keep focus

- He always has stim toys on him for you too

- A chewy volleyball necklace

- Spinning ring with his jersey number

- Gives you a spare jersey bc good touch

- Makes fun games for tasks

- Like you have a bracelet that makes a list clacking noise and when you complete a task you can take off one of the bands

- Will also help you keep track of your spoons(if you are a spoonie)

- ���You used about 5 this morning try and take it easy for a few hours”

- Just a good bf

- Will exercise with you to help you stay active

- Is the calmest when pulling you out of hyper focus

- “It’s been 3 hours. You can finish your animal crossing island tomorrow night.”

- Won’t get frustrated and always keeps his cool

Akaashi:

- oh I been waiting for this one!!

- He deals with bokuto 24/7

- The poster boy for combination adhd

- So he is well equipped

- Before you can even blink he has your sensory needs taken care of

- Let’s you fidget with his fingers

- Play with his hair

- Will fight anyone who got something to say + bokuto

- Like they are your #one fans

- “Kindly keep your ableism to yourself”

- I literally will never get angry at you he is patience in human form

- If you get frustrated he will do everything he can to calm you down

- Rejection sensitive dysphoria fucking sucks so he will be very aware of how he talks to you

- Listens to you infodump

- You: super excited about random thing

- Him,watching with heart eyes: go on love tell me more

- Like he’s so in love???? Thinks everything about you is cute

- Teaches you to play volleyball

- Bc I mean what’s more serotonin then smacking a ball down on the floor???

- Forehead kisses before and after every game

- “Idk I just feel like I’m a burden”

- *trap card activated *

- Will actually go on an hour long rant about how amazing you are

- Like damn catch your breath

Iwaizumi:

- I love him your honor

- He is trying his very best believe him

- He won’t get frustrated at you but for you

- “Why the FUCK did the teacher use this font?? It’s difficult to read???”

- (That was more dyslexia then adhd but I got both so rip)

- He will be so soft with his aggressive ass lmao

- “Go drink water bitch...... love you.”

- You will get the oikawa treatment I’m sorry LMAO

- Like he will bully you lovingly

- Not as hard as toru but he will talk shit

- Makes sure you know he is joking

- Seeing you fidget nervously?

- “Here chew on this, it will help you calm down.”

- Has so much chew jewelry bc of this

- If he sees you masking it’s ON SIGHT

- he lives you just the way you are and doesn’t want you to pretend (and hurt yourself doing so) to please other people

- “Let yourself flap your hands >:0”

- Gets really happy when he sees you happy

- Running

- Like sometimes you just gotta move your body rly fast to get all the happy out and he will race you

- Mans will sprint around the school with you if it will help

- He is so helpful and sweet

- Beats himself up HARD if he accidentally hurts you

- Like you gotta console him bc he doesn’t want to hurt you ever

- Gathers the rest of seijoh as the protection squad

- Like even mad dog will cut a bitch for you

- They see how happy you make him and how cute you guys are and it’s over

- 1000/10

Tsukishima:

- this dinosaur built bitch

- I love him but my god do I want to beat his ass

- He will jokingly make fun of you it’s just how he is

- Will affirm that you’re doing write and will praise you but he will joke on you

- Will never pick at your insecurities or your intelligence

- If anyone does he’s roasting them to a crisp

- Almost fought your aunt at a family dinner

- “It would do you better to mind your fucking business and keep your mouth shut if you don’t know what your talking about. There’s nothing wrong with them.”

- He will NOT hold back at all

- He’s very soft with you

- Sensory issues who?

- Always on top of making sure you’re comfortable and okay

- Has an emergency bag I swear to god

- Soft weighted blankets

- Like 5 fidget cubes

- Squishiest and squishmallows

- Chew jewelry

- Noise canceling headphones

- He has it all no joke

- Has secret spots around school to take you when it’s too much

- Always answers his phone

- Like he can sense when you’re not okay and will text back before you can even pull up your keyboard

- Will only show his soft side to you

- Like he will hum you cute nursery rhymes to calm you down or to help you sleep

- Like he’s just so good at keeping track of things??

- Any laps in your memory he’s got you

- “What was I doing????”

- “You came into the kitchen to make a sandwich”

- “Thanks!”

- Like he acts like he doesn’t care at all but he’s very observant and watches more closely than usual

- Nobody really believes you if you tell them he’s soft lmao

[chaoticpanenergy]

after briefly scrolling through the oc tag that you used on one of my posts and seeing that two of the four posts there are about being affectionate with men and a forth is about suffering and dying for the plot .I am intrigued KRHSHDB

!!! oh oh brian my beloved!!!!!! yessss okay so he is one of the two main characters of my current wip novel (the other one is his qpp xeno, they/them). here is a lil snippet thingy i made abt them (plus FANFIC FROM ONE OF MY MUTUALS OMG) and here is a post i made abt the story recently and here is my tag for the wip as a whole.

but!!!!! if u don't wanna click around those, and also just bc i think i am interpreting this ask correctly as an invitation to infordump:

brian is aroace and autistic and adhd (xeno is a non-SAM aro and also autistic, they are also SO beloved). brian is also a wizard who does magic <3 and he has a suuuper fucked up magic wizard family (who currently have semi-disowned him for being aro </3). he has 8 siblings, 3 older and 5 younger, and he loves them all so much (the oldest two ah. do Not deserve it though. they are both very manipulative and emotionally abusive). brian is 23; his siblings range from 28 to 9 years old. his arc in the book will be basically. a race between his slowly developing awareness that his family is abusive and he needs to cut them off, and his deeply instilled self-sacrificial instincts leading him to put himself in dangerous situations to protect his younger siblings and xeno. so just. whether he will properly work up the courage to choose himself and leave before he gets himself killed or not. we shall see :)))))

hOWEVER angsty plot aside he and xeno are SO beloved and they love each other sm in a way that is wholly divorced from allo nonsense <333 they were roommates in their junior year of college and became qpps in their senior year, and the book takes place about a year and a half after that. brian is biiiiig and tall and chonky and soft (xeno is fairly average height, but that's still short enough for brian to rest his chin on top of their head <3), and he usually has some stubble because both facial hair and shaving are Sensory Bad things for him so it is just a constant battle between which is worse (xeno is always very cleanshaven bc facial hair gives them dysphoria). he usually wears a weighted vest + tshirt + jeans. he probably didn't know he was autistic growing up, which means he developed some stims that hurt himself without knowing what he was doing (specifically he tends to chew his hands and also dig his fingernails into his skin rlly hard) and then the habit got super ingrained, but now he is working on it and xeno is also looking out for it and helping him find other stims that are better <333 he has a chewy necklace now!!!! and some nice squishy rubbery stim toys he can dig his nails into instead <33333 he also has a cat named Critter!!!! they are very small. he also rlly likes vocal stimming (which can be a lil bit of a problem bc xeno is very sensitive to sound, but they've gotten pretty good at accomodating each other) and audio stims (he likes rlly loud rhythmic music for stims, musical theater soundtracks for when he's feeling depressed and nostalgic, and things like AJR and owl city for when he's just listening to music regularly) (xeno is a podcast person and rarely listens to music, and when they do it is normally music without lyrics). he rlly likes Textures and Sensations as a general rule. he loves to stim with xeno's hair (they have an undercut dyed purple), it's v cute, they'll snuggle next to each other on the couch while xeno is like reading a book or whatever. he also loves to give & receive top-of-head and forehead kisses, but most other kinds of kisses are a no-go for him bc he is both romance and sex repulsed and feels like most other kinds of kisses have been made too strongly associated with sex or romance by the general allo population for him to be comfy with them. xeno is extremely ambivalent towards most forms of physical affection, and towards romance/sex as concepts (they simply Do Not Care), so they are generally down for cuddles if brian wants cuddles, but they also would be perfectly fine without.

XENO MEANWHILE is also very very cool and good!!!! their samefood is applesauce, especially in squeezy packets, so there is a whole drawer in the kitchen just full of those (brian can't tolerate the texture, so xeno always knows Exactly how many there are in the house). they usually wear fingerless gloves bc it helps reduce the amount of unexpected sensation on their hands; they also tend towards very soft comfy clothes, mostly longsleeve shirts and sweatpants, bc most fabrics are bad textures. they don't emote in a very neurotypical way, so they have to mask a lot when they're at work, and brian is someone who they feel safe unmasking around bc they know he won't misinterpret their quiet and their lack of typical "happy"/pleasant facial expressions, and won't think they're super angry when they're not (which is a problem they often face when they can't mask in front of neurotypicals). they carry noise canceling headphones with them bc of how often they get overstimulated by too much noise. they rlly like to Sort and Organize things, which makes reshelving books at the library (their current job) one of their faaavorite things to do. they're also very good at spotting when brian is just. hiding the fact that he has 0 self-esteem, and are trying rlly hard to encourage him in asserting himself & his needs more often. they love to Learn things and will often infodump to brian about whatever it is they've learned recently. they have a note in their notes app for each person who is important to them, where they just write down every single little detail they know about that person and what they like/dislike, and so on. they make frequent use of these notes as a way to come up with good ideas for little ways to show affection (they are v into gift giving, quality time, and acts of service as love languages, but are very averse to words of affirmation. these tendencies have caused both good and bad things for them in the past). it took them a While to befriend Critter (brian's cat), but now the cat Loves them, which they count as a significant personal triumph. i think possibly they either have pet rats or have had them in the past, so if they do, then their room is off limits for Critter lol. they dye their own hair, which is always an Adventure especially because most smells are sensory Bads for them and bleach is Definitely one of them, so they often have to allot most of their spoons for the day just to bleaching out their hair, so they have to plan and schedule it carefully to have enough spoons. brian has offered to help do it with magic before, but xeno is not convinced that it would be better that way. they also have lots of stim toys, and they carry some in their backpack at all times (including some that are exclusively for brian).

OKAY that's. a lot of things abt them. i love them both sm. i definitely could go on but im stopping for now asjkdhfkjfghsdf tysm for the ask it was the best thing that happened to me today :D

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Headcanon to rate: Wilbur is neurodivergent but masked a lot of the time, ghostbur didn't mask. Some of my favorite stims for the bur are flappy hands, vocal stims, and a chewing stim (sleeve, chewy necklace, whatever.) Also I think as a vocal happy stim an imitation bird sound he picked up from Phil would be really cute.

c!Wilbur/ghostbur: 10/10. Yes absolutely. In Pogtopia it was even harder to mask. Ghostbur didn't so true.

I love the stim headcanons too. The bird sound one reminds me of when o!Wilbur did "beep beep beep" when asking for food and it'd be cool for c!Wilbur too :). As a ND person I like headcanons for characters like this.