#all medical professionals fucking suck

[ink-asunder]

It's insane to me that doctors talk about "walking on eggshells" around the subject of terminative care and other gender/reproduction related procedures on the basis of "what if the patient regrets the procedure they consented to and sues me."

Bitch, you assclown, you motherfucker, you don't even give a fuck when a patient vocally and vehemently REFUSES consent for a procedure with risks. You just do it anyway and laugh off any reports to the state medical board about it. Give people abortions and HRT. Apologize to the millions of overmedicalized and physically complicated patients you've endangered, traumatized, harmed, and assaulted through carelessness, power issues, and negligence.

[princescar]

Crazy how despite Mikan's love for gory movies and blood, she doesn't do an over the top murder. She doesn't even do a medical themed murder despite it being the main focus of the chapter. (Only one of her victims was a patient and she just strangled her)

Crazy how, when she wants to commit a murder for Junko, she does neck trauma.

That's Yasuke's M.O.

[harbingersecho]

some short felix stuff. also price is there for a second

[hylianengineer]

I continue to be in awe by the power granted to me by having learned to read scientific papers.

[honeypleasejustkillme]

as much as its helpful to have a bpd diagnosis, i’ve noticed that medical professionals focus on it & stop looking at other possible issues. in for a headache? "do you take meds for your bpd?" in for adhd meds? "what do you take for your bpd?" its like bpd negates all other issues

[thepandalion]

having bad pain days suck bc I also get migraines and I keep googling if I can just. remove. the parts of my body that hurt. with the most broken grammar ever

[classics-cocks-and-concoctions]

Doodles of my sona while I’m being mopey and sad

[queerstudiesnatural]

still upset by my therapist strongly implying that autism's biggest telltale is lack of empathy/understanding of others. not only is that factually untrue, but my problem is literally the opposite. i have too much empathy, i notice too much, i feel too much. no i don't have a problem "reading between the lines" or "inferring people's intentions" i never stop reading between the lines and inferring people's intentions. think will graham but without the murders.

[thethingything]

I feel like recently I've been kind of hyperaware of how touch-starved we are but also there's nobody we know in person that we'd be comfortable hugging or really touching at all so I don't know what to do about it but I feel like I'm losing my mind

[exculis]

been thinking about going to see a doctor for the whatever the hell has been going on with me recently and i might not after all bc i feel like i will just sound crazy.

[lettersiarrange]

Moving out of the tags by request:

Ok I disagree with the second poster. As someone currently in treatment for vaginismus, there are pelvic pain specialists.

Vaginismus can be caused by a lot of things... trauma, SA, physical damage to your pelvis (like from a car crash or giving birth), hormone imbalance, etc. The treatment to some extent depends on the cause. For instance, if it's from trauma related to SA you should probably see a mental health therapist along with a pelvic pain physical therapist.

And I'm not going to deny that finding treatment can be hard-- I had to fight my PCP for a referral to a PT. but I got the referral.

The treatment, though, is pretty effective. Barring ongoing physical damage, ultimately your muscles are acting like this bc they're anticipating pain from penetration, whether that's bc you have a history of assault or physical damage or emotional hangups around sex. The treatment is slowly teaching your body that penetration isn't inherently painful or a threat. It's a lot of going very slow and teaching your body how to feel safe and respecting when it says no.

And yeah if you have physical damage you still need to fix that. If you have trauma you still need to see a mental health provider. But retraining your muscles physically is still pretty effective in conjunction with those things.

For me it's primarily psychological but I also found out my birth control fucked with my hormones enough that my vaginal canal is atrophied, which is apparently not super uncommon... so there's some prescription topical estrogen involved as well.

But I really want to emphasize that most patients who follow the physical therapy regimen DO see significant benefits and usually end up ""cured""

And this is not that uncommon-- my PT is booked out 8 weeks in advance and she's a pelvic pain PT specifically.

She says her biggest struggle is she has a lot of patients who make an initial appt but never show up... maybe out of shame or embarrassment, or maybe bc something legitimately comes up but it's too much of a hassle or they chicken out on rescheduling.

I do not endorse the idea that it's this horrible thing you can never recover from.

I felt so broken for such a long time and like I was just doomed to be unloveable...and I was afraid to talk about it bc there's so much shame around it.

But there ARE treatments and they DO work. And they focus on respecting your body and its responses and being gentle with it, not judging it bc it's not doing what you want.

And my PT is so knowledgeable and open and helpful and responsive and really goes out of her way to help people feel safe.

Get! A! Referral!

I actually talked abt this with one of my mental health therapists and SHE has vaginismus too. Which is to say it's way more common than people think.

But you have options. This is resolveable. It's just like any physical issue which needs physical therapy.

While everyone is different and there may be some people who don't find success with the treatments available, most people are able to work through this with the help of a pelvic PT. It is absolutely worth trying and there IS hope.

We all know what erectile dysfunction is but literally no one is ever taught what vaginismus is and it can cause people to feel extremely lost, broken, and cause people to take their own lives. Raise. Awareness.

[carsickcrow]

i’ve been constantly thinking about how i Need to start medically transitioning soon. and i was like. hey i had a draft where i said that basically. maybe i’ll post that now because i’m still thinking it and

novermebr…

[threadmonster]

Random advice: if you have a surgery involving bones and surgical hardware (screws, plates, etc..) and you're worried something is wrong, ask for a CT scan. You want a CT scan. Push for a CT scan.

[agonfiles]

going feral seeing a doctor make a video saying "everyone gets sick in the winter, stop freaking out" and seeing comments that are like, "yeah you're totally right, i've been sick every month for the past year" and like, that's Not Normal!!! that's not normal!! people didn't used to get sick that often during the winter! also, why the fuck are you telling people to basically grow a pair instead of, oh i dunno, treating their worries with respect and kindness as their fucking doctor?

anyways, wear an n95. waste water data shows that there is still quite a lot of covid goin' 'round. be safe. covid can absolutely ruin your immune system (and more) and you don't need to be getting sick so often! wear an n95/kn95/respirator!

[genderqueerdykes]

one of the most evil parts about me being told that i needed to lose weight before i could get my diseased gallbladder removed was that without telling me at all whatsoever, the physician's assistant who was responsible for my surgery consult silently gave me a referral for bariatric weight loss surgery. she told me that i'd have to get my gallbladder removal surgery with that department as well because they're used to working on bigger bodies.

she told me this, but that's not what she meant. she wanted me to get bariatric weight loss surgery all because i told her that i have poly cystic ovarian syndrome and that it's hard for me to willingly lose weight. when i called the bariatric surgeons about scheduling my consult for my gallbladder removal, they were extremely confused and were like "well is this for the bariatric surgery referral or the gallbladder removal referral?"

without my permission, without me asking, the physician's assistant silently signed me up for weight loss surgery that i never consented to. i never once mentioned wanting this surgery. i never once mentioned that my weight is affecting my health or bothering me. this person saw this as a mandatory step in order to get the surgery to remove my diseased organ. as if there were no other options. i never want to get bariatric weight loss surgery because i know it will completely devastate my health. this PA was so stuck on my weight. she could not get over it, she was literally obsessed. she did not care about my health, safety or well being, she was just obsessed with her hatred of fat people

she saw my weight as a higher priority than my diseased gallbladder. she was so stuck up her own ass that she was convinced that my weight was doing more damage to me than my gallbladder was. she wanted to keep blaming me for eating a high fat diet (i'm a vegetarian- i don't eat a high fat diet) and mocking me for being fat. she literally saw me being fat as a bigger issue than the fact that i had a literal rock stuck in the neck of one of my organs. if you ask me, if the surgeons and anesthesiologists have problems working on fat patients, that's a skill issue on them. that means you're a bad surgeon or anesthesiologist and you need to try to improve your skills. this is a literal skill issue, it's not the patient's fault that the medical professional fucking sucks at their job!

i can't describe to you how evil and insidious that is. the fact that she looked at me and went "oh my fucking god it's your weight that's the problem just go lose weight you fat asshole" just showed how much disregard she has for her fat patients. it's like she relishes torturing us or leaving us to be sick or die. there's no reason to behave this way. there's no reason to FORCE someone into weight loss surgery. my health is NOT being negatively impacted by my weight- gallstones are not caused by being overweight, and you can't give yourself gallstones. no matter how much fat you eat you can't give yourself gallstones- this is something that happens outside of your control

i hate medical professionals who are proudly fatphobic. they wear the fact that they let people remain sick and die as a badge of honor. like they're doing the world a favor. like staying sick or dying is better off for the patient. like the patient somehow doesn't "DESERVE" to be in good health. fat people DO deserve to be in good health. we DON'T have to "EARN" surgeries or life saving procedures. we are alive and human just like everyone else. this qualifies us for being cared for medically, no matter what. leave your prejudices at home. you can't just kill fat people because you don't like that we exist.

[paymechildsupport]

Milked for Every Last Drop ~ // 🥛🐄

Francis Mosses x M!Reader // 😋🙏

HC's [NSFW]

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Holy smokes the THINGS I WANNA DO to THIS MAN--

(That glass is NOT stopping me 😂🙏🥛🤤) 

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  ‘Thinkin’ about how this man’s the biggest fucking cum slut in the whole mf complex. He’s the milkman, but most people don’t know Francis doesn’t mind being milked himself. 

After a long day of dropping off cartons of milk he’ll drag himself to your office at the lobby. As a doorman, you often don’t get home until very late at night— if you ever even make it home. Resigned, Francis has to come to you if he wants his thirst satiated. 

      He’s such a goddamn slut, whoring himself out, whimpering and fucking SQUELING as you pump his swole cock for every last drop. He whines an ungodly amount. All it takes is your strong hand wrapped around his pretty dick for Francis to be reduced to a simpering, sobbing mess. A huge crybaby too. 

Like puddy in your hands, he’d make such a mess,— you’d need to lay towels down everywhere. 

In your office, shutters down after a long winded day at work,— fingers expertly rubbing up and down your husband’s twitching cock, cum flowing as you physically have to hold him up lest he fall off the couch,— which has happened in the past,— the pathetic mutt shaking so much has done the small, old couch in your office in. 

One time you were going down, sucking sloppily at his hard-on on the office couch when all of a sudden it broke— fucking gave out like Francis’ weak legs. While you were rather amused your husband was quite mortified, intent on controlling his spasming body. 

You disliked how tense his body became during intimacy,- so much so you made sure the next time you fucked his brains out and pounded his pretty ass into the bed you made him come so hard he tore his vocal cords and felt tremors ripple throughout his entire body for the rest of the week. He never tried to deny you of his pleasurable reactions again. 

[Additional HC’s <3] 

He’d give you sloppy toppy under your desk while you work (just pray you can focus enough to not terminate the wrong person 😞) 

Loves it when you swallow his cum and kiss him immediately afterwards; like pouncing and sloppily slamming your lips to his, swirling your tongue all around, watching him come undone at the taste of himself on his tongue🙏😋

He’s lactose intolerant 

Certain men can struggle getting aroused, especially if they have a medical condition, are on certain meds, or have depression / anxiety. 1950’s and mental health being nonexistent poor darling can’t properly talk to a professional about his inner turmoils, and sometimes he struggles getting erect. No matter how much you both try, he just physically can’t. Really self conscious of it too, he feels utterly pathetic (and not in that good way). You reassure him you don’t mind, and you love him for him, as your charmingly sleep deprived milkman <3 

           *A/N: Dunno what it is but there’s something so attractive in pleasuring a man who can’t get erect— I read a Geto fanfiction on here about it and it awoke something deep within me. Really need to find that one again, it’s a gorgeous piece. 

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