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[sophiebaek]

I really hope Violet will be Sophie and Benedict’s firstborn. They’ve already changed the genders of Daphne and Simon’s, as well as Penelope and Colin’s, firstborns for plot reasons. Just like Simon, who deliberately didn’t want to continue his lineage because of his father, it would make thematic sense for Sophie to have a daughter—symbolizing that she’s no longer afraid her child will suffer the same fate she did.

Yes, yes, yes. I fully agree and I see a lot of the fandom has this same thought! I kinda went on a ramble so please enjoy this analysis of Sophie and Violet II I do love my baby Charles, but the significance of Sophie having a daughter is so important to her character. This quote has always stays with me:

"If I have a child," she said, her voice starting to crack, "do you know how much I would love it? More than life, more than breath, more than anything. How could I hurt my own child the way I've been hurt? How could I subject her to the same kind of pain?"

When Sophie is saying this to Benedict she refers to her theoretical child as Her. A daughter. She has been unloved and lonely her entire life and no one was there for her as a little girl. Sophie hopes to give her daughter a life so unlike her own; one that is full of love and happiness. One that doesn't make her daughter ashamed of her existence. Sophie speaks:

"They say that a smart person learns from her mistakes...But a truly smart person learns from other people's mistakes." She pulled away, then turned to face him. "I'd like to think I'm a truly smart person. Please don't take that away from me."

And that's why Sophie refuses Benedict's offer— Sophie will not be her mother, and her daughter will not be her. Violet II represents all of that to Sophie. She is a way for Sophie to grieve the life she wish she had, but also heals her for not repeating history she's tried so hard to avoid.

In addition, I think it's time we finally have a granddaughter in the family— yes, we have Belinda but the odds of seeing her are low as Saphne has been filtered out of the show. She's also named after the matriarch of the family; Violet plays a significant role in Benedict and Sophie's love story so having Violet II be their first born can be a satisfying reward at the end of the season. If she is born first then I assume Violet II may be the one that is sick in s5 (if Eloise is next AND if they choose to include that storyline). This can also continue Sophie's feelings about motherhood and family as she's fought so hard to get this life, only for it to be potentially taken away from her.

So in conclusion. I love Sophie. I love Violet II. I hope she's born first bc it's important!

[shadesofmauve]

I want to step away from the art-vs-artist side of the Gaiman issue for a bit, and talk about, well, the rest of it. Because those emotions you're feeling would be the same without the art; the art just adds another layer.

Source: I worked with a guy who turned out to be heavily involved in an international, multi-state sex-slavery/trafficking ring.

He was really nice.

Yeah.

It hits like a dumptruck of shit. You don't feel stable in your world anymore. How could someone you interacted with, liked, also be a truly horrible person? How could your judgement be that bad? How can real people, not stylized cartoon bogeymen, be actually doing this shit?

You have to sit with the fact that you couldn't, or probably couldn't, have known. You should have no guilt as part of this horror — but guilt is almost certainly part of that mess you're feeling, because our brains do this associative thing, and somehow "I liked [the version of] the guy [that I knew]", or his creations, becomes "I made a horrible mistake and should feel guilty."

You didn't, loves, you didn't.

We're human, and we can only go by the information we have. And the information we have is only the smallest glimpse into someone else's life.

I didn't work closely with the guy I knew at work, but we chatted. He wasn't just nice; he was one of the only people outside my tiny department who seemed genuinely nice in a workplace that was rapidly becoming incredibly toxic. He loaned me a bike trainer. Occasionally he'd see me at the bus stop and give me a lift home.

Yup. I was a young woman in my twenties and rode in this guy's car. More than once.

When I tell this story that part usually makes people gasp. "You must feel so scared about what could have happened to you!" "You're so lucky nothing happened!"

No, that's not how it worked. I was never in danger. This guy targeted Korean women with little-to-no English who were coerced and powerless. A white, fluent, US citizen coworker wasn't a potential victim. I got to be a person, not prey.

Y'know that little warning bell that goes off, when you're around someone who might be a danger to you? That animal sense that says "Something is off here, watch out"?

Yeah, that doesn't ping if the preferred prey isn't around.

That's what rattled me the most about this. I liked to think of myself as willing to stand up for people with less power than me. I worked with Japanese exchange students in college and put myself bodily between them and creeps, and I sure as hell got that little alarm when some asian-schoolgirl fetishist schmoozed on them. But we were all there.

I had to learn that the alarm won't go off when the hunter isn't hunting. That it's not the solid indicator I might've thought it was. That sometimes this is what the privilege of not being prey does; it completely masks your ability to detect the horrors that are going on.

A lot of people point out that 'people like that' have amazing charisma and ability to lie and manipulate, and that's true. Anyone who's gotten away with this shit for decades is going to be way smoother than the pathetic little hangers-on I dealt with in university. But it's not just that. I seriously, deeply believe that he saw me as a person, and he did not extend personhood to his victims. We didn't have a fake coworker relationship. We had a real one. And just like I don't know the ins-and-outs of most of my coworkers lives, I had no idea that what he did on his down time was perpetrate horrors.

I know this is getting off the topic, but it's so very important. Especially as a message to cis guys: please understand that you won't recognize a creep the way you might think you will. If you're not the preferred prey, the hind-brain alarm won't go off. You have to listen to victims, not your gut feeling that the person seems perfectly nice and normal. It doesn't mean there's never a false accusation, but face the fact that it's usually real, and you don't have enough information to say otherwise.

So, yeah. It fucking sucks. Writing about this twists my insides into tense knots, and it was almost a decade ago. I was never in danger. No one I knew was hurt!

Just countless, powerless women, horrifically abused by someone who was nice to me.

You don't trust your own judgement quite the same way, after. And as utterly shitty as it is, as twisted up and unstead-in-the-world as I felt the day I found out — I don't actually think that's a bad thing.

I think we all need to question our own judgement. It makes us better people.

I don't see villains around every corner just because I knew one, once. But I do own the fact that I can't know, really know, about anyone except those closest to me. They have their own full lives. They'll go from the pinnacles of kindness to the depths of depravity — and I won't know.

It's not a failing. It's just being human. Something to remember before you slap labels on people, before you condemn them or idolize them. Think about how much you can't know, and how flawed our judgement always is.

Grieve for victims, and the feeling of betrayal. But maybe let yourself off the hook, and be a bit slower to skewer others on it.

[duchi-nesten]

remember when i joked about cujo being a secret agent?????? well him and perry the platypus are friends and meet up once a month to drink and spill tea

[skrankku]

All 100% canon outfits. Happy pride y'all!

5 hours later:

[gyudons]

what if we were an elite goalie tandem who gave each other hugs after winning games. and what if i sat half-naked in the locker room as cameras filmed me before the game. and i grabbed you by your hip pad and dragged you close. and you had a little happy giggle about it. and we were both boys.

[letmebegaytodd]

[hisbucky]

Chris: Buck, can I ask you something? Buck: Of course, bud. Always. Chris: What are the birds and the bees? Buck: ...Did your dad put you up to this? Chris: He said you can explain it better. Buck, under his breath: Of course he did. He is going to owe me so many favors for this.

[ent-is-indecisive]

edwin vision of charles training with the zweihander. this is a memory only sketch so we're taking liberties for the gayness of it all.

[kihorri]

A Gem

[normalbrothershow]

sam winchester + the incest diary | post inspired by x

[anstarwar]

I only just met her and I miss her already

Koril I love you

[acolorboom]

Moons Child

[givemedamage]

bahhh-tinum the trinity

[boxesblr]

Mayor Vic Michaelis - Good Time Society plays Blood on the Clocktower

[starsonablackboard]

since i finally drew something akin to a finished illustration, i wanna share my process bc i like seeing processes of other artists and just cause i like this piece. the image desc has more info if you're interested!!

and remember how i said i like seeing processes of other artists? >:) as a little self indulgence,

@teruuu @linvxtheghost @sriibble @aniimoni @greedykrab

i would ask you, my lovely mutuals (and whoever else who wants to, tag me in case of!), share your drawings processes too! as a series of images or a speedpaint or whatever else. please don't feel obligated to do this if you don't want to tho. and if you do feel free to tag others, too <3