#adhd is transphobic confirmed

[fobnsfwdoodles]

[g1r-ap0ca1yps3]

Intro to my account!

Hi I'm Conan i often go by the nickname Cade though I wont use tumbler a lot and if you want to get in contact with me your best bet is my Pinterest which I'll link at the end but yeah i guess I'll say some things about myself

I'm a transgender boy i use the term demi boy more as a side label since I also identify with xenogenders but mostly just a boy lol i use he/it pronouns along with all neos and yeah thats it for my gender i think

Okay i use a lot of stuff for my sexuality but basically I'm aroace oriented and omni romantic + i use biromantic as a umbrella term. I'm ambiamorous which means I'm open to polyamory and monoamory relationships. i use a lot of labels so if you wanna see them all check out my pronouns page I'll link it at the end

Next i guess I'll talk about my mental health lmao so basically i have depression and unspecified anxiety disorder professionally diagnosed also professionally diagnosed ODC and dyslexia and Dysgraphia so if theres any spelling or grammar mistakes in this please be patient

I'm trying to be scene and emo but i listen to a lot of different music genres my favorite are scene, scenecore, hyper pop, pov: Indie, scenemo and emo. I'm alternative kinda scene kinda scenecore kinda emo just a blend lolz.

I'm a huge anime fan i love things like ouran host club, banna fish, SK8 the infinity, Bungo stray dogs, ohshi no ko, the stranger my the shore, toilet bound hanako kun, demon slayer, yuri on ice, sasaki to Miyano and a lot more i also read manga when i can find it online for free cuz I'm broke asf

I'm a minor so any donation requests will be ignored as i cannot donate and i also don't want to repost something if i don't know if it's legit so i apologize but i will just delete those dms and comments i do hope if your in actual need of help you can raise the money but at this moment i am not able to help and am not able to confirm your legitimacy

I see people putting a dni list so I'll make one too ig? If your Racist, homophobic, transphobic, ablist, xenophobic, extremely judgemental, say things like "OMG I'M SO AUTISTIC/ADHD/ECT" and you don't have that thing, really anything toxic in General your a dni. A few more things that aren't necessarily a dni but kinda are? If you hate on furries, therians, otherkin, alterhumans, ect. I'm not any of those but in my opinion it's just stupid, annoying, and petty to hear people hate on them when what they do literally doesn't affect you whatsoever so yeah a dni but if your neutral to them then not a dni

!Important! Even though I've put my sexualities and wanting a QPR I'm not open to online dating and never will be!

Yeah i think thats it I'll put the links to some of my platforms I'll update this whenever things change also keep in mind my TikTok is not my personal account it’s my online one

[ratskinsuit]

Introduction And Rules and Blah

Feel free to request anything :)

(Drawing above by me)

Hello you can call me Fuse, I go by any pronouns although feminine is preferred. Welcome to my little trash can of chaos.

This blog will mainly contain random chaotic shit I feel like posting at random times, and fanfiction.

‼️🛑THIS BLOG WILL CONTAIN NSFW TOPICS AND STORIES🛑‼️

As per the usual MDNI, I will allow people that are 16+ because by then you should know better and I feel you can handle it more, but it is your own choice to read and interact or not. However if you are younger and do chose to interact I cannot stop you because I am not your mother, and whatever you chose to expose yourself to if you ignore this warning will be your own fault.

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RULES AND SUCH:

No pedos, homophobes, racists, sexists, minors (read warning above) or rapists and stuff like that.

If you request something on my page that is nsfw and I believe your a minor I will ignore it, and if it is confirmed I will block you.

Do not harrass or discriminate to anybody on this blog. (In requests, comments, reposts ect-)

If you break these rules (which there are not many so it won’t be too hard) you will be blocked.

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RULES FOR REQUESTING:

Requests Are Open :)

What I will write:

Smut (Keep in mind I am AroAce so if it is not realistic I am sorry)

Fluff

Angst

Character x Reader

Character x Child!Reader (Platonic)

Character x Reader x Character (Polyamourus)

Any gendered reader

Headcannons

Drabbles

Reader personality traits/habits (such as: Reader is gloomy/optimist, or reader fidgets alot/Has a habit of talking outloud)

What I will not write:

Piss, scat, vomit, vore ect-

Pedophilia

ABDL/Age Regressing (I have nothing against it it’s just not something I really want to write)

Beastiality (With actual animals, hybrids are fine)

Character x Character

Noncon

Yandere

Reader with certain race, ethnicity, religion ect-

Trans readers (I am not transphobic at all, I just personally am not trans so I wouldn’t know how to write it)

Specific details about the readers appearance

No reader disorders (ADHD is fine however)

What I am currently writing for:

Hazbin Hotel (Any character except for children. Will write for Nifty, Mimzy, Emily, o and only MAYBE alastor)

May start for creepypasta but idk

Other info on requesting:

If readers gender is not specified or hinted at, will be set to gn

If type (Heacanons, Drabble, Story) is not specified, I will just do Headcanons + Short Drabble

Feel free to add reader details (listed in what I will do) but I will not do ones that are too specific, I try to be open so everyone can enjoy and see themselves in the reader :)

I do not use the terms “Y/N” or “Reader” in my stories or drabbles because I personally do not like it and feel like it breaks the immersion (Will use reader for headcanons though)

I will usually write things in second person (You, Yourself)

I go in order of when things are requested, so if you requested something and are following the rules, it will be written after eyertging before it.

If you have any questions or concerns relating to what I write, or if you have a request, feel to ask in the ask box and I will get to it soon as possible.

MASTERLIST

[jan-pi-suli-ala]

welcome to my blog

this post is getting long so everything unimportant is under the cut now

semi important: if you follow me claim your gen 1 pokémon here

name: just call me suli ala if you need it to be short, but if you know me well enough indicated by the list of i know you mutuals, i’ve told you my name

pronouns: she/her but they/them is ok

sexuality: aroace

DNI: transphobes, homophobes, general queerphobes, racists, sexists, and <joke> anyone who’s name is jeff </joke>.

I AM A MINOR AAAA

THE I KNOW YOU MUTUALS LIST:

empty rn :/

if you follow me i’ll stalk your posts and maybe follow you back, congrats

not answering any more palestine asks, i’m sorry but it takes a while to confirm if each account is verified and some aren’t verified at all

i don’t capitalize anything, and don’t always put tone indicators, i’m not trying to be aggressive, it’s just how i type

almost certainly have adhd, probably have autism, might have apd but that could be anything

more details on me here

debate me on issues here

^ one of those links is a rickroll

sponsored tags! (i tagged this with all of them for easy access) :

average thoughts: #lawa pi suli ala

rants: #jan suli

ocs: #kama pi suli ala

other accounts:

@is-it-biblical

@official-math-posts

@lake-michigan-officially

@community-notes-real

@explodes-your-inbox

@anon-responses

pfp is gloob! he changes every season, details on the changes here

fin

[saphig-iawn]

Day 5 of Turning me into Me

Today was a strange one, but it was positive. Today gave me another chance to feel my own strength and stand my ground; I visited my parents.

Here's some Saphi lore to give context as to why this was an important conversation. I originally came out as trans in 2018. I was out to my dear girlfriend and a handful of others knew I had some gender fuckery going on. But I was uncertain, I had doubts, so all I could do one day was squeak out the words "I think I'm trans" to my mum. There was such a mounting pressure inside of me, and finally being able to tell them felt good, but things didn't pan out all that well. "So you're a crossdresser" my mum would bark while we were walking dogs together, "If you had come out as gay, I would've been more prepared" she added. Sure, let me just throw away my long term relationship for your comfort shall I? My dad couldn't hold conversation with me. There was a frost forming in the air between us, and then at my sister's engagement party a few days later, he couldn't even look me in the eye. Every time I reached out to him, he would dive away. I felt so alone and left early, lied to my sister that I wasn't well. Then I retreated into the closet, my transess felt surpressed. I went into such a dark period of questioning. But I came out the otherside as the lovely transwoman you have before you.

This time around, my parents and family are the last to find out. My friends all call me by my new name, I'm out to my colleagues at work, I'm my beautiful trans self everywhere, but to them. I couldn't help but think of the worst scenario when daydreaming about coming out to them. If my dad avoided me then, how would he react now when I tell him of how sure I am of my femininity? Would my mum be 'more prepared' now? In this time I've tried to lay down breadcrumbs, slowly invite them in and the responses were sometimes worrying. My sister and her husband talking about kids having their genitals cut off, my dad scrunching up his face at the word non-binary, my sister asking if I have any snowflake friends. The worst was my mum. She wasn't transphobic or bigoted, but she acted in a way that fucking hurt. She was telling me about her friend who's daughter came out as transwoman, and how every time she sees a photo of her friend and her new daughter she make sure she comments on how her daughter is so happy and confident. I wished I could've felt joy at that, that my mum was turning a page but all I could think was: "where were you when I came out".

My parents find it so hard to let me think for myself. I've not lived with them for a while now but they still feel that they can have this sway on my life. I've taken to straight up lying about seeing mental health professionals so that they'd understand how I work, as someone who is neurodivergent and has ADHD, because their own child's word about their own feelings is apparently not good enough. Every time they'd say "you know where we are if you want to talk" I TRIED. I TRIED AND YOU PUT ME AT ARMS LENGTH. Then I told them the plainest and most powerful truth, that I saw my doctor about getting a referral for the gender services. That was so HAPPY that something positive was finally happening, that I was going to be figuring myself out. But of course, we know the reality is that I already know who I am and have already figured it out. I've drip fed them what I've learned about myself, my body and gender dysmorphia from a young age, the realisation now that my mind and body didn't match. My mum is a fatphobic and she always thinks I'm going through this because I'm a big girl, but I shut her down every time.

So, with all of that in mind, I spoke to my parents. I told them that I've received confirmation that I'm on the gender services. I told them I'm joining support groups (lie) and that I'm meeting people who have similar experience as me (lie)... They were supportive... They actually hugged me and in their old way actually said that they'd support me, as long as I feel like I'm doing the right thing by me.

Oh I am mum and dad, and I have been for a long time.

Love, your daughter

[sleepydelights]

about me

This is an NSFT place. Minors are not welcome and I’d prefer to not interact with anyone below the age of 25 (not a hard limit on the 25 thing, I’d just prefer a fully developed frontal lobe)

Ageless blogs will be blocked on sight. This is for my safety and yours.

To expand on that(and I stole this one directly from my wife’s page because it doesn’t need changing):

DNI: minors, TERFs/transphobes, racists, fascists, detrans fetishists, zoophiles (sigh, I hate that this even needs to be said. IF YOU FUCK SOMETHING OR SOMEONE THAT CANNOT OR DOES NOT CONSENT, IT IS RAPE AND IT IS WRONG), anti-SW or "don't pay for content"

For the time being, all but the above are welcome to interact but know that I am hesitant to interact with cis het males. Please do not be offended if I choose not to interact with you.

Sexual RP is by invite only. This invite can be earned through mutual interest and normal conversation. Thats to say, don’t come in to my asks roleplaying without having talked to me first. Enthusiastic consent is required.

This place is meant to be a place for me to explore my sexual identity and find other people that may identify with me and become a part of a community. It also tends to a place where my brain vomits heart thoughts.

There may be discussions of trauma and other triggering topics as I navigate my own story. I will do my best to apply appropriate content warnings and encourage you to DM if I’ve missed any or made a mistake.

Don’t be toxic. Everyone deserves a space here.

Block me if I bother you; you sure would be saving me some work in the future.

A little about me:

I’m almost 35 but I’m saying it now because I will forget to change it when my birthday actually happens. I am certain I have undiagnosed ADHD and autism to go along with my confirmed initialism of cPTSD.

I am married to the love of my life @seradae (she’s wonderful and amazing and you should follow her if you don’t)

I am poly but not actively seeking partnership at this time.

I’m into everyone except cishet men (and minors and other DNI folks obviously)

Pronouns I accept currently: she/her and they/them. You can pick what you’re more comfortable with and it’s okay to use them interchangeably.

I am submissive, I like to be told what to do in the bedroom. I like to be punished for doing poorly and I like to be praised for doing well.

I’m a voyeur at heart. Horny for moots. Not horny for creeps.

I feel like I have too many kinks to list at the moment but this is a work in progress and will be updated as time goes on.

If you’re curious, feel free to ask questions. Put ‘alert’ in the first message to me so I know you’ve taken the time to read the above info and we can build a friendship on trust and boundaries :)

Mutuals, yes I have a crush on you.

If you’ve made it this far, I’m Conna. It will please me to please you.

[cy-cyborg]

what do you think of as good disabled representation? like in any media you’ve seen/read where ur like “wow thats good actually”

Honestly I really struggle to answer stuff like this lol. I can talk about my thoughts on specific characters until the cows come home but as soon as someone asks about examples of [insert thing here] my mind goes blank lol.

The first one that comes to mind for me is Owl House. Luz and hunter were confirmed by the creator to be neurodivergent (ADHD and Autistic/CPTSD respectively) and are done really well, Eda's curse is a good use of disability coding, as is Gus's hallucinations and Willow's outbursts when they're both overwhelmed and a bunch of other small things throughout the series.

I also really like toothless in How to Train Your Dragon. I think the movies/shorts struck a good balance with him in showing the recovery period/relearning to fly and eventually regaining independence. The show also showed he had several prosthetic tails for different things, and it did show some of the downsides that came with it, without making it depressing/breaking the tone of the series.

I don't know if it counts as representation in the sense that you're asking about, but crip camp on netflix is also good one. its a documentary though. It's pretty heavy but worth a watch!

There was also a spoof movie I saw, years and years ago now, the movie itself was absolutely terrible, even if I remembered the name, I wouldn't recommend it, but they had a character in a wheelchair who they were trying to make offensive jokes about, but it ended up just being actually decent rep of being an adult in a wheelchair and the weird stuff that happens because of it. It kind of gave off the same vibe of transphobes trying to be jerks but ending up being accidental allies by telling trans men they'll never be women/"We can tell you're a man" lmao.

[gloriousmonsters]

it's fascinating to see people running the exact same scripts as trensmeds/exclusionists but for mental illness.

I just crossed paths with a post that was a screenshot of a tiktok where someone was clearly frustrated because 'I thought I might have autism but when I tried to bring it up with my therapist she said she literally wouldn't discuss it with me because 'everyone thinks they have it because of tiktok', and the original poster/about 90% of the notes were... celebrating this. Either variations on 'lol based psych' and 'she was right' or people explicitly saying shit like:

'Well, I was trans diagnosed with autism/adhd before it was cool and trendy! I can't believe that the diagnostic criteria is getting made stricter, it's the fault of those transtrenders tiktok kids who pretend to have mental illnesses. I get to gatekeep because I really suffered!'

(Shoutout to the confusing outlier who sagely was like 'and usually they just have bpd' in the tags. just???? just, my fair sir? also source???)

And like. It makes sense and is also so incredibly frustrating for the same reasons as transmed/exclus stuff. When you're a hurt person stuck interacting with a system that makes a lot of decisions about your personal autonomy/function, it messes with your head. It taps into that particular reaction to trauma that there was that one great post about--the mindset you get in when you see people get help when you didn't, and get furious and often default to 'it shouldn't be so easy' or 'why should they get help when I didn't?' And if you're struggling with a system that is, lbr, way more about luck in what specific people you got to talk to than any kind of well-built system, which is historically very flawed and still very flawed... well, a lot of people don't want to admit the system is a crapshoot and the people in it can be wrong so, so often, because then what about my diagnosis? my confirmation that I am what I am? fuck kids with stargenders and self-dxed teenagers with autism, I suffered for this, you can't take it away from me.

Which they aren't. If diagonistic criteria for anything is being made stricter, that's not on tiktok teens, it's on the people who write the criteria and decided that this was how they were going to handle an uptick in people thinking they are/might be autistic. If people are passing anti-trans legislation, that's because they're transphobes, not because of demigirls and non-op trans people. And are all of these kids queer, or mentally ill/ND, in the way they think they are? Probably not. Being a teenager is fucking confusing and often traumatic, and it's also a time when most of them are investigating and trying to build their identities. But I'm willing to bet that almost all are genuinely struggling with something/deviate from 'the norm'; if you want to stop kids from 'believing they're something wrongly' maybe focus your energy on putting the message out that it's ok to be wrong about things, that self-discovery is a process-- in this specifically, how to interact with mental health diagnoses and manage your symptoms, no matter where they stem from, in helpful ways, etc etc.

But please do the bare minimum and don't let personal pain turn you into a bitter, smug asshole who celebrates when they see kids experiencing gatekeeping that could really, really fuck them over, OK? Like physical disability and queer identity, the few 'fakers' you'll 'catch' by being cruel and suspicious will in no way be worth the people dead because only people who REALLY need help should be able to get it.

[kledface]

Idk i guess i should consider an intro post or something?

Name:

Hi, im kledface, but you can call me kled. No, i have no association with league of legends and have been entirely turned off from playing it due to people asking if my name is because of the character. There is an origin story though!

Content:

I like sharing cute animals, pretty things, memes, and trans shit, cause i am a trans shit, people should be nicer/more normal about trans folks, especially those who are trans-fem and gender nonconforming. I also enjoy sharing art, both my own and others, because art is amazing. Sometimes i will post my weird little rambles here. Sometimes theyre serious, sometimes theyre just pissing in the wind. Life is full of wonder or some schist idk

Identity:

Im trans, genderfaun, my pronouns do change sometimes, but for the most part, he, they, and it are all fine for me. Go ahead and dabble in neos if you want, im not 100% sure what works and what doesnt there. Im also kinda coming to terms with being demi-aroace, or demian. This is a newer label for me, but i think its the right one. Im a pretty proud furry, and also an otherkin; hi, dragon speaking. My fursona is a dragon, but i have plenty of characters; some are even not dragons! I love dragons more than anything. I am mentally ill, with severe depression, social anxiety, schizophrenia, and a very troubled past that has caused splitting, and most likely either ADHD, autistic, or both, but nothing is confirmed yet besides being dyslexic. Currently am 19, though on the kalends of april i will be 20. This makes me nervous. I do not enjoy celebrating my birthday.

Likes and dislikes:

I love dragons, pineapple, rain and snow, fire, lightning, warhammers, birds, cats, the colours orange and blue, food, flowers, shiny rocks, dnd, mtg, drawing, reading, video games, a wide variety of music, the forest, and helping others, especially those im closer to. I hate conspiracy theories, aliens, bell pepper, chartreuse, intense heat, being short, bigots, and being treated like a demon. Some of these things are because of my past, others are just general hates

Personality:

Because of the splitting, sometimes its not just one person talking; there are eleven of us with different personalities. I, as the host, am the person you are most likely to catch though. I like to consider myself fun loving, though protective. Compassionate and easily scared. Some of us are much more grumpy, and cynical, while others are literal children. Please have patience with us, we are trying.

Other socials:

I do have some other platforms. This is the one im on second most often.

Discord: kledface [active]

Instagram: kartoffelzauberer [semi-active]

Twitter: kledface [inactive]

I have a reddit but i dont remember it

Technically i can invest in others but i dont really want to unless i have to, and there are some i havent listed but dont even worry about those, i dont want to be found

DNI:

Listen. Im a generally accepting person. But some people arent welcome here. No homophobes or transphobes, no terfs, no racists, no xenophobes, no ablists, no sexists, no ageists; If you hate someone for a fundamental aspect of their being, get the fuck out. Also, no anti-furs. This isnt the same, cause its more of a fandom thing, but if you hate someone for their fandom, i dont want to hear about it. Leave. Bye felicia. I will likely block you if you are a pro-shipper, because ew. And if you are any kind of pedophile, zoophile, or rapist, i would hunt you down and kill you myself if i could, i don't care how you excuse yourself, youre a disgraceful piece of shit who doesn't deserve to live, literally kill yourself. I hate saying and hearing that, but youre the kind of person who deserves it.

Finale:

I think that's it. Hit me up if you have questions or wanna talk, my askbox and messages are open. Thank you for coming to my KLEDtalk

[Kountenance, Lecturing, Education, Dick]

[dearestsilhouette]

New Intro Post!!

Hello! Local multifandom individual here, aka Mist. I’m just here to be here! This post has a whole bunch of stuff, including my interests, a DNI list, important information and more!

But first, some askable ocs and other blogs I own! (If you wanna ask an oc, please specify who it’s for! It’d be appreciated.)

* Fay — Open * Cayleb — Open * Chip — Open * Devin — Open * Hex / Hexa — Open

(Some info about the ocs can be found here!)

Next, blogs I own!

@pixilatedbitmap (yes I know pixelated is spelled wrong I don’t know how to change it), an ask and rp blog for a JSAB oc!

@sillydigitalpeople, an ask blog for two TADC ocs!

But, anyways, all of the info you need is under the cut! (it’s a bit long, sorry)

Alright, so, hi! The name’s Mist, as shown above. I love plenty of stuff, and some of this stuff is…:

* Object Shows (I’ve been in the fandom for 2 or 3 years now!) * Just Shapes and Beats [JSAB / JS&B] * The Pink Corruption [TPC] * Pikuniku * Bugbo * TADC [The Amazing Digital Circus] * PA [Project Arrhythmia] (Newest interest!)

[This is going to be updated at some point!]

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DNI List

Okay, so, there’s quite a few things that are in my DNI list. These things are:

* Anyone who falls under basic DNI criteria (Homophobic, transphobic, ableist, xenophobic, etc) * TERFs (Trans-Exclusionary Radical Feminist) * Support problematic creators * Anyone over the age of 18 * NSFW (In terms of sexual content) blogs * Enforce your religion strongly onto others / believe it’s the only correct religion and shame anyone who believes anything else

[This will, most likely, also be updated at some point.]

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Important Info

I personally think people should know certain things that I do online before interacting with me. Some of this important info is:

* I’m a minor! I have school, although I may check this before I go to class or recess. * I use tone tags, so if you’re confused with tone, ask! I’ll add tone tags / confirm what tone I’m using if you need it. * I love to use text emoticons!

(Ex - :3, :P, :], :D, etc [By the way, this is on another line because for some reason the colon part (: <- that) bolds and I can’t change it for some reason.])

* I may hyperfixate on things, but not all of my interests may appear often on my account. * I’m very irritable / get angry easily. * I curse sometimes! * It’s common to see my profile picture and theme change; don’t be too surprised! I do it a little often. * I’m 80% sure I have ADHD, but I have not been diagnosed, so I cannot be sure. * Possible Quintagon synpath! * I do have another account, it’s just inactive! The “at” (@) is @m1st-ig.

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Tags

* Mist’s Art [Art posts] * Mist’s Ask Responses [Responses to asks] * Mist’s Shenanigans [For when I post stupid shit / shitposts]

(I’ll most likely add more tags onto this as time goes by, these two are simply the only ones I have right now.)

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Extra Information

As the subheading states, this is for extra information. It’s scattered and random, but it’s here!

* I listen to some weird music. I have an odd music taste * I play roblox! My username is “TheGreenMist2021”, my display may change though. * If you follow me and I haven’t interacted with you, there’s a 98% chance that I will check out your account (and I may reblog / like some stuff)! * I think I have too many ocs…… (/sarc, I definitely have too many. I don’t know what to do with them)

[creepsinart]

Introduction jumpscare no way-

Hi I am CreepsInArt and welcome to my little silly artblog!

If this is your first time here.. maybe consider reading this if you want!.. Or don't. What'll I do? Sue you? maybe- of course I can't do that! About me and DNI is under keep reading, enjoy!

- About ME! -

Psst.. I have a pronouns page if you want to look at that I go by He/Him and She/Her (He is preferred)

Even if I prefer more male specific words I am still a female irl. I just tend to prefer male pronouns more! (I am not Trans, but you guys are awesome :) )

Bisexual and Asexual! !Any homophobes can fuck off!

Currently questioning if I either have ADHD or Autism, though I still have to get some sort of appointment for that. So I won't confirm nor deny

My current main hyperfixation is the pokepasta Strangled Red! But here are some other fandoms I am in: Roblox Pressure, Portal, Pokémon, Rain World, Ultakill, Voices of the Void, Omori and many more! Also another hyperfixation is Dinosaurs-

I am pretty introverted and socially anxious. Also not that great with words. Apologies if I am or sound awkward!

I am German.. just a neat little funfact

I don't really have some sort of Sona for myself.. but I would like to have one. If I ever have the time or an idea maybe

I love cats! (Favorite animal ever since I was born)

- The Silly Little DNI List! -

DNI If you are a: -Proshipper -Homophobe -Transphobe -Racist -Zoophile -Sexist in any way -Ableist

- Thanks for reading, have a nice day!! - All stuff is subject to change or there may be some stuff to add

[doctorwhoisadhd]

okay. i just saw someone being like "WHOA STEVEN MOFFAT SAID A NICE THING???" about that thing where he said that using someone’s preferred pronouns is just common decency, and y'all?? we need to stop this

steven moffat is not a villain, he's not a bad writer, he didn't ruin doctor who or whatever, he is a PERSON which means he has the ability to learn and change and grow. and YES, he made some Mistakes during the matt smith era of the show. but like?? we all contain multitudes, no media and no creator is going to be perfect

steven moffat made it canon that the doctor has ADHD (check the link in my bio or hit me up for sources!!!). he wrote BOTH of the twelfth doctor’s companions as explicitly queer women, in particular bill, who was a black lesbian and from her very first episode was shown to have romantic feelings for another woman!

he was also literally the person who put time lords regenerating from a male incarnation to a female one in the show for the first time ever. both missy and the general (who in hell bent also confirmed that usually her incarnations were female. iirc she was the first cross-racial regeneration shown on tv as well, though i could be wrong?)

so, really. anyone who thinks him Not being a transphobe is, like, out of the ordinary at all? yeah. you have not been paying attention

[gay-otlc]

Lodestar Recap

Nothing but facts here

Sophie needs so much help with her trich-

Fitz is more upset about losing Keefe than losing Alvar.

Sophie is nonbinary

Sophie is also extremely gay for Biana

Keefe needs therapy. So much therapy.

Grady has some unresolved feelings about Jolie joining the Neverseen that he takes out on Keefe. I should write an essay about this but I probably won't.

KEEFITZ ANGST

Ruy and Alvar are roommates...

Fitz is jealous of Sophie and Keefe's relationship, but Sophie is the one he's jealous of.

Sophie is also gay for Linh.

Tam is nonbinary.

Refusing gendered titles is an Alenefar family trait.

Sophie never actually states that Tiergan's connection to Prentice was platonic, just that it was strong.

Tiergan and Prentice held hands! 🧡 I mean Prentice was in a coma and Tiergan was panicking but we will focus on the positive here

Tiergan very much wants to adopt Tam and Linh, as he should.

Cassius and Quan Song are dating.

In a boys vs girls competition, Sophie should have taken their rightful position lying on the floor doing nothing.

Tam refuses to go within ten feet of Keefe's underwear... no further comment

Fitz searches Keefe's closet, deleted scene where he actually just finds Keefe in there

Keefe wears Fitz's bramble jersey

The black swan collective should go on a road trip, actually (Forkle is afraid of cars).

Alden, who apparently has the worst gaydar on the planet, tried talking to Biana about boys. :/

Dex is aspec.

It's our right as a fandom to see the councillors' splotching match.

It is extra our right as a fandom to see more dark!Grady.

Kesler Dizznee teaching his sons about consent, stan him!

Livvy & Juline friendship content when?

Kesler/Juline marriage supremacy (my parents are divorced)

Dex hates binary code... nonbinary Dex confirmed?

Don't think about Tiergan's reaction to Wylie getting kidnapped... don't think about him hearing all the details of Cyrah's death... don't think about him blaming himself for that... don't think about Tiergan feeling useless because he can't do enough to make Wylie happy... think about it actually it's painful but fun.

Keefe and Fitz act like exes in Lodestar. Because they are.

Keefe has ADHD.

King Dimitar and Fintan met alone *wiggles eyebrows*

In order to not make Grady upset about boys, Sophie should just date Biana.

In all seriousness, can Grady just... not.

"Marella's checking out Tam" yes... definitely the twin she has a crush on... sure /s

Tam can't keep anything straight.

Little Miss Perfect: Biana/Maruca. That is all.

Shannon likes her foreshadowing.

I need a spinoff Marella/Stina novel okay-

Sophie has writer's block. What a damn mood.

MARELLIANA-

Goblin curse words. They may have invented the word fuck and also have the term "warfuck," which means "you fucked up and started a war."

Stan Twinkle the titanoboa

Marella does not give a shit about blackmail.

Marella maybe should not have gotten her abilities triggered by Forkle. Perhaps a bad idea.

Hehe don’t think about Tiergan and Wylie receiving the updates as the kotlcrew figures out what happened with Cyrah’s death :)

Biana wants to hold Sophie's hand <3 and is jealous of Fitz holding her hand <3 they are in love <3

Biana, telling Sophie that she looks awesome in red: I will pepper in the fact that I am gay

Keefe still needs therapy. Please.

Tiergan cannot keep secrets.

Tam and Linh should be adopted by Tiergan, actually.

The council is so transphobic (doesn't let Sophie bring Ella to the peace summit)

Sophie is nonbinary, still.

Fintan has a fantastic sense of humor. I mean it's in terrible taste but it's funny.

Considering I then made a Forkle death joke, I can't really judge him.

Alden should get punched, please stop with the "no reason to worry"

AMY FOSTER 🧡

[opinated-user]

the last video about Rowling that LO pulled out revealed a couple of interesting things for me. 1. the very first thing that LO says is "so having unmedicated ADHD is an experience". remember that post where LO was comparing her experience getting medication for her ADHD was pretty easy and implied her doctor was transphobic because she didn't gave her hormones just as easily, instead requiring her to do standard testing? back then @britts-galaxy-brain, as someone with more experience on this, said that the terminology that LO for her "ADHD medication" wasn't the correct one. this, added with the fact that LO blames her ADHD for the most weird things (including repeating a song that had the n-word for weeks), made Brittany and other people with ADHD to point out that what she described as her experience with ADHD didn't ligned up with that diagnosis at all. we have confirmation straight from LO's mouth that post was a lie and she never got medication for this supposed condition of her. 2. LO's comparing the struggle of trans people for being recognized as their true self with a nazi wizard don't having his edgy nickname recognized by his ex-professor. again. this was a disgusting thing to do the first time on her twitter when she first published that portion there and claimed the same thing, it's disgusting now. don't compare trans people with nazi hitler, that's literally what transphobes do. why does LO keeps "accidentally" doing these things and she somehow thinks they are trans friendly? the rest of the video is nothing but her post about how media shouldn't get darker as time goes on, that we have heard about a million times. i mostly just see these two points because those were the only interesting things through out the whole video. oh, and at some point LO complains about how school expected kids to read but all the books were bad. i guess we can treat that as more confirmation that LO doesn't like to read books, something we could tell already with how badly written her fanfics are.

[sinful-elf]

Opinion from a Tibetan Buddhist with an emanation (tulpa) on Western Tulpamancy (x) Spoilers… it’s not appropriation.

Do not come to me claiming that tulpamancy is cultural appropriation if you:

Cannot provide a source dating before the publishing of Mystery and Magic in Tibet (1929) by Alexandra David-Néel (1868-1969) (which states, “tulpas are created by magicians while tülkus are an aspect of buddhas and bodhisattvas and are more enduring”1) which disproves her findings. (This was confirmed 25 years later by Walter Evans-Wentz (1878-1965) in The Tibetan Book of Great Liberation (1954), in which he states “…that of an incarnate deity, like the Dalai or Tashi Lama, they call a Tul-ku, and that of a magician a Tulpa, meaning a magically produced illusion or creation.”2) David-Néel’s book is the earliest mention of the word “tulpa.”

Do not come to me with any kind of syscourse at all if you:

Are under the age of 18 (serious)

Cannot link to anything outside of social media (Tumblr, Twitter, Reddit, etc)*, Carrds, screenshots of text, or hearsay (“well this person/my therapist told me…”). None of that is valid in any kind of debate.

Are just going to call us “transphobic.” Our body is transmasculine and we were intimately part of the discourses regarding “trenders” and tru/meds years ago. We know what we are talking about. Do not claim we are comparing plurality to being trans; once you make this claim, your argument is in bad faith.

Are just going to call us “ableist.” Not only do we have DID, ADHD and autism, but the body is also physically disabled. It would be best if you didn’t go there.

Are just going to call us “racist” or accuse us of “appropriation” just because I am a tulpa. Refer to the very first point on this post.

That all said, this isn’t where I’m your nice little tiefling. I get mean here. If you don’t like that, please leave.

* The exception is if the link to any social media site is a large post with its own citations. Reddit and Tumblr are well-known for these kinds of masterposts. Unsourced opinions get thrown out.

Citations:

David-Néel, Magic and Mystery in Tibet (1929), pages 120-21

Walter Y. Evans-Wentz, The Tibetan Book of Great Liberation (New York: Oxford University Press, 2000) (1954), page 29

[adhdebilitating]

☆ i N t R o ☆

Hi! The name's Rip! I'm a 30 y/o nonbinary individual who's spent a life time suffering with ADHD. Now, at age thirty, with the help of Dialectical Behavioral Therapy, I finally feel like I am on the road to properly managing it so that it doesn't continue to fuck up my life. My ADHD manifests typically in a detrimental lack of executive function, leaving me hard-pressed to do much besides be on my phone. Which I use to sometimes make posts on here! ;)

About this blog. . .

This blog contains memes about ADHD, information, tips and tricks I have found useful, DBT(Dialectical Behavioral Therapy) skills and information about my therapy journey, self anecdotes, venting, etc. It will have cussing and descriptions of living my life as a 30 y/o adult with ADHD. As such, some adult themes may be included from time to time, but never graphic or pornographic.

This blog welcomes all types of folks with ADHD(and those who wish to learn,) however, I will not tolerate bigotry of any kind. I believe ACAB, I believe Black Lives Matter, I believe LGBTQIA folks are entitled to any and all rights, I believe obviously in breaking down stigmas about mental health and neurodivergence. I am also a fierce supporter of disabled folks. I believe in real equality. If these views don't vibe with you, you're probably better off finding another blog.

A Bit About Rip. . .

I am a queer enbie living with my two wonderful partners(I'm the Capybara in the drawing, one of my partners is the bat, the other one is the bunny) in Seattle with our dog Riley and our cat Lars(currently a kitten.) I am climbing slowly out of a funk I have been in since 2015. I have the great privilege of not needing to worry about working at the moment and instead am able to dedicate all my time to DBT therapy and practicing and learning skills. I have anxiety, depression, PTSD from an abusive childhood, ADHD, and am probably somewhere on the spectrum(to be confirmed.) I also have social anxiety that is severe enough that I don't regularly get out of my house(nevermind that there's a pandemic.)

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Steven Universe, LGBTQIA+, gender fuckery, psychology, DBT therapy, animated shows, vibing with an individual and really connecting, all kinds of music, some vidya games, and more

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Math, bigotry and discrimination, cops, stigma, transphobes, racists, homophobes, classists, all that shitty shit

A Bite of History. . .

I was diagnosed at 5 and went to various neurology centers for treatment and study, but I basically forgot anything and everything I learned there(if it was even anything.) I had been medicated most of my life up until around year 21-22 when I made the decision with my own autonomy to stop taking it.

TBC...