#achillean culture is

[achilleancultureis]

Trans bears <3

[angelst4t]

ough save me bear transmasc……

bear transmasc……..

bear transmasc save me……..

[lgbtqtext]

[queerism1969]

[dsbe]

Fandom’s Most Searched Ships of 2023

Tumblr Battle Edition: Round 1

[milomilesmib]

Every achillean couple sees patrochilles and goes "omg they're so us!!!"

[femme-experience]

I know this blog isn't "femme-culture-is" but I would be more than happy if it functioned similarly! asks about femme experience & culture are encouraged, especially so this blog can gain more traction! (and so I can actually post something on here that isn't just reblogs😭)

[zo1nkss]

I still haven't gotten around to doing a side-by-side analysis of OFMD and THOBM but so many of the beats are so fucking similar like I genuinely cannot express how much they are practically the sapphic and achillean versions of each other.

[radiomogai]

[PT: Bisexual Christian flag

Achillean Christian flag

Sapphic Christian flag. end PT]

Bisexual Christian flag

Achillean Christian flag

Sapphic Christian flag

[achilleancultureis]

Achillean transmasc culture is pining. It’s staring, it’s hoping, it’s telling yourself “just a few more years”. It’s longing for what you’ve been told over and over, “you can’t have this” and getting it anyway. It’s finding joy in the most mundane of tasks, thinking of them lighting up your world. It’s finding peace in yourself and your life. It’s finally being okay.

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[cerati-oficial]

forget Tinder, forget Grindr, join Gringr

it's my new social media for hook ups, but instead of MLM, we have LLG (Latin@s Loving Gring@s)

[genderkoolaid]

Tell us about the gay trans man 50s housewife story please....

GLADLY

it's not very fleshed out but the general idea is a woman has recently been married and is trying to fill the role of Good Wife, but privately is struggling with dysphoria that she hoped would be "fixed" by getting married and putting all her effort into getting a good grade in womanhood. she tries to befriend other wives in the neighborhood but it never really clicks. one of her neighbors is a single man living alone who becomes the first person she is able to connect with. she eventually admits her desire to be a man, not just in the "it would be nice to have rights" sense but that she desperately wants to look like a man– and then she tries to laugh it off with "haha but i'm not attracted to women so I guess I'm just weird!"

the neighbor is actually a gay man who starts to introduce her to queer culture under her husband's nose, which is both extremely alluring but also disturbing to her because she's tried so hard to be a Good Straight Woman, so she goes back and forth between "giving in" and lashing out. she tries to break off their friendship, partially because people are starting to get suspicious of them but also in an attempt to force all that self realization back into a tidy box. but her already shaky relationship with her husband starts crumbling and eventually she breaks down to the neighbor because no man will love her in the way she wants. the neighbor insists that he is attracted to him, and tells him that he's no different than the thousands of other gay men pretending to be someone they're not. the neighbor gives him a haircut and new clothes and they run off together in the middle of the night to start a new life together.

related idea to this is a story in which a bride runs away from her wedding because she can't make herself marry her husband, finds a gay bar, meets a butch who helps her realize her own butchness, both of them are actually achillean trans men but don't have the language to understand it and so they have t4t dykefag sex about it

[itswhatyougive]

Occasionally running for queer life

Holding on for queer life

[poisonheiress]

Vivziepop and Queer Rep

As we all know, many fans and media reps alike have commented on the apparent "queer rep" seen in both Helluva Boss and Hazbin Hotel with many sighting their MLM relationships and use of Sallie May as proof of Vivzie's dedication to queer rep. Yet for how much this idea is spouted across social media, I cannot say that Viv truly cares about Queer Representation in her shows. The apex of this disagreement comes from phrase that man people seem to not remember when it comes down to queer rep: Representation for one is not Representation for all.

In her hyperfocus on thin, cis mlm relationships, Vivzie creates rep for only those relationships, leaving behind countless other queer identities and relationships that also heavily need queer rep. The largest dismissal of queer individuals/relationships in HH or HB appears in characters that fall into one of three categories, The Fat, Sapphic, and The Nonbinary.

The Fat

When some of you look at this, you may be confused as to what fatness has to do with queer rep, I would tell you that it has a lot to do with it. Fat people are not inherently removed from queerness and have been there since the beginning, the creation of the term Bear is proof of that. This is the first strike on HH and HB's records.

As many other creators have thoroughly pointed out, fat representation is abysmal in both HH and HB with either shows either lacking fat rep completely or having fat characters made using more fatphobic stereotypes than I could count. With this poor managing of fat representation, its no surprise that Vivzie pop ignores all possible avenues of queer rep with fat people involved. This also impacts her presentation of mlm ships with all those in these ships only appear as thin cis men, not a single bear or trans man in sight.

The Sapphic

The second largest and arguably most obvious strike against Viv comes in her disturbing lack of sapphic relationships in both shows. While HH has at least one sapphic ship (Charlie and Vaggie), HH has none to speak of. As a result, Viv's ratio of Sapphic to Achillean relationships is heavily one-sided.

It shouldn't take me having to say this for many of you to realize that you cannot claim to have true or complete queer representation when you ignore a whole side of the queer community. While this issue in sapphic relationships likely tied to Vivzie's smaller amount of women in her stories, this does not excuse it. Having one or two of these secondary characters be in a sapphic relationship (especially Sallie May) be shown or even mentioned in passing (not random background shoots) has having a girlfriend would fix this issue, but we cannot even get that.

The Nonbinary

The final strike against Vivzie's queer rep comes in both shows ignoring the existence of nonbinary characters as a whole. While we get some presentation for the binary trans community (even though most are background characters never seen again besides Sallie May), we have yet to see a single nonbinary character in either show's canon.

This is honestly fucking ridiculous. To ignore an entire gender identity because its easier or you simply don't want to is ridiculous and should strip any claimed queer rep media from their title. Nonbinary people have always existed throughout time in different countries and cultures. To think that they're wouldn't be a single nonbinary sinner or demon in hell after all this time does not make sense.

Trans people on the binary and nonbinary side have the right to representation equally, and even if we were to ignore the concerns about Viv's current trans rep, trans people deserve more rep than random background characters and a one dimensional trans woman.

The Finale

As I end this essay, I do want to say that I wanted to discuss HH and HB's treatment and ignorance of asexuality and aromanticism as they are both highly relevant to the discussion. However, I need to do more digging on Alastor and his ace situation first before I do so in order to prevent spreading misinformation.

But even without this section, I still stand on my belief that neither of Viv's shows should be paraded around as good queer media or as truly supporting queer rep. While HH has a little more leeway with Viv's only sapphic ship, HH and HB still ignore large sections of the queer community. It feels more like Viv is picking at the parts of the community she likes more, grabbing at the more marketable identities and appearances until she has enough to call her show queer.

I hope one day Viv will listen to her fans and critiques about this lack of other queer identities but I will not hold my breath. All that is left to say is that queer people deserve better especially in adult shows and in animation. Picking and choose what queer people you include in your media simply because you like one more is the farthest thing from queer rep.

[chongoblog]

achilleans like you deserve to die. You people are the reason sapphic life is a nightmare, we can't go anywhere without seeing you people appropriate our flag and our culture.

Hold on let me google something

Okay I’m back, shut up terf

[contradictory-label-culture-is]

Contradictory label culture is merely existing in a way that isn't conventional enough to have been considered by coiners.

Multigender people especially are affected (like me I'm multigender.) How can you be nonbinary and a girl? I'm multigender, they are my genders. How can you be midbinary, binary, and abinary? I'm multigender, which label I use depends on if I'm talking about myself collectively or just one of my genders. How can you be cisgender and isogender? Because my aporinity is not cis but is distinctly transn't. But I still relate to cisness because of my being a girl. How can you be enbian and a woman? I'M MULTIGENDER!

It's sad that multigender people basically can't win with sexuality labels, like seriously, I think it needs more rep in media because of it! And someone who ..I don't think was exactly multigender? I think genderqueer? They said something SO simple (no offense) it was being sapphic and Achillean, but it was on tiktok so you know even simple "contradictory" labels are weird to them (there were good comments, btw) but still, someone genuinely thought "sapphic = lesbian, Achillean = gay" I'm sorry WHAT

That's the whole reason for the term sapphic and Achillean!! It's so that multisexual people feel included in wlw or MLM without people saying "lesbian relationship" while one of them is literally bisexual or pan or omni etc!! HOW did they think sapphic was lesbian??

Of course, (TikTok wouldn't like this) but people can be gay and a lesbian (Gaybian) BUT even if you couldn't, you can be wlw and MLM!! It's SO simple and I can't people TikTok was rotting people's brains this much.

And again, it's like multigender people can't live with a sexuality!! I'm gonna go over a few.

3: "erm abrosexual!!" No?? Did they say it was fluid, my guy?? No?? Not every multigender person is genderfluid and not every genderfluid person's sexuality is fluid!!

2: "Gynesexual!!" Yeah you would want someone to just use a term that's basically woman romantic, right? No offense to people who are Gynesexual, but there is absolutely no rep for it anyway, and guess what? Lots of people feel connected to the lesbian label. (Believe it or not, someone pulled out Gynesexual and abrosexual when debating me on my sexuality. Not this next one tho)

1 (absolutely number one goes toooooooo): "that's just STRAIGHT!!" Boom we have a winner!!! 🏆 Of being the dumbest exclusivist! Maybe this should go on r/one joke or r/one comeback!!! Am I right?? Here's several reasons why they wouldn't be straight.

First off, actually tell me how you think a woman loving woman is straight. "Well it cancels out cause you're a man too!!" No it doesn't. That's just multigender transphobia, or @transmultiphobia-discussion (hehe had to tag them, sorryyyy) trans multiphobia! But actually thinking that it's crazy a woman would call herself a lesbian cause she likes women is CRAZY (reminder! Multigender CAN be straight, I'm just pointing out the logic)

And again, it's like double the gayness if they also like men! It's wlw and MLM! That's SO gay! So how the hell is it wrong if they're gay?? And it's like hell ok earth if a monosexual multigender even breathes, like GOD.

I just wonder what they'd say if a multigender person said they're straight so uh... If you want to rant about someone who hates multigender lesbians/gays that also hated straight multigender people... Tell me!