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god i know i keep half-tongue-in-cheek saying that my dad is literally belos owlhouse but. i've apparently gotten a little desensitized to Just How Bad He Is (because i have ESCAPED, YAY) & so today has been a delightful adventure.
i wrote an AITA post from his POV about stuff that happened several years ago, bc i was curious about how bad he'd get dragged - i updated the timeline but the Only fact i changed was the reason for his Woes (i blamed COVID economic struggles, which actually makes him a Hero compared to the truth. the truth being so ugly i'm not gonna detail it here good god).
i kept it true to POV by only using things that he actually did say to me at the time about why he was doing the things that he was doing, & blocking out all the relevant info about why the wronged party (me) was so upset, & having him praise his daughter (me) and go "i love her so much :) she's so smart and independent and i would never hurt her :)", & having him half-assedly admit he might've sounded unreasonable/angry/malicious, in a way that was clearly supposed to earn Good Dad points for being so Willing To Admit Imperfections, despite a continued constant doubling-down refusal to answer questions about actual important shit or fix anything ever.
cannot emphasize enough that this was not a fictionalized/embellished/creative POV. the only points of fiction were 1) my dad did not write these things on reddit, he said them to me in real life word for word instead and 2) this happened many years ago, not like... yesterday.
anyway the thread blew up and the commenters were all so kind and genuinely worried for me (as in, the daughter) and offering so much help that i hopped on a diff account to be my past self so i could reassure people i'm okay & had a plan in motion for gettin' the hell outta dodge. because i felt REALLY BAD that they didn't know i..... did in fact get out. people were so nice it made me actually fucking cry jesus CHRIST. i had in fact perhaps forgotten that these things were all as bad and worrying as they were
now. this is all a very serious and harrowing-sounding prelude to the actual point of this post, which is. a bullet list of some of my FAVORITE FUCKING RESPONSES. revel in these with me i had so much fucking fun. i have taken DOZENS AND DOZENS of screenshots to peruse whenever i need a healthy dose of Perspective
here they r:
you are CARTOONISHLY EVIL?
HOLY ABUSE BATMAN
DO BETTER. RIGHT NOW.
did you even listen to yourself writing this. HOW
there's something seriously wrong with you. like on an intrinsic unfixable level
hey this happened to me too! my parent died and i had a party about it btw
your daughter is never going to speak to you again after this
(note from the future: yeah)
you're going to act confused and sad when she goes no-contact aren't you
(NOTE FROM THE FUTURE: HE SURE FUCKING IS)
i think you are creating your own problems and then getting mad at them. maybe instead you could not do that
is this ragebait. i can't imagine anyone this horrible actually existing
this isn't ragebait. i can tell this isn't ragebait because I Know This Kind Of Man So Intimately
you are the asshole on literally so many levels i'm going to write a 15 paragraph response line-by-line dissecting everything wrong with you
are you aware that you're lying or are you literally this incapable of 2 seconds of honest self-reflection
i need to donate to a gofundme for your daughter right now immediately
(note from the future: i am not going to scam people by pretending a long-done sitch is a current emergency on gofundme. have no fear.)
wow. okay i'm gonna go hug my mom and thank her for not being you
you are Actually Literally Empirically the Actual Literal Worst Parent who has Actually Literally Ever Existed
HOW FUCKING DARE YOU????
WHO DO YOU FUCKING THINK YOU ARE.
I AM A 57-YEAR-OLD MOM OF FOUR ADULT CHILDREN AND THE MERE THOUGHT OF DOING ANY OF THE THINGS YOU HAVE DONE HERE MAKES ME PHYSICALLY NAUSEOUS
these vibes are so skeevy. leave her the fuck alone????
along with ASTONISHINGLY accurate inferences about exactly what was happening with the daughter (me) in all the missing missing reasons & like..... exactly how the situation was So Much More Ugly And Horrifying than an innocently confused i'm-so-well-intentioned dad-POV post would have you believe.
so. anyway. that was literally the most validating experience i've ever had in my entire life. i know i've said he's a bad guy before but i also always forget just how far beyond the pale he is. like wow that was. that was not a normal average human experience to have growing up huh.
IN CONCLUSION.
if you guys are ever wondering why i am the way that i am about, like........ anything....... everything....... whatever......
just remember.
i was raised by belos owlhouse.
#long post#you are allowed to laugh. this is very funny and i'm having a wonderful time healing so far away from him#CARTOONISHLY EVIL they said. the post wasn't even about any of the actual active abuse or trauma. yall.#cartoonishly evil. yeah.#when youre in the middle of something you stop noticing how bad it is after a while (see also: the current physical diseases)#but nobody will shock your system with a truth bomb like an angry mob of worried redditors. cartoonishly evil. GOD.#abuse ig#i dunno what other tags this needs. just roll in this moment with me.
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Mini strade
#my little animal abuser#boyfriend to death#boyfriend to death strade#btd#btd fanart#btd strade#strade#I have other sketches of mini strade but they’re not as good ig
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something something white sheep luo binghe
#svsss#scum villain's self saving system#scumbag villain#luo binghe#or uhhh ig#luo bingge#scum villain#mxtx#fanart#digital art#my art#svsss fanart#chirin no suzu#ringing bell#this has prolly been done before but look at him...chirin lookin ass#something something cycles of abuse idk#anyway svsss enjoyers do not follow me cause i literally never talk/draw about it lol
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Dog coded cross, but like it's sad.
not sure what this genre of art I'm doing is, but I like it.
#toffeesdoodles#cross sans#xtale sans#cross!sans#underverse#utmv#cw eyestrain#eyestrain#tw eyestrain#cw bright colors#bright colors#eyestrain warning#cw blood#cw biting#cw implied abuse#you know its bad when i have to crack out the four different content warnings#whoops#angst#ig#cross xtale#mspaint
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the attitude of the pjo fandom about tv!gabe is giving me flashbacks to that one ttc scene where percy meets frederick chase and he's like "annabeth told me you were abusive???why dont you look abusive??"
#moral of the story is that abuse comes in diff forms ig#but the parallel was so funny#percy jackson#annabeth chase#pjo#rick riordan#percabeth#pjo fandom#pjo tv show#percy jackon and the olympians#pjo tv series#annabeth percy jackson#heroes of olympus#percy pjo#percy series#percy and annabeth#perseus jackson#annabeth#kronos#titans curse#pjo books#percy jackson fandom
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>Disappears from tumblr for months
>Log in to art dump
>Refuses to elaborate
>Leaves
#come to my ig bro#to watch me abuse my ocs for fun#hphl mc#hphl oc#agatha crowley#hogwarts legacy#hphl#sebastian sallow#sebastian sallow x mc#my art#personal
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I hate the insistence in pushing Jason into the batfamily.
If he doesn't wanna go to dinner, he doesn't have to. If he doesn't wanna hang out with them, he doesn't have to. If he doesn't want to see them, he doesn't have to. If he doesn't even want to contact them, he doesn't have to.
It's so annoying to read fic and always see it presented as his Family Knows Better. Jason is just being silly by not realizing how much they love him and he just needs to let them break into his home and comms and life because they want him there.
#my dc posting#jason todd#red hood#batfamily#like genuinely how do yall write this shit n not realize how fucked it is#i hear jason say he doesnt wanna do something w his family and im like HELL YEAH ASSERT UR BOUNDARIES#him being strongarmed into dinner despite knowing its gonna be a shitshow n judged heavily if he doesnt show is like. a fucking staple#of fic and im SOOO done w it#do none of you think? really do you even think??#ig its the difference in perspective between viewing the batfamily as the Ultimate Good thing. the place they all should strive to be#instead of the mess of toxicity and stalking n abusiveness it is#and even in content where the batfamily is actually as healthy as they can be jason still doesnt have to do anything w em!!!#hes completely justified to not contact them. thats his fucking choice and boundary n writing his family prancing right past all that#does Not endear me to them sorryy!!#i once saw someone explain jason as low-contact and i was like. yeah. i love that. let me have that please#its not that i hate seeing him in the batfam. i just think it should be HIS choice
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imagine consuming a piece of media like iwtv and boiling it down to "the abuse show" and telling people they should kill themselves for caring about the romance of it (which is a fundamental part alongside the grieving and healing from the unavoidable loss of your child). i honestly do not know how someone could watch two entire seasons (assuming the books weren't read because there's no way you'd say something like that otherwise) and come away with that specific opinion. watching a fucked up show about fucked up people and an exploration of said fucked up-ness with this exhausting mindset of 'ethical correctness' only hurts you in the long run. and beyond that? media literacy needs to be a mandated class in grade school.
#ive been suffering from extreme dizziness and cramps for the past three days but that post was so funny to me#imagine trying to consume media in such a moral and holier-than-thou type of way?#you care about romance in the gothic romance series where the main couple is inspired by the writer and their partner? die ig :/#yall just really need to jump through hoops to show that you consume media the best huh#also having one of the abusers from the abuser show as an icon......call is coming from inside the house babe!#iwtv#iwtv spoilers#amc iwtv#amc interview with the vampire#loustat#louis de pointe du lac#lestat de lioncourt#to possibly delete since i typed this fast#s.txt
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Such a pain to have to reiterate that if anyone tags my shit with Br*ght (this includes ship names, etc.) you just get blocked. My wife Dr. Myriad is so much better than that carrot cuck and nothing anyone does will ever change my mind!
Please learn to check tags or even read pinned before you reblog!
#ramblings#loud incorrect buzzering that person.#some people need to learn the hard way ig. begone if you still use them after how the creator used them.#they WANT br*ght to be inseparable from scp and popular media! don't do what the s/ abuser wants. simple#myricle#clyr#chainshotgun#dr myriad#scp 963#scp#scp foundation#dr alto clef#dr clef#doodleys
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cross-posting this to Tumblr rq because I’m ill rn
#Twitter drop ig!!!#tw child abuse#tw abuse#tw violence#yeah.#how are we feeling?!??#the owl house#toh#philip wittebane#emperor belos#the collector#Hunter Noceda#golden guard#cptsd#bpd
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Oh No, the thing that I just said is apparently one of the things that other people Don’t Think Is Okay that I didn’t realize, and Now I’ve Made People Sad And They’re Wasting Emotions On Me, but it’s FINE, really, it is.
Tim is so me here
This is in a later chapter, but I loved the fic, especially the way it ended and the way the characters developed. This fic really went into stalker and photographer Tim btw, so if you like that, 👍 👌
#dc#dcu#ao3#fanfic#ao3 fanfic#i need more fics like this#tim drake#batman#funny#angst#batman and robin#child tim drake#kid tim drake#tim joins the family early#robin jason todd#tim is batwatch#tim and jason#dick Grayson#bad parent jack drake#bad parent janet drake#ig#child neglect#child abuse#emotional abuse#alfred pennyworth#photography#stalker tim drake#photographer tim#why isnt that a tag
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Redrew a panel of Makima and Denji w/ these two :P aghhh the blood on their clothes looks a bit weird 😭
#the owl house#toh#the collector#collector toh#emperor belos#philip wittebane#belos toh#philip toh#belos#chainsaw man#makima#denji#csm makima#csm denji#redraw#manga panel#a friend of mines told me the original concept and#it kinda fits?#as in the original scene was makima healing denji with her blood#and 'santa claus' was coming to kill her#the panel originally said: hello santa claus#so ig it'd make sense if luz is coming to kill Belos LOL#tw blood#tw implied child abuse#tw gross
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caytober day 10: the hater train never stops
jamil's live facial reaction to cater saying the word octavinelle at the start of part 3 of his union jacket bday story is so fucking funny. he hates them when theyre not even there and then begrudgingly admits their uniform is like. Not The Worst Looking I Guess. i was laughing about that scene for MONTHS.
#caytober#cater diamond#jamil viper#twst#cereal tries to draw#twisted wonderland#please it's so funny to me hes like so friendly and polite with cater#but the SECOND he hears the word octavinelle hes like >:( kdfhkjLHFKLDSH#and then he and cater joke about azul abusing cater's social prowess lol fish bitch mentioned#im obsessed w/that entire vignette btw ive watched/read it like 90000 times#theyre so silly. !!!!#octavinelle huh....................... i have to be nice it's cater's birthday umm... ya ig their uniforms arent shit but u know who IS-#im obsessed LOL
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Sometimes I like to consider what Bateman would be like if he'd gone into something other than finance...
Anyway more hospital AU content. Eat up.
((TW: Patrick being himself. Misogyny, being a creep, blood, cringe ass dialogue, etc.))
#patrick bateman#american psycho#my art#AP hospital AU#anyway to the like 3 of you that liked my AU post eat up ig#tw // blood#cw//#tw//medical abuse#not sure what else to call that but this mf is a walking red flag so be warned.#((I cannot reiterate enough he sucks guys he's actually terrible))#I'm actually terrible at writing dialogue it's sort of bad LMAO it's cringe sorry guys </3
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what i will always, alwaysss hate about the crowfeather discourse is how it got several people, even some people who i thought would know better than to spread such harmful rhetoric, to get up on their soapbox and say with their whole chest "child neglect is not abusive, breezepelt should get the fuck over it"
#ignoring how crow wasnt just neglectful here ofc. and how people defend his physical abuse too#but even this just really pisses me off like jesus christ what a disgusting thing to tell your young influential audience#''your parents are ignoring your emotional and physical needs? well stop being a fucking baby and get over it. its not THAT bad''#and even if thats not what they said exactly. what do you think neglect victims were actually hearing? be for real#idk what it is abt crows boring fucking ass that makes people fawn over him so hard theyre willing to demean abuse victims#this is the real reason i hate this character. like ig its unfair to have that fanon influence but good god now he just pisses me off
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