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ooh you all like my edit? (。•̀ᴗ-)✧
i tried playing with filters and the outcome (right) looks so good! downside is that it's going to murder me to go through all of the screencaps and do them one by one OTL
#‘⠀i am satisfied with my care ( ooc )#not only applying a filter for each screenshot but cropping the icon to the proper size#how do rpers do fancy icons all the time i dont know ...#IM STILL going to respond to things with simple screenshots because i dont want this holding me back#but i do desire to have nice icons done over time#also i picked this photo because tadashi looks so cute trying to be mad he looks like a mousy 😂💕
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ok im back. im vaccinated. and im adding ianto so give me a moment to post a perm starter call.
#** ooc.#louise and flora said: gang time#i am a simple rper i just like to write things with good people
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pre - established relationship meme / not accepting.
send a ♡ and i’ll fill this out for our muses ! i’ll bold what i want for their relationship, italic what i could see and strike out what i don’t .
@vanaglcria sent ── ♡ for Carmilla?
FRIENDS. childhood friends / work friends / family friends / recently friends / turning antagonistic / turning into something romantic / stable / falling apart / friendship of need / friendship of circumstance pen - pals or internet friends / coworkers / partners / other .
ROMANCE. childhood sweethearts / newly entered / soulmates / skinny love / unrequited from my muses side / unrequited from your muses side / friends with benefits / awkward / fading / turning toxic / toxic and destructive / other .
FAMILIAL BOND. sibling bond / older sibling figure to your muse / younger sibling figure to your muse / parental figure to your muse / parental figure to your muse / guardian figure / legal guardian / other .
ENEMIES. dangerous to themselves / dangerous to others / unpredictable / passionate / rivals / petty / developing into a sexual tension / developing into a romantic tension / based off family matters / based of circumstance / based of professional matters / based of misunderstandings or lies / other .
#i'm a simple zestial rper.#carmilla & him are undeniably cute as fuck#but even platonically . adorable. he's rooting for her always <3#vanaglcria#* ── dealing in your secrets. : inbox.
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if you dont have a tag on ur blog but you want to start sorting posts dont feel bad about the posts left behind. gone but not forgotten. you'll be grateful for the separation between pre-tag system and post-tag system in 3 years anyways.
#my tags r pretty simple/vague for the most part but you can see the aspirations to be like#those insane rpers or poetry bloggers that have long ass quotes#part of that is xkit but also some of these bitches just Member that shit. For Fun.#i dont got a brain that does that but o7
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it is so fucking hard to rp when you have anxiety this shit sucks
#aria talkz#now i have to actually go out to find places to rp in but fitting in or integrating into groups of people makes me very anxious#so.#its also very hard for me to initiate things which is sort of essential for rp#and theres not many rp servers that do it how im used to ( simple straightforward groupchat rp with not many rules othr than dont be a dick#cuz everythings so formal. If you ask me to fill out a form i am killing myself. Slash j#its just so much more fun to just Jump into it. With gc rp specifically anyways i understand forms for like idk... more in depth servers#i just wanna rp pink and magna and . mocha. and. everyone. and get them new relationships#bc they fucking deserve them after all the bullshit theyve been thru#esp mocha oh mein gott hes only ever sexualized or infantilized or people just Dont care.#ponytown was my main hub for finding friends and rp otherwise but the rp scene there kinda started sucking ass ever since 2021. so.#its all goddamned strip clubs and shitty lab rps that dont even get to the good part and school rps are never good or serious#i need good rpers not ppl looking to shitpost hehe funny!!! you arent funny!!!!!! your humor is terrible!!!!!! log off!!!#sorry i have many emotions ab pt rp.
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The fifh master list has got to be my favorite way of looking at current blogs.
Okay, I have been meaning to say this for a while, because I think this is a noticeable problem in our community:
Every ask matters And yet there are NONE
Do you feel bored in this RP fandom?
Tired of browsing a rarely updating tag?
Notice how half the community is joining ask games?
Ever wonder why many OS RP blogs go almost completely inactive?
Notice how there's half a dozen boring and slow as hell arcs going on recently?
This is because many blogs get NO asks at all. Popular or not.
Even OS Game RP giants like @diginiko-asks and @nyat-a-cat (currently shadowbanned so ask @the-kerfus-machine ) can experience a complete lack of asks sent sometimes!
And we need YOU to send some to the blogs you follow!
No matter what you send, no matter if they get answered or not, having asks to answer is good for everyone!
If you find yourself constantly waiting for asks all day, without actually sending asks out yourself, you are a part of the problem!
This community thrives on interaction, not waiting!
Want to help this community? Want to improve people's days? Try sending three or more asks to random blogs a day!
Feel anxious to send asks? Nobody in this RP will do anything to you, and the characters do not reflect any of the blog runners intentions. Also, the anon option is there for a reason! Always remember that you have good intentions!
Feel like you will worsen someone's day by sending an ask? As long as you follow the rules set by the blog runner, you won't! At worst, it's a forgivable annoyance.
And if you are running an RP blog, remember: you are not obligated to reply to any asks sent, do not let this hobby cause you burnout.
"Oh, but I don't know who to ask!"
Just browse the "#OS game RP" tag, it's more effective than you might think at finding new blogs!
Check the blogs you follow, there's likely an RP blog or two you forgot about.
There's already large lists of OS game RP blogs out there, check out Mapmaker's interview list and the fifh masterpost!
"Oh, but I don't know what to ask!"
Here's some ideas:
Philosophy, hobbies, and specific preferences are simple topics to form questions in, and can tell a lot about a character!
Ask something as YOUR character! - Have a casual conversation between two different characters with someone else in a thread, share lore on the way, tell stories, and have fun!
Question some lore! - If you can ask something regarding a character's backstory, especially to fill in the potential plot holes, that can be very healthy for the writing side of running an RP blog!
A lot of blogs are actually fine with M!As, if they are simple or interesting!
Found yourself questioning or answering something interesting out of RP? Great ask!
Found something interesting in a quiz? That's a great ask idea!
Came up with something that would probably cause funny reactions? - Ask away!
Heard a silly question in general? Great! Guess who you can redirect it to!
Remember: Questions do not have to be complicated! Don't feel bad if something of yours does not get answered, because you had good intentions in the end!
But I am never going to tell you to send people random nonsense just for them to not have empty inboxes, so try to avoid:
Random memes/words - These are hard to work with and are unlikely to lead to interesting things.
Basic compliments - Most characters will probably say "thanks", unless they have a backstory for it.
Repeating jokes - No one's gonna have fun if you just send "Fifh" to Freeware entity for the 15th time without putting a unique twist on it.
Spam, NSFW, exc. - Just no.
In general, it's best to put thought in your asks.
If you have anything to state on the topic, please do so in the reblogs. I encourage you to check them.
Share this around and tell your friends to send out asks regularly!
Anyways good night, sleep deprived ramble over.
#RBing to my main here#rp#roleplay#os game rp#send asks#<- but to the RPers!#seriously it's that simple!
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Theme 15: Shilin
A project that I have been working on since 2022 and my latest and final gift to my fellow followers, featuring my all time favorite artist - @okolnir
I dedicate this theme to my respondents who requested for a RP theme. This theme is suitable for RPers, writers, comic artists (hopefully) and any other general bloggers. It's very versatile - you can make this as complex as you want or even as simple as you want.
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This is my final theme and a gift for everyone.
#blog#tumblr theme#tumblr themes#theme hunter#themesbyphantasyreign#shilin#carciphona#amongst us shilin
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Icon commissions available!
Hello, and good evening! I have a vacation coming up next month where I need to raise about $500 before then, so, I figure- what better way to help raise money for my trip than spreading the word of my comms, as I'm getting back into iconing again!
I specialize in making simple 100x100 RP icons. I do not make PSDs or borders, I enjoy making large quantities of RP icons, on some good days of upwards 50+ for a single episode or chapter. I like making enough expressions for threads. Basically, my goal when I make my RP icons is so less on things like borders or their edits as opposed to giving RPers enough expressions so that they can respond to most situations in their RPs.
For example: for my icons of Miku Okazaki from Gal Gohan, I have made over 1220 icons. For Ann Takamaki from Persona 5 I have made 966 icons from the anime (I still need to do the Dark Sun specials) and 137 icons from the manga. For Maggie Lacivi from Ava’s Demon (on request) I made 396 icons. For Cardia Beckford from Code:realize (only iconed episodes 1-6), I made 347 icons. For Milly Ashford from Code Geass I made 377 icons. For Doona Cheon of Sadistic Beauty I have made 945 icons. Basically, when I make icons, I make a lot, and that’s what I’m offering for you if you consider my services!
10 cents per icon, so $10 for 100 for example (I might consider adjusting this number if I make a ton of icons to be slightly lower, but this is unlikely). These icons will be published publicly; if you want this to be private (available only to you) I will up-charge you 5 cents per icon (so $15 for 100)
In order to make the time worth my while, I am currently only accepting commissions where I feel I can at least earn $10, so 100 icons at minimum!
Icons from games such as Genshin Impact, Final Fantasy XIV, etc are on a case-to-case basis. These are more time consuming for me to make as I must find cutscenes on youtube, and make use of both a screenshot extension and a frame-by-frame extension, and as such these icons take much longer for me to make than television or manga/comics. And as I'm trying to get icons done quickly, please understand to take these comms means I will have to take more time than I normally would for other. I will likely accept them, but be aware I will likely request an upcharge per icon due to the extra time taken.
I am willing to icon virtually any source, including that of most “problematic” media or N/$/F/W things like an h-manga or films showing graphic scenes (I’m not stranger to iconing things most dislike just for a FC, so I understand what you want) and even full out dead dove content. I however have a personal right to icon something that does not make me feel comfortable. If you’re going to be ask me to do something extremely sketchy please understand for my own personal comfort and for the sake of reputation I might reject it entirely. We will discuss this on a case-by-case basis, I will likely accept most commissions but I have my personal right to reject business I feel will make me uncomfortable.
I will give you periodic updates on what’s going on, the quality of your icons, etc.
I care greatly for the quality of my icons and your icons as well. When in the process of iconing JJ from YOI I was dissatisfied with the quality of my torrent and halfway through redid the process with a new torrent to ensure my customer had the best quality icons I could make. Even for my personal iconing projects I care about using the best quality possible so that the icons look good. If you want an anime (my specialty) or tv show quality I will look for the absolute best quality, 1080p or better to ensure you have the best quality icons you can have once I’m done cropping and resizing to 100x100.
In addition to the 100x100 icons I keep the original sized expressions as well. So once I take a screenshot and crop and resize, you will still have the original sized icons as well. This is not an upcharge or anything; I always do this. Good for expressions for personal use, I believe.
If your source is an exceptionally long-runner (like HxH, One Piece, or Yu Yu Hakusho) I will not icon the whole thing most likely; somehow I doubt most people are willing to pay for an icon commission that might be hundreds of dollars if you asked me to icon Gon or something. Most likely I will icon a specific arc of your choosing.
I do not icon fanart. If the character is very obscure and there is little official media, then I likely can’t make much. I am only willing to icon official media (such as anime and tv shows), official art, and perhaps doujins that were already being sold for money.
I can now make icons efficiently from youtube videos, so video games and the like provided there’s an LP of decent quality can now be iconed!
I do not do extensive editing, but with manga icons, I try to do very minor cleaning such as removing kanji from the background and and removing speech from speech bubbles. Basically, whatever I can do with Paint’s erase button, but that’s it.
If your source is a youtube series or the like, something I cannot easily torrent and convenient download in order to take screenshots and icons, there is a chance I might upcharge.
Below are examples of icons made from me from various sources, 100x100 and some full size icons! For the sake of length those (the full-sized ones) will go under the cut. I hope to hear from you soon! Please send me an ask or IM (IM preferred) to discuss business, and I will use the IM feature to keep in contact with you!
I hope you’ll consider me, and consider hiring me!
#icons#anime icons#manga icons#manghwa icons#anime rp#manga rp#indie rp#manghwa rp#manghwa rp icons#commissions available#commissions are open#fate icons#love live icons#oshi no ko icons#fate#love live#oshi no ko#< i'm especially eager to do icons for those three
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hello!!
21+ looking for discord rpers! itching for some casual but long term ocxoc (any gender) rps. i use irl fcs and love to chat ooc (casual talking, pinterest boards, brainstorming, headcanons, etc)!! i have a variety of ocs, but these 3 are currently at the front of my brain:
character #1 is a gruff, confident, charming biker with lots of tattoos. he does what he needs to get what he wants — he's been involved in his fair share of crime and he's rough around the edges, but there's a soft spot in there somewhere! character #2 is a mad scientist, plain and simple. a doctor, he loves to play god and test limits. he's suave and refined on the surface, but what lies beneath is a monster. character #3 is a hard-working, southern sheriff with a very strong moral compass! he's headstrong, but good hearted. his stubbornness sometimes leads him astray.
if this interests you, interact and i'll reach out! thank you! 👑
give a like and anon will get backt o you
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"oh my god, gail?" alexa's new girlfriend had convinced her to go to the reunion more or less against her wishes. alexa knew she'd been successful, and she didn't need the validation of her old classmates for that, but she had enjoyed some of her school years once she'd come into herself. why not reminisce a little? "is that you? you've definitely… filled out well, god. you look amazing." maybe it was a little bold of alexa to say, but she'd already sipped down half her drink to defend with. who knew what the second half could bring, especially when her old flame looked that good?
open to: everyone plot: gail [bottom, they/them] is attending their high school reunion. your character is there. old friends? exes? old bully? go crazy with it! please do not like my starters
"oh, thank you darling. i hope you have a wonderful evening-" gail nodded once, flashed one large smile and slid away from the line. placing the name tag sticker right on their cardigan, the heels on their feet carried them into the reunion proper. maybe others would find a ten year reunion a little pointless in the modern age, but gail got excited about seeing old faces and where they were at nowadays.
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♡ • *head kiss* You seem like you need one.
[ smiles ]
“Thank you. You have no idea how much that helps.”
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ooc ~ I’ve had waaayy too many mental breakdowns today and it’s been healthy and refreshing and stuff but like- I have not been able to respond to any rps I have had today and istgs seeing yours just felt like a weight lifted. Like, it’s not overbearing or asking me to put much thought. Just a simple “hi, love ya, hope you’re doing okay, bye” kind of rp. One that’s calm and comforting and warm. That’s exactly what I need today; so many mental/emotional/physical battles and I’m afraid I haven’t quite won any
also to any of those said rpers seeing this, o swear I didn’t abandon you, I just could not and can not pull myself together rn. I’ve been crying for hours. I’ll be better eventually I think, I just can’t do the large rps rn. That being said, if anyone wants to start non-complicated, easy-going, lightweight ones, I’m open for that, I’ll just be on and off my phone bcz stress is manifesting physically rn.
I’m reading the Odyssey and writing annotations and feeling a little better, I hope this explains today simply and sorry Aph for using your post as an explanation, just didn’t quite know how to respond or when to explain 😅
but yeah, hope none of that was too complicated to understand; I’m good with words in rp, I suck at communicating things irl/ooc
#epic rp#tiresias rp#epic the musical rp#epic rp blog#epic ask blog#asks open#epic underworld saga#a prophecy#ooc
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HOWDY! I’m Cipher! Bill Cipher! But you can call me your worst/best nightmare!! I would like to do a mxm roleplay. with that being said, the ship I usually do is billford,me as Bill or Ford! Aus are encouraged! HOWDY! I’m Cipher! Bill Cipher! But you can call me your worst/best nightmare!! and I would like to do a mxm roleplay.
with that being said, the ship I usually do is billford,me as Bill or Ford! Aus are encouraged!
My favorite au right now is uncle bill. Where after Bill tried to break into the portal room Ford crushes him. Upon realizing it he resurrects him through sacrificing a piece of him
Other aus I like..
amnesiac bill, bill pines, mystery shack bill or even evil Ford x Bill? Meglomaniac ford x simple bill or blank slate au!! Or theraprism billford au or reversefalls and the list goes on!
Ooo and for all my platonic rpers out there the au where The pines meet BABY BILL?!? Maybe have to take care of him or something.
I am semi-literate to advanced literate.
Rules: no oneliners, no controlling my character, no being Op or helpless.
I love slow burn! Love angst! Love romance! You name it! Looking for 18+ rp partners just in case, down for 18+ i am a bottom!! Down for anything besides vore, scat, watersports or feet fetishes and I believe that is it! Dm me if you’re interested! HAHAHAHA!
#roleplay request#roleplay#rp#rp request#semi literate rp#reverse falls#rp ask blog#literate rp#rp finder#grunkle ford#gravity falls stanford#gravity falls rp#gravity falls roleplay#gravity falls#ford pines#bill x stanford#stanford pines#bill cipher#billford#the book of bill#gravity falls bill#baby bill cipher#gay
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Going off your recent post about trickster snapping at a minor…
Ngl I find it extremely odd that trickster has in their pinned introduction post that their page is 18+ and has in the past publicly engaged in explicit NSFW roleplay on their page but follow/Roleplay/engage with minors so frequently in the same breath. I’m NOT saying they are a pdf file, but that behaviour is odd imo. If you’re going to be posting 18+ content, DON’T INTERACT WITH MINORS SO FREQUENTLY!?
Most people I know who are rpers and engage in NSFW have MDNI in their pinned?!?! You can’t police what minors do, sure, but you can police what you do, as an adult, and if you stated your blog is ‘at the very least 18+’ why are you engaging so often with those who are under that age and allowing them access to your page??? Even without any possible ill intentions, it’s irresponsible.
PREACH ‼️ It's such odd behavior, no matter the situation. If you're writing NSFW content, you shouldn't allow minors on your page! Such a simple concept y'all!
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also i think trying to posit one character as the main character of any smp is stupid as fuck for one and for two your main character is literally all the pov you watched. its not hard. like dawg. its like saying someone is the "main character" of an rp group. if you say that shit about your character youre getting laughed out of the group. because its rude to every other rper involved. it really is that simple.
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Rules and terminology of roleplaying with people
While roleplaying is a fun medium that is mostly a free place for people to express their creativity, there are some rules, terminology and regulations that you would have to follow, to have a good reputation in the roleplay community, and if you want to attract experienced roleplayers to you.
Let's start off by a few sites I use to roleplay
SITES
Aniroleplay - a good place to roleplay, mostly consists of people playing original characters or characters from animated media.
Roleplay.me - much more populated than Aniroleplay, and quite fun, for me personally. My preferred rp site. You will find a fix of real life and animated characters on there, though most people play their original characters.
Flist - mostly adult rp site, but if you're looking for that? That's gonna be perfect. It can be a bit difficult to navigate at first, but after you get it, it's wonderful. The profile making is very in depth, so that's fun too.
Quotev - this is mostly a reading site, like wattpad, but what makes this different is the group option, which is mostly used by people to roleplay. This will be the most different style of roleplay, if you've never roleplayed before. I'll explain more later in the post. There are two methods to find a rp on here. Either write the Fandom you want in the Quotev search bar and go into group section, or write on the Google search bar Quotev directory and look through them. Roleplayers have made up directories to find rp groups much easier!
Tumblr - another unconventional rp platform. It's quite common for people to set up accounts as a character and interact with others like that. It's a fun way to interact with the community and at the same time, roleplay.
Those are the main places I roleplay on. Now, I want to share some of my "wisdom" about the unspoken rules I learned of rping with others and some terms you might encounter, which might confuse you.
RULES
- preferably, use third person. On cai you will most likely use second or first person to roleplay. That's a big no no for rping with real people. It makes your reply look cheap and most don't enjoy that format.
(example of pov writing)
First pov (I ate ice cream)
Second pov (you ate ice cream) (using you as the pronoun to talk about your character)
Third pov (he ate ice cream)
- make your reply descriptive, use various words. Don't use the same words, or make the reply simple. The fancier or better sounding the better. It makes people excited to reply, and makes them add more flavor to their text. People aren't like ai, they like substance.
- one paragraph and up. The more you write, the better. Sure, you can discuss to rp in shorter sentences, but the rp will grow stale and you will get dropped, or drop the person.
- space your stuff with paragraphs. Don't wrote everything in one huge block of text. It's hard to read and people will not want to rp if you make it hard for them
- don't rp in script. I'll explain what script is, but the rp usually gets stale fast, and no descriptive rper wants to rp with a scripter.
- don't interrupt 1x1 rps. I'll explain what that means later down. It's rude and you can get people mad at you.
- don't control what the other person does. It's annoying, and will quickly get you a bad reputation in the rp community, and you might start seeing that good quality rpers don't want to roleplay with you.
- There is a social dynamic in rp communities, especially aniroleplay and roleplay.me. If you are an asshole, impatient or create mary sue characters, you will start getting rejected for rps by high quality roleplayers.
- Be patient. These are people you're roleplaying with. They will not reply to you as quality as AI does. It might take hours, maybe a day or longer. It's just how this shit goes.
- Read the person's profile. They might have rules, original character information or just other stuff you might need to know before you can roleplay with them.
- Don't jump straight into a rp from the get-go, unless the account says they accept starter greetings. Discuss the rp beforehand and make sure your partner is okay with what you want to do. If you want to do nsfw roleplays, discuss it beforehand as many people are uncomfy with that sort of stuff.
- When discussing stuff outside of roleplay, add a little marker to make it clear you're talking out of character.
(Example)
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- They are not your friends, so don't make the first message you write something like "hi, how're you?". You guys are here for rp, so get to the point. If they have rules, include that you read them, and if you have a specific idea you wanted to try with them, include that in the message. Make the rp idea no longer than 4 sentences, as you can discuss the details together later.
- Avoid sending prewritten greetings. It's very easy to notice when you are doing that, especially if it's a long message. If you have to gave a prewritten greeting, keep it short, and add more info to it, based on the profile you are contacting.
- Don't use text language in rp. It makes your reply seem cheap and can turn a lot of people off. It also takes out the soul of your reply.
(Example)
u
totes
lol
TERMINOLOGY
Double up - It's a style of roleplay where you play two point of views. One being your original character and the other is the love interest of your rp partner. This is a popular roleplay style on quotev.
(Example)
Mary walked down the street, sighing.
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Bakugou was mad that he couldn't see him today.
1x1 - It's when you rp one on one with someone. It's in other words, a private roleplay.
group rp - It's when you roleplay with multiple people at the same time, in the same roleplay, each taking a role, and adding onto each other. *I don't personally like this, as it can get messy*
rp - stands for roleplay
pov - stands for "point of view". I explain the different povs in an earlier part of the post.
AU - Alternative universe.
"You add, you message first" - Something you will often see on accounts that take a more serious approach to roleplaying. It means that If you add them, you will have to message them first, or they will delete you out of their friend list.
Script - It's a style of writing.
(Example)
John: I guess that's weird
Descriptive - It's a writing style
(Example)
John sighed, shrugging his shoulders. "I guess that's weird"
Mary sue/Gary stu - cliche characters that usually make your character overpowered, or not fit in the setting at all.
godmodding - Taking control of your partner's character. Very frowned upon.
IC - It means "In character". It means the person will talk to you as their character.
OOC - It means "Out of character". This person will talk to you simply, not playing their roleplaying character.
OC - It means "Original character". It's the character you play, if you create them.
Admin - A term used when a person has more than one rp account. It's usual that you only contact and rp with one of the accounts under that one admin.
I hope this helps. If anyone has any questions, or need any help or anything related to roleplaying with real people, feel free to dm me!
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This miiiiight be oversharing personal sentiments a little bit but...
Ever since I changed my rules to include an explicit list of what I'm going to write on this blog instead of just a simple, brief statement saying "dark things will be present here" and started actively following people or mutuals of mutuals whose muses or writing I am genuinely interested in/have spiked my interests, I've grown a lot happier about the contents and people I'm seeing on my dash.
I felt like tum.blr rpers have grown incredibly judgemental and incapable of minding their own business. People all around me seem to have shifted their energy onto focusing on offending as few people as possible instead of trying to actually have fun, and the rpc has become a weird circle for activism when it shouldn't have been used as a medium for (false) activism in the first place. Not all of us are here to make a point or to establish a legacy. In fact, most of us are just here to have fun and scratch an itch in the brain or fill in gaps that canon source materials haven't been able to provide. But the idea of this is incomprehensible to some people who are actively ruining the rpc and making everyone fear that they're walking on eggshells while they spiral into a depressing state of existing to not offend anyone instead of existing to have fun.
I've lost count of the number of times people tell me that I'm on a DNI for "writing with pro.ship.pers" or "writing romantic ships with an adult and a minor" (<- said ship is between a 17 y.o. and a 19 y.o.) sometimes it's also ships about fake incest.
(Just as an aside, I've grown so desensitized by being on DNIs that it's no longer something to feel anything about. I'd just go through their rules with a very confused expression if to see what they took issue with. Most of the time I don't even know the mun personally.)
I've gotten more hate directed at me for writing fake in.cest rather than real ones, which is not only baffling but also incredibly ODD bc the fandom "decides" what is good and what is bad, which reeks heavily of manipulation and toxicity in my opinion. Fandoms aren't governed by a single party or a monolithic authority that decides its rules. Fandom rules are made by the community, and in every community, there should be different rules, made to ensure everyone is comfortable and feel inclusive. That is what makes fandoms special and detached from reality. Yes, you're entitled to not want to interact with certain content for reasons no one else is entitled to know unless they have your consent, but you're definitely not entitled to silence/stomp out everyone to cater to your whims or risk getting hate/harassment. Which is why I heavily encourage tagging content as-is instead of denying the nature of said content and praying that no one notices because that is the best way to make it difficult for people with different preferences and tastes to co-exist.
And ever since I changed my rules and actively followed people again, there has been a variety of content on my dash with varying tags. It's honestly very stimulating and uplifting, and if I firmly believe if a mutual were to take offense to anything I write or choose to interact with, it's on them as they clearly did not go through my rules when they followed/followed back. Additionally, I tag all my things.
A few months ago, my dash was exhausting, and boring, everyone (or most of my mutuals) was scared. Now I see posts getting tagged "necrophilia cw". I'm very happy for both my mutuals and their muses for striving for the peaks of how far fiction writing and the imaginative side of the mind can go.
I'd highly recommend anyone who has been in a similar situation to list down your dos and don'ts so your mutuals will know what to take to your tables and what to not. Personally, it felt like my dash had curated itself and it's been very pleasant to be on tum.blr lately even if I still have to vanish for a few more days due to inrl.
I think about my dash very often this week and I love all of you guys for being here and showing me your brainrots/muses! 💗💞💓
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