#a is for aspec

[m4yday-m4yday]

if A is for Ally, I suppose G can be for Glock, L can be for Lizard, B can be for Batman, T can be for Teehee, etc. etc.

you know, since we're making shit up

[anotherqueersnailowner]

hey here's a friendly warning

If I hear anyone of you claim that the A in LGBTQIA+ is for allies and you don't mention the Actual Fucking Queer Identities it actually stands for I will teleport into your room and beat the shit out of you

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Like this post if you're Aromantic

[godofautism]

"How do you talk to people with no pronouns"

Option A: Hey fuckshit / (Insult of choice) [Allows for positive connotation and desensitization to insults!]

Option B: Hey [Name]

"How do I talk to someone with it/it's pronouns, that's dehumanizing"

Did you not talk to your plushies as a child?

Apply the same logic but with a person

"I'm upset there the A in lgbtqia+ doesn't mean Ally"

Well, we can include you in the plus because I'm about to force you to become non-binary! Say goodbye to your genitals! <3

[timetocrybois]

Being Asexual is something I have yet to fully come to terms with, and describing it is difficult.

I have the desire for a relationship. This is not fulled by sexual or romantic desire, but is instead fulled but the need to love someone to the fullest extent. I don’t need someone to love me but I need someone to love. I have so much to give, so much understanding, patience, and want to care for someone.

I would not mind a kiss or a romantic love and label. But those I talk to seem so different.

They have so much fueled desire and passion that later can become love. But I have so much love in my heart to give that if someone came along and understood me I would blossom with a blinding, warm passion. Not fire hot desire, nor sexy, but instead comfort and safety.

[nepentheseeker]

Purple Hyacinth!

BUT IT'S JUNE

Warning⚠️ Purple Hyacinth causes serious bi panic

all of these are canon btw

[matsaysyes]

The Sunset AroAce flag was reflected by the light 🧡💛🤍🩵💙

Friendly reminder that Aromantic and Asexual people should be included in lgbt+ spaces!!

[totallyveryallosexual]

Wasn't sure if I was aro or not until I spoke to my ace biromantic friend today who told me that from their observations of me there is like. No fucking way I'm alloromantic. They gave me a better definition of what romantic attraction is than I've heard to date and... No. Absolutely not. Give me the aromanticism.

[santaclaushohoho1]

my sociology textbook is beautiful

it was going over the lgbtqia+ acronym and said that the a for for aromantic or asexual and then added ally as a vague afterthought like

"yeah some people have it mean ally occasionally, but like, it's aspec, the a is for aspec, that is what it means"

[crazy-doo-doo-acey]

I'm back.

Bunga here. It's been a while, huh? Tumblr can't keep me silenced! Well... in all honesty, I was busy being an ace activist. I even got to meet Murr and we spent hours discussing queerness together. :D Jelly, anyone?

In seriousness, I feel it's my duty to educate the masses of Tumblr with my asexual genius once again! Praise me!! >:D Ploooort! ...oops. it just slipped out. SORRYNOTSORRY!

[kaleido-write]

Wow you are just so mentally retarded. You are heterosexual. Asexuals are not queer, are not LGB, are not anything but invading and erase OUR community because you want to feel "special" about being a weirdo. Go touch grass or something, including that girl who drew that ugly ass ruth she needs art lessons fr 😂😂😂

😭😭😭 wtf

WE OBVIOUSLY STATED MULTIPLE TIMES WE ARE UNDER THE BI UMBRELLA we are just *also* acespec 😭😭 and if she feels the need to attack your art she's a pathetic loser with no real arguments

[i-love-dopamine]

being arospec but not sure where i land has been really awkward like i say demiro but thats not really accurate so i just say "yeah im somewhere on the aromantic spectrum!!" Anyway this bingo felt really validating for me :>

[itsoktocallmegay]

PSA: Acespecs are queer, Acespecs belong here.

Arospecs are queer, Arospecs belong here.

Aplatonics are qeer, Aplatonics belong here.

Aspecs are queer, Aspecs belong here.

All Aspecs belong in the LGBTQIAAP+ community. That is what the A stands for. We belong here. The LGBTQ+ community should be and NEEDS to be a safe place for Aspecs. Shout out to all of my fellow Aspecs.

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Like this post if you are Asexual

[wispedvellichor]

with all the exclusionists creeping back from their cesspools, this is once again a reminder to not let your online life overlap with irl!! lie a bit, hide a few details, do NOT let it get to your head and most importantly stay safe.

these are a bunch of faceless randos with nothing else to do

you? are strong

don't let their existence affect you like yours affects them

I love all of you. you got this <33