#a choice of accommodations
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#can’t help but recognize how kieran is a fantastic unspoken representation of autism#i see a lot of myself in him and the way that he is so isolated and lonely and yet cannot help but perform and find solace in his daily#routines is so heartbreaking in its own way to me. like no matter what you do or where you are you have no choice but to be yourself and fun#nction the only way you know how and it will never not be vastly different from everyone else. and when you’re surrounded by people who DONT#like you and will not accommodate and are not at all willing or curious in understanding WHY you are the way you are you’re left to just ….#live in your own head forever. i’m certain kieran thinks many wonderous things and sees the world in a beautiful light and i know this becau#se i am autistic myself and because of that i see the world in colours that neurotypical people will never comprehend but we’re never allowe#d to see the world through kieran’s eyes. we are never allowed to see where his heart rests or the poetry he waxes or what he believes or wh#at his triggers are or what’s a stim and what’s just habit or anything. anything. the breeze sounds different to him and he can hear birds f#or miles and the sun makes every hair on his arms tingle and that’s why he wears layers everywhere and every green he sees sings a beautiful#song to him and yet we’ll never know. because he is too different even for the van der linde gang. he is incomprehensible to them and he doe#s all of his 4/5 daily tasks over and over and over again and while he would always do them and will always do them because they are innate#to him no one will ever know just what they mean to him. no one will ever know that kieran duffy can distinguish the horses behind him by th#eir breathing cadences behind him as he scrubs the spare saddle with the sun high above his head and he can know when something is wrong bec#ause he can hear it. no one will ever know that he CAN read but the only thing he’s interested in is books about wildlife and horses and fis#h in particular and no one will ever know because he knows no one will ever understand or even care and if they do they’ll be sure to make#it a point to tell him how DIFFERENT he is. and realistically even if the vdl’s DID come around to liking him he STILL would NEVER be unders#tood. i know for certain he would always be described as odd and despite its new affectionate approach he would still be the odd one out wit#h his daily routines and his texture preferences and his inability to make eye contact and his erratic seemingly random triggers and his#anxiety that seems to have a mind of its own. no one would ever know how bright the tree leaves are in his eyes or how every horse smells di#fferent or why sometimes it’s more fun to reel his rod in over and over instead of actually catching a fish. he will always be …. different.#sorry. novel moment. he means a lot to me.#i’m not super happy with how he looks in these but i’m just trying to draw more :’) i always say that but i always mean it too#also if my novel makes no sense then just ignore it. it’s late and my head hurts. i tend to get tangential#rdr2#red dead redemption 2#kieran duffy#image#art#hero draws sometimes
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girls when their issues get dismissed as anxiety for the millionth time
#futaba sakura#persona 5#p5r#p5#fanart#futabadoodles#chat i am SO losing it#went to get diagnosed w adhd wasnt diagnosed because and i quote “it could be anxiety” omfg#neurotypical psychiatrists especially white ones die in a hole 🥰#also because i “wasnt struggling enough”#like hi so i have this thing called emotional intelligence a good support system and access to coping skills hope that helps!#god forbid a neurodivergent person has tools to manage their condition and isnt in hell everyday i guess!#hate her ass!!!!!!!#i wasnt looking to get diagnosed for medication or support bc i already use a lot of like adhd specific supports and shit#and w accommodations my anxiety diagnosis can cover what i need for the most part so it was rlly just a validation/confirmation thing#like idk yeah. i am managing. im not particularly struggling. because ive been selfdx for a while and have implemented changes in my life#and i happen to be in a very very good place rn and im very lucky. so like. ???#rlly felt like “you have all the symptoms but youre not struggling enough with anything to be able to diagnose ypu” ok thanks fuck you#cuz ppl w adhd can manage being unmedicated by choice i js wasnt officially diagnosed before i guess its deemed “okay” to not live in hell!#dunno im frustrated. i have difficulties but i manage them well and i am very lucky to live an easy life for now so like 😭??
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I hate the argument abt when you say customizable games should have fat people and people say "well it would be harder to model or scale clothes to fit" cause like i guess youre technically right, but why then are fat people not seen as worth the effort to actually code and model these things? Someone else said this abt baldur's gate but they said "in an RPG like that game shouldn't the priority be on allowing people to express themselves as much as possible with designing their character?" Also like fat people aren't a rarity or minority, even if all media ever wants to give people the impression that the world is 99% skinny people with maybe one or two fat villains or sidekick friends.
#A lottt of arguments against including or accommodating fat people eventually boil down to#Continuing to believe fatness is a choice. And therefore the burden to change should be on them to lose weight#Rather than for institutions or society or other people to put in the effort to humanize and accommodate fat people#Fat politics
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Gerard as me "cheating" at fashion flambe in Papa's wingera
#its not cheating papa louie#its called “accommodations”#HOW AM I SUPPOSED TO REMEMBER A FUCK ASS OUTFIT IN 2 SECONDS AND ALL THE CHOICES LOOK THE SAME#what a shame papa louie#not an adhd icon#not even an adhd png#just rude#im working at your establishment#mcr#my chemical romance#mcr ecosystem#gerard way#party poison
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Technicallyyyyy it's Thursday (12:28 AM!), but @brynnmclean tagged me in WIP Wednesday (thank you!!!) and I dutifully worked on some other projects before giving up and following my heart.
And what my heart wanted was ... well. Okay. Look, I know, I know, but nobody can be that surprised:
S’paak had no way of knowing which Starfleet officer would receive command of the Enterprise after Captain Pike’s promotion, if promotion it could be called. It must be called that, of course, by the wish of Captain Pike himself, and by what all evidence suggested was a collective agreement from the highest ranks of the service. Therefore, the captain was promoted, and soon she would answer to a different man. She had no data to aid speculation as to the nature, character, or identity of the person who would replace Captain Pike, since nobody in the crew, including S’paak, was privy to their superiors’ deliberations. Accordingly, she did not join the other crew members in guesswork about their new captain, even in the privacy of her own quarters—or her own mind. After all, to a disciplined intellect, there was little difference between the two, and she did not know who was even under consideration. Contemplating the matter would not produce greater knowledge. Even with no particular expectations or thoughts about the forthcoming captain of the Enterprise, she felt an unfamiliar trace of surprise when she received the actual notification about it. She, S’paak, would be first officer on the ship, and as such, had been granted priority status with regard to any personnel changes. No one else on the crew yet knew the name of the chosen captain. The privileges of seniority did not startle her. The identity of her captain did, a little.
S’paak considered the notification a second time.
Commanding officer of the USS Enterprise: Kirk, Jessica T. (Cpt).
She knew virtually nothing of Captain Kirk, though the name sounded faintly familiar, enough that she thought it likely that she had heard it in some context in the past that had not struck her as worth committing to memory. A regrettable lapse, if easy enough to rectify with the many tools available to her. But S'paak had not expected that Starfleet would appoint a woman to Captain Pike’s position. Certainly not a young woman, as the (small and poor-quality) picture accompanying the name suggested Kirk was.
S’paak herself was not so illogical as to suppose that gender impeded a Starfleet officer’s capabilities in themselves. But she had better reason than most to know that the practices of the Federation did not always resemble their ideals as closely as might be wished. Captain Kirk must have some unusual qualities, experiences, or connections—or some combination thereof—to rise so far at such an age.
“Fascinating,” S’paak murmured.
#i would tag people but it's. uh. thursday#ALSO there is a method to the various choices made here i swear#also i am not as hostile to post-tos sources as i am to the sweu etc but it's been years since i saw any of them#and i'm not concerned with accommodating long after the fact canon material. this sparks joy (for me personally) and that is enough#anghraine babbles#long post#meme prattle#star peace#otp: the premise#genderbending#wip wednesday#brynnmclean#s'paak#jessica kirk#fic talk: the lesbian spock agenda#fic talk
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Why does it seem that practically every where prioritizes having vegetarian options over gluten free ones, and so many restaurants or whatever will say they have something gluten free and then tell you that it’s all made with the same equipment and on the same surfaces which means it’s not actually gluten free. Idk I just feel like if you don’t eat meat and there are no vegetarian main dishes at a restaurant that sucks, but you can still get something else off the menu, but in the case that they can’t prevent cross contamination with gluten I literally can’t eat anything. I just wish it was as easy to go out to a restaurant and get something gluten free as it is to get something vegetarian
#and sometimes restaurants also just fucking lie#or they don’t actually know what has gluten in it#and I end up getting sick anyway because I have the audacity to trust them when they say it’s gluten free#also deeply annoying when the choices end up being a meat option that’s gluten free but I can’t eat because it’s red meat#or a vegetarian option that’s not gluten free#like I pretty rarely eat meat and the amount of times I’ve been unable to get anything because you can either be vegetarian or gluten free#is way too many#nothing actually happened this time but it’s so annoying#like yeah there should be vegetarian options#but why don’t we make accommodating people with medical conditions our first priority#j rambles
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honestly I get ppl being like "aughhh I regret getting my autism diagnosis" esp in light of recent events but I'm gonna say for the record if I didn't have my diagnosis I would likely be in a much worse place, or not even alive at all. getting diagnosed was extremely important for my ability to live freely and it is a necessity for a significant enough portion of people. I support self Dx and believe it should be a choice but I think that its important to note that for a lot of people it isn't. to get or not to get a Dx for autism is a very nuanced topic
#if u can live without getting one that is wonderful#but please keep in mind for people who need accommodations it is Not a choice 99% of the tome
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Walt gets formally adopted at age 27
#al art#al ocs#drawing rosa all happy and excited and walt as withdrawn and shy is so strange#rosa is The mama's boy and nothing will ever get in the way of that i guess#walt is going to learn what a parents love feels like and they do not have a choice in the matter#theyre so surprised by how eager lee is to meet them and accommodate them and its like. buddy. she invited you over for christmas break#she wants you there. youre her sons like only and best friend. that makes you her kid too#rosa#walt#lee
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Year abroad declaration of intent due in 12 days and I'm kind of freaking out about it 😭
#this isn't my official application but it's telling my uni what i intend to do and somewhat committing to a path#the reason i'm stressing is that teaching assistant is my first choice of option but if i get rejected from that (not unlikely if they can't#find a school able/willing to accommodate my stammar) then i won't have an easy time getting into study abroad as a backup#but if i list study abroad as first option then i can't apply for teaching assistant#so if i get rejected from teaching assistant then it's very likely i'll end up in a uni i wouldn't have chosen in the first place#it's only a year of my life. worst case scenario i'll stick it out and be done with it#besides the real point is to improve my french so as long as that happened then it's grand#but idk there's so much hype about the year abroad and former students saying it was the best thing ever that i'm very scared i'm gonna be#disappointed when i struggle#one again having thoughts of Maybe I'm Too Disabled For This. which is obvs stupid because many people in france have stutters too#idk man i'm so so grateful my french tutors are all going above and beyond to support me in class and for my year abroad application#but it feels very isolating being the only one in my cohort going through this and even though my friends are understanding it's.....yeah#i'm tired of putting on a brave face about it. i'm so scared and i feel so incompetent. i don't wanna be an inspiration#well for other people w speech problems wanting to do languages yeah. but not for able bodied people (aka my family 'you're overcoming so#many challenges')#i know they mean well but i'm tired. i'm so tired. i wish i was able bodied i wish [redacted] didn't happen so i wouldn't talk like this.#ellis exclaims
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Returning to @galladrabbles for "You never asked" - something silly for the dash.
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"Never have I ever…been to jail."
"Oh fuck you." Mickey picked up his drink and took a swig while the youngest Gallagher grinned in victory. But Mickey’s revenge was swift.
"Never have I ever gotten an A on a school project."
"I will PROUDLY take a sip." Liam tilted his coke up.
A newly returned Mandy grinned, "Never have I ever slept with a chick."
Mickey took a sip, Lip, Debbie -
"Ian?!" Mickey stared at his husband in shock. No way, no fuckin' way!
Ian grimaced, "You never asked."
"He's got PTSD - pussy traumatic stress disorder!" Everyone, even Ian, laughed.
#galladrabbles#getting back into the swing of things#gallavich#always been into the idea of mickey finding out about ian's one time ordeal#scurv writes#also this is a 'beverage of choice' kind of 'drinking' game to accommodate sobriety and ages and stuff
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Furstars because cringe is dead and I like making them look like plushies
Ritsu is a Vampire Bat, Shinobu is a Sugar Glider, Hiiro is a Red Fox, Makoto is a Hamster, Wataru is a Bat-Eated Fox (aka. plompy in internet slang), Mayoi is a Big Brown Bat and Hajime is a Holland Lop Rabbit.
#ritsu sakuma#shinobu sengoku#hiiro amagi#makoto yuuki#wataru hibiki#mayoi ayase#hajime shino#my art#ensemble stars#furstars#i wanna draw them more ajfjjd#specially those who are the same animal or similar to play around with design choices#like for example I make Hiiro a fluffy fox but Rinne would be sleek and not fluffy and wataru has way larger ears than both of them#I limit myself to mammals with furry designs because it's easier to accommodate an au with that#so sorry no crab fursona hokuto#but he's a kittycat
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"Do it scared", "do it bored", ...
Do it neurodivergent. Do it with your brain burning and fighting against you.
#'that doesnt sound good' I HAVE NO OTHER CHOICE#does doing it scared sound good? no! still have to do it#ill take my rest after it passes. ill get my brain melting but ill get it done#considering itd probably take years to get me actually diagnosed#good luck for accommodations when you got no doctor or official paper backing you up
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i need to move out so fucking bad
#i'm so tired of every asshole in my family always having some kind of conveniently timed emergency that requires me#to give them more money and wait longer to make any plans to actually start my life#i am absolutely unwilling to bring anyone i havent known for at least a year anywhere near my home and thats not exactly great for#making any kind of social connection but genuinely this place is an embarrassing hellhole#i'm tired of being the only one here who never got a choice. i didn't choose to have kids. i didn't get to choose not to have a fucking job#i'm sick of being the only one who never ever gets their needs accommodated#i am moving out this year even if it kills everyone including me in the process
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really cool that my anxiety insists on being as public as humanly possible. god forbid im granted the luxury of privacy
#very public panic attack today 👍🏻 in front of a lot of people i know 👍🏻 had to inform someone im not super close to#so i could get some help collecting my stuff from class (where it happened) 👍🏻#now i have to email all my profs with details in case it happens again bc now i have no choice but to#go through the disability office for accommodations 👍🏻#waffled on whether or not to post about this on the public internet but everyone else is already up in my business by necessity#so what does it matter at this point
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i don't know if i believe anyone can actually be both a dog person and a cat person simultaneously since that is ultimately a lifestyle question. i think most people who claim both are cat people who like dogs
#i have both and prefer to have both#and if given the choice will always have both#but my lifestyle is compatible with a dog#i do Dog Activities#that's how I spend my time#and i have my dog with me whenever i do anything#i have to make specific accommodations for my cats because they do not actually suit my lifestyle#and while i like both i can get by without cats#but i need a dog in order to just maintain my lifestyle#because having a dog is a major part of it#i probably actually wouldn't even have cats if i wasn't already forced to make the same accommodations they need for my birds
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I didn't choose to accept that my body has limitations and I didn't choose to develop work/life balance and I didn't choose to start taking sick time and rest more often, those things were forced upon me by my disabilities. I have grown to accept and embrace them so that I am in less pain.
#it just bothers me when people are like “omg you have such good boundaries i could never!!”#thanks i did not have a choice it was this or die#same energy as people being like “omg [insert disability accommodation] looks so frustrating i could never do that!”#yes. you could. if it was that or die.#abled people shut the fuck up about my level of sickness and/or time spent resting challenge (impossible)
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