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that "don't call them bitches bro" pic pops up in my brain when i'm about to complain about a female coworker being a bitch and realize I didn't say bitch complaining about male coworkers. my hating WILL be ideologically correct

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companies giving you food instead of a raise actually works on me because i'm that obsessed with food. you could hold back my class consciousness this way I fear

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like the first rule of cooking is to have fun and be yourself and the first rule of baking is to stay calm because the dough can sense fear

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i try to have infinite patience for autistic people (especially autistic ppl who deal with other forms of discrimination) as a result of this. its basic solidarity. i know how that shit feels cuz ive been through it! autistic people make 1 off color comment or are misinterpreted one time or do any other thing and get harassed for it but neurotypicals can get away with that shit 9 times out of 10

i genuinely cannot stand when neurotypical people learn about my autism and respond with times where they were ablest to other autistic people as like??? trying to get validation for their ableism?? they dont want to be ablest but they still feel a certain level of guilt over it and they come to me to try and make their guilt feel better.

no matter how i respond in that situation its gonna go poorly.

i can validate them by going "oooohhh you poor baby of course you had a reasonable reaction and you just did what you had to do its totally okay :)" which just means they are gonna do the same shit to me the moment i cross the line

or i go "hey like what you did was kind of fucked up. i genuinely don't think that person did anything wrong" and they get mad at me and try to double down by villainizing the person- "Oh but they said x fucked up thing" or "they are into x weird kink" or "but they were creepy" and then we are back to square one. Like you are pulling excuses out of your ass. If that was the real reason you didn't like them then you wouldnt be talking to me about it, would you? It's because you KNOW you didnt like them for their autism. that's why you are bringing it up.

Then on top of that now I'm tainted with "oh you defended that person so you are now also in the list of fucked up autistic people"

like im sorry but i have much more patience for fellow autistic people than i do for neurotypicals because i know how people treat autistic people they don't like based on "vibes"

and then i explain this all to them and all they hear is the word "ablest" and they feel all of their guilt rushing towards them at once and shut down any form of conversation

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yes autistic people can be assholes ^^ but so can neurotypicals! and it really seems like you are one. :3c

i genuinely cannot stand when neurotypical people learn about my autism and respond with times where they were ablest to other autistic people as like??? trying to get validation for their ableism?? they dont want to be ablest but they still feel a certain level of guilt over it and they come to me to try and make their guilt feel better.

no matter how i respond in that situation its gonna go poorly.

i can validate them by going "oooohhh you poor baby of course you had a reasonable reaction and you just did what you had to do its totally okay :)" which just means they are gonna do the same shit to me the moment i cross the line

or i go "hey like what you did was kind of fucked up. i genuinely don't think that person did anything wrong" and they get mad at me and try to double down by villainizing the person- "Oh but they said x fucked up thing" or "they are into x weird kink" or "but they were creepy" and then we are back to square one. Like you are pulling excuses out of your ass. If that was the real reason you didn't like them then you wouldnt be talking to me about it, would you? It's because you KNOW you didnt like them for their autism. that's why you are bringing it up.

Then on top of that now I'm tainted with "oh you defended that person so you are now also in the list of fucked up autistic people"

like im sorry but i have much more patience for fellow autistic people than i do for neurotypicals because i know how people treat autistic people they don't like based on "vibes"

and then i explain this all to them and all they hear is the word "ablest" and they feel all of their guilt rushing towards them at once and shut down any form of conversation

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i genuinely cannot stand when neurotypical people learn about my autism and respond with times where they were ablest to other autistic people as like??? trying to get validation for their ableism?? they dont want to be ablest but they still feel a certain level of guilt over it and they come to me to try and make their guilt feel better.

no matter how i respond in that situation its gonna go poorly.

i can validate them by going "oooohhh you poor baby of course you had a reasonable reaction and you just did what you had to do its totally okay :)" which just means they are gonna do the same shit to me the moment i cross the line

or i go "hey like what you did was kind of fucked up. i genuinely don't think that person did anything wrong" and they get mad at me and try to double down by villainizing the person- "Oh but they said x fucked up thing" or "they are into x weird kink" or "but they were creepy" and then we are back to square one. Like you are pulling excuses out of your ass. If that was the real reason you didn't like them then you wouldnt be talking to me about it, would you? It's because you KNOW you didnt like them for their autism. that's why you are bringing it up.

Then on top of that now I'm tainted with "oh you defended that person so you are now also in the list of fucked up autistic people"

like im sorry but i have much more patience for fellow autistic people than i do for neurotypicals because i know how people treat autistic people they don't like based on "vibes"

and then i explain this all to them and all they hear is the word "ablest" and they feel all of their guilt rushing towards them at once and shut down any form of conversation

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knuckle tat idea

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mizuki will see her gf's brother and ask "is anyone going to bother him" then not wait for an answer

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i think we should rename the Classic Tabby to Swirly Whirly Tabby. reblog if you also think we should rename the Classic Tabby to Swirly Whirly Tabby

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please remember that I am a Canadian illustrator and it is fucking bizarre to come to me with medical questions

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Elegant And Modern Baby Mouse Logo For Sell

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My conduct this year landed me on Santa Claus's fabled and controversial "Kill-at-all-Costs" List. Turns out the reason the big man and his people don't exercise that option more often is that they really aren't good at following through on it. Well outside their core competency. He's delegated to the elves, and they've got this ingrained assembly-line mindset that doesn't translate at all to the adaptable and fluid mindset needed for siege breaking. They just haven't adjusted their playbook at all from when they're doing rote deliveries. Armed Elves have been rappelling down my chimney one at a time into the roaring fire I've kept going nonstop for the last week. They haven't even thought to try my front door yet. Whole house smells like peppermint, which it turns out is what burnt elf meat smells like. Thought I was being super clever putting cyanide-laced almond milk out with the cookies as a last line of defense, but none of them have made it even the scant few feet to the side table where that's sitting. At the rate things are going the real danger is that I'm gonna forget what I did with that and accidentally drink it myself while I'm watching the show

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my index card declined how am i gonna afford my finger food and touchscreen phone