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Pei Ming "hoho" emote for your use in Discord and Chat servers
#kirstenly draws#pei ming#heaven official's blessing#tgcf#tian guan ci fu#pei ming hoho#Emote#same rules as usual apply: dont use it to promote your brand dont use it on twitch and dont repost it#but do feel free to use it for fun with friends and in private or semi-private servers or DMs. go forth and have fun!
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probably shouldve known i would inevitably stop vibing with derap considering one of the main things he tells the fandom aside from the fact hes not gay is to stop obsessing over them so much meanwhile i actively encourage that kind of thing
#mine.txt#lifesteal spoilers#i'll be concerned about the logistics considering if theres one thing ive learned over the years its to never trust anyone#but if you want to structure your whole identity around a certain character or streamer i wont stop you#even if i hate your guts or find it annoying id stand by the assertion that as long as nobodys getting harassed its fine#and as long as fandom etiquette is being followed ofc#<- sorry for mentioning this at every opportunity but those ''rules'' were and will keep being codified by blood and lawsuits lol#not that theyre perfect ofc; a lot of it was and still is used to silence more marginalized members of fandom mainly black fans#but it has its place; a very important one at that#tbh id probs be just as vitriolic about him if not way more than the other ppl who dislike his character if it werent for the fact#that im just. not that interested in whats going on in the server rn lol#so whatever he does means nothing to me atm
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one thing that's really hard to explain to people who specifically have only heard about alters in the simplified (and largely incorrect) way, is how alters and fronting actually works.
the popular (unfortunately) general understanding is that these parts exist as separate entities, and that they somehow have separate consciousnesses from eachother. this is almost entirely wrong.
i feel like a better way to explain it is to just state the truth, that there is only one consciousness at all times, with dissociative barriers that affect it (emotional, amnesia, etc.). the person with alters only feels like different people, because that's what the disorder they have does. alters aren't actually some special bonus thing that exists exclusively in people with complex dissociative disorders, they're just the brain making things appear to be different identities in one body. it's similar to depersonalization, but more severe and complex (obviously).
this is why "what XYZ does when not fronting" posts are so nonsensical; it's simply impossible. if alters are not fronting / part of the active consciousness, they just aren't there. some try to explain it as the alters "being asleep/unconscious" but in reality they just... aren't anything. they're not actual separate people in your brain.
TL;DR: alters don't become you. you become your alters.
#just wanna say my blog is not a source btw. anything i say as a fact is me repeating stuff i've read in studies and papers etc#i encourage you to do your own reading! systemscringe has a great hoard of resource links in the discord server if you feel like joining :)#my general rule of thumb is memorizing which common DID 'researchers' did dogshit 'research' (kluft. van der hart. ross. etc)#and only accepting their research as reliable if it's been verified by totally unrelated people several times#this rules out a lot of stuff unfortunately but if you read about the shit they did to get their results you'd agree with me
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I am once again in the trenches. And by "the trenches" I mean "battling the ever-growing temptation to create a proship Jayvik discord server so I can actually talk to fellow fans without worrying about one of them leading a dogpile against me and anyone who's ever associated with me for the crime of *checks notes* kinky fanfic"
#jayvik#proship#don't worry antis I'm staying way out of your lane#your discord servers are your own#I would simply like. To Chill. With other people who respect the golden rules of DLDR and 'kinktomato'#every day Tumblr recommends me a new Jayvik-adjacent community server thing and I'm like#thanks for trying to get me doxxed Tumblr#you silly little website
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I'm still trying to figure out a design for him
It doesn't feel Slavic enough
And alsoooo it feels like something is missing - feel free to give suggestions!!
#also i wanted to thank penn and little critter for reading my rambles aaaa#AND ALSO YOUR FANARTS ARE SO SO COOL PENN I FEEL BLESSED#once i write out the rules for the discord server i'll promote it again i prommy#toaster draws#omori#omori au#my art#omori basil#omori stranger#chat noir#catmint#omori mlb au#mlb au#sketch#character design
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There desperately need to be more official evrima servers the situation is DIRE
#I'm tired of waiting for 30mins in a queue for an official server#and I'm not joinibg some discord server so I can read a 15 paragraph novel of rules before I'm allowed to play on your unofficial server#isleshenanigans#<- personal isle tag from now on
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the demons won. ill set it up further tomorrow but if anyone's interested lemme know in the replies lmao
#not art#.eiden speaks.#server basically will be safe space to ramble abt the blorbos AND your ocs if you have one#obvs will have rules n shit but. yeah#need mods for that too so.... if youre chronically online like me hmu#will have tupper for roleplay too btw
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hi guys! make sure to read and follow the rules in discord servers you join! if you are breaking a rule but haven't verified, leave so the staff don't have to ban you. okaythanksbye
on a lighter note JOIN FOREST'S SERVER SUNSHINE INSTITUTE!!!!! theyre so awesome sauce!!!!! (and ig you can join my serv, the oasis, if you want. i guess. shrug. its not as active as forest's but you're free to be there!!!)
#mcsm fandom criticism#mcsm important#important#i know im owner and its lowkey my job but like...#i dont want to have to do it#i just hhad to ban someone WHO READ THE RULES COMPLETELY......#you cant hide bro..... no..... your name on dc and tumblr is the same#im sorr but you were breaking a rule also pls leave the other server
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I hate the proliferation of Discord in modern fandom. The idea that people are having all these fun conversations without me is so isolating.
#at the same time. I’ve never been a part of a fandom Discord server#and the idea of having to learn the social rules of a new community absolutely terrifies me as an autistic person#that’s why I don’t have a Twitter account either#I’ve been on Tumblr for 10 years and I hate change and I hate trying new things#(not that anyone has ever invited me anyway 🙃)#my anxiety will think the stupidest things like:#your fandom probably talks for hours about how stupid you are#and you will never catch them making fun of you because you’re not on that website#(yes i can hear exactly how ridiculous that sounds)
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hellooo everyone who gets post notifs for this blog. we have a personal socialization discord server, and we would love for more people to join. if youre a moot with this blog and are interested, then dm us!
#for the discord server#[✨️]#we are willing to send screenshots of the rules if anybody wants to see them before they join#if discord dms are more comfortable for anyone our discord is#void.calls#just mention the name of your blog in your opening dm and your wish to join our server!
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Dead Yin Yu emotes for your viewing an using pleasure. Didn't know if i wanted to do donghua or manhua flavoured so i did a quick modification to kinda give you guys options.
#yin yu#tgcf#tian guan ci fu#heaven official's blessing#kirstenly draws#emote#same rules as always: feel free to use in your discord servers/line/whatsapp chats#just dont use it for self-promo or commercial purposes!
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God something about your art just makes me go feral. Squeezes my heart and doesn't let go. I could look at it forever. I will look at it forever. I want to pick your brain and let you pick mine in return. (Man what a weird way of saying I wanna be friends. While on anon. I may be stupid)
Thank you so much anon, that's incredibly flattering! My main goal with sharing art is always to have people experience whatever emotion/feeling it is that I couldn't exactly put int words that made me draw in the first place, so I'm always really glad to hear it's resonating in some way!!!! 🥺🫶
#asks#to the second part - fkg tbh anon your best bet if you really do wanna get to know me is to just be in some kind of group setting im also i#as much as i just wanna say 'just dm me i dont bite!'#i'm absolutely horrible at 1 on 1 convos with people i dont already know#(adhd + horrible social anxiety are. a really not good mix when trying to meet new people)#but im in plenty of discord servers!!! depending on which fandom you found me from im in a handful for each one lol#usually meeting people through servers is the best way i've found of connecting with new people so#if thats something you're also into then thats great!!!#and if not im sorry im sure youre a lovely fantastic person anon#but the rule with me is always I'm More Afraid Of You Than You Are Of Me#actually a psa to anyone whos ever messaged me: if i seemed cold or standoffish or rude#there's a 99% chance i have absolutely nothing against you and wasn't trying to be!!!! im just Incredibly Anxious and my brain becomes mush#when trying to string a sentence together in what feels like a room alone with someone#ANYWAY that was to say. thank you again for the compliments theyre very appreciated!#and if you do wanna talk#(this goes for anon or literally anyone else)#you can find me in literally any of the discord servers im in
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with derapchu admitting to stream snipping zam, I wouldn't be suprised if he was doing it to Subz and if he was I'm gonna be so pissed because Subz shit is not a character he genuinely struggles with thinking anyone on lifesteal gives a shit about him and this just pushed him further away
#marbles rambles#server rules exist for a reason#its just basic respect for your fellow players#not to ruin their plans by cheating
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why do so many people ban furry shit in their discord servers.
'they get really weirdly nsfw and stuff--' no like. you can have. sfw furry stuff. like
banned in several discord servers warrant for arrest
#i do not fucking get it#was gonna join the server for official ultrakill updates and other than it's way too fucking big#like one of the big rules was no furry/mlp stuff and im like#'??????'#i GUESS i get no mlp stuff but? furries? FURRIES?#I UNDERSTAND THAT FURRIES CAN CAUSE SOME SHIT BUT OTHERWISE ITS LITERALLY JUST ANTHRO ART. WHY ARE YOU GOING OUT OF YOUR WAY TO BAN IT?#pichu barks#thats not even on my end being like oh im bummed i cant post that stuff its im weirded out enough you have that as a rule that like#i just don't wanna join
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What baffles me the most about right-wingers is how they will identify a problem that is real and exists, (which was 99% of the time caused by right-wing policies), and then decide the reason for it is actually those lazy poors.
#this post brought to you by a conversation with my father about tipping culture in the us#he was saying how its utterly absurd#even fast food places require tips#and i was like yeah the us is a nightmare they basically crowdfund minimum wage#and he said its not that its that the workers feel entitled to your money#'they do that in brazil too!'#they absolutely do not do that in brazil#we have tipping in sit-down restaurants that have servers#not in fast food places or self service places#and we have a legal actionable minimum wage#and even in sit down places the general rule is 10% not 20%#because the people arent literally relying on you to be able to eat
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Arguments against overposting people's art (not giving a compliment/reaction) on Discord:
-It takes literally five seconds to write a compliment about something that took someone upwards of an hour
-People do not owe you free art to look at and enrich your world (be glad that it's not locked behind a paywall)
-If you were the one being overposted and you didn't mind that, if you didn't want a compliment, why not send your art to an empty groupchat? It serves the same purpose!
-There are so many structures that you can use. '[Thing that caught my eye first][why it caught my eye]' is a personal favourite that sounds heartfelt especially if you add a nice adjective in there ('I like the lineart!! It's lovely and sharp')
-If you don't have time, or you can't think of anything, Discord has a lovely feature that allowed you to directly reply to a post with a kind emoji of any kind. They're called reactions, in case you didn't know /s
-Discord is a social platform. It's intended for messaging each other. What is the actual point in treating it like Instagram or something
-The world is a better place when you encourage people to do what they like to do
Anyway, yea. There's literally no good reason to overpost. 'I was feeling lazy' or 'I can't be bothered' just isn't good enough -- leave posting for another day if you cannot muster enough energy to tap twice on your screen. Are you kidding. Would it kill you to have a nice thought about someone else's accomplishments?
#Not actually directed at anyone this time lmfao#Feel free to use these reasons for petitioning for rules in your servers lol#Some of these apply to Tumblr as well (replace 'reactions' with 'likes' and compliments with 'reblogs')#SZOUGHTS
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