#Younger butch

[cowboyjen68]

hey idk how to start this

i just wanted to thank you for being the amazing person you are. I started identifying as butch at 15 but due to some. messed up. things happening i kinda "walked away" from that part of my identity (which obviously didn't work). but it's been years, and my femme sent me your videos when i started talking about how much i missed my butchness. the way you speak about it and about yourself and your experience helped me understand and embrace my own. your videos shine a light that reminds us of a better future. thank you for reminding me of so many things that are so important

and sorry for not being very coherent lmao

You were perfectly coherent. I did something similar and as I was embracing the word lesbian I was pushing away butch. I thought I was not "checking all the right boxes". I would hear terrible words applied to butch making me think I didn't want to be one (like I had a choice in the matter :) ) OR that I couldn't be one because I was not the traditional and mythical mean, aggressive, etc personality that was oft portrayed in media and conversations. Meeting other butches who showed me that it is not a personality but more of a natural energy and an experience in the world. Although we certainly all seemed to share many traits like being protective of women and having the desire to help women feel better in a world that puts them down.

Owning who you are and letting your femme appreciate you in all your butchness and uniqueness has set you on a path of a hopeful and happy future.

[bluegiragi]

young silco pls just give me one chance

early access + nsfw on patreon

[schemelin]

More of my Lone Wanderer!

[caitsprincess]

want an older girlfriend that i can call mommy and she’ll baby me and call me her princess </3

[spartalabouche]

sometimes its really obvious how much people dont actually believe presentation=/=gender when they see their nonbinary friend go from extremely masculine to relaxing back into femininity once theyre comfortable with their gender and every time they call it detransitioning with zero indication thats what their friend is calling it. i dont know how to tell you this but sometimes you present a certain way for social reasons and not because thats how you actually feel. sometimes you experience dysphoria about your body that is actually related to how people view you and not how you feel about your body. i really dont think its that uncommon for trans people to swing really hard in one direction for the affirmation and then relax back into a different presentation once they are more comfortable in their gender

[khaleesixs]

Me fucked up on new years crying cuz my gf (now ex) didn't want me lmao. cute pic tho

I was so high and drunk af

Plz tell me you woulda been all over me like fr 🙄

[evenmyhivemindisempty]

The way I get so feral when I remember that this guy

is the same guy as this guy

[raphaerolo]

Last line challenge

I got tagged by @bluemaskedkarma and reverse uno'd by @merlyn-bane (btw reverse uno tag back to you) and i havent been actually writing or drawing all that much lately because i've had really weird work hours but huzzah today's my day off and i get to draw

This one comes from my cwfkb

My last line was the orange specks to indicate crocs for future me's reference. Because the crocs are important to remember.

I truly dont know who's been tagged in this frenzied round of a last line challenge - but uhh tagging @cozy-fish-crow @pisscord @lightasthesun @meebles @aerrowx and anyone else who wants to play

[cowboyjen68]

hello, jen! i just wanted to say thank you because it is so comforting to have you around especially when you don’t have older butch women to look up to. i live in a third world country and that is why sometimes it gets too hard to imagine that i’ll get to mature from a baby butch into a full grown one and your presence is what makes this hellsite so home-y. thank you ^_^

Hi from Iowa. I can imagine, only in the most slight way, how hard it is to feel isolated and wanting to find mentors and friends who have been where you are now but not having any access those people. Growing up, and it is NOT the same thing as what you are going through, there was not much representation out there. The butch women I came accross were not vocal, or out so I could only guess that we shared something in common. I could not be sure.

I went from a tomboy to an awkard teen who didn't really fit in with the girls and the boys were outgrowing being friends with me as they hit puberty. I really did figure I would outgrow whatever it was that made me hate dresses, walk "like a man" and "act like a boy". I would often be told, "try to act more like a lady" or "Young women don't do that". I tried to conform but in my head I was constantly rolling around the thought of "why am I like this/" and "what is making me act different"? I knew that it took effort to be "same" but no work to just be me. This led me to believe I was broken because i had to try so hard to NOT be myself in order to gain cultural approval.

As I grew older, became more confident and met actual butches in real life, especially older ones who shared stories with me and let me know I was not alone or an outlier, that others were just like me, I became comfortable it just being me and stopped attempting conformity.

I hope that with the power of the internet, even on places like Tumblr, where I know things can be weird, you find some community and build your own confidence. It is for young butches like you that I maintain this blog and my other social media. I know how important it is to see your "future" in others and to have hope for a life free of constantly battling your own comfort for the expectations of others. I wish for you a life where you are free to just exist without the work to fit in or even to keep yourself safe.

[pillowprincessgwen]

"I'm old enough to be your mother" is only a problem if you're too weak to make it a pickup line

[civetcider]

love your art. do you have any strong opinions on Donkey Kong or any of the Kongs? if you butchified funky kong i would be indebted to you forever

so just normal funky kong? teehee

[boytransmission]

Wanna feel me?

Top surgery fund + Wishlist

[litlfawn]

i love unapologetically masculine butches. . butches who like being called daddy, butches who go by Sir, he/him butches, butches who only date femmes, butches who are more dominant. . i see a butch, i go crazy ! !

[sunshades]

that new meme that's going around....

[punkeropercyjackson]

Yes trans women are women but also trans women are trans.Please stop acting like trans men and enbys are the ultimate say so's of transgender people and that something being transmisogynistic is outweighed by (often white) transmasc/unaligned people liking it

[somestardeww]

i was wondering why they felt so familiar

its because of these two mf