#When it comes to confessions
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I have had these thoughts bubbling away in my head for like...eighteen months or so now (it will become very obvious why shortly) but the discussion in this post has pushed me to write them down: I think societally we HUGELY underestimate how motherhood for primary caregivers, particularly first-time motherhood, can be a source of vulnerability to radicalisation.
There is obviously huge cultural variance here, but for a lot of cis women becoming primary caregiver to an infant in a capitalist Western society represents a time of immense vulnerability because in general you are:
Incredibly sleep-deprived (which has well-documented knock-on effects for your judgement, mental health, etc)
If you gave birth, recovering from a significant challenge to your physical health (even in the best-case scenario)
Isolated from your previous networks and communities of people in full-time work
Completely separated from the context of your prior career goals and achievements
Under huge amounts of stress to learn how to care for an infant (don't get me started on breastfeeding)
And on top of this, you are also be experiencing a huge amount of messaging about how all this is natural, wonderful, something you're meant to do, something you should love doing, and something that you must do for the welfare of their child. It's a huge amount of pressure and life change even when everything goes right and there's very little cultural space to express negative feelings about it.
Any group of people who offer community, support, and affirmation to cis women in this situation are going to have a really good shot at radicalising them into some very weird and dangerous headspaces and in fact we see this happen all the time - think antivaxxers and TERFs. It flies under the radar because of the hazy positive glow that associates with motherhood and babies and also because we don't take the radicalisation of women seriously I guess because they rarely shoot anybody, but...yeah. It is such a vulnerable time!
#people who do not see themselves in the cishetero stereotype#are obviously going to have some separation from this & therefore protection#full confession: obviously in the last year and a half I have done a LOT of midnight Googling about Baby Things#and you know what. very often the top hits are Mumsnet forum threads#which...often contain useful and sympathetic advice#I can so easily see how people get sucked into that#they're not getting people with TERFy shit they're getting them with 'tips for getting your four month old to nap better'#which is the MOST IMPORTANT THING IN THE WORLD when your kid is four months old#and then the TERFy nonsense presumably comes later#because that's how radicalisation works
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maybe try writing him a note next time idk
#he does but he writes so aggressively it comes out illegible#also scary looking#shouto prob looks at it and is like#is this… a ransom note#katsuki thinks he’s been rejected when theres no response#then shouto just confesses one day#totally unrelated to all of his attempts lol#what a loser#my art#digital art#mha#bnha#tdbk#bktd#todobaku#i like them too#mainly for the no angst fluff comedy scenarios that ensue
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Conceal, don't feel, don't let it show.
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#poorly drawn mdzs#mdzs#lan wangji#lan xichen#You can practically hear LXC's emotions vacuum sealing back into his body when LWJ tells him about wanting to bring someone back to Gusu.#This *is* a confession of both having feelings for someone else and also and admittance of terror at such feelings.#And honestly - can you blame LXC? Knowing how to respond to people in emotional turmoil like this is a skill that few manage to master.#There is a part of him that is so genuinely happy that his brother has fallen for someone!#And there is a part that acknowledges that LWJ needs to come to his own conclusions about this all.#Hence the extremely restrained reactions! He is so in his brother's corner that he's accidently clipped through the wall into another room.#Sadly that's how it goes sometimes...We want to be there for people in the best way. We give them space and hope for the best.#But space can leave someone isolated and alone. It heals some emotions but it makes others fester.#The fact that LWJ is at the point he's open about what he's feeling (even a little bit) means that it's a Big Deal.#LCX is just as bad with his own emotions. He only knows how to keep things in his own heart down.#There isn't anything he could have said. There *were* better things to say but does he have the capacity? No.
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I know I already posted about a Wrong Number AU today but consider: Stobin Edition.
Robin gets a text from someone saying they had a great time at the party last night. They wish they lived closer. Robin is just like… “Wrong number, Buckaroo.”
Steve texts her back like, ‘no way, for real? she put her number in wrong??’ Followed ten minutes later by another text saying he reverted some of the numbers and texted those, and got a dick pick back so, ‘safe to say that was not her. Bummer.’
‘Yeah. She was probably the one. You fucked up.’
‘That’s fucked up to say to someone!’
And then he…doesn’t stop texting? Robin finds him mildly amusing, and then actually hilarious, and suddenly they’re texting all day and she privately thinks of him as her best friend.
Steve told her his name at one point but then also sent her a pick of an ingrown hair on his chest and well, he’s Harry now. Steve calls Robin ‘Penguin’ (since Robin is a comic book character and she’s not cool enough to be Batman) but has forgotten that.
She’s literally in class texting him about how much she hates the guy that sits in front of her. He’s getting bagel crumbs everywhere! And Steve is texting back like, ‘lol, kill that guy with a rock. He sucks.’
Then they find out that they’ve been texting each other the whole time at Scoops Ahoy when Robin goes to put her number in Steve’s phone.
#Robin comes out via text when Steve asks her out ‘even though I don’t know what you look like and you could be an uggo’#but Steve thought she meant she had a boyfriend#so they still have their bathroom confessions#steve harrington#robin buckley
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THE HEART KILLERS (2024) + tropes prior art by @hurlumerlu
+ bonus:
#the heart killers#thkedit#kantbison#fadelstyle#first kanaphan#khaotung thanawat#joong archen#dunk natachai#jojo tichakorn#firstkhao#joongdunk#may.gifs#some creative interpretation of the intent of the phrases yes but i Really couldn't resist 'get caught at the end'#others i was tempted by but decided against adding to the actual post (alleyway sex. mpreg. watersports. unresolved trauma ver. 2/3/4)#the confession is more of a subversion admittedly but i would argue it doesn't happen properly until the beach in ep8#thought about leaving out daddy kink bc i didn't want to subtitle and also sigh. but actually i think you can read their lips just fine#now. noting for the record i have as many as several ideological disagreements with the framing in the source#(e.g. what does 'messed up' even mean when it comes to choices in reading fiction? yes including porn. kill the cop inside your mind etc)#nevertheless. i have nothing to say in my defense save that the artistic spirit is a fickle beast. also i miss them all very much <3#thanks merlu for the concept and for bison writing his own kant-murdering fanfic (darling!!)#can you tell how very fond i am of this show.
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sighs
#theyre either ordering pizza or lasko is on the phone its up to the viewer#GAUGH. I LIKE THESE TWO SO MUCH#i also need to draw dear at some point and then draw them and FL getting high. or something#SIGHS.#the confession audio is probably still one of my favorites. I'll feel more inclined to relisten when summer finally comes around#redacted freelancer#redacted deviant#?#redacted gavin#redacted audio#redacted fanart#brainz oc tag#digital art#fanart#redacted asmr#digital artist
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Hi once againnn! so I was the one who requested the "Nagi helping you with ranking up" and I got another idea that I want you to doooo 😫😫
Imagine Rin having such obvious feelings for you, like literally everyone on bllk knows his pining on you, yet you seem to be completely oblivious about it.
Then one day he asks you for a charger and you ask him what type (like as in, what type of charger you have) and he accidentally blurts out "You," which made everyone shocked– including you who's so oblivious that you asked him if he likes you, then Bachira's all like "yeah for like a long time! thanks for noticing it just now."
(my creative juices just keeps giving me these scenarios and i need my delusional mind to be fed! 🫵🏻😙)
– 🪻
“𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐠𝐞𝐫 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐟𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐢𝐨𝐧”
a/n: you ask and you shall receive 🤍🤍
reader is a blue lock manager and this can be aged up or not depending on what you prefer! a teen manager (maybe doing an internship or part-time training) is totally possible here too! i hope i feed your delusional mind well 🪻
ALSO I'M SORRY IDK ARTIST CREDITS PLS LMK IF YOU KNOW WHERE IT'S FROM
rin itoshi’s feelings for you were so obvious.
but somehow, you, blue lock manager! reader, never seemed to notice it, blissfully remaining oblivious.
how could you not think much of when he offered his jacket before you even had the chance to shiver? or when he’d give you his water bottle to drink from, putting your own thirst over his? or when he’d bring you snacks and casually say, “oh, i just happened to have an extra,” even though you knew for a fact he never carried snacks for anyone else.
but as one of the managers of the facility, you brushed it off as none other than friendly gestures.
everyone else, however, knew he was absolutely pining for you.
isagi had to physically hold back bachira, igarashi, and shidou from blurting out the obvious each time you stepped out of your office. chigiri couldn’t help the visible eye roll whenever rin complimented your work ethic. reo had to fight the urge to point out how rin always put in extra effort during practice when he knew you were watching.
a confession was going to happen at some point.
or maybe… an accidental one.
you were standing on the sidelines, watching rin and his teammates wrap up their practice match when he jogged over, sweat glistening and breath slightly labored. “hey, uh… do you have a charger?”
you blinked up at him. “what type?”
rin, clearly running on post-game adrenaline and possibly missing a few brain cells from an intense header, blurted out, “you.”
silence.
all of the soccer players turned to stare. even bachira, rin’s notorious prankster, looked stunned.
you tilted your head. “me?”
rin’s face went from post-match flushed to full-on tomato red. he opened his mouth, closed it, and looked like he wanted to sprint off the field.
bachira groaned, breaking the tension. “oh my gosh. yes. he likes you. for, like, a long time. thanks for noticing just now.”
your brain short-circuited. “wait. really?”
rin buried his face in his jersey.
bachira threw his arms in the air. “unbelievable.”
you hear reo mutter, “bro just scored his own goal with his mouth.”
you stared at rin, the pieces slowly clicking together. the jacket. the water bottle. the snacks. the way he always seemed to find you after every goal.
“oh,” you finally said, blinking. “oh.”
rin peeked out from behind his jersey, growing irritated at his teasing teammates. “can you NPCs quit fucking staring and go to the locker room?!”
out of the corner of your eye, you see igarashi shiver, the others laughing and teasing rin as they turn away, ready to cool down and eat after an intense session.
a smile tugged at your lips, breaking into a full on laugh once only the two of you remained on the field. “that’s… actually really cute.”
rin’s eyes widened with hope. “yeah?”
you nodded, cheeks warming. “yeah.”
bachira, isagi, reo, and chigiri, who had secretly stayed behind, erupted in cheers, bachira dramatically wiping away a fake tear. “finally!"
rin groaned, muttering under his breath as he turned away, but you caught the small smile he tried to hide.
© 𝐤𝐱𝐬𝐚𝐠𝐢
#rin is a cutie#not as nonchalant as he seems when it comes to you#rin itoshi#itoshi rin#rin itoshi x reader#itoshi rin x reader#rin#blue lock#blue lock x reader#bllk#bllk x reader#blue lock manga#blue lock x you#the charger confession
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Act 2 Thanks for reading
#bg3#astarion#baldurs gate 3#tav#tavstarion#astarion x tav#astarion x faetheri#faetheri#comic#long post#my art#redundantx art#i dunno if everything i wanted to convey comes accross but oh well#enjoy my brainworms#he probably could comfort her more since shes being sincere but i like it to much when they tease lol#takes place after the confession scene#its about him not being forced to do something against his will but she cant help worry about the other things the drow talked about.#worried she shouldnt let him drink her blood cause she likes it likes it#he looks different every page lmao
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How i feel looking through the sk8 the infinity tag seeing all of Those Posts every couple of weeks
#sorry you morons don't possess any media literacy#sorry you morons require gay people to kiss/fuck/confess/come out explicitly on screen for their love to count#when you don't require that for straight couples#if you've ever watched any ghibli movie besides howls moving castle#and agreed that the main m/f duo are in fact romantically involved then congrats#you are a massive hypocrite#if gay couples need to go above and beyond what straight ones do to count in your eyes then you are part of the problem#sk8 the infinity#sk8 anime#sk8#renga#reki x langa#langa x reki#i'm tired man#seb watches sk8
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Thinking about Hans putting his life on the line for Henry. Henry, whose purpose is to serve Hans, who is seen as a lesser in society. Yet, time and time again, Hans ties their fates together.
Even in the prologue, where they’re running from the enemy, they’re separated multiple times. I expected Hans to disappear, it makes the mechanics easier for the gaming side of things if anything else. But he constantly waited, went back into danger, just to find Henry. He dragged an injured and delirious Henry through the woods! Putting himself in greater danger! Because Henry has saved him many times, and Hans will do the same for him, because their relationship is far beyond duty.
This crops up frequently- Hans is a nobleman, he’s more valuable alive than dead, and still he throws his lot in with Henry whenever he can. Like in Nebakov, when Henry is angry and insistent that he won’t back down from a fight that they can’t possibly win, Hans takes a moment to register that then he goads the enemy, cementing their places (and most likely their graves) when they weren’t truly allied with Zizka yet.
Even at the end of the game, as soon as Henry puts himself forward for the suicide mission, Hans steps in to join him. Only, he can’t this time, his status prevents him from dying at Henry’s side. Instead they are to be separated, for Hans to wither and wonder if Henry still draws breath. After everything they’ve survived together, that adds insult to injury.
Because at the end of the day, Hans himself says he’s not sure if he can go on without Henry. And he’s trying his hardest to avoid having to find out.
#kcd2#kingdom come deliverance#hansry#Hans Capon#Henry of Skalitz#Henry rescues Hans 1000 times and I love it every time#but my heart grows so much when Hans stands unwavering by Henry’s side#he loves him with all his heart#it makes his confession in the romance scene all the more poignant imo#because there’s so much evidence of that fear throughout the main storyline#video game romance of all time
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thinking about the New Year’s Eve trend where you go under the table (also I always grew up hearing that going under the table will bring you a luck in finding a partner but now I see the trend is to go under the table and eat 12 grapes so now idk what the actual tradition is lol, anyways back to my little thought):
You made sure to have the grapes ready at this year’s NYE, talking excitedly about the man you want to manifest with Nesta…who knows what she’s doing and suggesting traits that tease at Azriel. Cassian thinks it’s hilarious and he is also excited to see if you’ll actually be able to devour all 12 grapes so fast, already placing bets with Feyre.
Meanwhile, Azriel, who is madly crushing on you, watches from his corner of the room. He thinks it’s just all fun and games…this can’t really work, right? I mean, why would it work? There’s no real magic behind this…
But then Mor casually brings up that she had done this one NYE and it brought her, her most memorable fling and she sighs wistfully…panic begins to stir in Azriel.
The clock is ticking…
Azriel’s shadows begin to dance frantically around him, mirroring his inner turmoil as the inner circle prepares to cheer you on.
His eyes widen when you scoop a couple of grapes into your hand because Mother above, you’re actually going to do this and what if it actually works and he never gets a chance to confess…
10…9…8…
Azriel suddenly appears at your side, wings knocking awkwardly against the table, his shoulder bumping yours as he makes himself fit in that small space.
“Az, what are you—“
“I have to tell you something.”
“Right now??”
7…6…
Azriel reaches for your hand, the one that is holding onto a handful of grapes, and lowers it. A confused frown settles on your features and he coaxes your gaze to his with his other hand, eyes searching yours.
“Az—“
5…4…
The hand clutching the handful of grapes twitches in his grip, still determined to complete the tradition.
3…2…
But Azriel tightens his hold and wastes no more time. He leans in, crashing his lips against yours and pulling you into a frantic but sweet kiss.
“Happy new year!”
When he pulls away, your cheeks are flushed and eyes are wide but there’s a smile on your face. “What else do you have to tell me?”
Azriel only grins and says “so much more,” before kissing you again.
#why do these ideas *always* come to me after midnight when I can’t sleep#now I’m sad bc it’s past NYE but hope y’all enjoyed this silly little HC? Drabble?? idk what to call it#I imagine the inner circle was watching this all unfold in great anticipation but once the clock struck twelve…#they got distracted with their own new year kisses/cheers#but they’ll never let Az live this down#the night it took a NYE tradition to get him to confess#can you tell I love writing about Az pining and panicked/abrupt confessions#azriel x reader#azriel drabble#I should go to sleep#rip me tomororw
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yttd doodle requesties from today
#i have not gotten to them all. i intend to. thank you for sending some in!#kostik draws#alice yabusame#tia safalin#sou hiyori#fanart#yttd#your turn to die#kimi ga shine#shin tsukimi#i need to confess i do like alice ... i wish i had an idea for drawing him but i really drew a blank#antagonistic evil persona brothers up there. the sillies#i like drawing reko too but again. when it comes to situations or themes or posing i got nothing#i just like how they look i am fond of them#in retrospect a darker background might fit the top image more ... oh well
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hey i dont go here but jayce's speech about viktor in s2e9 isn't him saying 'u should never have tried to heal yourself, you were perfect the way u were x3' it was him saying that viktor's physical health never made him any less beautiful, never made him any less important, never made him any LESS, period. he wasn't saying viktor didn't need to pursue a cure for his ills like come on his motivation to invent hextech was to help people. to cure disease. viktor's first and foremost among them.
he said what he said because it was the thing viktor craved to hear most in his life, and that is why those were the words that punched through his defences even as the machine herald: jayce loved him wholly and unconditionally, healthy or ill, good or bad, human or inhuman. he would always be loved just the same.
#jayvik#arcane#like i said i dont go here but u cant slander my boy or that moment i wont stand for it#and yes as someone who is chronically ill i would know if it was ableist LOL (yes yes media is subjective but come the fuck on ppl i beg)#viktor's reaction to seeing inside jayce's mind really cinches it#he had fully given up on ever being loved in that way#romantic or platonic or some secret third thing whatever he had written it ALL off#so he is visibly shaken when he realizes that jayce LOVES (capital italicized underlined bold font) him and everything he is and ever was#jayce's love for viktor literally saves the entire world (also ekko W)#anyway if u wanted my onion i would say viktor didn't allow himself to consciously love jayce in return until that moment#like his need to have jayce be near him and work with him and approve of his actions even AFTER he loses his humanity is very telling#but i do think a lot of that was sort of his subconscious acting out deeply repressed desires#then when jayce confesses he finally understands (it was always about them)#anyway idk when we'll see another relationship like this in media again!!! holy shit!!!!!!!!!!
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I'm not going back to Gusu with you.
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#poorly drawn mdzs#mdzs#lan wangji#wei wuxian#Those last two high effort comics where just a warm up for this masterpiece. My true magnum opus.#I was originally going to do this gag as a 'alternate version of comic 155'#Then I realized that they have the 'Come back to Gusu with me' conversation twice. So here we are!#I did consider having WWX say 'I'm not going back to gusu with you' in the comic for the better plot accuracy.#I'm invoking the rule of silly by having Wei Wuxian read between the lines of 'Come back to Gusu with me'.#Because it does feel like a confession! It is a confession of 'I care about your safety and I worry for what may happen.'#It is also poorly articulated. You can't really blame WWX for reading into it as 'LWJ is just another person trying to control me.'#The relationship between them is not good! It is two parties who genuinely want to be closer with each other but cannot communicate it.#You can't really have what makes these two work so well as a dynamic without the past history of:#“Back then I really wanted to be your friend.” They are a *missed connection*!#WWX reaches out and LWJ rejects him. And now when LWJ reaches out it is WWX who pushes them apart.#It is a tragedy about the consequences of being out of tandem and realizing what you want far too late.#The momentum of WWX's downfall is far to fast to reverse now. It's a 'When' not ''if' question.#Back to your normal style of PD-MDZS next update. Thank you for reading!
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if taylor swift hadn't kept foolish one in the vault for 13 years it would've saved me so much heartache in high school
#text#STOP CHECKING YOUR MAILBOX FOR CONFESSIONS OF LOVE THAT AINT EVER GONNA COME 😐😐😐#dont know what to call this situation but i know i cant call you mine... 😐#cuz when my head is on ur shoulder it starts thinking youll come around... 😐#lyricsposting
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Anakin (as a force ghost): Why don't you just go up to the Mandalorian and tell him you like him? What's the worst that could happen? Luke: HE COULD HEAR ME???
#dinluke#skydalorian#let's just say luke is the opposite of anakin when it comes to confessing his love#din djarin#luke skywalker#anakin skywalker#star wars#the mandalorian#incorrect dinluke
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