#WOULD BE NICE

[e4rthtonez]

like yes ok ofc i am living for top / dom sevika bc shes so fine and huge and im in love with her BUT have you considered pathetic whiny bratty bottom sevika? OK ?

[borderlinereminders]

I actually really want an outside point of view. But also to share my side.

There’s a user posting a lot of bad stuff about me. Like a lot. I try and let this stuff go and not engage on this platform. I’m not posting their username publicly because I am still trying to respect their privacy but if anyone does see the posts, I want my side to be out there.

I run a trauma survivors discord server. In the server, I try and manage everyone’s comfort as best as I can.

I had more than one person approach me about feeling uncomfortable at the frequency this user tried to get other members to DM and how pushy it came across as.

Me and the other mods understood that this likely didn’t come from a bad place but from being lonely so we weren’t mad. Genuinely. But if I have multiple people feeling uncomfortable, I feel I need to act on it. No one approached me publicly in the server so no one knew someone else had approached me. The people approaching me didn’t know anyone else had approached me so this wasn’t a thing where people just started agreeing and piling on.

So, I sent this message (privately through a ticket system)

The things being said because of this message have me second guessing myself. And I’m just tired.

I understand that they are feeling attacked and I so remember how it felt when I was in a really bad place and I would have felt really upset about getting this message too. But I still don’t think the amount of harassing is justified by them or the things they are saying about me are okay.

I really don’t usually post about drama but my other urge was to delete my blogs because I am just so tired. And I realized that urge was coming because I felt like I couldn’t defend myself. Like I had to be the “bigger” person and that’s something I struggled with a lot growing up. Being quiet to protect other people.

So, here’s my side of the story.

Edit: the user has now taken down the posts about me and apologized. I am leaving this up though because it does not identify them at all and I don’t trust stuff not to get out of hand again. It feels like it protects me a bit.

[sketchy-tour]

Sits here.

Who wants to tell me something positive about their day? I wanna hear about what made you smile. Anything really. No matter how small.

I wanna hear about what brought you guys joy today.

[random-fun-polls]

Do you believe in life after death?

- Yes, I believe in a universal afterlife

- Yes, I believe in heaven/hell/an afterlife specific to a religion

- Yes, I believe in reincarnation

- Yes, but just as a general concept, my beliefs aren't specific

- Maybe/I'm agnostic/not sure

- No, not at all

- Other/nuance

[panaceatthedisco]

I found this in my draft from like 2 years ago

And here I was thinking that I was a changed man

[styona]

Copia: But Terzo said he wasn't thinking straight!

Primo: Thinking?

Secondo: Straight?

Terzo: Did he stutter???

[nightmaresghost]

Peter Cushing but as a handsome seductive boss and you're the secretary.

[humblepoet26]

I wish I could get to sleep normally for at least one night of my fucking life

[professionalfobtrash]

[allradioisdead]

puppy eyes

[dappersautismcreature]

making one last post about this in the morning but please for the love of god tag ur pepito and roier posts with some sort of child abuse tw or warning as I got severely triggered last night and was unable to move/leave my room for hours because i was stuck in a flashback. thank you very much its really not that hard especially when showing very blatant verbal or physical abuse

[signoraviolettavalery]

At this point, you can really separate Eurovision artists into those who are making actual statements (on their instagram, during the show, in various ways) and those who are completely ignoring the situation and just posting "vote #!!!" on their social media and it's really clarifying

[lewishamiltonstuff]

I keep forgetting that the Miami GP falls around my birthday. It did last year too. I better get a P1 @ universe

[taikono2000]

I really hope I can be seen as That John Artist…I love him very much

[violetvvitchwitchery]

It’s this thing but instead it’s Azi and Crowley in bed:

*Azi wakes up because of some shuffling noise*

Aziraphale: Crowley it’s 3am

Crowley: I gotta do the thing

Aziraphale: Crooowleeeyy

Crowley: Angel, I have to do this

And then proceeded to brought down every cell tower in London

[charnellecatastrophe]